How to Learn from Your Regrets
Regret’s benefits don’t come to us by chance.
Kill the ghost (鬼魂).
People often say their regrets keep coming to their mind. This suggests that regret is like a ghost. Bring your ghost out of the shadows by making a list of your regrets. Write down why each one still bothers you and its bad effects.
Forgive yourself.
Collect your diploma.
Regret is like a school run by human nature. If you never experienced regret, you would keep repeating the same behaviors that led you to miss opportunities.
Regrets may hurt.
A.After you make a mistake, life moves on |
B.Filling your mind with them is destructive |
C.The ghost certainly doesn’t rule a person’s life |
D.We have to seek them out on purpose to improve ourselves |
E.You will find that a list is a lot less frightening than a ghost |
F.You choose a life sentence for a poor decision you made in the past |
G.If you let regret teach, you can note how you want to change your behavior |
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【推荐1】If I could give today’s young people three wishes, they would be: More hugs. More time outside in nature. More belief in their own power to change the world. While most people understand the importance of the first two wishes, the third one leaves some folks wondering why young people’s belief in their own power is so essential.
Let’s start with the idea that all of us-especially young people-need heroes. We need them to be our guides on the difficult trail (足迹) we call life and to show us just how far we can go. And we need heroes today more than ever. Our modern society is terribly confused about the difference between a celebrity (名人) and a hero. And the difference is vital. A celebrity is all about fame (名望)-temporary, superficial fame, usually for qualities that are easy to see: a pretty face, a great dance move. A hero, by contrast, is about character-qualities under the surface that aren’t visible until they take action.
Heroes are all around us. They truly hold our world together, through their unselfish devotion to helping others, teaching children, and protecting the environment. They don’t want fame, or glory; they just want to help. In so many ways, these unsung heroes pilot the boat in which all of us sail.
Yet, young people hear a lot more about celebrities than about heroes in the media. The hidden message they get from all this is that their self-worth comes from what they buy-which shoes, which cell phone-not who they are down inside. What gets lost in this? Young people’s sense of their own potential for heroic qualities-their own power to make a positive difference in the world. Truth is, there is a potential hero, a future difference maker, in every young person. Each of them, from whatever background, is a positive force who can do something. All it takes for that to be true is belief.
How do we help young people believe in their own power? The best way is simply to share examples, of other young people who have made a difference.
Ryan, age 11, has worked tirelessly to raise money to provide clean drinking water to African villages. When he first heard about the plight (困苦) of African children who died from impure water, Ryan was only six years old. In the next five years, he raised over $500, 000-enough to build over 70 water wells.
Barbara, age 17, grew up on a farm in Texas. When she realized that local farmers were pouring their used motor oil into rivers, causing pollution, she organized the creation of a recycling center for crude (未加提炼的) oil. Her project has grown to include 18 recycling centers in Texas.
The list could continue. These are but a few examples of young people who have discovered that they can build on their own energy to do something great.
1. What is the author’s purpose in writing Paragraph 2?A.To give examples of celebrities and heroes around us. |
B.To discuss the differences between celebrities and heroes. |
C.To provide definitions of the words “celebrity” and “hero”. |
D.To explain the details about being celebrities and heroes. |
A.Not known. |
B.Unexpected. |
C.Undeveloped. |
D.Without depth. |
A.Heroes make the world go round. |
B.Heroes must believe in themselves. |
C.Heroes focus on social welfare programs. |
D.Heroes promote cooperation between people. |
A.By defining the qualities that make a young person a hero. |
B.By contrasting the achievements made by different young people. |
C.By giving examples of young people who show the qualities of a hero. |
D.By providing examples of qualities that have made young people famous. |
A.More heroes are needed in the world. |
B.Celebrities are reported too much in the media. |
C.Adults should become role models for young people. |
D.Young people should believe in their ability to make a difference. |
【推荐2】Are you a tiger? According to the Chinese zodiac, people born in the Year of the Tiger are kind, caring and energetic.
Tigers rarely feed in groups in the wild, but when they do, males allow females and cubs (幼崽) to eat first.
Tigers go after large prey, so they have big ideas. Despite all their planning, tigers only end up with a meal once out of every 12 attempts to catch something. Yet they do not give jom up; they keep trying until they succeed.
Most kinds of cats avoid water, but tigers enjoy water and are very capable swimmers. This fondness of water allows them to live in many different environments. Learn from the tiger, and decide for yourself what you can and cannot do.
Tigers’ love of water also allows them to hunt and fight crocodiles. Typically, tigers make a kill by biting the neck of their prey. But a crocodile’s neck has a thick coat of armor. Tigers are not put off by this. Instead, they change their strategy and attack the creature’s vulnerable (脆弱的) areas like its stomach or eyes. Like the tiger, don’t let difficult situations stop you from succeeding.
Tigers are as different as people are.
A.Try things that others consider impossible. |
B.The fur of every tiger has a unique pattern. |
C.Therefore, people are different from each other in character. |
D.Try more than one approach if your usual strategy isn’t successful. |
E.As a result, tigers represent people who are ambitious and considerate. |
F.In other words, big, strong male tigers think of others before themselves. |
G.However, those characteristics are not generally associated with real tigers. |
【推荐3】It was mid-afternoon. I looked outside my dorm window, and saw the lifeless gray sky, the snow and the trackless sidewalks. There was no one in the snow but a squirrel. The brown-gray North American squirrel,a look of terror in his shining eyes, braved the cold to throw himself over snow. In his mouth was a large acorn(橡实)—I was surprised it fit in his mouth.
I moved closer to my window, outside of which is a medium-sized tree, lacking its warm-weather leaves. The squirrel ran up rapidly, higher and higher in the tree, and his small body held onto his dear acorn.
Up he went, to the tip of one of the highest branches. I held my breath—I wondered if that slender branch could support him. I wondered if his winter food store was in this tree—squirrels are known to hide their nuts, mushrooms, and vegetation high up in trees. Outside, the squirrel firmly grasped that branch, jaw clamping(夹紧)on his acorn.
Then came the wind blowing violently, shaking the tree, the branch and the squirrel. He hung on for dear life, and both arms wrapped around the branch in the wind. I held my breath: If he fell from a height like this, then.... Seeing this little squirrel, I had my heart in my mouth. As the wind became stronger, the squirrel’s precious acorn fell to the ground. The squirrel followed its downward progress only by sight—if he let go the branch, he would fall downwards as well. I was so nervous that I didn’t take my gaze off the squirrel for one minute. Surprisingly, he then climbed down the tree and was now half-buried in the snow, searching desperately for his acorn. Finally, he made it.
The brave animal is able to survive in nature all because of its desperate efforts.The same goes for us humans. We all work hard to survive, and this is the law of nature. So effort is not something special, but a matter for all living things to do to survive.
1. What did the author discover outside the window?A.A squirrel was freezing nearly to death. |
B.A squirrel was choked by a large acorn. |
C.A squirrel was picking acorns from a tree. |
D.A squirrel was climbing to the top of a tree. |
A.Dead. | B.Straight. | C.Slim. | D.Thick. |
A.Concerned. | B.Unfriendly. | C.Uncaring. | D.Curious. |
A.Stop struggling, life is stopped. |
B.Facts speak louder than words. |
C.Failure is the mother of success. |
D.Teaching others teaches yourself. |
【推荐1】Everyone has bad days-they're a universal part of life. Maybe you're getting fed up at work, the news has you down, or you wake up in a terrible mood.
Accept the fact that you're having a bad day.
Forget about what you think you should be feeling. Your emotions are acceptable and deserve to be recognized, so give them a hug!
Practice gratitude.
Write down a few things you're thankful for. Not only will this push you into a more positive mindset, it will also make you more appreciative of what you have!
Find your go-to and enjoy! Play music that makes your heart sing, spend some quality time with your pets, or have your favorite dessert-it doesn't matter as long as it makes you smile!
Get some fresh air.
Spread some kindness.
One of the easiest ways to feel good is to do good. You'll find that by lifting others up, you do the same for yourself.
So if you're feeling down, keep in mind that this won't last forever.
A.Treat yourself. |
B.Smile to yourself. |
C.Take a walk outside to clear your head. |
D.You can be happier than you are recently. |
E.Whatever the reason, it's completely normal. |
F.This will make it much easier to let them go. |
G.With a few small changes you can probably become happy. |
It can be hard to walk up to a friend and ask them what the problem is, but if you want to save your friendship you’ll have to do just that. Don’t approach them and ask why they are jealous of you (unless of course you want to appear totally conceited(自负的), just take some time alone with them and let them know that you’ve been feeling like there’s been something coming between you. If they refuse to respond, then use the opportunity to explain how you have been feeling. Chances are that something you say will strike a nerve and your friend will open up as well.
When you figure out what is annoying your friend, ask him or her what (s)he thinks would make the situation better. If, for example, (s)he says that (s)he feels like (s)he doesn’t get to spend any time with you because of your being off with your new friends from the swim team then maybe you could invite her along the next time or block off one day a week for just the two of you. Remember, though, that whatever solution you decide on should be a compromise(妥协). Don’t limit your own talents or opportunities simply because your friend is unhappy. Try instead to include him or her in your new life and see how that works out.
Even the best of friendships can be tinged(发出叮叮声) by jealousy. This destructive emotion is rarely productive and can turn best friends into worst enemies. Before taking extreme action, chat with your jealous friend to see if the two of you can work out a compromise. If you can’t, be prepared to know exactly how far you will go to keep your friend and how far you won’t.
1. According to the author, the jealousy emotion is________.
A.normal | B.productive |
C.destructive | D.extreme |
A.Walking up to him/her and asking him/her why he/she is jealous of you. |
B.Walking up to him/her and asking him/her what the problem is. |
C.Spending some time with him/her and letting him/her know how you feel. |
D.Spending some time with him/her and letting him/her know you think there’s something between you. |
A.There’s always a solution to solve the problem of jealousy. |
B.Jealousy can turn best friends into worst enemies. |
C.You may lose a friend to keep your own gifts, chances or self development. |
D.You should go a long way with your friend to work out a solution |
A.to explain what causes jealousy |
B.to offer some advice on making friends |
C.to introduce the way to deal with a jealous friend |
D.to explain how destructive the jealous emotion is |
【推荐3】Have you ever started your day feeling unbeatable, only to feel worn down by the time you get into bed?
Practise gratitude. As you wake up, whether naturally or through your alarm, pause for a few seconds.
Exhale(呼出) your tension. If you feel anxious or stressed as you wake up, take a few minutes to do an exercise to deal with the tension. Stand tall and bring both hands to your chest. Inhale, and then exhale as you open your arms and reach down to touch the floor. This will stretch your body and oxygenate your brain.
Check in with yourself. On your way to work, take a minute to “check in” with yourself. Think through your goals for the day.
A.Brighten your day. |
B.Respond, don’t react. |
C.Teach the body to sense it is safe. |
D.And imagine yourself completing them well. |
E.Thus you process your tension feeling more positive. |
F.Look around the room for something you are grateful for. |
G.The daily ups and downs weaken your resolve and leave you low. |