Nowadays it is necessary to be reasonable and flexible enough to avoid conflicts as much as possible and live in peace with others.
1. Don’t get in the center of the conflict.
Sometimes people can get in the center of conflicts because they want to help. Frankly speaking, it is very risky, because it can make you the main figure of the conflict.
2. Be kind.
3. Try to be a peacekeeper.
Peacekeepers tend to cooperate with people without bad emotions which usually lead to arguments and even conflicts. “
4. Walk off.
When the conflict is gathering pace and you can’t manage to keep yourself, you should choose to handle the situation in another way. By all means, try to keep yourself away from stress.
A.The greatest victory is the battle not fought. |
B.Conflicts are unavoidable, so try to accept them. |
C.Weak people usually desire others to offer help and support. |
D.It is helpful to put some distance between yourself and the rival (对手). |
E.Let other people sort out their relationships without your presence. |
F.When someone pushes you to the limit, try to act kindly towards this person. |
G.Arguing can either break your relationship or help you get to know your partner better. |
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【推荐1】Everyone feels like they have too much to do but too little time to do it. Maybe you feel like your list is growing longer by the minute.
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● Organize your list. Once you’ve listed everything, you can figure out what to do first and organize your schedule. You can organize your tasks according to whether they are important or what the value of a task is.
● Batch(分批处理) tasks. Batching tasks is one of the most useful ways to get those tasks done. Batching simply means you work on the same type of task again and again before starting something else.
● Delete tasks. Once you’ve listed all your tasks and sorted them correctly, it will become clear which tasks are at the bottom of the list.
A.Make a list of your to-do tasks. |
B.Make others know your private tasks. |
C.Maybe you don’t even know where to start. |
D.You can also organize them according to your time. |
E.Sometimes you can call someone else to do those tasks. |
F.Those tasks should be of great importance to your own future. |
G.The first step is to identify tasks and set up a simple work process to follow. |
【推荐2】Research suggests that confidence is important to health and psychological well-being. But developing and maintaining confidence isn’t easy and it’s an easy thing to lose when you feel like you’ve failed or made a mistake.
Stop Comparing Yourself to Others
Do you compare how you look to people around you? Or do you compare your salary to what your friend earns? Making comparisons is natural. But it isn’t likely to help boost your self-confidence.
Surround Yourself With Positive People
The people you spend time with can influence your thoughts and attitudes about yourself, perhaps more than you realize.
Self-talk that is optimistic can help you overcome self-doubt and take on new challenges. The next time you begin to think that you have no business speaking up in a meeting or that you are too out-of-shape to work out, remind yourself that your thoughts aren’t always accurate. Then find a way to turn those thoughts around into more positive self-talk.
Set Realistic Goals
The more you achieve your goals, the greater your confidence in yourself and your abilities. To set realistic goals, write down what you want to achieve.
A.Be Kind to Yourself |
B.Practice Positive Self-Talk |
C.It may even have the opposite effect |
D.So, pay attention to how others make you feel |
E.Next, ask yourself what chance you have of achieving it |
F.Here are a few positive effects of learning how to be confident |
G.Fortunately, there are several ways you can increase your self-confidence |
【推荐3】Why are some people so successful in reaching their goals? Research on achievement suggests that successful people reach their goals not simply because of who they are, but more of ten because of what they do.
Meanwhile, you should think positively about achieving your goal. Believing in your ability to succeed is particularly helpful for creating your motivation.
A.So just look forward confidently and carry on courageously. |
B.But whatever you do, don’t ignore the difficulty in reaching your goal. |
C.As your strength grows, you can take on more challenges. |
D.Here are some ways successful people achieve their goals. |
E.Making a plan for reaching your goals takes patience. |
F.When you set yourself a goal, try to be as specific as possible. |
G.Willpower is another important factor. |
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Many people celebrate Friendship Day although they may celebrate it on different dates. In most countries, it falls on the first Sunday of August. The tradition of celebrating a day in honor of friends began in the US in 1935. Gradually, the festival became popular across the world. Here is how some of our readers spend Friendship Day.
Jane, France |
I do celebrate Friendship Day. I usually invite some of my friends to a nice restaurant to have heart-to-heart talks. The talks help to develop our friendship. We love and understand one another better. |
Ben, England I like this special holiday. On this day, I draw toy bears on small cards and send them to my friends. With these cards, I show my love and care for them. |
Mark, Australia We boys celebrate Friendship Day, too, but in a different way. We may play tennis or go camping together. It’s really fun! |
Anna, Canada This holiday reminds me of how much my friends mean to me. I can’t think of life without friends. On this day my friends and I always send wrist bands to each other. How we love this day! |
1. Where did the Friendship Day begin?
A.In France. | B.In the US. | C.In Canada. | D.In England. |
A.Jane. | B.Mark. | C.Ben. | D.Anna. |
A.Go camping with friends. | B.Invite friends to play tennis. |
C.Talk with friends in a restaurant. | D.Send wrist bands to friends. |
【推荐2】 Marty was new at school. On his first day, he showed magic to his schoolmates. He made a toothpick (牙签) disappear and appear within seconds. Everyone wondered how he did it.
“How did you do that?” I asked. “Sorry, but that’s the first law of magic. A magician never lets out his secrets.” Marty smiled. I thought he was tricking everyone. I would make his secrets known to all.
The next day, Marty gave his second magic show. He said he could make things float (飘起). He had a ring in one hand and a pencil in the other. That’s when I saw it: a thin line tied around the end of the pencil and attracted to a button on Marty’s shirt! Sure enough, he made the ring “float” by sliding (滑动) it over the pencil and hanging it from the line. No one else noticed, but I found the secret. I got close to him and said, “I know how you did it.” He looked nervous and asked me, “Are you going to tell others?” I thought for a moment. If I told, I’d finally be able to prove Marty’s magic was fake (假的). Then Marty might lose his new friends. So I told him that I would say nothing about it. And then I walked away.
“Wait!” Marty jumped in front of me. “You’ve got a pretty good eye for magic. If you’re interested, I have an idea,” Marty suggested. And I accepted his idea. That’s how the Magic Marty and Mysterious Matt Lunch Show began. We’ve been a magic team for three months now. It turns out that instead of a fake magician, Marty is a real friend.
1. To whom did Marty show magic on his first day at school?A.His parents. | B.His brothers. | C.His teachers. | D.His schoolmates. |
A.It was the first law of magic. |
B.It was the rule of study. |
C.It was a duty for everyone. |
D.It was a task for a student. |
A.Its operation went wrong. |
B.It was praised by the writer. |
C.The writer found its secret. |
D.It was done with the help of others. |
A.Nervous. | B.Excited. | C.Sorry. | D.Happy. |
A.He refused Marty’s suggestion. |
B.He and Marty set up a magic team. |
C.He let out the secret of Marty’s magic. |
D.He and Marty wrote a book about magic. |
【推荐3】Everyone needs friends. We all like to feel close to someone. It is nice to have a friend to talk, laugh and do things with. Surely, sometimes we need to be alone. We don’t always want people around. But we would feel lonely if we never had a friend.
No two people are the same. Sometimes friends don’t get along well. That doesn’t mean that they no longer like each other. Most of the time they will go on being friends. Sometimes friends move away. Then we feel very sad. We miss them very much. But we can call them and write to them. Maybe we would never see them again. And we can make new friends. It is surprising to find out how much we like new people when we get to know them. Families sometimes name their children after a close friend. Many places are named after men and women, if they are friendly to people in a town. Some libraries are named this way. So are some schools. We think of these people when we go to these places.
There’s more good news for people, if they have friends. These people live longer than those people who don’t have friends. Why? It could be that they are happier. Being happy helps you stay well. Or it could be just knowing that someone cares about you. If someone cares about you, you take better care of yourself.
1. The first paragraph tells us ________.A.none need friends |
B.we always need friends around us |
C.making friends is the need in people’s life |
D.we need to be alone |
A.People are happy when their friends leave them. |
B.People may never see their friends after their friends move away. |
C.Peoples sometimes name their children after a close friend. |
D.People like their friends very much if they get to know them. |
A.that people are all friends | B.that people need friends |
C.how to get to know friends | D.how to name a place |