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Nowadays it is necessary to be reasonable and flexible enough to avoid conflicts as much as possible and live in peace with others.     1     If you have done all your best to avoid conflicts but you are still arguing, then read these effective tips on how to avoid conflicts.

1. Don’t get in the center of the conflict.

Sometimes people can get in the center of conflicts because they want to help. Frankly speaking, it is very risky, because it can make you the main figure of the conflict.     2     You should focus on your own life issues.

2. Be kind.

    3     Life is full of conflicts and disagreements, and that’s why you should find more conservative ways of dealing with them. For example, kindness can lessen the conflict.

3. Try to be a peacekeeper.

Peacekeepers tend to cooperate with people without bad emotions which usually lead to arguments and even conflicts. “    4    ” This saying is the life motto of a natural born peacekeeper. Don’t worry if you are not a natural born peacekeeper. You can gain this skill during life.

4. Walk off.

When the conflict is gathering pace and you can’t manage to keep yourself, you should choose to handle the situation in another way. By all means, try to keep yourself away from stress.     5     You should get away from the situation for a while.

A.The greatest victory is the battle not fought.
B.Conflicts are unavoidable, so try to accept them.
C.Weak people usually desire others to offer help and support.
D.It is helpful to put some distance between yourself and the rival (对手).
E.Let other people sort out their relationships without your presence.
F.When someone pushes you to the limit, try to act kindly towards this person.
G.Arguing can either break your relationship or help you get to know your partner better.
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● Batch(分批处理) tasks. Batching tasks is one of the most useful ways to get those tasks done. Batching simply means you work on the same type of task again and again before starting something else.     4     Then you deal with those tasks at the same time using that work process.

● Delete tasks. Once you’ve listed all your tasks and sorted them correctly, it will become clear which tasks are at the bottom of the list.     5     However, if that’s not possible, you have to decide whether to schedule time for them or to delete them. You may have tasks on your list that you do not have to do or even want to do, but you feel pressured at some point. These can be deleted entirely.

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Do you compare how you look to people around you? Or do you compare your salary to what your friend earns? Making comparisons is natural. But it isn’t likely to help boost your self-confidence.     2    . When you notice that you are drawing comparisons, remind yourself that doing so isn’t helpful. Everyone is running their own race and life isn’t a competition.

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