(Every year on my birthday, from the time I turned 12, a white gardenia was delivered to my house in Bethesda, Md. No card or note came with it.)
I don’t remember ever slamming my door
One month before my high-school graduation, my father died of a heart attack. My feelings ranged from grief to abandonment, fear and over-whelming anger that my dad was missing some of
The day before my father died, my mother and I
My mother didn’t. The day before the prom, I found that dress – in the right size – draped majestically over the living room sofa. It
My mother died ten days after I was married, I was 22. That was the year the gardenias stopped
A Father’s Influence Makes for Better Grades
Adolescents from low-income families in particular are more likely than their middle-class peers to underachieve and to drop out of school. Studies have shown that a positive attitude towards school work and the support and encouragement from their parents can help at-risk youngsters to overcome the economic barriers and lack of resources they face. Most of the evidence about the effects of parental involvement comes from research on mothers. Little is known, however, about how adolescents experience their fathers’ warmth and the beliefs and behaviors that are most affected by it.
This new study is part of a larger one focusing on low-income families conducted in four middle schools in the southwestern United States. Data were analyzed from questionnaires completed by 183 sixth-graders about how optimistic and motivated they were about their schoolwork, and how they experienced their fathers. The questionnaires were completed primarily by respondents of Mexican American, African American and European American descent. Their maths and language arts grades were also obtained.
Their findings show how fathers can support their teenagers in ways that result in greater optimism, self-efficacy, and, ultimately, higher achievement at school.
These positive effects extend to both sons and daughters, while in different ways. Experiencing their father’s warmth first influences daughters’ sense of optimism, and then spills over into their feeling more determined and certain about their academic abilities. This in turn leads to better math grades. There is a more direct link between their fathers’ involvement and teenage boys’ belief in their ability to succeed on the academic front. This heightened self-confidence increased their success in English language arts classes.
Suizzo suggests that counselors and educators should encourage fathers to communicate warmth and acceptance to their children, because of the positive influence these emotions have on their well-being.
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A Great Friendship
Thomas Jefferson and James Madison met in 1776. Could it have been any other year? They worked together and started to further American Revolution and later to shape the official new plan of the government,
"The friendship which
A week later, Madison replied.
“You cannot look back
你的朋友彼得沉迷于网络游戏《王者荣耀》(Glory of Kings),高三了,他的成绩直线下 降,你作为他的朋友,给他写封信,谈谈你对这件事情的看法。
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下面三幅图分别是不同的三个人画的关于让他们感到开心的三样东西(1代表最重要的),如果你来画这样一幅图,那是那样东西会是什么?为什么?
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For many parents, raising a teenager is like fighting a long war, but years go by without any clear winner. Like a
Both sides want peace, but neither feels it has any power to stop the conflict. In part, this is because neither is willing to any responsibility for starting it. From the parents' point of view, the only
In this article, I'll describe three no-win situations that commonly
1.
A.The approach to getting good scores. | B.The effectiveness of cramming. |
C.The impact of a good night’s sleep on a test. | D.The better way to prepare for a test. |
A.Join the woman in her study. | B.Memorize everything on his notes. |
C.Entertain himself and have fun. | D.Skip lunch and hurry to the cinema. |
A.Organize a study group and quiz herself. |
B.Get involved in the revision without rest. |
C.Review the materials earnestly as scheduled. |
D.Focus on the chapters assigned by the teacher. |
A.Hardworking and focused. | B.Energetic but easily distracted. |
C.Score-oriented and efficient. | D.Ambitious but readily discouraged. |
学校将组织一次“我心目中的英雄”主题班会活动,请你以Heroes in My Heart为题,写一篇演讲稿。 基本要求如下:
•你心目中英雄的标准;
•你心目中英雄的事迹简介(请举1-2例);
•从这些英雄事迹中,你学到了些什么?
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9 . When I settled in Chicago, my new city seemed so big and unfriendly. Then I had a physical problem and had to go to hospital for
I got off the bus and stood on the pavement not knowing what to do. I looked into the eyes of a stronger,who was trying to get past me. Surprisingly,
Such unexpected kindness from a passer-by was a lovely gift to receive.
10 . The mama﹣bear instinct
Ms. Angela McQueen, a math and PE teacher at Mattoon High School, Illinois, has a routine when she's on lunch﹣monitoring duty. She
In September 2017, McQueen, then 40, had hardly finished one lap
School employees
"It's the mama﹣bear instinct," she told the local paper. "I don't have kids of my own, but these are still‘
As one