1 . Conflict (冲突) happens when two people disagree because of their own opinions, or beliefs (信仰). It’s not always as simple as an argument.
Parents and teenagers have many chances to have conflict with one another. Adolescence (青春期) is a time when independence and parental influence fight, since teens are able to think on their own but still live with parents who have rules and expectations for them. When kids don’t show up at home late at night, their parents get worried. A worried parent becomes a scolding parent. When the teen does come home, he/she will get punishment (惩罚).
Sometimes, teens want to have noisy fun while their parents want to sleep. This is a common conflict that happens every day. Parents might use the teenager’s grades to judge (判断) him/her every time the grades are reported. The conflict happens when the parents’ expectations aren’t met. Finding the causes of conflicts is the first step to solve the conflict. Here are a few tips for parents and teenagers to use.
View each other as friends in the common goals (目标) you agree on, which usually include keeping teens safe and seeing them be successful.
List (列举) possible solutions to the conflict together. Just start listing creative ideas, whether they seem reasonable or not. Creativity is your friend when you’re solving any problems in life, including conflicts with others.
1. Which of the following statement (陈述) is TRUE?A.A conflict is the same as an argument. |
B.Parents and teenagers never have same goals. |
C.Different beliefs and opinions may result in conflicts. |
A.talking softly | B.speaking angrily | C.acting slowly |
A.it’s easy to solve the conflict between parents and teenagers |
B.friends can reach common goals more easily |
C.creative thinking is helpful to conflict resolution |
A.The reasons of conflict between teens and parents. |
B.The reasons and solutions of conflict between teens and parents. |
C.The harm (伤害) of conflict between teens and parents. |
2 . 世界上最亲的人是父母,他们给予我们生命,含辛茹苦地抚养我们长大。请根据下列提示给父母写一封80 — 100词的书信,表达自己的感激之情。文中不得出现真实姓名等信息。
提示:父母尽力给我们提供好的生活和教育;希望父母保持健康;自己会主动帮助做家务,等等。词汇:provide 提供 offer to do 主动做……
Dear parents,
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Your (son/daughter)
1. He said his
2. Because he often fell
3. Mark had an argument with his parents and
4. He finally
5. He becomes
Here are some tips about how to have a great relationship with your parents.
◆Respect each other.
Without respect, any relationship will be an unhappy one. People who respect each other value each other’s opinions, listen to each other, disagree without screaming (尖叫) or insults (辱骂). And remember your parents have lived longer than you-don’t discount (低估) their experience and knowledge.
◆Communicate.
Your parents want to know what’s going on in your life. If you keep them in the dark, they won’t know when you need their help or whether they can trust you. Tell them what you’re up to, share your thoughts and feelings with them, and seek their advice for your problems.
◆Build trust.
Trust is your key to freedom. The way to build trust is through honesty. Honesty means you don’t lie. When your parents trust you, it’s a lot easier for them to say “yes”.
However, these guidelines don’t always work. Since we can only control what we do, and not what our parents do, sometimes we are truly helpless to change a bad relationship. If this is the case, try to use these guidelines to at least improve things a little, and talk with a trusted adult who may be able to help you.
1. How many tips are mentioned to have a great relationship with parents?2. What does any happy relationship depend on first?
3. In what ways can we communicate with parents better? (One is OK)
4. How to build trust according to the writer?
5. What other tips can you give to have a better relationship with your parents?
5 . 良好的家庭关系对青少年的健康成长很重要。作为青少年,我们应该如何和父母友好相处呢?请结合自己或朋友的经历来谈一谈。
内容包括:(1)如何和父母友好相处,请提出至少两条合理化建议。
(2)结合自己或朋友的经历,谈谈你或朋友是如何在父母的帮助下解决困难的。
要求:
(1)文中不得出现真实的校名,人名。
(2)字数80-100字。
Building a good relationship with our parents is really important for our health and development as teenagers.
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6 . 来自英国的交换生Jack 最近感到很烦恼;他在学校和同学相处不好,没有什么朋友;在家经常和父母吵架,遇到问题也不愿意和他们交流。假如你是Jack的同学李华,现在请你根据以下提示,给他写一封邮件提一些建议。
提示:1. Why is it important to get on with classmates and parents?
2. How can Jack do it?
写作要求:
1. 80词左右(开头和结尾已给出,不计入总词数);
2. 包含所给提示内容,可适当发挥;
3. 语句通顺,意思连贯,语法正确,书写工整。
4. 文中请勿出现真实姓名、班级等信息,否则不予评分。
Dear Jack,
I’m sorry to hear that you are under much pressure these days. _________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Hope things work out.
Yours,
Li Hua
A. communicate B. return C. instead D. relations E. nervous F. when |
Mom and Dad—they’re two of the most important people in your life. So
Spend time together. Don’t just play computer games alone. You should ask your parents to play with you
Share your feelings and ask for help. You may need your parents’ help when you’re upset or
A. usual B. push C. argue D. compete E. whatever F. happy |
Be kind. Little things might mean a lot to your parents. Before they
Show your care. A(n)
Do your best at
8 . Louise was 30 and her boyfriend Neil was 35. They wanted to get married and have two kids as soon as possible,
Because Louise had a high-paying
Louise had other
Neil said not to
At last, could they reach a compromise(和解) and
A.but | B.and | C.or | D.so |
A.decided | B.held | C.disagreed | D.carried |
A.house | B.husband | C.job | D.work |
A.at | B.for | C.to | D.with |
A.how | B.who | C.why | D.where |
A.cost | B.waste | C.pick | D.prefer |
A.ways | B.skills | C.abilities | D.activities |
A.explained | B.experienced | C.dreamed | D.believed |
A.jokes | B.secrets | C.plans | D.trips |
A.slowly | B.fast | C.small | D.big |
A.long | B.well | C.soon | D.little |
A.happy | B.easy | C.real | D.hard |
A.worry | B.camp | C.compete | D.continue |
A.build up | B.find out | C.bring up | D.take out |
A.keep on | B.keep up with | C.get on with | D.play with |
Parents helped us in all sides when we were very young. As we grow older, we may help them. Families can
What makes real family members?
To build good family relationships needs a lot of efforts. Firstly, everyone in the family needs to
In a word, family members can make us
A.get | B.succeed | C.lead | D.reach |
A.Whoever | B.Whatever | C.However | D.Wherever |
A.either | B.except | C.besides | D.neither |
A.deal | B.communicate | C.compare | D.compete |
A.as | B.for | C.with | D.without |
A.come up | B.get along | C.hold on | D.take up |
A.after | B.before | C.as | D.while |
A.solve | B.discuss | C.suggest | D.discover |
A.calling on | B.listening to | C.talking to | D.connecting with |
A.fill with | B.run out | C.full of | D.born with |
10 . 2022年1月1日起实施的《中华人民共和国家庭教育促进法》规定:未成年人的父母或其他监护人应该重视家庭教育,关心孩子身心健康。对于此规定,作为学生的你有话想说。请你给校英语专栏写一篇短文,对父母提出建议并表明观点。
内容包括:
1. 多花时间陪我们,如教做家务、一起玩耍等;
2. 帮助我们养成好的习惯;
3. 常与我们沟通谈心;
4. 信任我们并保护我们的隐私。
5. ……
要求:
1. 词数80—100词;
2. 可适当增加细节,使行文连贯;
3. 文中不得出现真实姓名和学校等信息。
参考词汇:
Family Education Promotion Law of the People’s Republic of China 《中华人民共和国家庭教育促进法》guardians of minors 未成年人监护人 physical and mental health 身心健康 privacy n. 隐私
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