Here is some advice about improving the relationship between parents and children.
★Spend time with children.
If they like concerts, go with them. Have a family movie night and let your children choose the movie that you watch.
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Children already get too much criticism (批评) at school, from friends, in competitive games, etc. You can help them build their self-esteem (自尊).
★Keep on an open door policy (政策).
★Listen to their music.
It is difficult to communicate with your children if you don’t enter their world.
★Talk to them.
Talk to your children about the things that interest them.
A.Don’t say things that cause the children to have to defend (辩护) themselves. |
B.You can have one night when a child chooses the movie and another night when an adult chooses the movie. |
C.Listen to their music, and know some singers. |
D.Give lots of praise (赞扬). |
E.Let your children know that they can come to you at any time to talk about anything. |
F.Do you like communicate with your children? |
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【推荐1】One day, I watched my little girl playing in her room. In one hand was a plastic phone; in the other a toy broom (扫帚). I listened as she was speaking to her imaginary (假装的) friend on the phone. I’ll never forget the words she said, even though she was just imagining.
She said, “Suzie’s in the corner because she’s not been very good. She doesn’t listen to a word I say or do the things she should.” In the corner I saw her baby doll (娃娃). It was clear that she was there to sit alone and think.
My daughter went on with her own “conversation (对话)” as I sat down on the floor. She said, “I’m all fed up. I just don’t know what to do with her anymore! She never lets me do the things that I just have to do! I have a lot of work to do and a big house to keep clean. I don’t have the time to sit and play — don’t you know what I mean?”
That day, I thought a lot about making some changes in my life as I listened to her words.
Now I have changed because I learned to see the world in a different light, through my little darling’s eyes. I’m going to fill the house with memories (记忆) of a child and her kind mother.
1. What was the daughter doing in her room?A.Playing with her baby doll. | B.Cleaning the house with a broom. |
C.Listening to stories from a phone. | D.Playing games on her phone. |
A.The mother. | B.The daughter. | C.Suzie’s baby doll. | D.Suzie’s friend. |
A.烦透了 | B.累极了 | C.忙晕了 | D.急坏了 |
A.the daughter doesn’t love her mother at all | B.the daughter doesn’t like doing housework |
C.the daughter is speaking to her mother | D.the daughter is speaking like her mother does |
A.Fill the house with dolls. | B.Talk more kindly to her daughter. |
C.Help her daughter make more friends. | D.Forget the bad memories of her daughter. |
【推荐2】Some people think only school children do not agree with their parents, however, it is not true.
Don't argue with your parents. Don't get to your parents when you are angry. Your parents probably won't consider your ideas if you are shouting at them. And you can't express yourself well if you are angry.
Try to reach a compromise(和解). Perhaps you and your parents disagree on something.
Of course, your parents might refuse to compromise on something. In these situations, it is especially important to show love and respect to them.
Talk about your values. The values of your parents are probably different from those of your own.
A good relationship with your parents can make you a better and happier person. It is worth having a try!
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A.Showing respect will keep your relationship strong. |
B.Go some place to cool off. |
C.Tell your parents what you care about and why. |
D.Communication is a problem for parents and children of all ages. |
E.You can keep your disagreement and try your best to accept each other. |
My relationship with my mother is worse and worse now. It seems she’s never tired of talking. She talks here and there, day and night. More seriously, I feel like we don’t have much in common. She doesn’t always understand what I’m trying to say. What should I do?
Yours,
Jim
Dear Jim,
I know how you feel. It’s not easy being your age and it’s not easy being a mother either.
It’s common for kids to have trouble talking with parents. And mothers who talk too much are not new to teenagers. But remember, she’s nagging(唠叨) you because she just wants what’s best for you. Talking is her way to show love and care. And she also wants to know more about you. After a day’s work, she’s tired, too. But she will never be tired of caring about you. Kids should learn to understand and care about parents.
In my opinion, it’s helpful to share school life with her: you talk and she listens. Doing some housework together with her is another good way for you to know each other better. And if possible, often tell her your feelings about things around you. Always keep in mind: be polite and patient.
Yours,
Doctor Green
1. Who did Jim have trouble getting on with?A.His friend. | B.His teacher. | C.His parent. | D.His classmate. |
A.Usual. | B.Surprising. | C.Serious. | D.Difficult. |
A.One. | B.Two. | C.Three. | D.Four. |
A.He will study harder to make his teacher happy. |
B.He will do housework for his mother every day. |
C.He will keep silent when his mother is nagging him. |
D.He will often share school life with his mother and talk to her patiently. |