You are invited to a large party. Loud music is playing, and lots of people are dancing. Do you dance or talk to as many people as you can call all night? Later, you cannot fall asleep—you want more conversation! Or do you prefer a quieter corner? Or perhaps you cannot wait to go home early and relax by yourself.
Which of these people sound most like you? Person A, who tries to talk to everyone and stays late? Or Person B, who prefers to keep quiet and leaves early?
If you said Person A, you are probably more extroverted（性格外向的）. If you said Person B, you are probably more introverted（内向的）. Or perhaps you are Person C and fall somewhere in the middle. Introverted and extroverted people are two commonly used words to describe a person’s personality. And they are also commonly misused and misunderstood.
Introverts may be thought as quiet, shy and timid. Extroverts may be thought as bold, confident, loud and full of energy. Introverted and extroverted people may fit those descriptions. But these same descriptions do not define（下定义）introversion and extroversion properly.
Introverts and extroverts use their brains differently, and they get their energy differently. Introversion is the state of being mostly concerned with one’s own mental life. Extroversion is the opposite. Extroversion is the state of being mostly concerned with what is outside oneself.
People who consider themselves introverts may say they ＂need to be alone to charge their batteries＂. However, introverts may still live being social and going to parties. But such activities require time to prepare.
Extroverts may say, ＂I don’t need ‘alone time’, I feel more relaxed being around other people.＂ Even so, extroverts can still feel unsure or not confident among other people.
So where do you fall on the introversion/ extroversion chart?
1. If Person B is invited to a large party, what does he probably do?2. Which three words in this passage are used to describe introverts?
3. What’s the main idea of the 5th paragraph?
4. What do ＂such activities＂ refer to in Paragraph 6?
5. How do extroverts usually make themselves relaxed?
6. Which personality do you prefer, introverted or extroverted? Show your reason!
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There is a big difference between knowing another country from social media and experiencing it in person. This is what students from the US and China discovered during an eight-day exchange journey. From March 24 to 31, a group of 15 students from the US went on an education and cultural exchange in China. For Micheal, a 15-year old 10th grader, this was his first time going abroad. While in Beijing, Micheal bravely tried douzhi, a fermented (发酵的) bean juice. It is a challenge even for locals. However, he finished three bowls in a row. Besides Chinese food, Micheal also likes Chinese people because he thinks they are welcoming and open-minded.
“I tried out table tennis after classes ended, and the Chinese students played like professionals,” he said. “In the United Sates, students usually do sports through clubs and sports team. Sports are more for fun here.”
The learning was two-sided. Li Weiyou, a 15-year-old student from Beijing No. 4 High School International Campus and also Micheal’s homestay partner, said, “Before I knew Micheal, I thought US students paid more attention to personal development than schoolwork. But to my surprise, Micheal does well in both,” Li said.
With technology and media developing quickly, teenagers can get information about other countries online easily. However, online searches show only a tiny part of the full story of cultural exchange. “If I hadn’t taken this trip, I wouldn’t have learned about the high school life of Chinese students,” said Micheal.
For Micheal, the week-long trip even influenced his further aspirations (抱负). “I used to consider becoming a math teacher in the States. Now, I’m dreaming about teaching English in Beijing or Shanghai in the near future.”
1. How long did the exchange journey last?2. What does Micheal love about China?
3. Why was Li Weiyou surprised by Micheal?
4. What does Micheal want to do in the future?
5. What do you think of their exchange journey? Why do you think so?
Working on a team is quite important. To have a successful team, good communication is necessary for both the leader（领导）and team members. The following is some advice.
Listen to other people actively
When someone is speaking to you, you need to listen to him actively. If you are not clear about something, you should ask him about it. In this way, you can get your answers before moving on.
Think about other people’s ideas carefully
When someone tells you about his ideas, you should think about them carefully, no matter how terrible they may seem. This shows our interest in his ideas and makes him feel good.
Share your ideas with other people
When you have a new idea, talk about it with your team members. This helps to get better ideas. The more we share, the more we have. It also helps to improve your relationship between you and your team members.
Don’t criticize（批评） other people
When someone on your team does something wrong, don’t criticize him. You can help him to find out reasons and then help him to solve the problem.
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When you are talking to a friend, you sometimes try to change his or her mind ( 想 法 ) . But it is very possible that you find it hard. Here are some tips you can try.
First of all, please don’t change your talk into a quarrel (吵架) at any time. It is better to show the ideas and facts. By showing facts, you show that you are right.
Secondly, don’t say “You’re wrong”. If you think someone is wrong, a better way to point it out is to use “may/might be wrong”, not “you are wrong”. This opens up the door for both of you to talk about your ideas. It shows that you’re open to new ideas.
Thirdly, get the other person to say yes. You may begin talking about the hobbies he or she has. A small talk like this will make it easier for your friend to accept (接受) you and then they will be more open to your ideas. It makes you two trust each other.
And don’t forget to let the other person talk enough. By listening to them talk patiently, you show that you really care about what they think. This will earn respect (赢得尊重) and trust. So when it’s your turn to talk, they’ll listen.
In a word, you should respect others all the time when you don’t agree with each other. And, don’t feel down if your friend isn’t willing to change. A gentleman gets along with others, but doesn’t necessarily ( 必 要 地 ) agree with them, right?
| It may be hard to change your friends’ mind. But you can try. | |
| Some | Never change your talk into a quarrel. You can show that you are right with |
| Don’t say “You’re wrong”. Use may/might be wrong | |
| Begin with the other person’s | |
| To make others | |
| Conclusion | Don’t feel down if your friend doesn’t change. |
