1 . Meeting people is the first step to make friends. But how do you actually become friends with someone? Here are some useful tips.
1. Make small talk even if you don’t feel like it
Small talk can feel false and meaningless. But it does have a purpose. By making small talk, you show that you’re friendly and open to communicating. In that way, small talk helps you to make the first connection with potential new friends. If someone doesn’t make any small talk, we might assume that they don’t want to make friends with us, that they don’t like us, or that they’re in a bad mood.
2. Figure out what you might have in common
When you talk to someone new and realize that you have things in common, the conversation usually goes from stiff to fun and interesting. Therefore, make it a habit to find out if you have any mutual interests or something in common. You can do this by mentioning things that interest you and seeing how they react.
3. Don’t write people off until you know them
Don’t judge people too quickly. Try not to assume that they are shallow, boring, or that you have nothing to talk about. If everyone seems uninterested, it might be because you keep getting stuck in small talk. If you only make small talk, everyone sounds shallow.
4. Make people like being around you
When you try to make people like you, it will become easier for you to make friends. When you make sure that people like being around you, they will like you. If we are with someone with a positive experience, we like that person more.
1. What is the purpose of small talk?A.To show that you are in a good mood. |
B.To show you have something in common. |
C.To show you are friendly and want to talk. |
D.To show you are a potential new friend. |
A.Because you don’t have a deep chat with them. |
B.Because they have nothing in common with you. |
C.Because you don’t make a small talk with them. |
D.Because you don’t like to make friends with them. |
A.To avoid being stuck in small talk. |
B.To judge people by what they do. |
C.To stay with people with a positive experience. |
D.To make people willing to stay with you. |
One of my best friends is named Lisa. If you’d told us a month ago that there would come a point when we would need space from each other, we would have said “Not a chance!”
But then Lisa’s family won a five-day stay in a mountain cabin(小屋). Because Lisa’s sister, Alana, was spending the week with her grandparents, Lisa’s mom and dad said I could come along instead.
When I told my parents about the awesome invitation, my mom said, “That sounds fun, but keep in mind that five days is a long time to spend with a friend.” I shook my head. “Lisa and I are just like fish and water. We’re happy sticking together. Plus, the cabin is near paths where we can try snowshoeing and other outdoor stuff.”
A few weeks later, Lisa and her parents and I arrived at an adorable cabin surrounded by snow-covered pine trees. “What a great place!” Lisa’s dad said.
“It’s looking a little cloudy,” said Lisa’s mom, glancing at the sky. “Let’s hope it means snow and not rain.”
As you might have guessed, the clouds did mean rain. Lots of rain. And since our major plans involved snowshoeing and watching winter wildlife, we were stuck. “I guess we’ll have to find something else to do,” said Lisa.
We found a couple of board games and a pack of cards and sat down. At first, it was fun, but we ended up playing those games for about 100 hours, stopping only to eat and sleep!
“I can’t play anymore,” I said on the third day. “How about we just read by ourselves for a while?”
“I have a better idea,” said Lisa. “How about singing instead?”
“I think a little quiet time would be nice,” I said, opening a book I had brought.
“Oh, come on! Don’t be boring. I’ll pick the first song.” Lisa started singing “Somewhere over the Rainbow.”
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“Could you please leave me alone?” I shouted.
____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________The fourth day was fine, and we went out to play sometimes together and sometimes apart, just as her father had said.
____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________3 . In the past week almost 120 global leaders have resolved to triple (使增至三倍) the world’s renewable energy capacity before 2030 in an attempt to reduce the global consumption of fossil fuels. As the second half of the Cop28 UN climate conference in Dubai unfolds , more countries may join the calls for a global target of 11 TW (太瓦) of renewable power by the end of the decade, three times higher than the 3.629 TW in place at the end of 2022.
Renewable energy really could be tripled in this decade, but it won’t be a breeze, according to the International Energy Agency (IEA) .
Based on the rate of growth for wind and solar power, the world is on track to meet this target. But the global energy watchdog (监察人) has warned that “stronger policy actions by governments” will be required to overcome challenges, such as rising costs, uncertain supply chains and grid (电力网) bottlenecks, which are considered essential to hit the goal of limiting global heating to within 1.5C of preindustrialised levels.
Renewable energy sources tripled, the global demand for coal power would be cut in half by 2030, according to estimates. “This is crucial for 1.5C,”said Dave Jones, the global insights lead for climate think-tank Ember. “The tripling goal would take renewables to the next level, with solar and wind reaching 40% of global electricity generation by 2030.”
The goal has won the support of 118 countries. In practice, not every country will triple its renewable capacity to meet the global target. Some countries starting from a lower level would need to more than triple their wind and solar power, while for others with a high share of renewables already, it would not be practical to triple their capacity again.
The prospect of having demand for coal is a goal worth struggling for, but governments must stay the course. Increasing capacity may have been simple in recent years with low interest rates and government support schemes, but the sector’s progress for the rest of the decade is less certain.
1. What does the underlined word “breeze” mean in paragraph 2?A.A demanding mission. | B.An effortless task. |
C.A dreamy vision. | D.A fruitless effort. |
A.The road to the top is full of twists and turns. | B.A good beginning is half done. |
C.No pains, no gains. | D.Rise from the fall, and you’ll rise high. |
A.Indifferent. | B.Neutral. | C.Cautious. | D.Optimistic. |
A.Drawbacks of power generation using coal. |
B.Ways to triple the output of sustainable energy. |
C.Specific difficulties in the future and solutions. |
D.Joint achievements made by nearly 200 countries. |
1. Why did the man close his Wechat Moments?
A.He didn’t like the posts on Wechat. |
B.He tried to focus on the real world. |
C.He didn’t want people to know anything about him. |
A.Through emails. |
B.Through instant messages. |
C.Through face-to-face conversations. |
A.He pays more attention to work. |
B.He spends more time with his family. |
C.He communicates more with old friends. |
A.Boss and secretary. | B.Old schoolmates. | C.Waiter and customer. |
5 . How do people respond when you have a talk with them? Maybe they brush your emotions aside or never listen to you.
Use confident body language. This type of body language can increase your self-respect and help you earn people’s respect. Confident body language can include good eye contact and appropriate postures (姿势). Keep your eyes forward instead of down.
Improve your listening skills. Good listeners often come across as sympathetic and caring, which are admirable qualities. A skilled listener can make others feel valued and appreciated.
Avoid oversharing. It’s common to talk too much and start rambling (瞎扯) when you get nervous or want to make a good impression. But to gain others’ respect, you can’t ramble or talk too much about yourself.
A.Keep calm and your anger in check. |
B.There’s no need to fill every silence. |
C.Therefore, he may be respected in return. |
D.Try to make your message as clear as possible. |
E.You might feel that you just don’t matter to others. |
F.Don’t leave your arms crossed or hands in your pockets. |
G.Instead, you need to slow down and find some common ground. |
6 . Have you ever received an invitation that you couldn’t accept? Do you struggle with how to decline without hurting someone’s feelings or causing conflict? Does it bother you to turn someone down? If the answer is yes to any of these questions, you’re not alone. In fact, this happens to most people at some time in their lives.
As soon as you know you will be unable to go, let the person know. Most events require planning and budgeting.
Always sincerely thank the person for inviting you and let her know that you’re honored that she’d think highly enough of you to send the invitation.
Don’t tell lies and don’t over-explain.You don’t ever have to come up with false excuses for why you’re unable to go to the event, but you also don’t have to go into detail.
If the invitation is exclusive (独有的) to you, let the person know you’re unable to make it at the time she requested,
A.Express appreciation for the invitation. |
B.The key is to let the person know whether or not you can accept the invitation as soon as possible and in a polite manner. |
C.and you feel really sorry about that. |
D.but you’d love to get together with her at another time. |
E.Putting the invitation aside to deal with later isn’t good for you or the person who sent it. |
F.It is impolite to refuse an invitation from others. |
G.Let her know that you already have plans. |
7 . For lots of kids, toddlerhood(幼儿期)is an important time for friendship. Studies show that the earlier kids learn to form positive relationships, the better they are at relating to others as teenagers and adults. Playing together also helps these kids practice social behaviors, such as kindness, sharing, and cooperation.
Even so, how quickly your child develops into a social creature may also depend on his temperament. Some toddlers are very social, but others are shy. In addition, the way that toddlers demonstrate that they like other children is markedly different from what adults think of as expressions of friendship. Research at Ohio State University in Columbus found that a toddler’s way of saying “I like you” during play is likely to come in the form of copying a friend’s behavior.
This seemingly unusual way of demonstrating fondness can result in unpleasant behavior. Regardless of how much they like a playmate, they may still grab his toys, refuse to share, and get bossy. But experts say that this is a normal and necessary part of friendship for kids this age. Through play experiences, toddlers learn social rules. That’s why it’s so important to take an active role in your toddler’s social encounters by setting limits and offering frequent reminders of what they are. When you establish these guidelines, explain the reasons behind them.
Begin by helping your child learn sympathy (“Ben is crying. What’s making him so sad?”), then suggest how he could resolve the problem(“Maybe he would feel better if you let him play the ball.”). When your child shares or shows empathy(同理心)toward a friend, praise him(“Ben stopped crying! You made him feel better.”).
Another way to encourage health y social interaction is by encouraging kids to use words—not fists—to express how they feel. It’s also important to be mindful of how your child’s personality affects playtime. Kids are easy to get angry when they’re sleepy or hungry, so schedule playtime when they’re refreshed.
1. What does the underlined word “temperament” in Paragraph 2 probably mean?A.Appearances. | B.Ages. | C.Characters. | D.Interests. |
A.They are fond of their playmates. |
B.They are interested in acting. |
C.They are shy with the strangers. |
D.They are tired of playing games. |
A.Find them suitable playmates. |
B.Design games for them. |
C.Play together with them. |
D.Help them understand social rules. |
A.Explaining concepts. | B.Giving examples. |
C.Providing evidence. | D.Making comparisons. |
8 . We all feel lonely at some point, but long-term social loneliness can damage our mental and physical health. “Loneliness is a signal that you need human connection,” says Dr. Jeremy Nobel.
Know yourself
It’s easier to connect with people if you have shared the same ideas or experiences, so start paying attention to what’s on your mind.
Make something
When someone says make something, you can immediately say, “Well, I’m not Picasso. I don’t know how to do a fancy painting.” And, of course, you’re not! But the opportunities for creative expression are endless. You can plant a garden or try a dance move.
Take a risk by having conversations
Share something about yourself. It doesn’t have to be the biggest or darkest part of your life, but just something you think other people might find interesting and convincing.
Whether it’s volunteering for a cause you believe in or just for fun, try to find others who share your interests. And if you follow your natural curiosities, you may find something new. Share your thoughts and feelings in creative ways with other people who have that interest.
A.Other people’s loneliness matters too |
B.Find a group that matches your interests |
C.Since you have shared some of your secrets |
D.Here are some good tips to make connection |
E.Even if you’re nervous about being judged or refused |
F.Knowing yourself can be the first step to bond with others |
G.Making something can express your thoughts and feelings to others |
9 . Friendships can enrich your life in many ways. Good friends teach you about yourself and challenge you to be better. They also have a positive impact on your health.
●Friends encourage healthy behaviors.
One possible explanation for those health benefits is that friendships can help you make lifestyle changes that can have a direct impact on your well-being. For example, your friends can help you set and maintain goals to eat better and exercise more.
●Friends give you emotional support.
Research also shows that happiness is contagious(有感染力的)among friends. One study of high school students found that those who were depressed were twice as likely to recover if they had happy friends.
●Friends help build your confidence.
Everyone has self-doubts and insecurities every now and then.
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Great friends have the power to mold(塑造)you into the best version of yourself. They see you and love you for who you truly are. They encourage you and push you to do better and be the person you want to be —your “ideal self”.
A.Friends push you to be your best |
B.So how do friendships contribute to your well-being |
C.If you find yourself going through a hard time |
D.Friends help you beat stress |
E.Parents can also help you cope with stressful situations |
F.Likewise, kids were half as likely to develop depression if their friends had a “healthy mood” |
G.But supportive friends can help you feel confident by offering praise when you’re feeling unsure |
10 . Friendship is important in our life. If you and your friends are in conflict (冲突)and your friendship is coming to an end, it’s time to work through hurt feelings and misunderstandings.
Reflect and write down the good.
Before you face a difficult conversation with a friend, stop and reflect (反思). Think of a specific moment.
Choose a different way to communicate.
The expert noted that friendships may require time to settle back into normal after the conflicts. People differ in how they deal with conflicts. Therefore, give a friendship some breathing room before trying again. That lasting uncomfortable feelings may require further attention.
Sometimes a friendship suffers due to a miscommunication. The experts encourage people not to let a single problem break up a friendship.
A.At that time this friendship brought you joy or excitement. |
B.You were not aware of the things. |
C.If repair efforts have not worked in your usual ways, try another way. |
D.Here are ways to help you repair a friendship. |
E.Don’t give up a friendship because the problem has appeared. |
F.Things can go back to the way they were before the conflict. |
G.Give it time and try again. |