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It’s not easy feeling like you’re always under the spotlight being judged for each little mistake you make. Your mind is in an endless circle playing what you said and did over and over again. You wish you had a time capsule to go back and make things right if you find mistakes. You fear what others will think about you and that they will reject and dislike you. You seek to be socially perfect.

Academically, you work long endless hours just to make those excellent marks. Although most would say “it’s good to have high standards,” they have no idea about the internal hell you put yourself through to achieve perfection. If you come up less than your desired goal you feel as though you have failed, but you’re far from failing, you just don’t see it that way. So instead you are telling yourself that you’re stupid, and not smart. The pressure you place on yourself weighs you down and you wear the “not good enough” label each and every day.

You not only have high standards for yourself but you also have them for others. If people don’t perform up to your expectations, then you think they are incompetent. This causes a lot of frustration because you can’t trust anyone to get things right. So instead of being a team player, you fly solo (单飞) and try to do two or three jobs at once. Your unrealistic expectations cause you to criticize and judge others and that leads to problems in other areas of your life.

The attempt to be perfect is called perfectionism and it’s the unachievable American dream that’s damaging our emotional and mental health. We strive (奋斗) for perfection with our body, in our performance, and in our relationships. In a society that overstates mistakes, is it any wonder, in that so many young people attempt the impossible task of being perfect?

We all have flaws (弱点), fears, and make mistakes, and that’s perfectly OK. It’s our imperfections that make life interesting and they help us grow into a stronger and more adaptable person. We don’t have to strive to achieve the impossible. We are designed to be perfectly imperfect.

1. Which of the following is a perfectionist most likely to agree?
A.Nobody is perfect.
B.Be generous with praise.
C.A contented mind is an everlasting feast.
D.There is no best, only better.
2. What can we infer from the underlined sentence in Paragraph 4?
A.More and more people are tolerating mistakes.
B.It’s unusual for a society to seek perfectionism nowadays.
C.Many young people find it impossible to be perfect.
D.The society is partly to blame for perfectionism.
3. What does the author think of imperfection?
A.It’s unbearable.B.It’s part of our life.
C.It deserves to be overcome.D.It does harm to our mental health.
4. What might be the most suitable title of the text?
A.Far From FailingB.Perfectionism Phenomenon
C.Perfectly ImperfectD.Unachievable American Dream

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