【推荐1】It’s no secret that we all want to be liked and respected.     1    . Here is a list of those bad habits that can make people think twice about wanting to be around you.

Making Assumptions

This is one of the worst habits you can have. People really don’t like it when you make assumptions about them or situations without checking the facts first.     2     It can also be helpful to be willing to adjust your views and opinions when necessary.

Monopolizing (垄断) the Conversation

Some people are naturally more talkative, while others simply aren’t comfortable being the center of attention. But if you’re one of those people who are always the loudest in the room, standing at the front of the line, or monopolizing the conversation, people will get annoyed—a lot.     3    .

Acting Like a Know-It-All

Sure, we all get a little excited when we know something others don’t, but there’s a fine line between being smart and over-smart.     4     it makes people feel as if they don’t have any value in your eyes.

    5    , they’re not always easy to spot in ourselves. That’s why developing self-awareness is so critical. By being self-aware, we can better understand how we interact with others—and how our actions and words may be perceived. So if you want to be more likable, pay closer attention to how you act and communicate with others.

【推荐2】Improving your communication skills

Developing better communication habits requires several important skills that work together with each other. Some of these skills involve the way you speak or hold your body, and others are more emotionally based on interpersonal(人际关系的) skills.    1    

Clear communication starts with active listening. If you’re just focusing on how to express yourself, perhaps you are not listening or reacting to what others are bringing to the table.     2    They pay close attention to what’s being said and make others feel heard and considered.

    3    Empathizing means both understanding and caring for someone else’s feelings. Having high emotional intelligence and the ability of empathizing can build ties between you and others and increase your ability to communicate.

Mastering nonverbal(非语言的) cues and signals can help prevent miscommunication and make those around you interested in signals. Pay attention to your facial expressions and body language when you are speaking with someone in a professional setting. Your nonverbal cues affect the first impression you make on someone. Maintaining eye contact, limiting hand gestures, and having good posture go a long way when meeting someone for the first time.

The ability to actively engage in team-building is vital to communication skills.     5    The more you build strong relationships with others in the work, the more effectively you'll be able to communicate with them.