When asked to point out one or two things that are most important to themselves, many put friends ahead of homes, jobs, clothes and cars.
A true friendship carries a long history of experience that determines(确定)who we are and keeps us connected. It is a treasure we should protect. Unfortunately, the better friends you are, the more probably you'll have disagreements. And the result can be what you don't want—an end to the relationship.
The good news is that most troubled friendships can be mended. First, don't let your pride get in your way. Most of us can forgive each other when differences are brought out in the open. Second, apologize when you're wrong—even if you've been wronged. Over the course of a friendship, even the best people make mistakes. Sometimes, it may be best if the wronged person takes the lead and apologizes. When you apologize, give your friend a chance to admit that he has been wrong. Third, see things from your friend's point of view(观点). And finally, accept that friendships change as our needs and lifestyles change. Making friends can sometimes seem easy. The hard part is keeping the connections strong during the natural ups and downs that have an effect on all relationships. My suggestion: Consider the friendship an honor and a gift, and worth the effort to treasure and nurture(培养).
1. What would be the best title for the text?A.Easy Ways to Make Friends |
B.Ups and Downs in Friendship |
C.How to Mend a Troubled Friendship |
D.How to Take the Lead in Making Friends |
A.who has been mistaken for another |
B.who has been blamed unfairly |
C.who has treated friends badly |
D.who has admitted his mistakes |
A.we have much in common |
B.we know our friends' mistakes |
C.we treat our disagreements wisely |
D.we have known one another for long |
A.Stick to our own point of view. | B.Avoid making mistakes. |
C.Make an apology first. | D.Change our lifestyles. |
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【推荐1】How to get a good letter of recommendation
Your professors are often asked to write hundreds of letters of recommendation during teaching in colleges.
Don’t tell your professor what to say. This one is a little tricky, because it seems to contradict the tip above.
Don’t ask for a letter at the last minute. Rule of thumb: Give the professor at least a few months’ notice. Remember, your professor will spend quite a while composing the letter of recommendation, so express your request in a respectful, appreciative and thoughtful way. A last minute request will annoy the professor, and it may also lead to a sub- standard letter.
Express your gratitude. A thoughtful letter of recommendation takes time.
A.Nobody wins in such a hurry |
B.Expose a real yourself accordingly |
C.Maintain a good relationship with them |
D.And chances are you aren’t the only one asking |
E.Give the professor a broad outline about your request |
F.While these letters may not be as important as test scores |
G.Because the employers care much about the recommendation |
Do you have a friend who is upset about his or her parent’s drinking? You want to do something to help, but what? Your friend may not talk about this with you, but you can still be a good friend. One out of four children lives with at least one adult who has alcoholism, so your friend is not alone.
●Be a good listener. Your friend may need someone to talk to. Listen to your friend and suggest that she or he talk to a trusted adult in addition to talking to you .You can offer a good listening ear, but sometimes an adult is needed for more serious things. Maybe you can suggest a caring adult for your friend to talk to, such as a teacher, a neighbor, or a grandparent. He will listen and support your friend, and he will not hurt your friend or put your friend down.
●Don’t spread gossip(闲话) about your friend’s family. It’s okay to tell your parents or another trusted adult what is going on, but respect your friend’s right by not telling other kids in your class.
●Ask your parents if your friend ___________your house, and then invite your friend over for enjoyable activities or to do homework together. Sometimes your friend might just need to get away and have fun being a kid.
●Don’t ride in a car when a friend’s parent has been drinking if you can avoid it. It is not safe. Call your parents, walk, or try to get a ride with an adult you know who has not been drinking. If you must get in the car with a drinking driver, sit in the middle of the back seat with your seat belt fastened. Lock your doors and try to stay calm.
1. What is the best title of the passage? (Please answer within 10 words)2. Which sentence in the passage can be replaced by the following one?
To help a friend in trouble, you can advise him or her to talk to someone who can be depended on for help.
3. Please fill in the blank in the fourth paragraph with proper words of phrases to complete the sentence. (Please answer within 10 words)
4. Which of the suggestions do you think is best for you if you find your friend in trouble? Why? (Please answer within 30 words)
5. Translate the underlined sentence in the third paragraph into Chinese.
【推荐3】What can be done if you’re addicted to negative thinking? Here are a few tips that might help you understand how you’re thinking and what changes you could make to stop the negative cycle.
Catch your thoughts
Resisting is not usually the best way to deal with your negativity. Whatever you resist persists (维持). The more you resist something, the more you attract it towards you. If you imagine the worst that could happen and accept that, then the reality of what is actually happening isn’t so bad after all.
Appreciate moments of joy and gratitude
Gratitude is a great tool to change your negative thoughts to positive ones. Even small things can help create a new habit of positive thinking.
A.Accept and change |
B.Be grateful for everything |
C.You will need to learn to change your thoughts |
D.It’s difficult to have two opposing thoughts at once |
E.Negative thinking can take hold of us for many reasons |
F.The first thing to do is become aware of what you’re thinking |
G.You can change your thoughts to deal with things realistically and with optimism |
【推荐1】With all the traditional media channels, including newspapers, magazines and television shows, shrinking, advertisers are worrying about how they can reach customers. Banners (横幅) ads on our devices are ugly and disturbing. To overcome various digital problems, the ad industry has been serving up a sneaky (不光明正大的) solution: make ads look less like ads and more like the articles, videos and posts around them.
This trend, called native advertising, has taken over the Internet; even the websites such as NYTimes.com and Wall-Street.com are using it. On Facebook and Twitter, every 10th item or so is an ad; only the small subtitle “Sponsored (赞助)” appearing in light gray type tells you which posts are ads.
Won’t dressing up ads to make them look like reported articles mislead people? Sometimes, yes. An Interactive Advertising Bureau study found that only 41 percent of general news readers could tell such ads apart from real news stories. And it’s getting worse. Advertisers worry that the “Sponsored” label discourages readers from clicking, so some websites are making the labels smaller and less noticeable. Sometimes the labels disappear entirely.
At a recent talk about the difficulty of advertising in the new, small-screen world, I heard an ad manager tell an impressive story. She had gotten a musical performance – paid for by her soft drink client- perfectly inserted (插入) into a TV awards show, without any moment of blackness before or after. “It looked just like part of the real broadcast!” she recounted happily.
Look, it is great that native advertising works. But if advertisers truly believe in their material, they should have no problem labeling it as advertising.
For now native ads continue to be a fashion- with no laws governing them and no labeling standard. But that could change; the Federal Trade Commission has begun considering regulation. If the new generation of digital advertisers clean up their act according to the regulation, native ads might become more acceptable.
1. What can we learn about native ads from the text?A.They have overcome the problems of banner ads. |
B.They are clearly labeled as ads in websites. |
C.They are a special type of articles. |
D.They are used by all websites. |
A.It’s difficult to advertise in the small-screen world. |
B.It’s difficult to tell native ads from what they have been inserted in. |
C.It’s easy to insert ads into a TV awards show. |
D.It’s easy to deal with the “Sponsored” label. |
A.bright | B.discouraging | C.uncertain | D.time-dependent |
A.How to advertise in the digital age. | B.Difficulties facing native ads. |
C.Truth in digital advertising. | D.What native ads are? |
【推荐2】Online, English has become a common language for users from around the world. In the process, the language itself is changing. There are now thought to be some 4.5 billion web pages worldwide. Some language experts predict that within 10 years English will occupy the Internet — but in forms will be very different to what we accept and recognize as English today.
That’s because people who speak English as a second language already outnumber native speakers. And increasingly, they use it to communicate with other non-native speakers, particularly on the Internet where less attention is paid to grammar and spelling and users don’t have to worry about their accent (口音).
Users of Facebook already socialize in a number of different “Englishes” including Indian English, Spanish English and Korean English. While these different styles have long existed within their cultures, they’re now expanding and coming online. Technology companies are introducing newly-developed English words with products aimed at enabling users to add words that are not in the English dictionary. And most large companies have English websites, while smaller businesses are learning that they need a common language — English — to reach global customers.
The increasing popularity of the Internet allows more languages to develop quickly.
“Most people actually speak several languages — it’s less common to only speak one,” says Mr. Munro. “English has taken its place as the world's common language, but it’s not pushing out other languages.” Instead, other languages are pushing their way into English, and in the process creating something new.
1. What does the text mainly talk about?A.English is a common language around the world. |
B.There are now many different language styles. |
C.English is developing with the Internet. |
D.Smaller businesses are learning a common language. |
A.People need to spell exactly. |
B.Grammar is not so important. |
C.People need to pay attention to their accent. |
D.Most English speakers are native speakers. |
A.We can only communicate online in English. |
B.It's impossible to find all the English words in the dictionary. |
C.Some technology companies start to publish English dictionaries. |
D.Smaller businesses are not allowed to have English websites. |
A.The other languages are enriching English. |
B.One can’t live well without speaking several languages. |
C.English will become the only language in the world. |
D.Chinese used to be the world's common language. |
【推荐3】Your alarm goes off on your phone, and instead of turning it off and going on sleeping, you pick it up and stupidly say, “Hello?”
You are, to use the technical term, suffering sleep drunkenness (迷糊), those first few confused minutes people sometimes experience after waking, according to a just-published paper in Neurology (神经学). For the first time, the phenomenon has been studied in a general adult population.
In telephone interviews the researchers conducted with more than 19,000 healthy individuals, about 25 percent reported experiencing some sort of sleep-drunk episode (插曲) in the last year, and 12 percent said this happens to them at least once a week.
Most of their stories were actually pretty funny, said Stanford University School of Medicine psychiatrist (精神病学家) Maurice Ohayon. One man picked up his alarm clock and mistook it for his phone, holding a two-minute conversation on it. Another participant woke in the middle of the night and couldn’t find the bathroom in her own home. Other common examples are that foggy feeling you get when you first wake up with a start on a Saturday before realizing it’s the weekend, or when you wake up in a hotel room and can’t immediately figure out where you are.
Ohayon explains that a sudden awakening, to our poor, half-asleep brains, signals an emergency - a time for action, not reason.
“For most people, and especially if this only happens to you every once in a while, it’s nothing to worry about. But for people who experience sleep drunkenness once a week or more, you might as well refer to professional help to have a sound sleep.”
1. The intended readers of the passage are probably ___________.A.adults who don’t sleep well |
B.teenagers who don’t have enough sleep |
C.people who suffer sleep drunkenness |
D.researchers who are fond of sleep disorder |
A.it’s stupid to leave the alarm on when sleeping |
B.after waking all people struggled for awareness |
C.there are many studies on adults’ sleep patterns |
D.it’s common for adults to suffer sleep drunkenness |
A.It leads to different reactions. |
B.It comes without any reason. |
C.It hits when people are working. |
D.It attacks those who are depressed. |
A.Something to expand your sleep time. |
B.Ways to improve your sleep pattern. |
C.Methods of curing sleep drunkenness. |
D.Tips on how to help you to sleep better. |