Four Habits to Help You Succeed
We will want to succeed, whether it’s in losing weight or learning the guitar. For those who have tried and failed, success seems difficult to understand. Why does one person succeed where another person fails?
1. Identify your core (核心) values.
Finding your core values is in line with creating inner motivation.
2. Pick a goal and focus on it.
Choose one goal to start something large enough that will give you a sense of achievement, while adjusting well to your core values. Focus is key here.
3. Set a deadline for success.
Set a date for success. Identify when you hope to achieve your goal.
4.
Failure can’t be avoided when you take risks. Many people give up far too early. Use failure. Treat it as a good thing, and march on!
A.The more focused you are on one goal, the higher chance you have of success. |
B.Make the right decision. |
C.I’ve made a list of four habits to help you set goals and achieve them. |
D.Stick to your goal. |
E.Keep it realistic, while not giving you too much time. |
F.Sit and reflect on what you value most. |
G.Push yourself to be courageous, and take that next step. |
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【推荐1】Friendships are built on trust. Many a secret is shared between two good friends, and once that secret hasn’t been kept, then expect the friendship to be broken. It is difficult to restore a friendship. But if you work on trying to get along and fix things it may turn out to be a better situation.
When you want to restore your friendship,
When you sit down and discuss your problems, be sincere in the things you have to say.
A.and make your friend unhappy |
B.When your friend speaks, listen |
C.Relaxing coffee time can make you feel good |
D.which will make it hard for the two of you to work things out |
E.the first thing is to have a face-to-face conversation with your friends |
F.Wait at least three days to do this because the person will probably still be upset if earlier |
G.During the conversation, it is very important for you to apologize if you are the one to blame |
【推荐2】It is important to learn how to protect our environment. Here is a 5R rule for us:
Reduce: If you want to reduce the waste, you should use things wisely. A large number of trees are being cut down to make paper. If everyone uses paper wastefully, soon we would not have any trees left. Other things are also being wasted, and people don’t know what to do with the waste in big cities. So it is necessary to reduce the waste.
Reuse: You should always think of reusing the usable things before throwing them away. Give your clothes you do not use or the ones which are too small to the poor. In a family, you may pass on such clothes to younger brothers or sisters.
Recycle: Bottles, cans and paper cups can be easily recycled. By doing so, we can save lots of money. For example, coke cans are sent to a factory, where they are smashed (粉碎) and melted and the metal things are made for new coke cans.
Recover: When you buy a box of apples, there may be a few rotten ones, you have two choices: one is to throw the whole apple away, or you could cut off the rotten parts and eat the good parts.
Repair: If one of the legs of your table is broken, you can repair it. If you want to change for better ones, it is better for you to sell the old things or give them to other people who can use them after repairing them. It is true that North America is a “throw away” society, but the time has come to change our way of life so that we can protect our environment. Every one of us should try our best.
1. The “Reduce” rule mainly require us ________.A.to use things wisely | B.to cut down many trees |
C.to use a lot of paper | D.to throw away our old clothes |
A.throwing them away |
B.giving them to the poor |
C.passing them on to younger brothers or sisters |
D.both B and C |
①melt them ②collect the used cans
③smash them flat ④send them to a factory
A.①②③④ | B.①④③② | C.②④③① | D.③①②④ |
A.to cover waste things with earth | B.to throw the whole things away |
C.to throw waste things away | D.to get back the useful parts |
A.selling them | B.putting them away |
C.repairing them | D.throwing them away |
【推荐3】What is stopping you from getting what you want in life? Your friends? Your family? Essentially, the big wall in the middle of the road that keeps you from getting what you want is fear
Taking small steps
This is good for fear that c can seem overwhelming at first. A solution is to take small steps. Steps like first just saying hi to people.
Getting some cone rete, positive motivation
One way to get moving is to replace some of your negative thoughts with positive reasons to get going. Take out a piece of paper and a pen. And write down all the wonderful ways you can come up with to make changes that will improve your life.
Seeing failure and rejection in a new light
What this means is not letting your thoughts and emotions run away to the future or the past. Instead, focus on the present and what needs to be done now. The future will be the now soon enough. And when you’re arriving there it will be much easier to get things done when you have created a minimal amount of stress and fear within your mind.
A.Building your courage |
B.Living in the present moment |
C.Then, how can you overcome the fear? |
D.How should you identify the fear yourself? |
E.And then try to get more involved in conversations. |
F.We may fear failure when starting on a new career path. |
G.Focus on those positive things to get motivated and inspired |
【推荐1】Many children first learn the value of money by receiving an allowance (pocket money). The purpose is to let children learn from experience at an age when financial mistakes are not very costly.
At first, young children may spend all of their allowance soon after they receive it. If they do this, they will learn the hard way that spending must be done within a budget.
Paying children to do extra work around the house, however, can be useful. It can even provide an understanding of how a business works.
Allowances give children a chance to experience the things they can do with money.
Saving helps children understand that costly goals require sacrifice: you have to cut costs and plan for the future.
Requiring children to save part of their allowance can also open the door to future saving and investing.
That may not seem like a lot. But over time it adds up.
A.Many banks offer services to help children and teenagers learn about personal finance. |
B.They can share it in the form of gifts or giving to a good cause. |
C.It is a good virtue for children to form a habit to learn how to save money. |
D.The amount of money that parents give to their children to spend as they wish differs from family to family. |
E.Parents are usually advised not to offer more money until the next allowance. |
F.Parents are supposed to tell their children how they should spend their pocket money wisely but the refused to do so. |
【推荐2】Nowadays,being a parent has become harder than ever before.When it comes to useful parenting methods,advice from experts is different.One of the things researchers and educators agree on,however,is that if you want to raise successful children,you must"give them wings and let them fly."
Let go.It's natural to want to help your kids but raising independent kids requires you to fight the urge(欲望)to help at all times.
Be present.Raising independent kids is difficult.It requires you to find the right balance between being present and letting go.
A.Be their model. |
B.Focus on their strengths. |
C.Kids need to take chances. |
D.You must inspire independence. |
E.The competition among parents is very fierce. |
F.They are worried that their kids will get left behind. |
G.Your presence is necessary to help your kids become independent. |
【推荐3】Here are five rules that help me develop good habits.
Pick habits you honestly want to have
I didn’t choose habits I thought I should add because of what anyone else was doing.
Build your habit in your own way
When I started to build up an exercise routine, I only went when I wanted to go. For me, that was around 2 pm every day.
I knew that if I tried to take on too much, I’d find a way to make an excuse. So my daily purposes were very small. I started with two minutes of exercise, which was finally built up to 10, then 20minutes. I realized that just doing something, no matter how small, meant I was more likely to do it again the next day.
Be kind to yourself
Celebrate every small victory
When I began keeping a diary every morning, I put a number in the corner of each page to show how many diaries I had written.
A.If I missed a day, I let it go. |
B.I can make exercise less boring. |
C.Start small. |
D.I celebrated my pen running out of ink. |
E.It wasn’t about keeping up with other people. |
F.I should celebrate my success with my friends. |
G.It also meant that I would do whatever I wanted to do once got there. |