All parents have sky-high hopes for their children. We want them to be confident and satisfied. What can parents do to help their kids grow up to lead happy lives? Experts advise:
Praise their efforts.
Let them make decisions and mistakes.
Encourage them to solve their own problems. As they grow, children need practice in communicating and standing up for themselves. One of the best places to learn these skills is at home.
A.Applaud their achievements |
B.Step back and let them work it out |
C.She got a B plus for the next period |
D.Kids won’t always come out on top |
E.Setting too high a goal makes kids feel discouraged |
F.Give advice on how to help kids become mature |
G.Making his/her own decisions builds his/her confidence |
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【推荐1】Tips for Managing Stress
There are countless evidence-based tips yon can use to fight the negative effects of stress in healthy ways.
Some include:
Exercise.
Get some sleep.
Limit social media. Admit it, watching Facebook images of your neighbor's tor-perfect family on their too ideal vacation can be stressful. So can the report of global disasters you can't do anything about. Feeling out of control is stressful, and social media doesn't help.
Help others. Studies show that giving to others, including lending a hand to friends and family or volunteering your time to charity, can increase positive emotions and decrease stress.
Eat healthily. There's a reason. Stress can set off your feelings for fat and sugar, hut "eat your feeling" has long-term, negative consequences for your weight and overall health. A better diet will make you feel much stronger, physically and emotionally.
A.Seek professional help. |
B.Identify and reduce what causes stress. |
C.A bad night's sleep makes everything worse, especially stress. |
D.But you should make sure the giving doesn't add to your stress |
E.So do yourself a favor and disconnect your social media connections. |
F.Exercising may not be a cure, but it can help stressed people feel much better. |
G.The situation is stressful, but the outcome makes the whole experience worthwhile. |
【推荐2】How to Fall Back in Love with Reading
Do you remember the last time you spent time reading books for pleasure? In the age of digital distractions, it is easy to struggle to find the time and headspace to get lost in literature.
Set aside time for reading books. Whether it’s 20 minutes before bedtime or an hour on your lunch break, carving out sometime in your schedule will make it easier to sit down and read. And if you find that you don’t have much free time, try listening to audiobooks.
Keep a reading journal. In your journal, you can write down your thoughts about what you’re reading or graffiti pictures inspired by the book.
Make reading a social activity. Whether you start a book club with your friends or join an online reading group, being able to discuss what you’re reading with others can make the experience more enjoyable.
A.Find a book that interests you. |
B.Create a positive reading routine. |
C.But that doesn’t mean reading books is a thing of the past! |
D.By this way, you can easily fit reading into your busy lifestyle. |
E.Plus, it’s a great way to get recommendations for what to read next! |
F.The others in your book club may come from different backgrounds. |
G.It doesn’t have to be very involved, just a couple of sentences to jog your memory. |
【推荐3】Even if you are naturally shy, these three tricks will help you to quickly build a new social circle in any new city.
1. Take pictures
One of the great things about taking pictures at an event or party is that it gives you an excuse to get in touch with the person later. Everybody loves seeing pictures of themselves, and it’s very easy after taking a picture to say “if you’d like I can email it to you”. This can be the seed that leads to new connections. The next time you hear about a fun event email your new contacts to let them know about it.
2. Eat alone in public
You might feel self-conscious eating by yourself but it has an important benefit: you are much easier to approach when you are alone. People may be afraid of interrupting you or being rude if you are in a conversation with someone else. Bring a book or newspaper to read (this will make you feel less self-conscious). Plus, having an interesting book with you will give others an excuse to start a conversation if they’ve read it.
3. Join a class, sports team, or club
Yoga, salsa dancing, volleyball, Toastmasters (a public speaking club), a class for work, etc. Take up a new hobby or continue an old one!
These are all great places to meet new people, primarily because you will be forced to see the same people over and over again in the class. You will automatically make friends with them if you have a common interest and are forced to see each other again.
Tips:
*In the beginning, never turn down an invitation from someone, even if it’s something you wouldn’t normally do.
*Email your new friends with fun things to do instead of always asking what their plans are. If they have a better plan you can drop yours and join them. This will help establish you as someone who is contributing value instead of just taking it (people want this in a friend).
*Don’t let little things in life upset you or be a negative person. People don’t want to be around someone like that!
1. _______ can give you an excuse to get in touch with the person later.A.Taking pictures of others |
B.Eating by yourself in public |
C.Reading interesting books |
D.Joining group activities |
A.approach others to show conscious friendliness |
B.start a conversation with those who have friends aside |
C.invite others to your apartment to eat together |
D.sit on your own in public places |
A.It helps you find out people who share a common interest with you. |
B.It helps you find out your interest and take up a new hobby. |
C.It offers an opportunity to meet the same people repeatedly. |
D.It is a good way to meet new people and make friends in a new city. |
A.Try to be outgoing and talkative instead of being shy. |
B.Never turn down an invitation from your friends. |
C.Offer suggestions on how to spend time together. |
D.Always give a positive response to any request. |
A.why you should change when you move to a new city |
B.how you can make new friends in a new city |
C.why you should make new friends in a new city |
D.how you can keep in touch with strangers |
【推荐1】Downey’s mother spent one year studying abroad through an international exchange program with a French school. She often talked about how exciting and interesting the experience was. So, even before finishing high school, Downey had decided to follow suit one day.
Downey began studying architecture at Lehigh University in Bethlehem, Pennsylvania in 2004. Near the end of her second year, she started to feel unhappy with her school and decided it was time to study abroad.
U. S. colleges and universities commonly have joint programs with foreign schools that permit student exchanges. These programs usually last half a school year or sometimes a whole school year. The classes students take abroad usually give them credits toward their degree. In a four-year degree program, the third year is the most common time for American college students to study abroad. Many students think they need a change before what is usually their final and most difficult year of study.
Downey said her school did not want her to go at first. The architecture program at Lehigh was very intense, and her professors were worried she might miss learning important material. However, she was eventually able to get special permission to study internationally for a whole year. During the fall term in 2006, she attended a Danish international school in Copenhagen, Denmark, explaining she did so because Danish architects are well known for their housing design.
Young adult as she was, she had to deal with travel documents and many other issues on her own. Overcoming the language barrier is the biggest challenge of studying abroad. However, she had a lot of emotional and financial support from her family. She learned life lessons and made friendships and memories that have lasted to this day. She said, “The more you’re out of your comfort zone, the more rewarding the experience is in the end.”
1. What does Downey’s mother mean to Downey?A.A friend. | B.A dreamer. | C.An example. | D.An expert. |
A.Her mother asked her to do so. | B.Her school didn't live up to her expectations. |
C.She disliked studying architecture. | D.The joint programs gave her much inspiration. |
A.The famous learned professors. | B.The casual learning environment. |
C.The impressive academic reputation. | D.The favorable geographical location. |
A.It was not easy for Downey to study abroad. |
B.The comfortable life is likely to ruin the future life. |
C.Downey was too young to take care of herself. |
D.Downey's parents could hardly afford her education. |
【推荐2】In America, after middle school comes high school, which includes grades 9 through 12. Students are required to take compulsory subjects like English, social studies, math, science, and physical education. In addition, they choose among elective subjects (选修科目) to complete their high school education. Electives include subjects in technology, music, art, and foreign languages.
Each student in the school has their own locker (储物柜) for books and personal items. This convenience saves students from carrying textbooks, and allows students a small space they can decorate with (以……装饰) posters and favorite objects.
Cheating in any form is strictly prohibited (禁止) in American schools. And in fact, high school students usually don’t cheat. If they are caught cheating, they will have to face severe punishment.
Each school holds certain yearly activities for all school students, such as homecoming (返校节), prom night (学年舞会), holiday celebrations, etc.
Most high schools have at least one sports team that competes in local games, and all students are encouraged to take part in athletics. Schools often offer football, baseball and softball, basketball, volleyball, tennis, and soccer. Some may even have sports like golf, swimming, gymnastics and cross-country skiing.
Many high school students have part-time jobs by the age of 15 or 16, some even earlier. Their first jobs are often babysitting or cutting lawns (草坪), but later they will likely get a job at a fast-food restaurant, video store, or clothing shop.
Sixteen years old is legal (法定) driving age in most states, and students usually want to own a car as soon as they can. Some parents allow their children to drive a family car, and may even buy a car as a graduation present. Others prefer that their sons and daughters earn enough to buy a used car. Many teenagers feel it’s necessary to own a car, and will do whatever it takes to be able to drive.
1. Which statement is right according to the passage?A.Cheating is strictly banned (禁止) only in American high schools. |
B.Teenagers in America can be allowed to drive after sixteen years old. |
C.Schools encourage all students to take part in sports. |
D.English, social studies, math, science, and physical education are elective subjects. |
A.voluntary | B.difficult | C.optional | D.necessary |
A.all high school hold some activities for students every year, like homecoming. |
B.American parents usually buy cars as graduation presents for their children. |
C.if the American boys and girls can earn enough money they can buy a used car to drive. |
D.high school students must have part-time jobs by the age of 15 or 16. |
A.a locker can give students a small space to save money. |
B.students can share their lockers. |
C.students can put their posters and favorite objects in the lockers. |
D.school provides students lockers to keep their books and personal things. |
【推荐3】When I was in eighth grade, my English teacher Joan announced that we were going to learn about prepositional phrases (介词短语). “There are over forty commonly used prepositions,” she continued. “And everyone must memorize them.” Joan recited (背诵) these prepositions as easily as saying the days of the week. She said you would find grammar easy when you memorized them. I tried my best and finally succeeded. Then, grammar became easier, just as Joan had promised.
In addition to singing the prepositions, she shared other useful language points. I still remembered her catchy phrase: “Good better best, never let it rest, until your good is better, and your better is best.”
After high school, I went to college, majoring (主修) in—my parents couldn’t believe it—English! In a creative writing class in my junior year, I recited the prepositions for my professor and classmates. I explained how my eighth grade teacher, Joan, had often said that a strategically placed prepositional phrase could add depth and variety to sentences. Impressed, my professor asked for a copy of Joan’s list and other tricks of the trade that I remembered.
After graduating from college, I landed a job teaching eighth grade English. I tried best the way Joan had to make grammar easy. I started the unit with prepositions coming first. Memorization was the important part. Before long, the students were singing the prepositions to their favorite tunes. One year, since it was near Christmas, we all sang the prepositions to “Jingle Bells”.
I also required students to. recite the prepositions in ten seconds or less. If you thought that was impossible, then you didn’t know eighth graders. They welcomed any trouble, and with no homework as a motivator, they got right down to business. I pulled out a stopwatch and timed the students daily to judge their progress; 21, 16, 12, then bingo, 10 seconds!
I taught eighth grade English for thirty-eight years. Looking back, teaching English was a tough but worthwhile job, and I loved it every day.
1. Why did Joan ask her students to memorize prepositions?A.She wanted them to overcome their weak points. |
B.She thought this benefits their grammar learning. |
C.Memory exercises are a quick way to learn English. |
D.Prepositions are a hot part to be examined in exams. |
A.He introduced his former teacher to his classmates. |
B.He showed everyone his ways of learning grammar |
C.His professor was interested in Joan’s teaching methods. |
D.His talent for being a teacher was recognized by his professor. |
A.valued preposition memorization like Joan did |
B.often asked Joan for advice about English teaching |
C.created some ways of teaching suitable for students |
D.got to understand the difficulty in teaching prepositions |
A.They joined colorful after-class activities. |
B.They tried their best to avoid their homework. |
C.They sometimes failed to follow the author’s instructions. |
D.They made gradual progress in remembering the prepositions. |
A.He found his job full of challenges. | B.He was greatly influenced by Joan. |
C.He was very popular among his students. | D.He devoted all his life to grammar teaching. |