There’s a child — like joy that comes with ordering something online — whether it be clothes or kitchen stuffs. We sit anxiously refreshing the Postal Service or Express pages to see when our items will arrive, and we become overly excited, hopeful and anxious.
According to Owen O’Kane, a psychologist and writer, even the smallest positive future events can motivate us when we’re feeling down — especially during the pandemic, which has been filled with unexpected disappointments. Waiting for a parcel may not just represent an imagined positive future where you can control your needs for a book or toaster or shirt, making life feel more manageable, but can also serve as a temporary distraction from the boring life because it gives you something new to wake up to and get excited about.
However, people went into a frenzy when the Postal Service announced that its mail delivery would become permanently slower. And then, many became worried about their items arriving on time, appearing broken, or simply not living up to expectations. A delayed package may seem insignificant to some. But for others, getting your hopes up only for them to be thwarted is anxiety and angering. O’Kane says these reactions are natural, but telling about more deep-rooted internal issues in our lives that go beyond the delayed package. It’s really symbolic about something bigger, psychologically, about the need to control and needing everything to be perfect.
It’s important to practice self-care and treat yourself with occasional gifts. However, experts caution comfort shopping is only a temporary fix, which only helped you escape problems temporarily. “Shopping for and receiving an item is stimulating on some level, and also the most passive way to live,” O’Kane adds.
1. Why do we look forward to receiving packages based on the first two paragraphs?A.It makes life easy to manage. | B.It gives us something positive to expect. |
C.It distracts us from a better life. | D.It helps us avoid unexpected disappointments. |
A.Canceled their orders. | B.Stood sill to call for their parcels. |
C.Got into a state of craziness. | D.Ran into a postal service company. |
A.Concerned. | B.Indifferent. | C.Optimistic.. | D.Positive. |
A.Find hope in your comfort shopping. |
B.Never order and track something online. |
C.Go shopping for and receiving items occasionally. |
D.Live actively and take actions to solve problems for good. |
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【推荐1】I feel happy when I come home at the end of the day and see those big, graphic prints on my wall. They make my tiny New York apartment feel more home and more purposeful; more like me. Why?
You’re probably not trying to spend crazy dollars on art for your home—who is? Maybe you just graduated and know you need to upgrade from that poster of Einstein with his tongue out taped to your dorm wall that was supposed to make you look“smart yet playful”Perhaps you just bought a home! That’s expensive !
Don’t panic if you don’t know where to start
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When you want affordable but classy art prints, go to Art. com website.
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eBay
Nothing angers me more than“stealing”a piece from one of my favorite shops, only to have it sell out before I can get my hands on it. eBay is my go-to next step.
A.It is all inexpensive source for prints. |
B.You can search by size, color and style. |
C.I've obtained quite a few pieces that originally got away. |
D.Coming home to beautiful art improves my quality of life. |
E.It is another site if you’re unsure what you’re looking for. |
F.A can’t-miss home decoration tip is to put“cheap”art in a nice frame. |
G.Being on a tight budget does not stop you from surrounding yourself with great art. |
【推荐2】The gift that never stops giving
People are going for gifts that are reused time and time again, (while also saving money), gifts that have recyclable packaging, or the recyclable elements included within them. One of the best options is to go for a green hamper (篮子).
Gift hampers can be reused
The fact that green items are frequently reusable is one of their main advantages. With a green hamper, you can reuse everything that was inside of it, including the container. Many green hampers are available in wicker (柳条) baskets, allowing you to keep the present for a long time and reuse it for other purposes.
Gift hampers are eco-friendly
A lot of people are worried about the environment and reducing CO2 emissions (排放). This is why green hampers are becoming more popular. Typically, businesses that sell green baskets will guarantee that the items inside them were manufactured by hand or in facilities with minimum CO2 emissions. However, the wicker baskets are more breakable items.
How to reuse wicker baskets
Why not keep a selection of potted plants in your wicker basket? This will look great in your dining room. With a wicker basket, for instance, place individual toiletries, towels, and blankets on the hamper for presentation in your guests’ rooms. You can give your visitors a warm, “hotel inspired” feeling.
Giving someone an awesome gift hamper that is also eco-friendly conveys a unique message to the recipient because there are so many options for gift baskets, you can fill them as you choose. This is why green hampers in particular are dominating the market.
1. What is probably the concern of people who choose hampers?A.Comfort. | B.Expense. | C.Security. | D.Beauty. |
A.Reusable and tough. | B.Popular and costly. |
C.Multipurpose and recyclable. | D.Ever-lasting and eco-friendly. |
A.Favorable. | B.Intolerant. | C.Doubtful. | D.Unclear. |
But experts are now warning that the current shoe fashions will be causing teenagers discomfort in the short term and storing up years of foot, knee and back pain in the future.
Here, the experts identify the problems caused by teenagers’ shoe choice.
KEDS/VANS
Slip-on shoes with elastic (弹性的)sides are particularly popular among teenage boys - with Keds and Vans the most sought-after brands.
The main problem is that they are just too flat—so flat that the heel, which strikes the ground first, also becomes damaged and painful.
BALLET PUMPS
The worst shoes of all are such light and thin dolly shoes. The problem is partly their flatness, as with Keds and Vans. However ballet pumps, which have no string or heel, have other specific problems.
“As the shoe has no fastening device, it relies on the toes to keep the shoe on, causing an awkward gait (步法), this leads to short- and long-term problems such as calluses (茧子), heel and knee pain.”
WEDGES AND STILETTOS
These shoes can also cause problems with gait. They may look good, but the heels on these are so high they can force the wearer’s body weight forward, making them very unstable.
Teens who wear these shoes regularly are also in danger of joining those millions of women with constant back pain.
SCHOOL SHOES
So what do podiatrists (足科医生)have on their wish list, especially for everyday wear?
Something in a natural, breathable fabric, with a string to hold it on, with a small heel and a deep toe-box that does not press the toes, such as Clark’s, Marks & Spencer or Rhino.
If your teen insists on wearing ‘bad’ shoes, get them some simple foot orthotics (矫形器) in the shoes. These support and correct the movement of the foot and, properly fitted by a podiatrist, can often transform their walk and halt the damage.
1. Of all the shoes mentioned in the passage, which can cause the worst problems?
A.Marks & Spencer. | B.Wedges & Stilettos. |
C.Keds and Vans. | D.Ballet Pumps. |
A. | B. |
C. | D. |
A.increase | B.worsen | C.stop | D.cure |
A.trendy shoes may ruin teenagers’ health |
B.fashionable shoes all have orthotics in them |
C.experts are strongly against wearing popular shoes |
D.podiatrists are expert at producing branded shoes |
A.Sports. | B.Science. | C.Health. | D.Shopping. |
【推荐1】A social phobia (恐惧症) in an anxiety disorder with strong fear in social situations.
Learn to relax. People with a social phobia often have anticipatory (预期的) anxiety.
Imagination can play tricks on us in social situations. In most cases you are afraid of things that have not happened or are not happening.
Be yourself. To some degree, social phobia is caused by the belief that we have to be perfect as others expect.
A.Look for social situations |
B.Be imaginative in solving social issues |
C.Perhaps you have a phobia about flying |
D.We have to learn to accept and trust ourselves |
E.In other words, they worry about the situation before it happens |
F.We have to be worried about what we think others may be thinking of us |
G.People with social phobia feel fear, as well as nervousness, pain or shyness |
【推荐2】Do you ever find yourself saving the good things in life for some distant moment in the future? Maybe you have a collection of fancy plates that only see the light of day on special occasions, or perhaps you’re waiting for the perfect time to wear that beautiful dress put away in your closet.
In a recent conversation with leading psychologist Dr. Alison McClymont, we explored the idea of giving ourselves permission to enjoy the good things now, rather than waiting for an uncertain future.
But why do we feel the need to save things for best?
Welcoming the joy of everyday life can be seen as an act of self-love. We are supposed to surround ourselves with things that bring us happiness, even in ordinary moments.
A.So, why not start now? |
B.Well, it’s time to reconsider. |
C.By doing so, we can boost our overall well-being. |
D.After all, there will be more happiness in store for us. |
E.Actually, cultural and generational factors play a crucial role. |
F.The reason may be that our well-being is closely related to abundance. |
G.If we deny ourselves small moments of joy, we may never get them again. |
【推荐3】After weeks of lockdown, the French are more eager than ever to get away from the breathless cities. But the busy traffic will also serve as a reminder of another annual summer trend here. The French have the unfortunate distinction of being the European champions(冠军) for abandoning pets that have become too cumbersome for their summer trips. Animal shelters up and down the country are evidence of this unique and sad tradition.
Betty Loizeau has run a shelter just north of Toulouse for more than 20 years. “Owners call up to say where their pets can be found, or drop them off in boxes outside the shelter under the cover of darkness. The excuses they typically give are that they’re going on holiday, having a baby, moving house, or they have a new partner with allergies, .......”
For shelters like this one, it is the busiest time of the year. Between 100,000 and 200,000 pets are abandoned in France each year, with 60% of these incidents occurring over the summer. The figure is close to 16.000 in the UK.
“Pets are increasingly seen as an impulsive(冲动的) buy,” says Marina Chailland, a vet(兽医) who has studied the social relationship between the French and their pets.
“A certain breed(品种) of cat or dog is fashionable and owners want one, just like a new smartphone,” she says. “Of course, when it goes out of fashion they desert it for an upgrade a couple of years later, when a new breed is considered fashionable.” She also points to the issue of pets being given as gifts as a reason why so many are abandoned. “Often parents will get pets for their children and when they grow up and lose interest in them, out goes the pet.”
Over the summer, owners discover that hotels charge extra for animals or even ban them completely. This explains why you will often see frightened, lost, dogs wandering near freeway service stations or beach resorts.
1. What does the underlined the word “cumbersome” in para. 1 refer to?A.Disturbing. | B.Enjoyable. |
C.Boring. | D.Impressive. |
A.In fact, the French don’t like pets at all. |
B.There are various excuses for people abandoning pets. |
C.Between 100,000 and 200,000 pets are abandoned in the UK each year. |
D.Pets are admitted into the hotel for free in summer. |
A.In spring. | B.In summer. |
C.In fall. | D.In winter. |
A.To explain why the French abandon the pets. |
B.To explain how the French like a smartphone. |
C.To explain why the French dislike pets. |
D.To explain how costly a smartphone is in France. |
【推荐1】An undersea cable (电缆) that connects the island nation of Tonga to the Internet has broken. As a result, Tongans will be without their main Internet connection for several weeks.
Touga is a country formed of about 169 islands in the South Pacific Ocean. Most of the country's 100, 000 people live on the main island, called Tongatapu. Like most island nations, Tonga gets its Internet through a cable that runs deep under the sea.
On the night of Sunday, January 20, the 514-mile (827-kilometer) cable that connects Tonga to Fiji got broken. No one is sure how it broke, but the most likely reason is that it was damaged by a ship pulling its anchor (锚).
In many places which use underwater cables, there is a backup cable. But because Tonga’s cable is so long and costs so much money, and because not that many people live on Tonga, the country just has one cable.
The broken cable caused Tonga's Internet to stop almost completely. It was also impossible to make calls to other countries at first.
But an Internet company soon brought Internet service back using a satellite (人造卫星) connection. Banks and many government offices also have satellite connections. But this is much slower. For satellite Internet, all signals (信号) must be sent out into space and then come back to the ground somewhere else. Satellite connections only allow a small part of the Internet activity that is possible with an undersea cable.
As a result, Tongans have to think carefully about how the Internet will be used. A person speaking for the company that owns the cable said that about 80% of the Internet use in Tonga was for social media (社交媒体) sites, such as Facebook and YouTube. The country is thinking about blocking these social media sites until the problem is fixed.
A special repair ship is traveling to Tonga from Samoa to fix the cable, which is broken in two places. The repairs should begin on Monday or Tuesday and could take a week or longer. No one knows yet how much it will cost to fix the cable.
1. What may be the reason for Tonga’s undersea cable’s failure?A.The cable was hit by a lost ship. | B.The cable was in poor condition. |
C.The cable had a technical failure. | D.The cable was broken by a ship. |
A.A backup cable would be very costly. |
B.The underwater condition makes it impossible. |
C.People of the country disagreed about laying one. |
D.The country didn't realize the importance of the Internet. |
A.It is expensive to use. |
B.It carries more signals. |
C.It works at slow speeds. |
D.It supports most Internet use. |
A.Allow Tongans to use it at night. | B.Stop the use of social media sites. |
C.Ask the Internet company for advice. | D.Just allow government offices to use it. |
【推荐2】Marjorie grew up with a sense of worthlessness. Again and again her father said she would never complete anything in life. He told her she was a loser and that anything she did was sure to end in failure. With these words continually ringing in her ears she grew up looking for someone who would love her and see her as a person of worth. This led her into relationships that disappointed her, ending in pain again, which was another proof that she was worthless and unlovable. Where does our sense of self-worth come from?
It is true that the foundation of a person’s self-worth is laid in the home. Words that we hear in our home can build or tear down our worth. Encouraging words are words of life to us while words of criticism are words of death. Other people like teachers, friends and employers can add to the collection of death words in a person’s heart. Over time a person begins lo see himself in the light of these words. In this situation can one develop a sense of worth?
Feeling worthless is possibly the most obvious sign of low self-esteem(自尊心). But it’s easy to overcome. However tough your childhood is, you can still choose to enrich the world every day simply by the way you communicate with others and make caring decisions. Whether we contribute anything or not is a choice. Feeling worthless means that you’re not doing well in the areas that matter to you and therefore you need to try to increase your self-esteem. To feel valued, you’ll have to really work at it and never give up on yourself.
All human beings are able to add value to society, including you. Thus there are no excuses for saying things like "I’m worthless and stupid" because you have the choice not to be any of these things.
1. What can we know from Paragraph 1 ?A.Marjorie was born to a poor family. |
B.Fathers decide children's future development. |
C.Family education affects children's growth. |
D.Children shouldn’t follow their parents’ advice. |
A.What is self-esteem. | B.Why we feel worthless. |
C.When we should make a choice. | D.How we should change ourselves. |
A.All of us can make contributions to our society. |
B.Social activities can help a person feel confident. |
C.It is common to think of oneself as worthless. |
D.It is not a good way to find excuses for one’s action. |
A.The reasons for worthlessness | B.Take action to become useful |
C.The importance of family education | D.Study to get self-esteem |
【推荐3】British chemist David Evans has become an overnight celebrity (名人) on Chinese social media. His chemistry experiments have attracted over 2 million followers in just a few mouths. Evans is a chemistry professor at the Beijing University of Chemical Technology. The 60-year-old always wears a white lab coat, a pair of safety goggles (护目镜) and smiles often Some Web users say he looks just like the “grandpa of KFC”.
Evans has posted videos of various experiments. His most popular experiments have attracted millions of hits on video-sharing apps. Excited children’s cheers and shouts can be heard in his videos. “I hope my experiments can arouse people s interest in science,” he says.
Evans has been interested In China since childhood. In the early 1970s, before the reform and opening-up, he viewed it as a “country full of mysteries”. He first visited the Chinese mainland in 1987 to attend a chemistry conference in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province. He quit his job in the United Kingdom and moved to Beijing in 1996. Many of his friends thought he was crazy. But Evans says they just saw China’s challenges but not its potential.
Since 2011, Evans has turned to the Internet to popularize science. He learned short-video apps are also popular in small cities and rural areas. And he realizes this enables him to reach more students, who lack opportunities to perform fun experiments. But even a one-minute video requires a considerable amount of work. Still, he thinks it’s worth it to fulfill his responsibility to popularize science.
His experiments always fill schools’ lecture halls with laughter. Some viewers call him “a Harry Potter-like magician”, but he disagrees, “A magician never tells the secrets behind his ticks, but a scientist always gives an explanation.” He sees himself as a teacher, He performs experiments to spread knowledge, inspire thinking, remove misunderstandings and show that science can create change. Evans says he looks forward to more “chemical reactions” with China.
1. Why did Evans begin to post videos of experiments on the Internet?A.To popularize science. | B.To rise to fame. | C.To apply short-video apps. | D.To make a fortune. |
A.Evans considered the UK to be a country full of mysteries. |
B.Evans first visited the Chinese mainland in his childhood. |
C.Evans went to China for a chemistry conference in 1987. |
D.Evans moved to Beijing with the support of his friends. |
A.Evans knows exactly how a mag to works |
B.Evans was a serious scientist and seldom singed. |
C.Evans will continue to post videos of experiments in China. |
D.Evans’ students like to stop his experiments with laughter. |