If you miss one of the old friends you’ve lost touch with and think about reaching out to them, you may worry about whether it’ll be just like old times, or uncomfortable and awkward. Here are some ways to help you avoid any awkwardness while reconnecting with an old friend.
Reach out through social media. Connect with them through social media, text message or other means if you’re too nervous to make a phone call or to begin a meet up. Follow up on one of their most recent posts.
Show some love. If you’re really happy to connect with your old friend, make it a point to communicate that to them.
Display your interest. As you chat with your friend, try to pay attention and ask follow-up questions.
Move past conflicts. Don’t talk a lot about your conflicts or the reasons why your friendship became less close. If it happens to come up naturally down the line, then feel free to address any possible hurt feelings.
A.Bring back a happy memory. |
B.Make detailed plans for the future. |
C.But better avoid taking the risk too soon. |
D.Update your friend on everything going on in your life. |
E.This shows you’re interested in what they’re sharing with you. |
F.Be warm with them and let them know how much it means to you. |
G.Then starting conversation about what they’re up to will be a natural thing. |
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To make sure the fire won’t jump the line,a bulldozer follows the hand crew.In one pass,the bulldozer triples the width of the fire line.The hand crew follow the bulldozer to remove any plants left behind.
A.But some forest fires also do good. |
B.Forest fires do great harm to nature. |
C.The hand crew work in a long line. |
D.Let’s see what it means to be a forest firefighter. |
E.The work of firefighters is hard as well as dangerous. |
F.If the fire threatens to jump the line,the crew call in the helicopter. |
G.As each firefighter takes a swing at the ground,the fire line gets better. |
【推荐2】Do you ever wish you could change something about your body? If so, you're not alone.
So, want to look and feel your best? Here are some ways:
Accept your body
Nobody’ s perfect. Everybody wants to be liked and accepted just as they are. Don' t body-shame yourself. When you say something negative about your own body, it hurts your self-esteem.
Like your body
Find things to like about your looks. Maybe you like your hair, face, or hands. What about your shape shoulders, or legs? Your eyes or your smile?
Take care of your body
Eat healthy foods. Learn what foods are good for you, and how much is the right amount. Eating right helps you look your best. When you treat your body right, you feel good about yourself.
Be active every day. Your body needs to move to be strong, fit and healthy.
Keep to a healthy weight.
A.Attend to your body’s needs. |
B.Tell yourself what you like and why. |
C.You can be active by playing a sport. |
D.You can change a thing about your body. |
E.Lots of people feel unhappy with some part of their looks. |
F.Being a healthy weight helps you feel good about your body. |
G.That’s true whether you say it out loud or think it to yourself. |
【推荐3】Many of make it our New Year decision to get more active—but you don’t have to spend large sums in gyms.
Get started with running. Going for a jog costs nothing and is one of the easiest ways to build up your body. If running seems like a task, why not try an app to add to pleasure? I love a sports app called RockMyRun. It understands your personal pace and then matches the music beat to it.
Follow fitness bloggers. Instagram, as well as YouTube, is full of fitness bloggers competing for likes and followers. They often post some free short videos showing how they are exercising.
Weight to go.
A.Free outdoor gyms. |
B.Great various workouts. |
C.It is free to download on Android and iOS. |
D.Generally, gyms cost on average £ 40.53 a month. |
E.Heavy kitchen items can be used as hand weightlifting equipment. |
F.It is necessary for most people to train by lifting hand-held weights. |
G.Make the most of their efforts by repeating these at home or in the gym. |
【推荐1】America is a mobile society. Friendships between Americans can be close and real, yet disappear soon if situations change. Neither side feels hurt by this. Both may exchange Christmas greetings for a year or two, perhaps a few letters for a while—then no more. If the same two people meet again by chance, even years later, they pick up the friendship. This can be quite difficult for us Chinese to understand, because friendships between us flower more slowly but then may become lifelong feelings, extending (延伸) sometimes deeply into both families.
Americans are ready to receive us foreigners at their homes, share their holidays, and their home life. They will enjoy welcoming us and be pleased if we accept their hospitality (好客) easily, but truly can't manage the time to do a great deal with a visitor outside their daily routine. They will probably expect us to get ourselves from the airport to our own hotel by bus. And they expect that we will phone them from there. Once we arrive at their homes, the welcome will be full, warm and real. We will find ourselves treated hospitably.
Another difficult point for us Chinese to understand Americans is that although they include us warmly in their personal everyday lives, they don't show their politeness to us if it requires a great deal of time. This is usually the opposite of the practice in our country where we may be generous with our time. Sometimes, we, as hosts, will appear at airports even in the middle of the night to meet a friend. We may take days off to act as guides to our foreign friends. The Americans, however, express their welcome usually at homes,
For the Americans, it is often considered more friendly to invite a friend to their homes than to go to restaurants, except for pure business matters. So accept their hospitality at home!
1. Where are we expected to call our American friends if we go there by plane?A.On the bus. |
B.At the airport. |
C.Near their home. |
D.At our own hotel. |
A.Friendships between Americans usually last for all their lives. |
B.Americans always show their warmth even if they are very busy. |
C.Americans will continue their friendships again even after a long break. |
D.Friendships between Americans usually extend deeply into their families. |
A.Treating friends at home. |
B.Sharing everything they have. |
C.Taking days off to be with friends. |
D.Meeting friends at the airport at midnight. |
A.Americans' hospitality. |
B.The mobility of Americans. |
C.Friendships between Chinese. |
D.Americans' views of friendships. |
A.Culture. | B.News. | C.Story. | D.Travel |
【推荐2】Too many people want others to be their friends, but they don’t give friendship back. That is why some friendships do not last very long.
Honesty is where a good friendship starts.
Generosity means sharing and sharing makes a friendship grow. You do not have to give your lunch money or your clothes of course. Instead, you have to learn how to share things you enjoy, like your hobbies and your interests. Naturally you will want to share your feelings.
A.These can be very valuable to a friend. |
B.Not all people can enjoy a true friendship. |
C.Friends must be able to trust one another. |
D.No two friendships are ever exactly alike. |
E.To have a friend, you must learn to be one. |
F.Helping each other is the quality that everyone should possess. |
G.Sooner or later, everyone needs understanding and help with a problem. |
【推荐3】Among my oldest friends, I’m known as the mysterious one, the guy who rarely shows up, is always there not here. I had high school buddies, and I loved them all dearly though we boys didn’t say such things back then. Then life happened. Most of us left our hometown. Meet-ups become rare occasions.
One of those old friends, whom I had not seen since our high school graduation, reached out recently to say he’d be near where I am, and hoped we could meet up. He’d done the same thing about 10 years ago, and I’d begged off for some stupid reason related to my shyness, or rather, my introverted nature. I’m older and a bit wiser now, and I’ve been packing around some guilt over that missed opportunity for 10 years, so I agreed readily.
We met for dinner, perhaps two hours, and rarely had I felt at ease with other humans as I did with him. We talked and talked. About who we were then. Who we are now. And what made us the jerks (混蛋) we were then. We acknowledged that if not for each other, and the circles of good people we ran with back then, the good friends who kept us reasonably on track and in check, life could have easily gone south for either of us. Each of us recalled things the other had no memory of. Fragments of memories, scattered yet precious. We know we were tight then, and we value that friendship and shared experience still today.
People are fundamentally social beings and enjoy connecting with others. Maintaining social connections is good for our mental and physical health. However, despite the importance and enjoyment of social connection, people significantly underestimate how much others will appreciate being reached out to.
There’s something about the friends you make in youth that’s near impossible to recreate with friends you make later in life. I’m telling you this to remind you that your old friends would love to hear from you, maybe a simple text, a little hello, maybe even a phone call or a meetup.
1. The author refused the meet-up about 10 years ago probably because ______.A.he was not a sociable man. | B.he was not clever enough. |
C.he lived far away from his friends. | D.he felt guilty about his friends. |
A.Anxious and nervous. | B.Excited and energetic. |
C.Comfortable and relaxed. | D.Sad and regretful. |
A.They could have easily been off the track in life. |
B.They might have settled down in the southern region. |
C.Their friendship could have easily turned sour. |
D.They could have faced financial difficulties. |
A.To describe the author’s re union with an old friend. |
B.To reflect on the value of friendships formed in youth. |
C.To encourage readers to reach out to their old friends. |
D.To discuss the importance of social connections. |