How to accept change in life and embrace it positively
Change is the only constant in life.
Accept the situation
Changes happen expectedly and unexpectedly.
Embrace the unknown
Most of us are afraid of the unknown and therefore are resistant to change.
One of the reasons change is difficult to accept is because of the range of emotions we feel when we confront change.
A.Acknowledge your fears. |
B.Look at how far you have come. |
C.The sooner we learn to make peace with this fact, the better. |
D.We fear the unknown because anything can happen to us there. |
E.Expected or planned changes can buy us sometime for preparation. |
F.It’s important to embrace your feelings and accept that they are there. |
G.People who have experienced the loss of loved ones often talk about how that experience changed them. |
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【推荐1】There are different possibilities open to you when developing your journal theme. Some ideas for themed journals include:
●A gratitude (感激) journal
In this journal you record all the things for which you feel grateful each day, week, etc.
●A vacation journal
●An idea journal
In this journal you record all the ideas and inspirations (灵感) that flash into your mind at any time without warning, which you can take as an idea — storming resource when you have time.
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In this journal you record all the things that you think are special, wonderful, lovable, and memorable about your kids at different ages and stages. This is a great way to keep a record of those funny words, phrases, and comments made by kids.
●A transition (转型; 变迁) journal
In this journal you record the transition you’re going through. This type of journal can document changing patterns in your life, and it is useful to ask yourself such questions as “What do I enjoy and not enjoy?”, “
A.A child-raising journal |
B.Find the perfect place (or places) for writing in your journal. |
C.What do I expect for the future? |
D.In this journal you record more than just what you see on your vacation. |
E.And you note the people, animals, events, and things that really matter to you. |
F.Decide how you want to keep your journal, either on paper or in electronic form. |
G.The ideas can be for writing, for business, for play, for inventions and so on. |
【推荐2】Have you ever noticed what happens to an idea once you express it?Just talking about it or writing it down causes you to make it clear in your own mind.How can you use this to increase your brain power?Start writing.
By putting thoughts into words, you are telling yourself the logic(逻辑) behind what you think, feel, or only partly understand.Often, explaining a thought is the process of understanding.In other words, you increase your brain power by exercising your “explain power”.
Another benefit of writing is that it helps you remember.Many, if not most, highly productive(多产的;生产的) people are always taking notes.You can try keeping it all in your head, but if you keep a journal of your ideas the next time you’re working on a big project, you’ll probably have more success.
Want to understand a topic?Write a book about it.That’s an extreme example, but if you are learning something new, write a letter to a friend about it, and you will understand it better.Want to invent something?Write an explanation of the problem—why you want to solve it, and why it is worth solving, and you’re halfway there.
Writers don’t always write because they clearly understand something beforehand.Often, they write about something because they want to understand it.You can do the same.Writing will help bring you to an understanding.Give it a try.
1. What would be the best title for the passage?A.A Way on How to Write |
B.Increase Your Brain Power Through Writing |
C.Brain Power Helps Improve Your Writing |
D.How to Start Your Writing |
A.to increase your brain power |
B.to improve the ability to remember |
C.to develop your interest in study |
D.to strengthen the understanding of a topic |
A.has understood it very well |
B.needs to understand it better |
C.wants to remember it in his or her mind |
D.is testing his or her new ideas |
A.you are already successful |
B.there’s a long way for you to go to reach your goal |
C.you are left wondering what to do |
D.you have been on the way to success |
【推荐3】It’s practically a scene on American television. A baby is born. Friends and family offer their congratulations. But then, in the car from the hospital, a deep worry falls over the parents. “How in the world are we going to pay for college?”
It’s true that going to university abroad is a very expensive option. Tuition is much higher than at Chinese universities, and then there are the expenses for room and board.
Tuition at Harvard this year is around $46,000(¥318,700), but when you include student service fees, room, and board, that figure jumps to over S65, 000 a year.
Schools outside the US are a little bit less expensive on average, but they can still empty your wallet. Tuition at Oxford University is at least ¥136,500. The cost of Australia’s University of Melbourne varies a great deal depending on the discipline, but tuition alone will likely set students back ¥148, 500 a year.
These numbers can be really shocking, but don’t worry. Most universities have systems in place to help students pay for their education.
The first thing you should look into is whether or not you are fit for financial aid. While some universities don’t allow international students to apply for aid, many make no distinction.
While most financial aid is “need-based”, meaning that you have to demonstrate that your parents cannot afford to pay the full amount, there are also scholarships based on merit. If you are a math talent or a promising basketball player you might end up going to college free of charge.
Then, there are some scholarships that are designed specifically for Chinese students. The famous Freeman Scholarship at Wesleyan University, for example, is awarded to two Chinese students from Hong Kong and two from the mainland each year.
1. What do American parents often worry about, according to the first paragraph?A.Their children’s health after leaving the hospital. |
B.The stress their children will face at college. |
C.How to pay for their children’s college education. |
D.The future their children will have after college. |
A.International students are looked down upon at some universities. |
B.Some universities only offer financial aid to local students. |
C.International students can’t get financial aid at most universities. |
D.There are strict rules about financial aid for international students. |
A.Tony, an American who has applied for financial aid. |
B.Susan, a Chinese girl who is gifted in mathematics. |
C.Ann, a Japanese girl who plays music. |
D.Joe, a Canadian who plays basketball very well. |
A.School system in western countries. | B.College tuition cost at home and abroad. |
C.How to pay for the foreign college education? | D.How to apply for financial aid for local students? |