How to make new friends
We tend to make friends with people we cross paths with regularly: people we go to school with, work with, or live close to.
Meet new people
When looking to meet new people, try to open yourself up to new experiences. Not everything you try will lead to success but you can always learn from the experience and hopefully have some fun. Volunteering can be a great way to help others while also meeting new people.
Connect with your schoolfellow association
Many schools have schoolfellow associations that meet regularly. You already have the school experience in common.
Even if you’ve lived in the same place all your life, take the time to re-explore your neighborhood attractions. New arrivals to any town or city tend to visit these places first—and they’re often keen to meet new people and establish friendships, too.
Take a moment to unplug
It’s difficult to meet new people in any social situation if you’re more interested in your phone than the people around you.
A.Cheer on your team like a member |
B.Behave like someone new to your area |
C.Check with your library or local paper for events near you |
D.And bringing up old times makes for an easy conversation starter |
E.The more we see someone, the more likely a friendship is to develop |
F.Put your smartphone away while you’re waiting for a bus, for example |
G.It also gives you the opportunity to regularly develop your social skills |
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Find out what plants to get. Get plants that can grow in your area, and make sure you plant them at the right time of the year.
Buy your plants and fertilizers. You can either get seeds or get plant seedlings. Go to your local nursery and see what they have. Get fertilizer as well.
Plant your plants in the garden. Use a hand shovel and dig a small hole big enough to put your plant in. Water your plant before you put it in so you can wet the root ball. Sprinkle (撒) in a little bit of fertilizer and put your plant in.
For seeds, stick your finger into the dirt where you want to plant the seed until the dirt reaches the second joint on your finger.
A.Learn how to start a garden. |
B.Plan out your garden wisely. |
C.Make sure to get the right fertilizer for your plants. |
D.Some plants that need acidity are tomatoes and blueberries. |
E.You should grow and water them in spring if you want to have a good start. |
F.Then surround the plant with dirt and make a small circle around it for water. |
G.If you plant them too early or too late, they could freeze and die before you can harvest vegetables. |
【推荐2】How to Communicate with Confidence
Communicating with confidence is an important life skill. Whether you’re trying to persuade your friends to go to your restaurant of choice or writing an email to your boss asking for a raise, having confidence in yourself can make your life better.
Maintain good posture. Back straight, head up but relaxed is a good way to show confidence.
Identify and communicate your needs and wants.
Avoid nervous movements or “adjustments”. These telegraph your nervousness. Constantly adjusting your clothes, for instance, is distracting a listener or someone speaking directly to you.
Become a broken record.
A.Stand up for yourself. |
B.Write your remarks beforehand. |
C.Relax and listen to what the other person is saying. |
D.Be clear about what you are asking the other person. |
E.If you feel better, you will communicate with more confidence. |
F.You turn the criticism back onto yourself and show concern for them. |
G.Sometimes, a situation might call for constant repetition of a problem. |
【推荐3】In today's world, technology is a part of daily life. In order to keep civilization hand in hand with technological advances, and to understand the connected future they will have, children in schools have to be taught technical skills. But how can teachers integrate (使……融入)technology into their classroom? Here are a couple of ways.
Teach acceptance of connected learning. In the information age, it's only right to teach kids how to jump at connected learning.
Use a video chat system to teleconference. The idea of pen pals can be strengthened by video chat systems.
Develop a class wiki or blog. In order to help get your students active in class lessons, you can use a blog or wiki to make them comment on lessons, topics and current events. Students should also be allowed to create new posts about news or their thoughts.
Create a podcast (播客) for your class. Technology is always about being seen.
A.This is a great way to improve creative writing. |
B.You can also upload videos to a private channel. |
C.However, it's wrong to think it's only about being seen. |
D.This will show them how to solve complex math problems. |
E.This includes using technology as a tool or a way to learn new concepts. |
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G.These systems can also be used to connect with students from other classrooms that are far away. |
【推荐1】When you set a foot outside of your door to drop trash, go to a social event or go for a walk, thoughts like “I hope I don’t see anyone I know” or “please don’t talk to me” may run through your mind. I’ve also said such things to myself. Sometimes the last thing you want to do is to talk with someone, especially someone new.
Why do we go out of our ways to avoid people? Do we think meeting new people is a waste of time? Or are we just lazy, thinking that meeting someone new really is a trouble?
Communication is the key to life. We have been told that many times. Take the past generations, like our parents, for example. They seem to take full advantage of that whole “communication” idea because they grew up talking face to face while Generation-Y grew up staring at screens. We spend hours of our days sitting on Facebook. We send messages to our friends and think about all of the things we want to say to certain people and that we don’t have the courage to do in reality.
Nowadays, we are so caught up in our little circle of friends — our comfort zone. We love it that they laugh at our jokes, understand our feelings and can read our minds. Most importantly, they know when we want to be alone. They just get us.
Holding a conversation with someone new means agreeing with things that you don’t really believe and being someone you think they want you to be — it is, as I said before, a trouble. It takes up so much energy, and at some point or another, it is too tiring.
But meeting new people is important. Life is too short, so meet all the people you can meet, make the effort to go out and laugh. Remember, every “hello” leads to a smile — and a smile is worth a lot.
1. What do we learn about the author?A.He likes to meet someone new. |
B.He feels stressed out lately. |
C.He’s active in attending social events. |
D.He used to be afraid of talking to others. |
A.They are less confident in themselves. |
B.They rely on the Internet to socialize. |
C.They have difficulty in communicating. |
D.They are unwilling to make new friends. |
A.To stress the importance of friends. |
B.To encourage people to meet new people. |
C.To give tips on how to meet new people. |
D.To display the disadvantages of Generation-Y. |
【推荐2】In her essay Friends, Good Friends and Such Good Friends, Judith Viorst creates a number of categories(分类) for Friendships, for her, some friendships are based on convenience, some on current shared interests, some on past shared history, some on accidental crossing - of - paths, and on and on.
I have just two categories of friends.
The long-term, high-investment category is primarily made up of people I left behind when I moved to New Orleans.
A.And the only difference between the two is time and lots of work. |
B.Such classification by her is beyond me. |
C.The change takes just that Investment. |
D.In many ways, they are friends whose concern is only based on profit. |
E.These low-investment friendships are delightfully strong and serious at times. |
F.This is a firm and efficient group, whose numbers can be counted on one hand. |
G.Friends of the low-investment category are always trustworthy |
【推荐3】Friendships can enrich your life in many ways. Good friends teach you about yourself and challenge you to be better. They also have a positive impact on your health.
●Friends encourage healthy behaviors.
One possible explanation for those health benefits is that friendships can help you make lifestyle changes that can have a direct impact on your well-being. For example, your friends can help you set and maintain goals to eat better and exercise more.
●Friends give you emotional support.
Research also shows that happiness is contagious(有感染力的)among friends. One study of high school students found that those who were depressed were twice as likely to recover if they had happy friends.
●Friends help build your confidence.
Everyone has self-doubts and insecurities every now and then.
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Great friends have the power to mold(塑造)you into the best version of yourself. They see you and love you for who you truly are. They encourage you and push you to do better and be the person you want to be —your “ideal self”.
A.Friends push you to be your best |
B.So how do friendships contribute to your well-being |
C.If you find yourself going through a hard time |
D.Friends help you beat stress |
E.Parents can also help you cope with stressful situations |
F.Likewise, kids were half as likely to develop depression if their friends had a “healthy mood” |
G.But supportive friends can help you feel confident by offering praise when you’re feeling unsure |