Twelve-year-old Catherine has a lot of friends—632, actually, if you count up her online friends. And she spends a lot of time with them.
But is it possible that Catherine’s online friendships could be making her lonely? That’s what some experts believe. Connecting online is a great way to stay in touch, they say. However, some experts worry that many kids are so busy connecting online that they might be missing out on true friendships.
Could this be true? During your parents’ childhoods, connecting with friends usually meant spending time with them in the flesh. Kids played Scrabble around a table, not words with friends on their phones. When friends missed each other, they picked up the telephone. Friends might even write letters to each other.
Today, most communication takes place online. A typical teen sends 2,000 texts a month and spends more than 44 hours per week in front of a screen. Much of this time is spent on social media platform.
In fact, in many ways, online communication can make friendships stronger. “There’s definitely a positive influence. Kids can stay in constant contact, which means they can share more of their feelings with each other,” says Katie Davis, co-author of The App Generation.
Other experts, however, warn that too much online communication can get in the way of forming deep friendships. “If we are constantly checking in with our virtual world, we will have little time for our real-world friendships,” says Larry Rosen, a professor at California State University. Rosen also worries that today’s kids might mistake the “friends” on the social media for true friends in life. However, in tough times, you don’t need anyone to like your picture or share your blogs. You need someone who will keep your secrets and hold your hand. You would like to talk face to face.
1. What is the purpose of the first paragraph?A.To tell about true friends. | B.To start a discussion. |
C.To encourage online friendships. | D.To summarize(总结) the text. |
A.In any case. | B.In public. | C.In person. | D.In advance. |
A.Unconcerned. | B.Positive. | C.Worried. | D.Confused. |
A.Teenagers need to focus on real-world friendships. | B.It’s easier to develop friendships in real life. |
C.It’s wise to turn to friends online. | D.Social media help people stay closely connected. |
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【推荐1】Eve was having a party! She had been given a karaoke set for her birthday, so she invited all her friends round for a special competition evening. The best singer would win a prize of a huge box of her delicious cookies.
Everyone came along: Helen, Jane, and Peter, who looked a bit nervous. "Don't worry, Peter. We're only here to have some fun," said Eve kindly. Jane was first up on stage(舞台). The minute she began to sing, everyone could tell she'd been practicing! Next, it was Helen's turn. Her voice was not as strong as Jane's, but she had a great sense of rhythm(节奏) and seemed to enjoy being on stage. All the girls took their turn singing. There were a few wrong notes, but all in all, everyone had a wonderful time.
"Come on, Peter. It's your go now!" said the girls. But Peter shook his head. "No, thanks. I'd be totally hopeless!" he said. "If you like, we can sing together. It won't be as scary(可怕的)that way!" offered Eve. Peter gave in. He and Eve shared the microphone(话筒) and they began to sing a rock song. At first, you could hardly hear the voice of the shy boy but slowly, encouraged by his friends, he forgot his stage nervousness. Soon, Peter was holding the microphone on his own and singing his heart out! His singing was a bit off-key(走调的), but he made up for that by his performance. He danced around the stage like a real rock star!
At the end of the song, the girls all cheered. Eve stepped forward and handed him the big box of homemade cookies. "Peter, we all agree that you've won the prize!" she said. "OK, you may not exactly sing like an angel, but you really know how to put on a show!"
1. Which can best describe the girls' performance?A.Perfect. | B.Worrying. |
C.Quite poor. | D.Generally good. |
A.The girls asked her to do so. | B.There was no other microphone. |
C.It could help fight Peter's nervousness. | D.Peter was too nervous to hold the microphone. |
A.He had the best voice. | B.He loved eating cookies. |
C.He helped the girls a lot. | D.He held the stage very well. |
【推荐2】My first day of high school was like any other first day: registering, finding new classmates, meeting new teachers, and seeking new friends.
During lunch, I ran into my first snag (小困难) of the day. At the dining hall, as the checkout (付款处) lady asked for my money, I realized that I had forgotten my lunch money. When I told her about it, I heard a voice behind me. I turned around and there stood a teacher telling he would pay for my lunch. He told me his name, Mr. Peter Walker, and said, “If you get a chance, you should take my history class.” I recognized his name, and told him I was in his class later that day. Mr. Walker made friends with me on the very first day of school at a very crucial time of the day —lunch!
He always told us we should do more than we ever thought. He pushed us to do all things better. He coached many sports, and sponsored many after-class activities. If we were interested in something, he would find a way to expose us to it by inviting speakers, taking us on field trips, or obtaining information for us.
Two years later, my junior year in school was clicking along nicely when one day I was riding my motorcycle and I was hit by a car. I spent six days in hospital and was at home in bed for two weeks before returning to school. Mr. Walker stopped by the hospital each day with my work from my teachers. Once I was at home, he would bring my work too.
After high school, I attended the United States Army Airborne School in Fort Benning, Georgia. I knew my parents would be there the day I graduated, but they brought an unexpected guest. They came across Mr. Walker at lunch several days before and told him I was about to graduate. His visit, however, was not a surprise to me.
1. At the dining hall, ______.A.the lady didn’t want to charge the author for his lunch |
B.the author knew Mr. Walker was right behind him |
C.Mr. Walker didn’t know the author was his student |
D.the author decided to invite Mr. Walker to lunch |
A.caring | B.strict | C.skilled | D.learned |
A.His parents met Mr. Walker by chance. |
B.His family invited Mr. Walker to lunch. |
C.Mr. Walker brought an unexpected guest. |
D.His parents came together with Mr. Walker. |
A.The author had invited Mr. Walker to his graduation ceremony. |
B.The author’s parents had informed him of Mr. Walker’s visit. |
C.Mr. Walker had a very close relationship with his students. |
D.Mr. Walker went to visit the author frequently. |
【推荐3】Farah was sitting in the kitchen going over the party list with her mother. The exams were over and Farah wanted to invite her friends for a party.
“Farah, aren't you going to invite Hafsa?” her mother asked. Hafsa had been her best friend since childhood.
“Mother, you know I am now a part of Purple Girls Club and we have some rules about people we can be friends with,” Farah answered.
“Really? And what are the rules?” her mother asked.
“Well, only very pretty girls can be part of our group. And Hafsa is so ... you know ... dark.”
“I cannot believe it,” her mother said angrily.
As Farah left the kitchen, her father called her from the living room. Farah went to her father and paled when she saw the exam report in his hands. “Farah, what has happened to your grades? You have failed in Mathematics,” her father said. Farah had no answer. The truth was that the activities of Purple Girls Club left her with very little time for studies. “Farah, it says that you can take part in supplementary exams. If your grades don't improve then, I'll cancel your trip to Spain.” Farah went to her room and called Gina, the leader of Purple Girls Club, “Gina, can you help me to complete my notes before the exams?” Gina laughed. “Exams? Who cares about exams?”
One by one, she called her friends in the club but no one seemed to care or wanted to help. Farah knew Hafsa would help her. Farah also knew Hafsa had been hurt by her, but Hafsa said, “If you need any help, just let me know. We can study together till your exams.” Next Monday, as two friends entered the school together, Gina called out. “Farah, you know our rules. You cannot be friends with those who do not belong to our club.”
“Gina, I have a new rule about friendship,” Farah replied.
1. After Farah became a member of Purple Girls Club, she chose a friend according to a person's ____.A.looks | B.usual activities | C.grades | D.favorite colors |
A.he didn't allow her to go to Spain | B.she didn't do well in her exams |
C.she had to leave Purple Girls Club | D.he asked her to improve her grades |
A.A friend in need is a friend indeed. | B.A perfect friend will never be found. |
C.Be slow in choosing a friend. | D.Friendship can be developed easily. |
【推荐1】One of the biggest worries we have is that we’re not getting enough hours of sleep, which means that we’re doomed to (命中注定) bad health, everything from high blood pressure to Alzheimer’s disease. But there are two disadvantages with this kind of messaging.
The first is that it is not completely accurate. Seven to eight hours of sleep, while recommended for adults, is just an average. And while messages have to be simplified for health communication to the public, sometimes important nuances (细微差别) get lost. It’s true that not getting enough sleep in the long term is associated with health problems like cardiovascular disease, diabetes and depression. But focusing only on seven to eight hours ignores the fact that there’s a range of sleep that people need. Some adults need eight, but some are just fine on six.
The second error with this kind of messaging is that it can be counterproductive (适得其反的), especially for people who do have trouble sleeping. For instance, it was estimated that 21 percent of adults in the US were wearing sleep tracking devices. It’s fascinating to see how much sleep you’ve gotten each night and what part of your night was spent in deep sleep. But having all of that sleep data is causing some people to become addicted to it; so much so that it’s leading to a condition some call orthosomnia (完美睡眠主义), which is causing more sleep problems.
So stop focusing on the number because that can lead to unrealistic expectations of sleep. The basic questions you should ask yourself are: Do I generally sleep through the night without disturbances? If I wake, do I fall back asleep easily? Can I stay awake through the day without unconsciously falling asleep? If your answers are yes, there’s no need to worry about your sleep. If you’re struggling with your sleep, instead of buying expensive sleep trackers, try talking with your doctor to make sure there aren’t any medical conditions that need to be explored first and accept necessary therapies when advised.
1. Which is a reason that the text discusses why we should stop worrying about sleep?A.High-tech sleeping monitoring devices are just a fraud. |
B.The existing scientific researches are not reliable at all. |
C.Such worries may work against improving sleeping quality. |
D.A lack of sleep would not cause any physical health problems. |
A.The specific definition of high blood pressure. |
B.Messages concerning the time we should sleep. |
C.The correlation between sleep and various diseases. |
D.Worries that people possess due to sleep problems. |
A.Supportive. | B.Indifferent. | C.Pessimistic. | D.Curious. |
A.Try to become a habitual self-examinator. |
B.Treat your sleep issues with proper actions. |
C.Always remember to seek help from doctors. |
D.Say “no” to any products about personal health. |
【推荐2】The Ministry of Public Security has exposed a video that sparked a nationwide search after it was universally viewed on social media.
The video, describing homework booklets supposedly lost by a Chinese first grader in Paris, was revealed to be a carefully crafted play for online attention. The local ministry also presented details of 10 relevant highly-concerned cases, highlighting the Paris homework incident as a typical example.
The video was uploaded in February by a blogger surnamed Xu, from Zhejiang province. It showed a Parisian restaurant worker supposedly returning homework found in a restroom. The video said the homework belonged to Qin Lang from Class Eight, without specifying the school. That sparked a social media craze, with many netizens attempting to locate the child.
However, the narrative quickly unfolded. A user claiming to be Qin Lang’s uncle appeared in the comments section. Following investigations revealed the person making the comment, a person surnamed Yang from Jiangsu province, was another participant in the play to gain online attention and was not related to Xu.
Further investigation by authorities exposed the entire act. Police discovered that Xu, along with her company director scripted the video, purchased a homework booklet online and staged the entire scene.
Facing administrative punishments and demands for public apologies, Xu admitted her initial lack of “legal awareness” but expressed regret for the widespread attention and disturbance caused by the video. Her social media accounts, with millions of followers across many platforms, have been canceled.
In December, the ministry launched a nationwide campaign against online rumors, targeting individuals who spread rumors, fake news or utilize trending topics for personal gain. Law enforcement authorities will increasingly monitor major social media, live-streaming and short video platforms to identify and address malicious(恶意的) online activity.
1. What do we learn about the video?A.It received fairly limited views. |
B.It recorded a genuine incident happened in Paris. |
C.It was a rare case that showed little relevance to others. |
D.It was uploaded mainly for widespread online attention. |
A.They showed no interest in it. |
B.They paid enthusiastic attention to it. |
C.They accused the blogger of her inappropriate behavior. |
D.They made fun of Qin Lang and located him immediately. |
A.She canceled all her social media accounts actively. |
B.She admitted her mistake and expressed sincere regret. |
C.She apologized to Qin Lang and sent his homework back. |
D.She cooperated with another member to comment on the video. |
A.Many activities will be launched to resist online rumors. |
B.Spreading rumors online emerges as a universal phenomenon recently. |
C.Many people follow the trend blindly for entertainment and personal gain. |
D.Relevant administrations will strengthen their efforts to control the spread of online rumors. |
【推荐3】A new study published this week in the journal Nature Communications has concluded that a 100 percent change to organic (有机的) food production in England and Wales would actually lead to a great increase in greenhouse gas emissions (排放). In turn, this would contribute to further climate change.
Although organic farming directly pours out fewer emissions than conventional farming—around 20 percent lower for crops and 4 percent for farm animals—it produces notably less food. As to this study’s findings, total organic agriculture in England and Wales would produce 40 percent less food. With less food in the market, the countries would need to increase food imports, which would produce more global greenhouse gas emissions.
Organic farming also increases the amount of absorbing carbon, a process where carbon dioxide (CO2) is “absorbed” out of the atmosphere and captured by plants and stored in the soil. However, even a total change to organic farming would only be equal to a tiny part of the higher emissions from overseas land use.
“We predict a drop in total food production of 40 percent under a fully organic farming process, compared to conventional farming, if we keep to the same national diet,” Dr Adrian Williams, lead author and reader in Agri-Environmental Systems at Cranfield University, said in a statement. “This results from lower crop quantity, because output is limited by a lower supply of nitrogen, which is mainly from other crops or solid waste from cattle on the grassland.”
Nevertheless, it is important to note that organic farming still holds some useful benefits for the environment, such as reducing exposure to chemicals and improving the varieties of creatures. In conclusion, the study suggests that organic farming will continue to play a key role in resolving the world’s environmental problems. However, it’s just one part of a much wider solution.
1. What will total organic agriculture bring to England?A.More main food. | B.More species crop. |
C.More food imports. | D.More fresh oxygen. |
A.By taking in CO2. | B.By changing CO2. |
C.By giving off CO2. | D.By producing CO2. |
A.The ways to reduce organic farming. | B.The results caused by organic farming. |
C.The solution to the environment problems. | D.The advantages of organic farming. |
A.Organic farming, green food | B.Organic farming, our hope in future |
C.Organic farming, a mistake we made | D.Organic farming, a double-edged sword |
【推荐1】Like most people in their 20s, I almost never talked to older people before last year. Then the pandemic began. Laid off from my staff job, I started freelancing (从事自由职业). Stringing together stories for the “70 Over 70” newspaper, I found myself mostly talking to people over 80.
For me this may have been a professional accident, but I can’t recommend the experience highly enough. The old have been uniquely affected by the pandemic. They’ve lost some of their last years of life. But they still manage to feel wonder and an energetic curiosity, when so many of us feel anxious and lost.
As I’ve interviewed seniors over the past year, my conversations have taught me equanimity — basically, how to be cooler-minded. Donalda McGeachy, a 101-year-old living in a nursing home, told me, the pandemic may be bad, but it’s been only 18 months. That's nothing compared with the loneliness and uncertainty she experienced during the six years of World War II. These conversations have also encouraged me to avoid regret. Peter and Sjanna Leighton married and divorced in their 20s, then found each other again in their 50s and remarried. For them, regret over the shared decades they lost comes with the miraculous (不可思议的) happiness of their remaining time together. And these conversations have reminded me about the genuine joy of putting in effort and taking pride in your work: Travis Mayes spent years struggling to develop his brisket (胸脯肉) recipe and prove himself to his Dallas-area customers. Now the self-described “barbecue man of Garland” won’t stop just because he’s approaching 80.
When we’re young, we hear that we’re supposed to turn to our elders for advice. But the elders I talk to have no patience for polished proverbs about how to build a meaningful life. Instead, the lesson I take from them is: to enjoy what’s wonderful.
1. What can we infer about the author from the text?A.She’s a freelance journalist. | B.She’s a published writer. |
C.She’s a professional caregiver | D.She’s a popular cook. |
A.Joy | B.Grace. | C.Calm. | D.Curiosity. |
A.Considerate and demanding. | B.Ambitious and hard-working. |
C.Caring and generous. | D.Proud and outstanding. |
A.To remember the three seniors. | B.To show her passion for work. |
C.To share a valuable lesson with readers. | D.To introduce the influence of the pandemic |
【推荐2】There have been a number of occasions through the years that I had to sit at the feet of a theologian (神学家).Some of those times, I came away wondering what on earth the man was talking about. That was not the case when I heard Dr. Randy Harris. He suggested that a lot of our day-to-day problems in the world be solved by simply keeping our promises. Too many people do not take such matters seriously. Are you serious in keeping your promises?
Some of my most anxious moments in over a half-century of ministry have come as a result of carelessness in failing to keep my word. Preachers (传道士) can say a lot of requests on any given Sunday. I have been asked to make hospital visits, write letters of recommendation(推荐), put people’s names on the prayer list, read books, make telephone calls, remember birthdays and anniversaries, come to special events, and put announcements in the church bulletin (公告).There was a time when I would foolishly agree to fulfill each request. I had the best of intentions, but I could not remember all I had agreed to do, much less find a way to do them all! Did I think I was “Super-Preacher”? The sad look of disappointed faces taught me that I was not. I hurt people, and they deserved better.
The Hebrew word of covenant (契约) means primarily “a cutting”. It refers to the custom of cutting an animal in half and having the parties making promises pass between the two halves. They were saying to each other, “If I don’t keep my word, may I be as this animal--be cut in two.”
If butchering (屠宰) were the result of breaking our word today, how many of us would be headed for the death? I think that, although we are not cut like animals for our failures to keep promises, there are serious results connected with our carelessness. It ruins our character and our reputation.
What can we do? It is simple. Stop making promises we cannot keep. Reduce promise lists, and be sure to carry out the commitments that remain on it. If after giving our word, we are unable to keep the appointment or whatever, inform and apologize as soon as possible.
Last weekend, I stood with a dressed-up couple at a wedding in another county. They made some serious promises to each other in a covenant of marriage. They made vows to be faithful to each other for as long as they live. I pray God that they will keep those vows and be an example for others to follow.
1. From the second paragraph we can learn that the author________.A.lives a life of religious service | B.dislikes making any promise |
C.is a famous and busy theologian | D.likes to recommend jobs for others |
A.show butchering is cruel |
B.explain the meaning of covenant |
C.express his disappointment with old customs |
D.show breaking one’s promises is terrible |
A.upset | B.concerned |
C.sad | D.uneasy |
【推荐3】Just the other day, I was in a bookshop and found a book named How to Make Friends with Foreigners. Naturally, as a foreigner who has been living in China for a year, I was curious to see what kind of advice a Chinese writer was giving on this matter.
One piece of advice really caught my attention and, I must say, made me feel quite annoyed. In the writer’s opinion, foreigners are an “opportunity” to improve your oral English; whenever you see a foreigner, you should practise speaking English with him or her. The writer goes on to say that if the foreigner doesn’t want to answer your questions, then he or she is a rude person who you wouldn’t want to spend time with anyway. I think this advice is not only incorrect, but also potentially (潜在的) damaging to the relations between Chinese and foreigners in China.
Like most other “Lao Wai” living in China, I know how lonely one can sometimes feel living within a culture far removed from our own familiar ways. However, most of the time this cultural isolation (孤独) is something I simply accept as part of being here. So far my time in China has been very rewarding. I have improved my Chinese language skills, learned about one of the most swiftly developing countries in the world today and made some very close Chinese friends.
Unfortunately, I have also come across many Chinese people who view me purely as an “opportunity” to improve their oral English under the guise (伪装) of making friends. I have experienced the situation where people followed me from town to my college flat and then harassed (骚扰) me to teach them English or practise English with them. I have had complete strangers throwing articles or speeches in my face, insisting that I help them with the English translation. I have had people asking me to help with immigration applications to other countries. All of these people claimed at the time that what they mainly wanted was to make friends with me. There was even one person at the weekly English Corner that I run at college who, after asking me non-stop questions for half an hour, became very angry when I politely asked him to give other people a chance to speak. He puffed himself up like a peacock and informed me that he was simply trying to be my friend.
He may well have thought he was trying to be my friend, but it’s absolutely not a polite way to build friendships by pestering another person. Friendship for a lot of westerners is about spending time with someone whose company you genuinely (真正的) enjoy. It’s not about opportunities or personal advantages. The Chinese friends I have made while living here have been genuine friends to me; we enjoy each other’s company for its own sake. In this way, we’ve not only learned a good deal about each other’s culture but also about each other as individuals.
So if there is any advice to give on making and keeping friendships with foreigners, I would say that it is this: Treat foreigners as people, not opportunities. Expect to make friendships gradually, over a period of time, not instantly. Don’t burden foreigners with lots and lots of different questions. At times, this approach appears confusing and unnatural.
Finally, I would suggest that if you really want to make friends with a foreigner, then you do so because you are genuinely interested in the person. We all know that true friendships stand the test of time. If your only reason for becoming friends with a foreigner is to improve your English, then you will probably find that you don’t have a foreign friend for long!
1. Why is the author unhappy about the book How to Make Friends with Foreigners?A.Because the book is written by a Chinese. |
B.Because the book is sold at a small bookshop. |
C.Because the book sees foreigners as opportunities to improve one’s English. |
D.Because the book can’t understand how lonely foreigners are in China. |
A.I find my life in China happy and useful |
B.I don’t like my stay in China |
C.I’ve wasted so much time in China |
D.I can’t control my time while living in China |
A.Foreigners are good opportunities for us to practise our oral English. |
B.We can ask them to fill in application forms for us at any time. |
C.Foreigners are different from us, and we can make friends with them instantly. |
D.If I want to make friends with a foreigner, it’s only because I enjoy his/her company. |
A.He is a foreigner doing business in China for a year. |
B.He is a foreign teacher working in China for a year. |
C.He is a foreigner doing business in China for two years. |
D.He is a foreign teacher working in China for two years. |