A At a recent visit to the beautiful Keukenhof flower gardens in Holland, I learned about the practice of topping.As flowers grow, sometimes the growers cut off the tops of the flowers, which they believe causes the plants to invest more energy into flower growth and less into seed production.The expected result is flower buds that will produce higher quality flowers.
This is the same with personal growth.Sometimes when we produce first results in a certain area, it can be helpful to cut them off and throw them away.This can free up energy for a stronger attempt elsewhere instead of settling into the comfort zone of satisfaction with the old results.
After running my computer games business for 10 years and getting satisfying results with it, I decided to drop it and leave that field behind.This freed up my energy to focus on my personal development writing and speaking.If I'd kept running the old business, this would have meant less energy to invest in my new path.
It can be difficult to choose the topping approach because you're taking something that's already reasonably satisfying and cutting it out of your life, in the hopes that something even better will grow in its place.
Do you want to settle where you are right now? If so, then topping is unnecessary.But if you'd like to do better and believe you have a good shot at improvement, just like the flower growers at Keukenhof, then topping is a sensible practice.To free up time and energy for future growth in new directions, you have to drop the merely satisfactory.This gives you a shot at the truly beautiful.
Stepping outside of your comfort zone is by definition an uncomfortable experience, but it can result in a lot more growth than staying put.Though dropping satisfaction to go for more growth is not an easy path to follow, I do find it to be the more beautiful path.
1. By using metaphor(比喻), the author means that the tops of flowers are ________.
A.personal growth |
B.his writing and speaking |
C.a stronger attempt elsewhere |
D.the first results we produce in a certain area |
A.you are good at improving |
B.you are fond of improving |
C.you have a strong ability to improve |
D.you have a good chance to improve |
A.settle where they are |
B.drop the truly beautiful |
C.step out of their comfort zone |
D.get rid of the uncomfortable experience |
A.Flower Gardens in Holland |
B.Comfort or Growth |
C.Personal Development |
D.The Topping Approach |
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【推荐1】This article is for you if you have ever asked yourself, “How do I start believing in myself?” Everyone falls into a situation where we don’t have as much belief in ourselves as we used to.
Practice Loving Yourself
You have to find confidence in yourself first.
Treat Yourself the Way You Treat Others
Feed Your Spirit
Feed your mind with interesting and positive topics. Ask respected colleagues how self-belief leads them to become the person they are today and read books about topics that will help you figure out your next steps in life and how to be confident. All of these things may seem small,
Accept That You Are Not Perfect
It’s hard for many people to admit that they aren’t perfect. Life is going to be tough at times.
A.A few great tips can help you out |
B.but they deserve your time and attention |
C.Believe it or not, self-love leads to self-belief |
D.Struggle to get up yourself and move forward |
E.but they will make a difference to your mind and spirit |
F.Optimism will help them handle the harder things and move forward. |
G.You wouldn’t usually tell your best friends they are worthless or a failure |
【推荐2】A long time ago, there was a seed and because it was only a seed, nobody noticed it. Thus, feeling inferior (低级的), the seed gave no importance to his existence (存在).
Then one day, a wind picked him up and threw him on an open field under the sun. Later, he was given rain. Years later he saw a traveler sitting by his side. "Thank you God for this. I really needed some rest," he heard the traveler say.
"What are you talking about?" the seed quickly asked. He thought the man was making fun of him. No one ever spoke to him like that.
"Who just spoke?" the shocked man asked.
"It is me. A seed."
"A seed?" The man looked at the big tree. "Are you joking? You are not a seed. You are a big tree!"
"Really?"
"Yes! Why else do you think people come here?"
"What do they come here for?"
"To feel your shade (树阴)! Don’t tell me you didn’t know you had grown over time."
A moment passed before the traveler’s words brought him pride.
The seed thought and smiled for the first time in his life. The years of torture (折磨) by the sun and the rain finally helped him grow up.
"Oh! That means I’m not a little seed anymore! I was actually born to make people feel comfortable. Wow! That’s great!"
1. The seed didn’t realize the importance of his existence because __________.A.nobody looked after him | B.he didn’t believe in himself |
C.he was such a small seed | D.he was thrown into the open air |
A.have a rest and enjoy the shade | B.thank God for offering him a tree |
C.escape from the rain | D.talk with the big tree |
A.tell readers a very encouraging story | B.praise the seed for his strength |
C.teach readers a lesson: Don’t laugh at others | D.tell readers that you should never lose hope |
【推荐3】We all have defining moments in our lives ---- meaningful experiences that stand out in our memory. Many of them owe a great deal to chance: a lucky encounter(相遇) with someone who becomes the love of your life. A new teacher who spots a talent you didn’t know you had. These moments seem to be the product of fate or luck. We can’t control them.
But is that true? No necessarily. Defining moments shape our lives, but we don’t have to wait for them to happen. We can be the authors of them. It is possible to create defining moments if we understand more about them. Our research shows that they all share a set of common elements. We start by asking: why do we remember certain experiences and forget others? In the case of big days, such as weddings, the answer is pretty clear----it’s a celebration that is grand in scale and rich in emotion. No surprise that it’s more memorable than a maths lesson. But for other experiences in life ----from holidays to work projects----it’s not so clear why we remember what we do.
Consider an experiment in which participants were asked to submerge(浸入) their hands for 60 seconds in buckets filled with 14℃ water. (Remember 14℃ water feels much colder than 14℃ air.) They were then asked to submerge their hands for 90 seconds instead of 60, but during the final 30 seconds, the water warmed up to 15℃. The participants were then given a choice: would you rather repeat the first trial or the second?
Psychologists have explained the reasons for this puzzling result. When people assess an experience, they tend to forget or ignore its length. Instead, they seem to rate the experience based on two key moments: the best or worst moment, known as the peak, and the ending.
In the participants’ memories, what stood out for them was that the longer trial ended more comfortably than the shorter one. So when we assess our experiences, we don’t average our minute-by-minute feelings. Rather, we tend to remember flagship moments: the peaks, the pits(低谷) and the transitions. What we don’t remember are the bits in between----sometimes there is little to distinguish one week from the next.
Partly this is because there may be only a dozen moments in your life that show who you are----those are big defining moments. But there are smaller experiences, too, in the context of a memorable holiday, romantic date or work achievement. Once we understand how we remember certain moments and why, we can start to create more moments that matter.
1. How does the author understand defining moments?A.We can create defining moments in our lives. |
B.Defining moments are just out of our control. |
C.No similarities exist between defining moments. |
D.Defining moments consist of smaller experiences. |
A.the striking moments are more likely to be remembered. |
B.the length of an experience determines our memory of it |
C.it is meaningful to distinguish the bits in between flagship moments. |
D.all the components of an experience should be equally remembered |
A.What to prepare for life’s trials. |
B.Why to create defining moments. |
C.Whom to owe our good fates to. |
D.How to create life’s big moments. |
【推荐1】It’s been two years since I came to Helsinki, and while I have already forgotten my confusion about street names, in my mind the structure of it is still forming. There are stages of adjustment to a new place — from loving all the new to hating just about everything — but feeling settled can take a while.
I consider New York City my second hometown. You fight your way into NYC. It isn’t easy. It isn’t cheap. It isn’t particularly friendly, at least until you’re used to a four-letter word as part of a compliment. So when I got to Helsinki, I was suspicious(怀疑的)of how easy it was(aside from the street names). People were friendly and nice.
Aside from the coffee and the cost of living, Helsinki and New York don’t have much in common; but I was born in the US Midwest, which was heavily influenced by Nordic immigrants(移民), so as foreign as it was, parts of Finnish life seemed familiar.
Still, I missed New York. I visited it last year, and went to my old coffee cart(咖 啡车), still in the same place. Although it was 2019, my mind insisted that it was 2007and I had never left. Or, I did: cities change, bit by bit, day by day, so slowly that they always seem the same, when you close your eyes for twelve years, even if everything looks the same when you open them, it isn’t. The slang(俚语)is slightly different; there are references to a TV show I’ve never seen.
In my mind, this was home. It was the place I saw when I dreamt of my childhood, long after I left it; and now I am the same as the tourists. So I get back on the plane to Finland. I’m leaving the ghost behind to return to a place where I’m real, and that is itself changing, bit by bit, day by day.
1. We can know from the passage that _____ .A.it took the authors some time to adapt to Helsinki |
B.the author has lived in Helsinki for many years |
C.the author is tired of everything in Helsinki now |
D.the author has never returned to New York since she left |
A.found people there were not friendly |
B.was confused about street names |
C.thought it was easy to praise people using four-letter words |
D.thought the life in Helsinki was harder than that in New York |
A.Because her birthplace was affected by Nordic’ immigrants. |
B.Because Finland has the same coffee as her hometown. |
C.Because the cost of living in Finland is the same as that of her hometown. |
D.Because Helsinki and New York have much in common. |
A.A place where I was born |
B.A place where I worked |
C.A place that I visited |
D.A place where I am real |
Not long ago a packet of matches flared up(骤然烧起) in his hand. Luckily the burn was not serious. It caused large blisters(水泡) but still did not bother him. He said the burn felt like a fly crawling(在……上爬行) on his fingers. It has been the same story as far back as he can remember. He has never had headaches or sore(疼痛的) muscles. Bee stings, cuts and bruises(疼痛的) do not hurt.
Being free from pain is not as wonderful as you may think. The young man has had to have rotted teeth pulled because he never felt toothache warnings. A sudden attack of appendicitis(阑尾炎) could be deadly. Life without pain is as risky as trying to run a cruise ship without fire alarms.
1. In the final sentence, the writer uses “fire alarms” to mean ________.
A.loud noises that a person hears |
B.a signal that something is wrong |
C.heat warnings |
D.the ability to smell smoke |
A.fire can cause serious injuries |
B.life is happier without pain |
C.teeth can be pulled painlessly |
D.pain serves a useful purpose |
A.he did not know his teeth were decaying |
B.he did not take care of his teeth properly |
C.he did not like to visit the dentist |
D.he was born with soft teeth |
【推荐3】I’ve been teaching college for many years, long enough to note the steady relaxation of attention in matters of student dress. I’ve long been used to the torn jeans, shorts in the dead of the Maine winter, and ball caps worn backward. Still, I took note recently when one of my students showed up in sleep bottoms. I’m familiar with the school of thought that says how students dress is irrelevant, so long as they’re learning. But I also wonder about the wisdom of blurring(模糊) the line between bed and desk.
I smile when I think back on the occasions that my parents associated us with needing to look tidy and neat. Once, when I was 14 and my brother 12, my father announced that he was taking us into Manhattan (just a subway ride away) to see the film “2001: A Space Odyssey.” My brother and I were excited by the proposal, but were momentarily upset when my father directed us to put on our best clothes, including jackets and ties. “But why?” I begged, not wanting to change out of my comfortable jeans, T-shirt, and sneakers.
“Because,” he said, “we’re going to New York.”
I can still see the stars in his eyes as he said these words.
So yes, I’m all for freedom of choice in matters of dress, and yes, I do want my students to be comfortable. But I also want to pay my respects to those students who believe that appearance counts.
I think of the woman – a somewhat older student—I had in class a few years ago. She was someone to whom science did not come easily: She worked hard for respectable grades on every assignment. But I was struck by how tastefully she dressed, day after day. When the course ended, I took a moment to mention this to her. “You always looked so nice,” I remarked. “As if you were ready to take on the world.
She answered, as if it were obvious, “I’ve waited 12 years to return to school, and I dress up to remind myself to be serious about it.”
And, I might add, she seemed perfectly comfortable to me.
1. What kind of feeling is expressed in Paragraph 1?A.Excitement. | B.Curiosity. | C.Sympathy. | D.Discontent. |
A.He valued a sense of ceremony in life. | B.He liked wearing comfortable clothes. |
C.He always thought highly of himself. | D.He was a regular movie-goer. |
A.She achieved high grades easily. | B.She showed great talent for science. |
C.She pursued knowledge at an old age. | D.She attached great importance to her dress. |
A.You are what you wear. | B.Never judge a man by his appearance. |
C.You are never too old to learn. | D.Treat each day like a special day. |