When I was in high school, I read etiquette manuals(礼仪手册). No one noticed my politeness except for one kid. He yelled at me about it. “It’s strange that you are always so polite,” he said. I took that as praise and made a note to hide my politeness further. Real politeness, I believed, was invisible(看不见的). It adapted itself to the situation.
Politeness leaves door open. I’ve met so many people whom, if I had trusted my first impressions, I would never have wanted to meet again. Yet many of them are now great friends. One of those people is my wife. On our first date, she told me in detail that she had an operation to remove a cyst(囊肿) from her body. Of course, it killed the chemistry. But when I walked her home, I told her I’d had a great time. We talked a little after that. I kept everything pleasant and brief. Much later, I learned that she’d been having a very bad day in a very bad year.
People silently suffer from all kinds of terrible things. The good thing about politeness is you can regard these people exactly the same and wait to see what happens. You don’t have to have an opinion. You don’t need to make a judgment.
Last week, my two-year-old son, Abraham met a foreign woman in the playground. Out of curiosity, I suppose, he asked, “What’s your name?” The woman told him. Then he put out his little hand and said, “Nice to meet you!” Everyone laughed and he smiled. He shared with his firmest handshake, like I taught him.
1. Why do many people think the author is impolite?
A.Because he doesn’t look polite. |
B.Because he seldom says polite words. |
C.Because he doesn’t listen to others politely. |
D.Because he doesn’t behave politely towards strangers. |
A.The author’s good mangers. |
B.The author’s strange behavior. |
C.The author always making notes. |
D.The author reading etiquette manuals. |
A.It can help people make friends. |
B.It can keep everything pleasant. |
C.It can be good for people’s health. |
D.It can give people second chances. |
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【推荐1】Andrew Baldock and his friend Jason Baird decided to wear Spider-Man suits for the daily jog to cheer up locked-down children in their town, Stockport. They never expected such a huge response. The “Stockport Spider-Men” had soon achieved global levels of fame, making headlines from India to Canada.
“We were promoting staying home, staying safe and keeping a distance. We were helping get the message out there,” Baldock says. “A lot of parents were saying, ‘You’ve made my kids’ day—they have not stopped talking about it.’”
“We’ll walk down the street and even if we’re not in Spider-Man costume, people will recognise us, shout out and beep their horn,” says Baldock, “We’ve been all over the world with it—Baird did an interview with ABC News in Chicago. It’s so strange to think pictures of us are being seen by people in these faraway countries.”
Children started drawing pictures of their favourite characters to stick in their windows and dressing up themselves.
“I do believe it’s brought Stockport closer together,” says 35-year-old Baird.
A Facebook group was set up, attracting thousands of members, and the two decided to use it to raise funds for the NHS (National Health Service). “The original fundraising target was only £1,000, and we beat that in a week. In the end we raised about £62,000,” Baldock says. “It kept us busy and positive. I believe if we hadn’t been doing that, our mindsets would have been in a very bad place. There’s no better joy than bringing joy to other people. It made me feel like Spider-Man—we were out saving the day.”
1. Why did Baldock and Baird wear Spider-Man suits when jogging?A.Their children liked to watch the cartoon. |
B.They wanted to surprise the children. |
C.They wanted to make the children happy. |
D.They wanted to be famous to raise money. |
A.They taught children to learn cartoon pictures. |
B.They had an interview in TV in Chicago. |
C.They drew people in the town closer to one another. |
D.They raised money for children in hospital. |
A.They collected $1000 in the first week. |
B.They were happier than before. |
C.They once lived in a bad place. |
D.They were saved by Spider-Man that day. |
【推荐2】“If kids grow kale (甘蓝), kids eat kale. If they grow tomatoes, they eat tomatoes. But when none of this is presented to them, if they’re not shown how food affects the mind and the body, they blindly eat whatever you put in front of them.” — Ron Finley, a guerilla gardener in South Central LA.
For centuries, educators and researchers have argued that garden-based learning improves children’s intelligence and boosts their personal health. In recent years, concerns related to childhood obesity(肥胖) and young people’s disconnection from nature have led to a more heated discussion of the topic. Tens of thousands of American schools have some form of school garden. Many are located on school grounds and others are run by external community partners. Most are connected to the school’s curriculum. For instance, seeds are used in science class to explain plant biology, fruits are used in social studies to teach world geography and the harvest is used in math to explore weights and measures. Some even use the food from the garden to cook the school lunch.
Given the enthusiasm that surrounds garden-based learning today, it’s worth looking into their overall impacts: Do school gardens actually improve the education and health of young people? Yes, definitely!
There is plenty of evidence to suggest that garden-based learning does generate educational, nutritional, ecological and social benefits. For instance, several published studies have shown that garden-based learning can increase students’ science knowledge and healthy food behaviors. Other research has shown that garden-based learning can help students better identify different types of vegetables as well as lead to more favorable opinions on eating vegetables, which helps kids make healthier eating choices. Many supporters go even further, suggesting that garden-based learning can inspire a variety of healthy changes for the whole family. For some low-income families, the fresh vegetables from the school garden can provide the necessary vitamins and fibre, helping lose weight. Others, like Edible Schoolyard founder Alice Waters, hold the view that the experience in the garden can have a great and positive impact on a child’s worldview.
As part of a long-term movement to improve community health, school gardens can provide a platform for experiential education, create valuable green space and develop a sense of responsibility in the minds and bodies of young Americans.
1. Why is the words of Ron Finley quoted in the first paragraph?A.To introduce the topic. | B.To introduce a celebrity. |
C.To clarify a phenomenon. | D.To give a definition. |
A.By listing facts and examples. | B.By listing data and analyzing. |
C.By giving definition and explaining. | D.By listing examples and comparing. |
①fresh vegetables ②healthy eating habits ③ecological balance
④science knowledge ⑤enough nutrients
A.①②⑤ | B.②③④ | C.①②④ | D.③④⑤ |
A.To discuss whether every school should have a garden. |
B.To describe the author’s voluntary work on a chilly morning. |
C.To call on students to protect plants in the school gardens. |
D.To explain garden-based learning is worthwhile. |
【推荐3】A vivid imagination is more than dreaming up stories about dinosaurs and pirates (海盗). It is the origin of creativity and innovation. Working on your powers of imagination will help you think outside the box — a useful skill at both school and work.
Turn off the TV. Watching television programs is a form of passive participation. It is good for relaxing after a hard day.
Read creative literature and watch creative films. If you normally read detective thrillers, try reading a fantasy novel.
Try visual art forms. You don’t have to intend to sell your works to enjoy the visual arts. Take a pottery (陶艺) or baking class to find out ways you can use your imagination to create physical objects. You can find places in your home to appreciate them, or simply throw them away.
A.Try to do nothing. |
B.The same applies to films. |
C.Inspire your imagination by killing time, |
D.This allows yourself a free artistic expression. |
E.Some people are more naturally imaginative than others. |
F.However, it is not helpful in improving your imagination. |
G.There are some ways that can help improve your imagination. |