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Do you want to be a charming person? Here are some tips.
Charming people make their body language open. They smile, laugh, and maintain eye contact while talking with others. Of course, you mustn’t overdo this. The moment someone senses that you are forcing yourself to smile, or laughing too enthusiastically at a weak joke, they will dismiss you as false. You should also work on your voice. Avoid flat vowels. Whenever you get the chance, chant (吟诵) your vowels out loud, making them as smooth and polished as you can. More generally, keep your voice calm, soft, and clear.
Charming people automatically (自动地) look for the best in everyone they meet and will usually find something good to say about them. Running other people down behind their back is an ugly and charmless trait (品质). Charming people want everyone to be happy and have a good time. Of course, this does not mean they like everyone, but their basic approach is tolerant.
This goodwill is often rooted in a broad mind and a real curiosity about others. Such curiosity needs to be distinguished from nosiness, however. Nosy people are looking for gossip (闲话). They have no real interest in others. They just want to hear about others’ failures because such information makes them feel better about their own life. Charming people think differently. If someone tells them they have just returned from a vacation in Iceland, for example, they do not assume the other person is showing off or trying to outdo them. Instead, they smile, nod and ask what they thought. And their questions will be thoughtful. Rather than just asking how much it cost or what the food was like in a bored tone, charming people will ask whether they chose to go there because they are interested in Viking history, for example.
Few traits are more loveable or more charming than self-effacement (谦逊). Charming people are realistic about their limitations. They don’t loathe (厌恶) themselves and neither do they think they are special. They simply recognize themselves for what they are. And when they run themselves down, they do so with a smile and a laugh, drawing you into sharing the joke. If they fell over during a job interview, or dropped their notes midway through a speech, they would say “oh God, I made such a fool of myself today”, shake their head, laugh and then tell you what happened.
| Qualities of Charming People | |
| Voice and body language | ● Charming people can give others a feeling that they are ● Charming people are able to |
| ● Charming people tend to think ● Charming people want to | |
| Curiosity and | ● Charming people’s ● Charming people also think differently. For example, they will ask questions that are more |
| Self-acceptance | ● Charming people can view themselves ● They can treat their failure optimistically and |
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Being productive can be hard. Perhaps you've fallen into a routine of getting up at a certain time, getting into work and slumping down at your desk or place of work with no energy and motivation. Research has found there is an ideal structure to your day that creates best results and also the flexibility you wish for. The problem with your current tradition of working is that it forces you to work when your brain isn't motivated. Traditionally you Have a long day to get your work done and your brain needs to be in the relaxation mode all day. but more often it's hard for you to focus on one thing all the way.
According to the research, the best way to achieve best work productivity is to focus on the first 3 hours of your day. This is the best time straight after sleep when your will power and self-control is at the maximum.
How often have you dragged yourself to work and headed straight for the coffee machine because you can't possibly function until you drink up at least your third cup of coffee? This is where you're potentially going wrong the first 3 hours of your day will eventually make you or break you. It's during this period that you can make the most of your clay. Creating a routine where the first 3 hours of your day are the intense periods of work will actually cause you to complete the majority of your work at a best level, leaving the rest of the day for your brain to relax and deal with fewer laborious projects.
To carry out the 3-hour morning, you should try and start a routine of getting up early because the more hours you have in the morning, the more time you have to be productive for the rest of the day. It's also essential that you start the day with a protein-rich breakfast, which means the right kind of fuel for your brain and the rest of your body so you can work at your best level. After getting up, you should ensure that there are fewer people to distract you or cause you stress. To be exact, make sure you put away your phone and make a conscious effort not to check social media for the first 3 hours. Besides? listening to music such as sounds of nature is a good way to help stop outside noises from interrupting your concentration.
| Using the Morning Well | |
| Introduction | Perhaps you are often unable to be energetic and motivated in the |
| A way to increase work productivity | Attach importance to the first three hours of your day because this is the time when you have the |
| Importance of the first three hours of a day | Making full use of the first 3 hours of your day can help you achieve the highest |
| • From a habit of early • Start your day with a nutritious breakfast to make you work in a best • Avoid distractions from others and outside noises in the first 3 hours of your day, or rather, put away your phone, | |
【推荐2】Ways to make a great first impression
You’ve heard it a million times already, but it really does take a few seconds to make that all-important first impression (印象). Here are some easy ways for you to impress your classmates or teachers.
● Have a proper handshake
Before you shake hands with somebody, make sure that your hands are clean. The handshake should not be too strong or weak. Most people use their right hands, unless they have a reason to use the left.
● Be on time
When meeting someone for the first time, arriving on time is as important as breathing. You may have an excuse, but that will leave the person who hardly knows you with a bad impression.
● Introduce yourself and ask for names
Make sure you properly introduce yourself. Ask for their names in a polite way.
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To get the most out of your discussion, try to find something common between the two of you.
| A．Make good conversation |
| B．Use body language |
| C．Repeat the name and use it later in conversation. |
| D．It could be a similar taste in clothes or a common hobby. |
| E．As a general rule, plan to arrive about 30 minutes early. |
| F．You’ll be in serious trouble if you leave them with a bad impression. |
| G．However, don’t have your left hand in your pocket because this appears impolite. |
【推荐3】Find it hard to get started? Try these suggestions to help you rise and shine — and be effective from morning till night.
a. Get up earlier
Sleeping in can be a hard habit to break. Actually it involves two things — going to bed earlier and getting up earlier. Start off by going to bed 15 minutes before your usual turn-in time and setting your alarm the same number of minutes earlier the next day.
b. Have a good stretch in bed
Before you even open your eyes, stretch every extremity (四肢) for 15 seconds. Lift your arm and begin by stretching each finger, next your hand, and then your arm. Move on to your toes, feet and legs. End with a neck and back stretch that gets you out of bed.
c. Set your clothes out the night before
d. Consult your morning calendar
Hang a large whiteboard in your kitchen. On it, write down all you need to know for that particular day, from doctor appointments to what you’re doing with your friends. Check it carefully while you sip your first cup of coffee or tea.
e. Get moving
| A．The fewer choices you have to make first thing, the better. |
| B．It will help you to structure your day. |
| C．By doing this, you will enhance the flow of blood through your system, providing your tissues with extra oxygen. |
| D．Spend less time choosing things when packing |
| E．Morning exercise can get you refreshed quickly. |
| F．If you’re a night owl, an early morning jog might sound like punishment. |
| G．Gradually reset your sleep cycle until you get to your desired wake-up time. |
