Scheduling Time with Yourself
Many of us are so busy with work, school and home life that often there is no time left over to do something that you enjoy. What follows are some ways to carve out that essential time you need to slow down, enjoy life and relax yourself.
Monthly Treat.
Buy Tickets in Advance. Sports, theater, concerts or any other event you would enjoy. Schedule the plans with a friend later.
Join a Group. Here are some ideas of groups that can allow you some time away from work and home: singing group, gardening group, astronomy society, book club, biking clubs, ski club, etc. What are you interested in? Strike while the iron is hot.
A.Schedule a treat for yourself once a month. |
B.listen to your favorite music! |
C.Look up a club in your area today and join! |
D.Having the tickets already in hand will force you to make it happen! |
E.Evenings with Yourself. |
F.Take an Adult Education Class. |
G.Leave Work on Time. |
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【推荐1】Everyone has at least one bad habit. Whether it’s being frequently late, tapping your feet, or eating junk food, a bad habit can have a negative influence on your happiness, health and social relationships.
You can only change what you decide you want to change. Take some time to reflect on the trouble your bad habit may lead to.
Once you’ve decided to change, convince yourself you can achieve your goals.
Set reasonable goals at first, since your bad habits have taken years to establish themselves. You’re not going to get rid of them in an instant. Decide on a realistic schedule that will work for you based on goals that you believe you can meet, Work out a schedule of time to go to the gym or on a run that will readily fit into your existing schedule.
A.Look into what’s causing the habit. |
B.Here are some tips to help you remove your bad habits. |
C.To change some bad habits may require professional help. |
D.To help motivate yourself, you may consider others’ advice. |
E.If you don’t see a problem, you won’t work on changing your behavior. |
F.Start off slow, and gradually increase until you’re at your suitable level. |
G.You need to strengthen your sense of belief that you can accomplish what you want. |
【推荐2】Traditional feedback (反馈), which often involves criticizing past actions and performance, can sometimes be discouraging. However, there’s a powerful alternative that has been gaining popularity — feedforward. Feedforward is about sharing constructive and forward-looking comments to help individuals and groups move forward together, building a positive path to collective progress.
Constructive feedback has long been a cornerstone of personal development. It helps individuals identify their weaknesses and areas for improvement, but it can sometimes feel like a constant spotlight on one’s shortcomings. Feedforward, on the other hand, shifts the focus from past missteps to future possibilities. It is a tool that fosters (培养) a culture of growth, emphasizing what can be done to enhance one’s performance and contribute to the overall betterment of a group or organization.
Instead of focusing on past mistakes or weaknesses, feedforward encourages people to recognize their strengths and potential, highlighting the possibilities of what they can achieve. This approach not only boosts confidence but also motivates individuals to struggle for excellence. In a world where negativity can often overshadow positivity, the power of feedforward lies in its ability to uplift and inspire people.
When applied in group settings, feedforward becomes a powerful tool for building unity and cooperation. Teams and organizations that welcome feedforward form an environment where team members feel valued and supported. By focusing on future improvement, teams can collectively work towards their goals, fostering innovation, and achieving better results.
Feedforward can also be valuable in building personal relationships. It can be used in families, friendships, and romantic partnerships to encourage personal growth and strengthen bonds. Feedforward instead of being judgemental increases confidence. By offering constructive and forward-looking comments, you can support your loved ones in their pursuit of happiness and self-improvement.
To successfully implement feedforward, it is essential to foster open and honest communication. It’s about providing advice that is specific, practical, and, most importantly, constructive. The emphasis should always be on helping individuals identify their potential and offering suggestions for growth.
1. How does the author introduce the topic?A.By analyzing a scene. | B.By stating a phenomenon. |
C.By providing an example. | D.By making a comparison. |
A.Developing optimism. | B.Enhancing interaction. |
C.Focusing on potential. | D.Learning from experience. |
A.Ask for. | B.Pick up. | C.Carry out. | D.Reflect on. |
A.Giving Effective Feedback | B.The Power of Feedforward |
C.Feedback and Feedforward | D.Looking Forward, Not Backward |
【推荐3】Being resilient isn’t about avoiding misfortune, but rather how we respond to it. It means doing well in the face of risk or difficulties. Recently we’ve all needed to draw on our resilience. We all get tired from time to time, and the pandemic has used up the resilience ability of nearly everyone, at one time or another. Even if you consider yourself resilient, you may need a stronger power in especially hard times.
Develop relationships
Set up and maintain a support network before you need it. When difficulties strike, a supportive friend with good listening skills can have a great effect on you.
Find a sense of purpose
When somebody needs you, you just cope with stress that much better. Your sense of purpose doesn’t have to come from school or work.
Pay attention to your own needs and feelings. Take part in activities that you enjoy and find relaxing. Exercise regularly. Taking care of yourself helps to keep your mind and body best to deal with situations that require resilience.
Don’t try to get rid of misfortune completely
A.It can also come from hobbies or volunteer projects. |
B.Attend to yourself |
C.Look for opportunities for self-discovery |
D.To build resilience, the following ways are of great value. |
E.Resilience usually refers to how we handle serious difficulties. |
F.Many people who have experienced hardships have reported better relationships. |
G.And if you want your friends to support your resilience, remember to support theirs too. |