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Why you shouldn't punish your kids for lying

Getting your children to stop lying is challenging. There are many influences(TV,movies and video games)in which lies are common. Children see parents lie to others,if only to be polite. Most parents add to that with tales about the lives and activities of Santa Claus or the tooth fairy.     1    

The most common reactions to children who lie are explaining why it is wrong and punishments.     2     Here are three better tools supported by research to use instead.

Give praise: You could ask your child to say something that happened at school that is true. When your child obeys, praise him enthusiastically. Be specific.     3     and give your child a hug or a high five. Aim for one or two interactions(互动)like this a day. If you happen to "catch" your child in a lie,say something like,“That is not true and could get you in trouble outside of the home.”

Act as a model: Explicitly(明确地)tell the truth. This could be about something that happened when you were a child or something that happened during the day. It need not be dramatic. Another option is to play a game at dinner. Each person tells one thing that was true that day. Again,give a little praise to the child who normally lies if she plays along.

Decrease punishments and moralizing(说教):They are unlikely to change behavior or develop the conduct you want.     4     Rather,use very mild punishments(light scolding,short loss of privileges,a brief timeout). More severe punishments(shouting,taking away something for a week,hitting)are not more effective in actually changing the frequency of lying.

    5     Usually they can be dropped by then. It is unlikely that lying will be completely removed,but with the right encouragement,it can be dramatically lessened.

A.It is not what that is,but about practice.
B.As ways of changing behavior,these are ineffective.
C.That does not mean ignoring,lying or letting it go.
D.“That was great!You told me what happened just like I asked. Wow!”
E.Try these procedures for two to three weeks and see where you are.
F.“You did a good job,but what you said was not what I'd like to know!”
G.Parents do this out of love,but for some children,lying can become a problem.

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There is a lot that goes into making Disney World the "Most Magical Place on Earth”. Considering Walt Disney World is in Central Florida, and has various amusement parks at Walt Disney World, there is one thing missing from the huge property that you may not have even noticed: mosquitoes.     1    .

Naturally, this is due to efforts from Walt Disney World staff to ensure health among guests and a uniform consumer experiences.    2    Disney employs a project called the “Mosquito Surveillance Program“ which can avoid the noisy pests and keep visitors safe from the threat of disease.

    3    Mosquitoes are attracted to the gas, which is one reason why they are so good at finding humans, as we breathe it out constantly. Once caught, the mosquitoes are then frozen and studied in labs where experts discover the best ways to keep mosquitoes off of our skin when we arrive on-site.

    4    Due to the birds' immunity to mosquito-borne viruses such as West Nile they can be used to observe the presence of the virus without experiencing any harmful symptoms(症状)after that. The chickens are kept in cages, unlike flying birds that would travel long distances. So, if a virus is detected, it is easy for Disney to find out exactly which part of their parks has been affected by viral mosquitoes.

Occasionally, Disney has had to close certain sections of their park during the busiest times.     5     It's time of year when we can finally get back outdoors in Disney with family and friends without worry.

A.So, how do they manage to do it?
B.Mosquitoes are found throughout the world.
C.The warm damp air attracts a lot of mosquitoes.
D.Additionally, Disney keeps chickens throughout the parks.
E.It is to search for mosquitoes and revise events by moving outdoor equipment inside.
F.Across the numerous parks at Disney World are more than 60 CO2 catching devices.
G.Though mosquitoes haven't been completely swept away, they are really hard to find.
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【推荐2】Are you planning to drive over a long distance? These tips for long road trips can help you get there safely and comfortably.

Store your sleep time.

Think about extreme tiredness before you begin your journey, not after. Get at least seven hours of sleep for two non-stop nights before the road trip to build up your energy reserves.     1    , when the body’s temperature is slightly lower and people are naturally sleepy.

Fuel up.

    2    . Carrying along a variety of vitamin-packed, healthy foods will allow you to get by on smaller snacks throughout the long drive, while the skipping the fast-food stops.”To stay alert(警觉的),carrots and almonds are my favourite,” says travel expert Gretchen Breuner.

Use food smells.

During long distance driving, keep peppermint(薄荷)smell nearby. When you need a help, take a sniff.     3    .

Plan your stops.

One of the most important tips for long road trips is to get out of your car and relaxed your legs every two hours or so.     4    . It doesn’t matter wheather they fall at mealtimes or can be timed to let you view interesting places.

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Books on tapes help keep the brain active, without creating a dangerous distraction(干扰).Breus recommends listening humorous books or even comedy CDs. Laughing will keep you awake.

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If you are in a crowd, the first and most important thing is to make yourself familiar with your surroundings and find different exits. No matter where you are, make sure you always know how to get out.

Make yourself aware of the type of the ground you are standing on, and know that in a crowd of moving people wet ground can cause you to fall.

When in danger, a few seconds can make a difference, giving you the possibility of making use of your escaping route. Always stay closer to the escape route. If you find yourself in the middle of a moving crowd, do not fight against the pressure and do not stand still or sit down, because you can easily get trampled (踩踏). Instead, move in the same direction of the crowd; make use of any space that may open up to move sideways to the crowd movement where the flow is weaker.

Keep your hands up by your chest, like a boxer—it gives you movement and protects your chest. If you fall, get up quickly. If you can’t get up because you are injured, get someone to pull you up. If you have kids, lift them up. If you fall and cannot get up, keep moving in the same direction of the crowd, or if that is not possible, then cover your head with your arms; do not lie on your stomach or back.

1. Why may people in a stampede die standing up?
A.They can’t breathe freely.
B.They push in the same direction.
C.They are not able to get up.
D.They aren’t familiar with the surroundings.
2. What does the underlined word n fatal” mean in the first paragraph?
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C.Deadly.D.Hateful.
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A.Fight against the pressure.
B.Stand still where you are.
C.Sit down covering your head.
D.Move along the escape route.
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C.Where to go when you are in danger.
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