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We often concentrate on building relationships with others but we forget the essential first step: being friends of ourselves. That is the extremely important first step if we are to have good relationships with others.     1    


Forgive yourself.

You may have made mistakes in the past, but is there anything you can do about them? I don’t think so, except learning from them. Maybe you are not perfect, but neither are we.     2     So do yourself a favor by giving yourself forgiveness.


Focus on your strengths.

    3     You always have some strengths which give you a unique combination nobody else has. Recognize your strengths and build your life around them.


Write your success stories.

One reason why we may not like ourselves is that we are so focused on what we don’t have that we forget about what we have. So make a list of your achievements; write your success stories. They do not have to be big things.     4     For example, if you have some good friends, that’s already an achievement. If you have a good family, that is also an achievement.


Stop comparing yourself with others.

You are unique. You can never be like other people, and neither can other people be like you. The way you measure your success is not determined by other people and what they achieve. Instead, it is determined by your own life purpose. You have everything you need to achieve your life purpose, so it’s useless to compare yourself with others.


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You don’t like other people lying to you, right? Similarly, you won’t like yourself if you know that you lie to yourself. Whether you realize it or not, that gives your mind a reason not to like yourself. That’s why it’s important to always be true to yourself. In whatever you do, be honest and follow your conscience.

A.Always be true to yourself.
B.Accept things you can’t change.
C.It’s normal to make mistakes.
D.Here are some tips to being friends of ourselves.
E.Instead of focusing on your weaknesses, focus on your strengths.
F.There are a lot of small but important achievements in our life.
G.You might be disappointed with yourself on why you could make such mistakes.
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【推荐1】Because of Internet technology, people from different parts of the world can connect with one another, and get information about any and everything in the world.     1     They spend so much time online, hardly realizing that much of it is actually wasted on something meaningless. For example, they waste much time playing games. Luckily there are many meaningful things you can do on the Internet. For example:

    2     These courses don’t require you to go out to attend classes. They can also be done from the comfort of your home. So they’re very convenient.

●If you’re a DIY (Do It Yourself) person, you should check for online resources (资源) that help you with this thing. From questions like how to paint a room, to questions like how to repair a broken car engine, all the answers can be found online.     3     From home decoration and repair to fashion and relationships, there are many sources that give you good advice.

●Practise your hobby on the Internet. Find information on what you like to do. Find the latest information on things of your interest.     4     In a word, the Internet has many good sources that allow you to practise your hobbies, and even earn out of them.

●Listen to your favorite songs, watch your favorite movies, or listen to speeches by inspirational (激励的) speakers. Songs can help you feel relaxed.     5     And listening to inspirational speeches can make you feel good about yourself.

A.Take part in fun activities that you enjoy.
B.Movies can give you that much-needed break.
C.Take academic courses and improve your skills.
D.However, very few of us make real good use of the Internet.
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    1    Research shows that the majority of smokers lit up their first cigarette in their early or mid-teens, precisely at a time when children are beginning to establish their own identity apart from their parents. Smoking can be an act of rebellion (反抗) against parents or authority figures, as well as a way to fit in with others and feel accepted.

Here are some things that parents can do to help a child stay smoke-free.

Start talking to your teen about how bad smoking is for him early, well before his teens. Keep talking, too.    2    

    3    For example, smoking makes your hair and clothing smell bad, stains the teeth, and reduces your lung power to play sports.

    4    Talk about the addictive power of smoking and tell him while those few cigarettes are his choice, the addiction that occurs shortly afterwards makes him powerless to decide whether or not he wants to light up.

Work on self-esteem (自尊) and self-confident with your teen. Much of the attraction of smoking is to gain acceptance.    5    

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C.The answer lies in the develop-mental stage of your teens.
D.Give your child the facts, but focus on the things he can relate to.
E.Help your teen to feel good about himself without having to smoke.
F.One discussion will not be enough to help your child not to smoke.
G.They won’t be aware of how powerful addictive smoking is in a very short time.
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Text them regularly.    2    , send them a text to let them know that you are thinking about them. Call your friends when you have free time to talk.Ask them questions about how they are doing and if there's anything interesting going on in their lives.Calling and texting are great ways to keep in touch, but spending time with the person is an even better way to grow a bond.

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Shows your heart with an occasional gift.Gift giving isn't always necessary in a friend-ship but it will let your friends know that you're thinking about them.Get gifts for your friends on special occasions, like their birthday or anniversary.    5    .

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G.When you have a regular communication with your friend and try to support him
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