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题型:阅读理解-七选五 难度:0.65 引用次数:205 题号:12507591

Children learn who they are and how to identify, value, and communicate needs and feelings through interactions with their parents.     1     Here are several key things to ensure your children grow into independent adults.

Allow freedom of information. One of the main characteristics of healthy families is freedom to express thoughts and observations.     2     For instance, forbidding mentioning of daddy’s drinking teaches children to be fearful and doubt themselves. Children are naturally curious about everything. This is healthy and should be encouraged.

Accept your children’s feelings. Many clients tell me that they weren’t allowed to express anger, complain, feel sad or even get excited.     3     This becomes problematic in their adult relationships and can lead to depression. Allowing children to express their feelings provides a healthy outlet.

Respect your children’s boundaries. Respecting children’s thoughts and feelings is a way of respecting boundaries. Verbal abuse and attacks violate their boundaries, so does unwanted touch. Additionally, children’s property, space and privacy should be respected.     4    

    5     Children need a safe, predictable and fair environment. When rules and punishments are arbitrary or inconsistent, instead of learning from mistakes, children will become angry and anxious, and learn to distrust their parents. The best rules and punishments should relate to natural consequences of the wrong-doing, rather than mere physical punishments.

A.They learned to restrict their feelings.
B.Have reasonable, explicit, consistent rules and punishments.
C.Allow children appropriate responsibility and independence.
D.Secrets and no-talk rules are common in unhealthy families.
E.Thus, how you communicate with your children is significant.
F.Therefore, you can’t give them too much love and understanding.
G.Reading their mail or talking to their friends behind their back is off-limits.

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Some scholars also believe that happiness is what people finally want and wealth is only a means towards this end.     3    

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