I have heard having a good sense of humour often helps in breaking the ice. Also people remember you because of your humour. But I think I don’t have a very good sense of humour. Could you suggest how to build on this?
—Radha Karnik
This is a great question that is unfortunately difficult to answer. I can only give you my views on this topic, which may or may not be correct. I know that my sense of humour developed over time.
When I was younger I was not funny at all; now I can easily make people laugh. At the same time, sometimes I say things that I think are very funny but others do not. Improving humour, I believe, is an ongoing process.
Now, there are various forms of humour and everyone has their own style. Overall, I believe being fluent in a language is very important for being funny. The way we play around with words adds the “funny” tag to a normal sentence.
Also, seeing irony(讽刺) is very important. I think humour is often the link between two unrelated things.
In my experience, laughing frequently and appreciating other people’s jokes are very important. Within these, finding humor in everyday normal situations is the key.
I often notice what is going on around me and say funny things in my head and laugh to myself. That serves almost as practice for when I am in a group. I watch comedy shows and movies and I am sure that has some effect on helping me improve my sense of humour.
And last, having confidence that you are funny is important. There will always be someone funnier than you, which is fine. Just work on building your own style.
Remember, if you are trying to be funny in order to break the ice at a business function, be careful.
In those situations, humour has to be mild and politically correct.
Yours,
Brad
1. What’s RAdha Karnik’s problem?A.He doesn’t have friends. | B.He doesn’t know the functions of humour. |
C.He doesn’t understand others’ humour. | D.He doesn’t have a good sense of humour. |
A.laughter is the best medicine | B.laughter and humour go hand in hand |
C.a sense of humour can be developed | D.a sense of humour helps imipress others |
A.Everyone knows how to appreciate others’ jokes. |
B.Everyone has their own style of humour. |
C.Everyone is as funny as others. |
D.Everyone needs to laugh to themselves each day. |
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【推荐1】Work-Life Balance
Many articles are focused on the importance of work-life balance. Below are some suggestions mentioned frequently.
Decide on priorities(优先的事物).
Don't be an over-achiever. Being an all-around person is good. However, you do not need to be the captain of the football team, the lead in each activity and the employee of the month.
Take care of yourself.
Schedule time for relaxation. Set aside half an hour a day to do something that just makes you feel good. Read a book or a favorite magazine, take a walk or ride your bike.
A.Give up if necessary |
B.Make a considerate plan in advance. |
C.Decide what is the most important and what needs to be done first. |
D.Choose one or two things that you really enjoy and do it or them well. |
E.Have a balanced and healthy diet, exercise regularly and get enough sleep. |
F.Set goals that you can see yourself achieving within a certain period of time. |
G.The time that you take for yourself will help you focus when you finish your work. |
【推荐2】Signs of a True Friendship
True friends are rare.
A true friend is a reliable person, and you can have confidence in him. You know that he will hot betray (背 叛)you or say something bad about you behind your back. You know that the information you share with one another will not be shared with others
Keeping in touch with each other frequently
Giving without paying back
True friends give with no expectations of receiving anything in return. Real friends give their time, love and care without expecting to receive anything back.
Supporting each other
True friendships involve (涉及)two people who support each other no matter what happens. It can be difficult to know how to help a friend who's facing a difficult situation, though ・ Call him, even if you don't think he will answer the phone, and leave an encouraging message he can listen to later.
Accepting each other
Real friends accept each other. A real friend accepts you for who you are, whether you are tall or short, gentle or rude. A real friend may inspire you to be a better person.
A.Believing in each other |
B.Sharing with each other |
C.You can express your feelings freely |
D.And you may have only a few true friends in your life |
E.Send an encouragement card to your friend when he is in trouble |
F.However, he will not try to change you into the person he thinks you should be |
G.It’s difficult to maintain a true friendship if you hardly communicate with each other |
【推荐3】In my writing, I adhere (遵守) to some essential rules: understanding the message I want to convey and to whom I am communicating, and presenting it in a clear and concise (简洁的) manner. When my target audience is my professors, or when my writing is expected to be read by my students, I adopt a different style.
Effective communication is arguably the most crucial skill you can learn in life.
Unfortunately, communication skills are often overlooked in education. On this account, many people have experienced ineffective communication at some point in their lives, both as the speaker and the recipient.
In conclusion, effective communication is vital in all areas of life, including writing, speaking, and performing.
A.Readers can easily get bored. |
B.Understanding the audience is crucial. |
C.However, there is good news on the horizon. |
D.Effective communication is not limited to writing. |
E.It is fundamental to success in many aspects of life. |
F.Great ideas are only limited by our ability to express them. |
G.It is a skill that can be learned and developed through practice. |
As months went on and his health grew worse, I noticed an unexpected change in attitude that came over him.He had also been a happy person with a cheerful personality, but rather than give in to discouragement and self-pity, he took comfort in God and humanity(人性).His talks focused on others rather than himself, and he spoke of the afterlife as something he was prepared for, believing that his concerned ancestors, including his mother and father, were there waiting for him.
During the last few months, weeks, and days of his life, he was kindly cared for by family, friends, his loving wife, who looked after both his physical and emotional needs, and workers from a local hospice (安养院) came to the home to regulate(调节) his medication (药)and provide any other needed support.He didn't complain about his fate, and he willingly allowed others to serve him.
Indeed, one might think why God allows death and suffering in our world, but for me, such experiences taught me to value family more and kindness for others.You often can't learn these important attributes(属性)in the lap of luxury(处在优裕舒适的环境中), and perhaps, such an experience is the greatest and final gift the illness can give those left behind.
1. Which word can best describe the man's initial reaction as soon as he was diagnosed with cancer?
A.Satisfied. | B.Sad | C.Surprised | D.Concerned. |
A.He was operated on immediately. |
B.He researched cancer treatments. |
C.He retired from his job |
D.He felt sad, doing nothing. |
A.His family and friends. | B.The care from others |
C.His doctors’ encouragement. | D.His belief in humanity. |
A.Getting comfort from God. |
B.Extending life as possible. |
C.Caring for yourself and enjoying luxury. |
D.Giving more respect to friends |
【推荐2】Which body part conveys most about how we feel? The movements of our hands and arms. While hand and arm gestures are sometimes intentional, most often they occur unconsciously (无意识) and naturally.
Saying something important
Open hands and arms, especially extended, and with hands up in front of the body at chest height, indicate that what you’re saying is important. And, especially when people are speaking in public, a pointing finger stresses a personal point.
When people want to be open or honest, they will often hold one or both of their hands out to the other person. Footballers who have just committed a foul (犯规) often use this gesture to try to convince the referee that they didn’t do it.
Nervousness
If a person puts his hand to his mouth, this either suggests that he is hiding something, or that he is nervous.
Feeling defensive (戒备)
Arms folded tightly over the chest is a classic gesture of defensiveness, which indicates that you are protecting yourself. It is often seen among strangers in queues or in lifts or anywhere where people feel a bit insecure. People also sometimes use this gesture when they are listening to someone.
A.To obey or disobey |
B.Openness or honesty |
C.The followings are what they perform. |
D.They mean that they disagree with what is being said. |
E.It is the same with a hand waving above the shoulders. |
F.Playing with your fingers, like tapping the table, also shows anxiety. |
G.When one puts up his both hands, he probably gives in to his enemies. |
【推荐3】Despite the countless differences between people’s characters and careers, or their likes and their dislikes, it seems that we are all connected in this wonderful life by one thing: namely, seeking happiness.
Happiness means, naturally, different things to different people. For myself, happiness is synonymous(同义的)with horse riding, Cadbury’s Creme Eggs and spending time with my friends. Some people are at their happiest at home, while others find their happiness through travelling far-off foreign lands. Happiness can be as simple as a surprise bunch of fresh flowers or a really strong coffee, just when you need it most. Sometimes, happiness comes from spending time with loved ones; for others, it’s having a well-earned quiet night at home, with nothing but a comfortable bed for company.
Since it comes in so many shapes and sizes, it’s sometimes easy to take happiness for granted. It is especially true if it’s been “one of those days”. Maybe you overslept, missed the bus and had to walk to school in the rain, only to be told that you were late. Or perhaps, because of work, you had to cancel plans with friends, despite looking forward to seeing them for ages. Forgotten keys, delayed flights, an argument with your parents, illness or injury... all very frustrating, and understandably guaranteed to make you feel unhappy.
Luckily, there are a few simple, scientifically proven ways to make the glass seem half-full again. To start with, things like trying out cycling or walking instead of driving to work and listening to music are great moodboosters(情绪助推器). Volunteering and getting involved with a charity are two ways in which you can become happier through helping others. Last, but certainly not least, try hugging your way to happiness; it’s been suggested that we humans need a minimum(最少的)of five hugs a day. If you’ve been having a bad day, there’s nothing better than a good old bear-hug.
1. What would be the main idea of Paragraph 2?A.Happiness comes from different things. |
B.Fresh flowers can give you a surprise. |
C.Some people enjoy themselves at home. |
D.It is pleasant to spend time with close friends. |
A.it is easy to be happy |
B.you go to work on time |
C.you have a coffee at home |
D.you tend to be sad at your life |
A.performs an experiment | B.provides some examples |
C.tells an interesting story | D.brings up some problems |
A.In a scientific report. | B.In an advertisement. |
C.In a guidebook. | D.In a novel. |
【推荐1】Overseas Learning Programs for Students
The Somerset Yew Wah Classroom, UK, offers a distinctive English language and life education program tailored for Grade 6, Grade 8, and Grade 10 students. Established in 2006, the Somerset English learning and cultural center provides students with an authentic English environment experience. Located in a traditional English village in Somerset, Sibley’s Barn and the Knowle Hall campus offer students a unique setting for learning. The Knowle Hall campus, a newly renovated Victorian-era country house built on 15 acres of land in beautiful open parkland, was established in 2016. This program enhances students' self-confidence, independence, teamwork, and leadership skills, ultimately continuing to benefit them upon their return to China.
World Classroom
The World Classroom program is an extension of the project-based learning approach at the core of the Yew Wah educational model. It allows students to explore major cultures worldwide, including European, African, Middle Eastern, Pacific, and Anglo-American cultures. This immersive experience broadens students' perspectives, promotes critical thinking, and fosters an appreciation for diverse viewpoints, preparing them to thrive in an increasingly globalized world.
Experiencing China
The Experiencing China program offers secondary students the opportunity to delve into Chinese history and culture by visiting various regions of the country. This residential program not only deepens students' understanding of their own culture but also exposes them to firsthand cross-cultural experiences. Through these experiences, students develop critical thinking skills and cultivate an appreciation for different cultures, ultimately shaping them into global citizens with a commitment to serving their communities and society.
Trips and Excursions
Trips and excursions are integral to the students' learning journey, providing opportunities to expand their horizons, enrich their experiences, and strengthen their communication and problem-solving skills. The Hong Kong Hike, a traditional annual outdoor activity, challenges students to rely on teamwork and personal determination to overcome obstacles and reach their destination. Parents have noted significant positive changes in their children after participating in such activities, including increased maturity, independence, and responsibility.
1. What is the primary focus of the Somerset Yew Wah Classroom program?A.Cultural exchange. | B.Science education. |
C.Language immersion. | D.Historical studies. |
A.To promote local culture. | B.To explore diverse cultures worldwide. |
C.To focus on project-based learning. | D.To develop leadership skills. |
A.By providing opportunities for language learning. |
B.By enhancing teamwork and problem-solving skills. |
C.By emphasizing academic achievement. |
D.By offering cultural exchange experiences. |
【推荐2】In honor of National Park Week, here’s a list of some of the striking features that you can find throughout America.
Petrified Forest National Park
Petrified Forest National Park is not necessarily a dangerous place…as long as you don’t steal the stones. The fossils (化石) are beautiful and somewhat look like precious stones, which makes them an attractive souvenir. But as with all National Park lands, visitors aren’t allowed to take anything from the site, including rocks, plants and animals. And for good reason, removing any of these items can harm the local ecosystem or degrade the geological features. Legend has it that taking a rock can bring about misfortune. Due to this reason, the park receives letters with returned rocks from people wishing for forgiveness for fossil theft.
Yellowstone National Park
Yellowstone National Park was the first-ever national park, established in 1872. With scenic mountains and rivers and an abundance of wildlife, Yellowstone is home to more than 10,000 hydrothermal features. These include hot springs, mudpots, and over 500 geysers formed from the 2.1 million-year-old super volcano hiding below Yellowstone’s surface. Visitors from all over the world flock to Yellowstone National Park for its geysers.
Mammoth Cave National Park
With tunnels stretching over 420 miles, Mammoth Cave is the world’s largest cave system. Nearly 10 million years ago, water began to swirl its way through the limestone bed, eventually shaping the cave’s massive tunnels. Inside the cave are the classic stalactites and stalagmites, but you’ll also find other unique formations.
Devil’s Tower National Monument
The origins of this unique rock formation is that Devil’s Tower once constituted the inside of a volcano. Eventually, the softer outside rock of the eroded, leaving only the harder igneous rock behind. Among the local peoples, Devil’s Tower is highly sacred. Each community passes down legends of its creation, which typically include someone escaping a big bear and finding refuge atop the rock.
1. Why must the stones be kept in Petrified Forest National Park?A.The park is a dangerous place. |
B.They are valueless stones in the park. |
C.They can cause ecological and geological effects. |
D.They will definitely bring bad luck according to the legend. |
A.Amazing wildlife. |
B.Picturesque scenery. |
C.Old history. |
D.Hydrothermal wonders. |
A.Petrified Forest National Park. |
B.Yellowstone National Park. |
C.Mammoth Cave National Park. |
D.Devil’s Tower National Monument. |
【推荐3】China is one of the best tourist destinations with many great museums, which will show you the Chinese civilization for the past thousands of years.
The Palace Museum, Beijing
There are always long lines at the gate, but it’s worth the wait. The palace Museum had been the Chinses imperial (皇帝的) palace from the Ming dynasty to the end of the Qing dynasty.
When you wander in the museum, you will be amazed at this largest palace complex in the world! It has about 1,807,000 rare and valuable artworks that witness the 5,000-year Chinese civilization.
Opening Hours:
April 1 — October 31: 8:30 — 17:00
November 1— March 31: 8:30 — 16:30
Closed on Mondays (except for national holidays and July-August)
National Museum of China, Beijing
This is the second most-visited museums in the world. Opened in 2003, the museum is devoted to educating the art and history of China through its collections, exhibitions, and academic researches.
Here you'll find the most brilliant masterpieces in China. It is now holding approximately 1,400,000 amazing objects. These objects are like storytellers who reveal Chinese history from the Yuanmou Man of 1.7 million years ago to the end of the Qing Dynasty.
Opening Hours:
9:00 — 17:00
Closed on Mondays
Museum of Terracotta Warriors and Horses (兵马俑), Xi'an
The Museum of Terracotta Warriors and Horses is featured with thousands of life-sized terracotta figures of warriors and horses. They are arranged in battle formations and different from each other with individual characteristics.
Thousands of treasures still remain to be unearthed at this archaeological (考古的) site, and more mysteries of the Qin dynasty will be revealed someday in the future.
Opening Hours:
March 16— November 15: 8:30 — 18:00
November 16— March 15: 8:30 — 17:30
Shanghai Museum, Shanghai
Visiting Shanghai Museum is ranked No. 2 out of 10 things to do in Shanghai. Perhaps, this is the most modern museum in China, housing a diverse collection of around 1,020,000 artifacts that chart the nation's history.
There are eleven galleries in three exhibition halls, covering most of the major categories of Chinese art: bronzes, sculpture, ceramics (陶瓷制品), paintings, calligraphy, seals, jade, coins and Ming and Qing furniture.
Opening Hours:
Monday to Sunday: 9:00 — 17:00
1. Which museum houses the largest collection?A.The Palace Museum . | B.The National Museum of China. |
C.The Museum of Terracotta Warriors and Horses. | D.The Shanghai Museum. |
A.It is the most popular museum in the world. |
B.It used to be part of the emperor's palace. |
C.It shows Chinese history of all times. |
D.It opens every day except Monday. |
A.Its collections date back to the age of the Yuanmou Man. |
B.The masterpieces are arranged in its many galleries. |
C.It focuses on the archaeological findings of one dynasty. |
D.Sculpture, ceramics and paintings are on show there. |