When we were growing up, my mom focused most of her energy on the organization like the church, the school or the community. I remember her comment whenever I complained about the volunteer activities. “It’s for the church.” Or “It’s for the school.” So my brother ran the sound equipment for the school’s annual Christmas play, my dad made bean soup for the church’s summer festival, and I spent days reorganizing the elementary school library at the end of each school year. How could anyone dare to refuse? Each demand was accompanied by that unspoken question, “If you don’t do it, who will?”
For my mother, volunteering was like breathing or cleaning out the closets each spring. If it needed to be done and you were able to do it, you did it.
Now as an adult and mother of three children, I have raised my hand at more meeting than I care to count. As a Girl Scout leader, I spent my Thursday evening with sixteen energetic Brownies. I baked dozens of cookies to raise money for the school gardening club. If I didn’t do it, who would?
That little question has also encouraged me to take action in other aspects of my life when I would have preferred to just stay in bed. If I don’t cut fat, add calcium (钙), and exercise, who will? If I don’t turn off TV programs that are inappropriate for my children, who will?
Sometimes what comes with that question seems overwhelming (压倒性的). How easy it would be to turn the responsibility of life over to those we all love to reply on: “them”. Let “them” worry about endangered whales. Let “them” pick up roadside garbage. Let “them” serve on the school board. But that isn’t what my mother taught me. If I can do it, I believe I should do it.
After all, if I don’t, who will?
1. What can we learn from the first paragraph?A.The author’s father had the biggest power in the family. |
B.The author’s mother cared more about others than her own family. |
C.The author’s mother influenced her family greatly in volunteering. |
D.The author’s family always happily did volunteering. |
A.It is a big challenge. | B.It is a natural thing. |
C.It is a sign of ability. | D.It takes up too much time. |
A.A way to improve her life. | B.A good personal habit. |
C.A good family tradition. | D.A kind of responsibility. |
A.Importance of volunteers | B.Message from Mother |
C.Ways of volunteering | D.Great power of love |
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【推荐1】Life is hard-even harder than anyone thought it would be. When you were younger, you dreamed of the world being your playground, and you were told that you could do anything and be anyone you wanted. Somehow, though, things haven’t been the smooth sailing that you wanted them to be. The world seems to go against you, and the last thing you want to hear is “Cheer up!”
Still, there’s a couple of things you might not notice about your situation. Next time you’re down, maybe the following will provide motivation.
Firstly, not everything is bad. It’s a well-accepted fact that bad news makes for sensational (极好的) television ratings. The fact is that something negative catches a lot more attention than something positive, and that’s because it’s easy to see things in a negative light. However, that shouldn’t distract you from the bigger picture.
Resist the tunnel vision that results from constant negativity. Remember that even though there’s lots of really nasty stuff going on, you’re surrounded by some pretty awesome stuff as well.
You should also remember other people aren’t you. No one likes being compared to another person. What makes it even worse, if that’s even possible, is when you do it to yourself.
Stop comparing yourself to another person and you’ll realize that you’re much more awesome than you give yourself credit for.
Lastly, failure isn’t where the game stops. So you tried something new, but you didn’t follow through. Frustrated at yourself, you stop trying. As a result, your quality of life goes down terribly. You’ve given up on it, though, because you don’t see the point (since you failed the first time).
Now, you’re an adult. The things you are trying are much more complicated than five-year-old you. However, your behaviour shouldn’t change in the slightest-when you fail in something, that’s just more information in your data bank. You know that method doesn’t work, so try another one! And another one after that! Do this until you figure it out. Giving up is for losers, and you sure aren’t one of those.
1. The author mentioned bad news in order to show that .A.bad news makes people see things in a negative light |
B.bad news is more likely to catch people’s eyes |
C.bad news attracts people to see positive things |
D.bad news has a negative effect on television ratings |
A.Unstable emotions. | B.Important events. |
C.Amazing incidents . | D.Something unpleasant. |
A.We will change our behaviour. |
B.We will keep trying the old method. |
C.We should learn from failure. |
D.We should think in a more complicated way. |
A.It inspires us to learn from negative experiences. |
B.It compares negative and positive experiences. |
C.It criticizes those who are affected by bad experiences. |
D.It discusses how negative experiences affect others. |
【推荐2】Laughing is essential to keep your stress levels under control ,it's not only necessary, but also essential to have a good sense of humor just to help us get through each and every day of our lives.
A.It drives people crazy |
B.It drives people excited |
C.Putting a smile on someone's face when you know they are feeling down in the dumps |
D.With all the wars, fighting and sadness in the world today |
E.Laughing is essential to make your stress levels out of control |
F.as if I were from outer space. |
G.My Grandma always found humor in everything she did |
【推荐3】If you are human, you can’t help but experience times when everything seems to be going wrong and you feel as if your life is completely out of control. It is during those “down times” that words of encouragement from family, friends, co-workers or even strangers can lighten your spirits. It is also during those times that destructive(有害的) words can sink you deeper and deeper into depression(沮丧).
For example, consider this story about a group of frogs who were traveling through the woods when two of them fell into a deep pit(坑). All of the other frogs gathered around the pit. When they saw how deep the pit was, they told the two unfortunate frogs they would never get out.
The two frogs ignored the comments and tried to jump out of the pit. The other frogs kept telling them to stop. Finally, one of the frogs took heed of what the other frogs were saying and simply gave up. He fell down and died. The other frog continued to jump as hard as he could. Once again the crowd of frogs shouted at him to stop the pain. The more they shouted, the harder he jumped and finally he made it to safety.
When he got out, the other frogs asked him why he continued to jump when they were all shouting at him to simply quit. The frog explained to them that he was a little bit deaf. He thought they were encouraging him the entire time.
Every time you have a chance to say either something positive or negative to another human being, do choose the chance to say something positive! Don’t let those opportunities get away from you. Your words have a large amount of power. Use them wisely. You really never know just how much they can mean to someone else.
1. The first paragraph tells us that words play an important part especially when . .A.we stay with our family, friends and co-workers |
B.we hear strangers say something to us |
C.we get through hard times in life |
D.we make some big mistakes |
A.acted according to |
B.had some doubt |
C.held on to |
D.got used to |
A.he struggled to prove that they were wrong |
B.he thought they were encouraging him |
C.he was angry with what they said |
D.he didn’t want to let them down |
A.we can use encouraging words to help others out |
B.having a positive attitude is important in life |
C.never give up until we win |
D.we must believe in ourselves rather than others |
【推荐1】Each time I see a balloon, my mind flies back to a memory of when I was a six-year-old girl. It was a rainy Sunday and my father had recently died. I asked my mom if Dad had gone to heaven. "Yes, honey. Of course." she said.
"Can we write him a letter?"
She paused, the longest pause of my short life, and answered, "Yes."
My heart jumped. "How? Does the mailman go there?" I asked.
"No, but I have an idea." Mom drove to a party store and returned with a red balloon. I asked her what it was for.
"Just wait, honey. You'll see." Mom told me to write my letter. Eagerly, I got my favorite pen, and poured out my six-year-old heart in the form of blue ink. I wrote about my day, what I learned at school, how Mom was doing, and even about what happened in a story I had read. For a few minutes it was as if Dad were still alive. I gave the letter to Mom. She read it over, and a smile crossed her face.
She made a hole in the corner of the letter where she looped the balloon string. We went outside and she gave me the balloon. It was still raining.
"Okay, on the count of three, let go. One, two, three."
The balloon, carrying my letter, darted upward against the rain. We watched until it was swallowed by the mass of clouds.
Later I realized, like the balloon, that Dad had never let his sickness get him down. He was strong. No matter what he suffered, he'd persevere, hang on, and finally transcend this cold world and his sick body. He rose into sky and became something beautiful. I watched until the balloon disappeared into the gray and white and I prayed that his strength was hereditary. I prayed to be a balloon.
1. When the girl asked her mother if they could write to her father, her mother ______.A.found it easy to lie |
B.thought her a creative girl |
C.believed it easy to do so |
D.felt it hard to answer |
A.became excited |
B.jumped with joy |
C.started writing immediately |
D.was worried that it couldn't be delivered |
A.An incurable disease. |
B.An unforgettable memory. |
C.The failures her father experienced. |
D.The hard time her father had. |
A.An unforgettable experience | B.Fly to paradise |
C.The strong red balloon | D.A great father |
On Christmas Day of the year, I was reflecting on as many good memories of my father as I could. I decided to work out my feelings, so I sat down and wrote my father a letter.
Dear Daddy,
I remember something today. I remember when I was 3 years old, mom carried me right before bedtime and you sang “Now I Lay Me Down To Sleep” to me, and I remember your voice like it was just yesterday. I remember the warmth of you lying next to me and how special I felt at that moment. Then my mom carried me off to my own bed to tuck me in.
I remember times when I could sit out on the porch with you and watch an approaching thunderstorm, and you would tell me the scientific facts behind lightning and thunder. I thought you knew everything.
I remember you taking my two brothers and me on trips to a stream out in the country on summer days. We would walk along the stream, picking wildflowers to take home to mother.
I want to thank you for giving me an appreciation of nature and science and of God’s beautiful creation, Earth. I want to thank you for making us take part in “family worship” every evening after dinner. I remember that Bible stories and the Golden Rule on how to treat others, and I learnt how to appreciate music in my life from the hymns we sang. I also learnt to harmonize with my sisters.
And most of all, I want to forgive you. I forgive you for not being able to tell me that I was a special girl and that you loved me. I longed for your spoken affection. But I realize something in your own upbringing would not allow you to express your feelings verbally (口头地). I realize that you did the best that you could with what you knew.
I signed the letter and put it into my wooden box to join many other cards and letters from my family and loved ones that I cherished. But somehow, it had not brought any relief I desired.
On New Year’s Eve, I remember the letter to my father. I took it outside to the yard. Then I built a fire and dropped it into the flame and watched it burn.
As I thanked my father for giving me life, the tears came. I released all the grief and whispered, “you were my father… and I love you.”
1. Why did the writer struggle with the feelings upon hearing her father’s death?A.Because she couldn’t accept her father’s death. |
B.Because she wanted to hold back her sadness. |
C.Because she knew she should have felt sad. |
D.Because she had a mixed feeling of love and hatred. |
A.father sang songs for her before bedtime. |
B.father taught her nature, science, and history. |
C.father took her on trips in nature. |
D.father read Bible stories for her. |
A.the writer burned the letter directly after finishing writing it. |
B.father’s growth influenced his way of expressing himself. |
C.the writer never expected father to express his true feelings. |
D.the writer didn’t forgive her father completely after his death. |
A.Daddy, I miss you. |
B.A regretful letter to father |
C.Happy time with daddy |
D.The flames of forgiveness |
【推荐3】I accidentally heard a father and daughter in their last moments together at an airport. They had announced her plane's departure Standing near the door, he said to his daughter, "I love you. I wish you enough." She said," Daddy, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Daddy." They kissed good-bye and she left.
He walked over toward the window where I was seated. Standing there, I could see he wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude (干涉)on his privacy, but he welcomed me in by asking, ''Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?" "Yes, I have," I replied.
Saying that brought back memories of expressing my love and appreciation for all my dad had done for me. Recognizing that his days were limited, I took the time to tell him face to face how much he meant to me. So I knew what this man was experiencing. ''Forgive me for asking, but why is this a forever good-bye?" I asked.
''I am old and she lives much too far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is, her next trip back will be for my funeral," he said.
"When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, 'I wish you enough.' May I ask what that means?”
He began to smile. "That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone." He paused for a moment and looked up as if he were trying to remember it in detail. He smiled even more. "When we said 'I wish you enough,' we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with enough good things," he continued and then turned toward me. He then shared the following as if he were reciting it from memory:
"I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright. I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more. I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive…I wish you enough 'Hellos' to get you through the final 'Good-bye…
He then began to sob and walked away.
1. Why did father say it was a forever good-bye?A.He would wait for his daughter. |
B.He thought his days were limited. |
C.His daughter wouldn't come back. |
D.He had a quarrel with his daughter. |
A.He seldom visited his father | B.He was busy working. |
C.He was good at chatting, | D.He had the same feeling. |
A.Treasuring the time together. | B.Keeping your spirit alive. |
C.Appreciating the sun more. | D.Making your attitude bright. |
A.I Have Challenges Ahead | B.A Sad Journey |
C.I Wish You Enough | D.A Sad Father |
【推荐1】One minute, Peggy Lewis and her husband, Harris Lee, were watching the trees blow in the wind. The next, they were surrounded by flying pieces of glass from the house’s broken windows. The roof was torn off. The walls caved in (塌陷). After the 152-mph tornado (龙卷风) had passed, it took a team of neighbors to pull the couple from the rubble (碎砖) and take them to the hospital.
When the pair returned to their house three days later, it was clear that what remained of the house would need to be torn down, but before Peggy would let that happen, she wanted one thing first—her family Bible.
Peggy had bought the Bible 35 years earlier, at the start of her marriage. Like many people, she’d used it to hold her family’s history — old photos, and a handkerchief from her great-grandmother.
The Bible was the first thing Peggy looked for when she returned to the house. When two volunteers showed up, Peggy had one task for them.
After an hour of searching, one of the volunteers ran up to her. Peggy had tears running down her face. The young woman had found the book while looking through rubble. Surprisingly, while many other books inside the house had been destroyed beyond recognition, the Bible was still complete, even though it had sat in the rain for days. “I completely broke down,” says Peggy. “I thought it was gone forever.” She was extremely grateful.
Peggy and her family were living at a friend’s house until they got back on their feet. But the book already has its well-deserved place of honor, in Peggy’ borrowed dresser. She knows that while every good book tells stories of disastrous (灾难性的) weather and unlikely survival, this one actually lived it.
1. What happened to the couple during the tornado?A.They were hurt by glass. | B.They were buried in ruins. |
C.They were blown to the wall. | D.They were forced to leave their house. |
A.To help find her Bible. | B.To get her a new dresser. |
C.To dig out all the buried things. | D.To tear down the dangerous house. |
A.It’s very expensive. | B.It’s a gift from her husband. |
C.It marked her marriage. | D.It held important things. |
A.Excited but surprised. | B.Sad but thankful. |
C.Excited and thankful. | D.Surprised but sad. |
A.An important book. | B.All of her books. |
C.Her house. | D.Some of her relatives. |
What Emily didn't know at the time was that she was suffering from an illness called binge-eating disorder(BED)(暴饮暴食).
For years, Emily didn't tell anyone what she was doing. She felt ashamed, alone, and out of control. Why don't famous people confess (承认) to BED, as they do to anorexia? It's simple: There's a stigma(污名)involved. “Overeating is seen as very bad, but dieting to be skinny is seen as positive and even associated with determination," says Charles Sophy, a doctor in Beverly Hills , California.
"Some parents or friends may look at a teen with BED and think, 'Oh, a good diet and some will-power will do the trick.' But that's not true," says Dr.Ovidio Bermudez , a baby doctor at the Eating Recovery Center in Denver. "Eating disorders are real physical and mental health issues; it's not about willpower." The focus in treating BED shouldn't be on weight, because as with all eating disorders, the behaviors with food are a symptom of something deeper.
Like most other diseases, genetics may play a big part in who gets BED and who doesn't. If you have a close relative with an eating disorder, that means you're more likely to develop an eating disorder of your own.
Besides, many people with BED have tried at some point or another to control it by going on a diet, but paying more attention to food doesn't help. And it might even make things worse, like it did for Carla, who's 15 now and is recovering from BED. "My parents would always tease me about my weight, so when I was 14, I went on a very restrictive diet," she says. When you can't have something, you only want it more, so every time Carla would have a bite of something that wasn't allowed on her strict diet. She would quickly lose control and binge (狂欢).
1. What does the underlined word "anorexia" in Paragraph 3 mean?
A.Eating too much. |
B.Eating junk food. |
C.Loss of the wish to eat. |
D.Always eating in a hurry. |
A.just need a lot of willpower |
B.can recover with a good diet |
C.can recover with the help of others |
D.need to deal with their health problems |
A.BED is an incurable disease. |
B.BED has something to do with genes. |
C.Going on a diet won't help BED patients. |
D.BED patients should pay attention to their food. |
【推荐3】Wearing high heels, lipstick and trendy dresses, a group of “chic grandmas” with an average age of 68, can still walk the runway as models. However, they are not trained models. They are, in fact, ordinary retirees. They all share a love for fashion, and they come together to add a bit of enjoyment to their lives. These “chic grandmas” share a common goal now but their backgrounds could hardly be more different.
Sang Xiuzhu, 77, is one of them. She used to be an automatic control engineer. She initially intended to journey around the globe with her husband after retirement, but during a literary event, Sang, 1.7 meters tall, was spotted by a modeling coach. In the beginning, she joined the senior model team and attended events organized by her local community. Later, she was invited to participate in Beijing International Fashion Week, Paris Fashion Week and her new career just grew.
Sang is learning to compose music, form lines and write scripts. She is so occupied that she really has no time to think about the aging issue. As for the future, Sang doesn’t know how to define (定义) it, as she really enjoys the present. She suggests that after retirement, people should cope with the transition period, and they should enjoy life.
As long as the heart is not old, life is always sweet. All “chic grandmas” are full of enthusiasm for new things and they live to learn. This kind of enthusiasm that is rooted deeply in their heart fills them with energy.
1. What does the underlined word “chic” in the first paragraph mean?A.Retired. | B.Senior. | C.Fashionable. | D.Traditional. |
A.To become a senior model. | B.To attend literary events. |
C.To learn to compose music. | D.To tour around the world. |
A.They have a born talent for modeling. | B.They come from similar backgrounds. |
C.They willingly experience new things. | D.They care much about the aging issue. |
A.Beauty Has No Age Limit | B.Changes in Fashion Week |
C.Rich Life after Retirement | D.How to Be a Senior Model |