Everybody needs casual relationships or "weak ties" while growing up.
Fewer friends as we age
Young adults gather lots of friends but by the mid-20s when responsibilities increase and free time reduces, so does the number of friendships.
Gillian Sandstrom, a senior lecturer of psychology at the University of Essex, studies social interactions(互动). She found that sustaining these minor connections keeps us involved in the community, particularly after a move away from close friends and family or after the loss of a loved one.
How to make more friends
Don't just ask about the weather or something like "How's your day going?" Take time to get to know that person so the exchange and the relationship become more meaningful for both of you.
A.Start with something you are really interested in. |
B.Many think those interactions are not worth the time. |
C.As we get older, we no longer have the need to be out with friends. |
D.When you talk to someone, you’re actually brightening their day. |
E.If you don't normally chat with people, you may wonder how to start. |
F.They seem unimportant, but they actually benefit your emotional well-being. |
G.The more involved the chat becomes, the more likely a friendship will develop |
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【推荐1】How to Order Coffee at Starbucks
Learning how to order coffee at Starbucks can be tricky, and if you think that ordering coffee at Starbucks is confusing, you are not alone.
For ordering basic coffee, beyond specifying the size you want, you will need to tell the server whether you want regular or decaffeinated (脱去咖啡因的)coffee.
When you order, say the size you want first, then give the name of the drink, and finally add the special instructions last.
A.Starbucks is often a very busy place |
B.Starbucks offers all kinds of coffee |
C.Otherwise,they will assume that you want regular |
D.Sometimes they will write your name in short forms |
E.The ordering process is complicated because they use terms to describe drink size |
F.Finally, if you are very particular about the freshness of your coffee, ask in advance |
G.Your name will immediately be written on your cup and called out when, your drink is ready |
【推荐2】Everyone likes to be the student everyone else is happy to be around. If you want to become a great classmate, follow these steps.
1. Be smart.
Study! It can be boring, but you need to study if you want to be smart.
Read nonfiction books!
Listen up in class! You need to pay attention if you’re going to learn anything and become smarter. If you’re sitting beside someone that you usually talk to or someone who is talking in class to the point where you can’t pay attention, talk to the teacher about getting a new seat.
2. Be a good leader.
In a group project, take charge!
3. Be approachable and friendly.
Give out praise! Don’t tell fake praise, though. Be sincere! Your classmates will take you more seriously and feel much better about the praise you gave them.
Be sure to have good hygiene(卫生)!
A.This will make the person feel accepted. |
B.Nobody is approachable when they smell. |
C.Sit down and tell everyone to give their ideas. |
D.If your teacher says no, tell the person to be quiet. |
E.Always have a smile on your face and good posture. |
F.Take up tasks unless someone else offers to do them. |
G.You will learn new things by reading informational books. |
【推荐3】Often, when you buy a computer, the laptop bag is overlooked (忽略). Most choose a laptop simply because they want to be able to transport it from place to place.
The first thing to consider when choosing the best laptop bag is what style of bag you may want. The most common styles are the briefcase (公文包) and the backpack.
A laptop bag should have both a computer sleeve along with several separate sections. The sleeve helps keep the laptop from moving too much in the bag. The sections are good for storage of documents and other things.
Another thing when you buy a laptop bag is making sure it is strongly sewed and has a solid bottom. These two things will make your bag much stronger.
A.Obviously, the former is more important. |
B.Each one has their own advantages. |
C.Materials also make a difference. |
D.You will benefit a lot from a good laptop bag. |
E.There are many choices when you choose laptop bags. |
F.So documents won’t rub up against the computer. |
G.Choosing a cheap bag could reduce the life of the bag. |
【推荐1】Steve Sparks was a young successful lawyer working for a famous law firm when his 3-year-old daughter’s serious leg problem changed his focus and the direction of his life. The problem led to many visits to doctors and an uncertain future. In a moment his life’s focus shifted from where he was going to take his clients to lunch to whether his daughter Katie was ever going to see her fourth birthday.
For three years Katie received many treatments in the hospital. And with the help of wonderful doctors and kind care-givers in Nemours Foundation, who Steve and his wife Michelle describe as heroes, Katie’s illness was cured.
Forever changed by the experience and inspired by the heroes who saved his daughter’s life, Steve felt he couldn’t go back to business as usual. He felt there was something else he was meant to do. He joined the Nemours Foundation as their lawyer. The job change came with a 65% pay cut from what he was making, but Steve’s purpose had found him and it was more important than a paycheck.
Fast forward 18 years, Katie is now a healthy 20-year-old junior in college and Steve is the Senior Vice-president of the Nemours Foundation where he brings Kati story and his purpose to work every day.
In 3 weeks Steve will celebrate Katie’s 21st birthday, and give a big thank-you to Nemours by riding his bicycle from Nemours’ headquarters in Jacksonville, Florida to Wilmington, Delaware. He will ride more than 900 miles in 9 days and raise 100,000 for the Nemours Foundation. His purpose hasn’t just become a part of his work. It has become a part of himself and his family.
1. What’s the text mainly about?A.A hospital saved a girl’s life. | B.A girl going through a disease. |
C.A man with a good purpose. | D.A family suffered a lot. |
A.Injury. | B.Reduction. | C.Share. | D.Hole. |
A.To find his purpose. | B.To cure his daughter. |
C.To earn more money. | D.To help others. |
A.Sometimes we find our purpose and sometimes our purpose finds us. |
B.Unless you work hard, you cannot overcome any difficulty. |
C.Anyone who is kind to others deserves good returns. |
D.Nothing is more important than health. |
【推荐2】It's hard when a best friend isn't around-maybe because he or she moved to a different school or a different class,or maybe he or she is just homesick for the day. You can feel lonely at break or lunchtime without him or her.
Start by looking around your classroom and think about which kids you'd like to play with at break. Look for chances to say "Hi" to them,smile,and be friendly.
If you have trouble doing this or if you're feeling shy,ask your teacher to help you make new friends. Teachers are usually pretty good at matching up friends.
A.What's right for me? |
B.Make a choice in your life. |
C.Will he or she feel the same? |
D.Offer to share something or offer greetings. |
E.You might still miss that special best friend. |
F.The best way to make friends is to be a friend. |
G.But remember, there's always room for more friends. |
【推荐3】I have forgotten the name of the old lady, who was a customer on my newspaper route when I was a twelve-year-old boy back in 1954. Yet it seems like just yesterday that she taught me a lesson in forgiveness that I can only hope to pass on to someone else some day.
On a Saturday afternoon, a friend and I were throwing stones onto the roof of the old lady’s house. I found a smooth rock and sent it. The stone headed straight for a small window on the old lady’s back door. At the sound of broken glass, we took off from the old lady’s yard.
I was too scared about getting caught that first night. However, a few days later when I was sure that I hadn’t been discovered, I started to feel guilty for her misfortune.
She still greeted me with a smile each day when I gave her the newspaper, but I was no longer able to act comfortably when seeing her.
I decided to save my paper delivery money, and in three weeks I had the seven dollars that I thought would cover the cost of her window. I put the money in an envelope with a note saying that I was sorry for breaking her window and hoped that the seven dollars would cover the cost of repairing it.
The next day, I handed the old lady her paper. She thanked me for the paper and gave me a bag of biscuits she had made herself. I thanked her and ate the biscuits as I continued my route.
After several biscuits, I felt an envelope and pulled it out of the bag. When I opened the envelope, I was shocked. Inside were the seven dollars and a short note that said, “I’m proud of you.”
1. What work did the author do at the age of 12?A.Collecting old papers. |
B.Delivering newspapers. |
C.Picking rocks. |
D.Repairing roofs. |
A.They broke the old lady’s back door. |
B.They heard the old lady shouting. |
C.They broke the old lady’s window. |
D.They were seen by the old lady. |
A.He saved some money to cover the cost. |
B.He gave the old lady papers for free. |
C.He apologized in the old lady’s presence. |
D.He bought cookies for the old lady. |
A.strict | B.patient | C.mean | D.generous |