Think about the last time you felt a negative emotion—like stress, anger, or frustration. What was going through your mind as you were going through that negativity? Was your mind cluttered with different kinds of thoughts? Or was it paralyzed, unable to think?
The next time you find yourself in the middle of a very stressful time, or you feel angry or frustrated, stop. Yes, that's right, stop. Whatever you're doing, stop and sit for one minute. While you're sitting there, completely immerse yourself in the negative emotion. Allow that emotion to consume you. Allow yourself one minute to truly feel that emotion. Don't cheat yourself here. Take the entire minute—but only one minute—to do nothing else but feel that emotion.
When the minute is over, ask yourself, “Am I willing to keep holding on to this negative emotion as I go through the rest of the day?” Once you've allowed yourself to be totally immersed in the emotion and really feel it, you will be surprised to find that the emotion clears rather quickly.
If you feel you need to hold on to the emotion for a little longer, that is OK. Allow yourself another minute to feel the emotion. When you feel you've had enough of the emotion, ask yourself if you're willing to carry that negativity with you for the rest of the day. If not, take a deep breath. As you exhale, release all that negativity with your breath.
This exercise seems simple—almost too simple. But, it is very effective. By allowing that negative emotion the space to be truly felt, you are dealing with the emotion rather than stuffing it down and trying not to feel it. You are actually taking away the power of the emotion by giving it the space and attention it needs. When you immerse yourself in the emotion, and realize that it is only emotion, it loses its control. You can clear your head and proceed with your task.
1. What should you do when you are into negativity according to the article?A.Listen to some music. | B.Ignore it and do something else. |
C.Just do nothing and truly feel that emotion. | D.Think about it and try to deal with it immediately. |
A.break down | B.get rid of | C.cut off | D.throw into |
A.Clear Your Mental Space |
B.Deep Breath, Trouble Away |
C.Try to Avoid the Negative Emotion |
D.Keep Holding on to This Negative Emotion as Long as Possible |
A.doubtful | B.optimistic | C.frightened | D.confused |
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Freshen up your garbage disposals (处理器)with some lemons.
With all the junk we throw into our garbage disposals, it's no wonder that they're real petri dishes (培养皿)with the awful smell to prove it. Thankfully, making them a whole lot cleaner is easy: Simply drop some cut lemons down your drain.
Make the bathtub clean with grapefruit and salt.
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A.What problem will be caused by the bacteria |
B.This his fruit is the perfect solution to a dirty tub |
C.So, how should you fight with all that bacteria |
D.Clean out your coffee maker with some vinegar |
E.Get ready to have your home look twice as spotless in half the time |
F.These tricks can help you be more subjective and work more efficiently |
G.As your disposals covers up those skins, it will start to smell fresh and great |
【推荐2】Enjoyable and immersive hobbies have the power to make us happier and healthier. Hobbies lead to better physical health, more sleep, lower stress, greater life satisfaction, a larger social network and improved work performance.
Be open.
“Keeping an open mind and not dismissing potential hobbies even if they seem out of your wheel-house is key,” says Katina, a clinical psychology researcher. “We’re wired as humans to be curious and open, but in a very burned-out world, we forget that,” she says. “It’s the first thing to go.” So next time someone hands you a flier or invites you to an event, seize the opportunity.
When you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up? The answer could point you towards an appealing hobby. If you wanted to be a major league player, what can you do now that fulfills that urge for you? Joining a softball team or coaching some neighborhood kids could inspire a long-dormant passion.
Go back to school.
Consider auditing (旁听) a class at a university or signing up for a lesson to learn more about a potential hobby.
Take an assessment.
Lots of colleges offer career assessments to help students determine what to major in and how to guide their professional lives.
A.Take a trip back in time. |
B.But where do you start? |
C.Turn your dream into a hobby. |
D.Always dreamed of writing a novel? |
E.It could introduce you to something you never guessed you’d love. |
F.You can also use these tools to gather insights about potential hobbies. |
G.If a hobby makes you healthier and happier, everyone around you will benefit. |
【推荐3】Nowadays, all universities are doing whatever they can to become a green campus. But there are also items students can do to make your campus eco-friendlier.
Recycle everything, especially paper!
There is a large amount of paper a college student goes through per semester.
Buy green.
Walk and bike to school.
Most campuses, especially those that are trying to become an eco-friendlier campus, have pretty good public transit.
A water bottle can be refilled at any water fountain and can easily be drunk in class or while riding a bike. This will save the environment by decreasing the amount of plastic waste on your campus.
Buy used clothing.
It is usually thought of as something to do to save money.
A.Carry a water bottle. |
B.Don’t use plastic bottles to drink water. |
C.Buy recycled goods as much as possible. |
D.It is also good for the environment! |
E.On top of that, almost all universities are pedestrian(行人) friendly. |
F.It includes class notes, term papers, student newspapers and so on. |
G.Universities call on all the students to learn to recycle all the waste paper. |
【推荐1】Does stress cause gray hairs? Many people believe that stress can cause your hair to lose its color. In fact, it is an old wife’s tale that being upset all the time can result in hair graying early. Here is a closer look at this situation and why some believe that this old wife’s tale could be true.
As one ages, the hairs on the head also age. In fact, just about everything on the human body begins to show signs of wear after a while. Hairs on the head grow and finally die. They are replaced, but in the process something else happens when old hairs are replaced by new hairs. The color of pigment is also added to them. However, as one ages, this pigment becomes less and less available. At first, hairs will have a limited amount of pigment and they will appear to be gray in color. In time, they will lose all of their pigment and will be white.
Many things are known to cause graying, and genetics is a very powerful factor. If one of your parents turns gray at an early age, there is a good chance that you will too. Some people begin the graying process in high school, while others may be over the age of forty.
If you are whites, you will probably notice graying in your mid-thirties. Blacks may be well into their forties. This is not always true, but it is common practice.
Constant worry and stress can have many bad effects on the human body. It is a known fact that stressful times can cause one to suffer hair loss. It would make sense that if stress can cause these problems, perhaps it also may lead to graying. However, there is no sound evidence to support this. On the other hand, many doctors believe that there may be a link between graying and constant state of anxiety or stress.
1. As one ages, his hairs will become white because _________.A.stress can cause the hair to lose its color |
B.his hair will die and be replaced by new hair |
C.the color will be added to the new hair |
D.his hair will lose all of the pigment |
A.Genetics is the only known cause of hair graying. |
B.Stress is the main cause of hair graying for high school students. |
C.Generally speaking, whites’ hairs become gray earlier than blacks. |
D.Hair graying actually has nothing to do with your anxiety or stress. |
A.worry and stress lead to hair graying |
B.worry and stress do harm to your body |
C.the old wife’s tale is true |
D.graying is not linked with stress at all |
A.To tell us an old wife’s tale. |
B.To tell us stress is harmful to our bodies. |
C.To tell us stress may not cause gray hairs. |
D.To tell us genetics is a powerful factor. |
【推荐2】Have you ever wondered about the significance of emotions in our life? Emotions play a critical part in our lives.
You may find it very hard to believe but it is not our responsibility to bear other people’s feelings, this is something that they have to do themselves.
What should be your course of action here? It might seem rude when I say this but you really need to hear it. You are not responsible for how others feel!
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B.They are infectious unless you know how to control them. |
C.So, it’s a must for us to learn to control our feelings. |
D.You have conveyed your feelings in a very understandable manner. |
E.This goes sideways, others are also not accountable for how you feel. |
F.It means that you have allowed the other person to emotionally control you. |
G.Otherwise, it will create co-dependency in relationships which is very harmful. |
【推荐3】Have you ever had a stressful day? And on these high-pressure days, many people might find themselves reaching for a sugary snack. Perhaps this is part of their daily routine. Or perhaps on this particular day, heir self-control is a bit low and they want to take a sugar hit.
Stress is natural. That feeling of pressure is a biological response, and under the right circumstances can be a great source of motivation. However, too much stress, has been linked to sleep disruption, heart-attack, ulcer or depression, among other things. But why should stress make a person comfort eat?
When we become stressed, our bodies enter “fight or flight” mode. Because our body believes it’s under attack, it releases glucose (葡萄糖) into the blood to provide energy for muscles. However, if we don’t use that energy, our body then releases insulin (胰岛素) to make the blood sugar levels drop. This drop causes a hunger response: you want to eat. And what you particularly want is sugary food, which rapidly refills the energy you have lost. If this happens repeatedly, over a long enough period, these high-calorie foods can lead to obesity.
So what can we do to fight the stress? Dr Michael Mosley recommends exercise, gardening, mindfulness or other activities you enjoy. But his strongest recommendation is trying to get a goodnight’s sleep. So, try sleeping to decrease stress.
1. What can we know about stress from the passage?A.It is always negative. | B.It can make people angry. |
C.It is a natural response. | D.It can make people sleep. |
A.Our self-control is too low to refuse sugary food. |
B.Sugary food rapidly refills the energy we have lost. |
C.Insulin in our body makes the blood sugar levels rise. |
D.Sugary food releases insulin to provide energy for muscles. |
A.By getting a good night’s sleep. | B.By taking up gardening. |
C.By eating much sugary foods. | D.By doing something your enjoy. |
A.What causes stress? | B.How to reduce stress? |
C.When to take sugary snacks? | D.Why stress makes you fat? |
【推荐1】When life gives you pineapples—and hundreds of millions of tons of pineapple waste—what do you do? Engineers in Singapore and Vietnam decided to turn all the waste into something useful—the heat barrier for their pineapple juice. Not only does their new material keep drinks cool better than many commercial coolers, but it could also offer a final resting place for the world’s pineapple waste.
To find a use for those leftovers, the researchers mixed pineapple fibers, which they cut up in an electric device, with a sticky agent as a solvent. They then treated the mix with sound waves at frequencies greater than 20 kHz and heated it in an oven at 80℃for 2 hours. The suspension that formed was then cooled before being freeze-dried.
The result was a pale yellow aerogel (气凝胶) that is lightweight, flexible, and more than 96% porous (多孔的)—qualities that make it an ideal material against both heat and sound.
When the researchers wrapped a sheet of the pineapple aerogel around a military-style canteen bottle, they found that the aerogel could provide three times the heat exchange reduction of commercially available alternatives—they reported this month inMaterials Chemistry and Physics. The gel-wrapped bottle kept -3℃water cooled below 0℃for 6 hours and liquid heated to 90℃above 40℃for 2.5 hours. What’s more, the pineapple gel also acted as a sound barrier; in another test, the gel did a better job of preventing noise from getting in or out than Basmel, a popular kind of sound barrier.
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1. Why do engineers come up with the idea of the heat barrier?A.To lower the cost of heat barriers. | B.To make good use of pineapple waste. |
C.To find a better cooler for pineapple juice. | D.To turn pineapples into something more useful. |
A.Freeze-drying the suspension. | B.Cooling the formed suspension. |
C.Cutting up the pineapple leftovers. | D.Treating the mix with sound waves. |
A.It kept the liquid heated to 130℃for about 2.5 hours. |
B.It kept the water cooled below -3℃for nearly 6 hours. |
C.It could be three times as effective as other heat barriers. |
D.It did a better job as a sound barrier than as a heat barrier. |
A.A Better Way to Keep Drinks Cool. | B.An Alternative Way to Recycle Waste. |
C.Pineapple Waste, a Wonderful Drink Cooler. | D.Pineapples, One of the Most Common Fruits. |
【推荐2】A study from Denmark suggests that growing up in the countryside may help you stay in good mental health as an adult. The research involving nearly a million people found children, who live in green areas, are 55% less likely to develop a mental health disorder in later life.
The researchers believe green spaces help create friendly communities where people enjoy talking to others, as well as encouraging people to exercise. This helps improve a child’s cognitive (认知的) development, which may positively affect their mental health.
The research was led by Dr Kristine Engemann from Aarhus University in Denmark. The researchers used satellite data collected between 1985 and 2013 to assess (评估) the green space around the participants’ childhood homes. This data was then compared against the risk of developing mental disorders later in life. “After mastering a huge amount of data, as well as other information such as house location and disease diagnoses from Denmark, we compared it with satellite images which show green space of individual when growing up,” Dr Engemann said.
Results showed that those who grew up surrounded by lots of green space were less at risk of a mental health problem. Dr Engemann said, “We find that the longer you have been surrounded by green space from birth and up to the age of 10, the lower the risk of developing a mental disorder. There is increasing evidence that the natural environment plays a more important role in mental health than thought before. Our study gives us a better understanding of its importance across the broader population.”
Noise, air pollution, infections (传染病) and poor social and economic conditions increase the risk of a mental disorder, according to the study. The researchers are calling on city planners to design greener cities to improve the public’s mental health.
1. What does the study find about green areas?A.They affect adults mentally more than kids. |
B.They influence kids’ mental development. |
C.They can help create peaceful communities. |
D.They are good for kids with mental problems. |
A.The process of the research. |
B.The significance of the research. |
C.The participants of the research. |
D.The assessment of the research. |
A.A further research needs to be conducted. |
B.Green areas can help cure mental problems. |
C.Green space throughout childhood matters a lot. |
D.City planners pay little attention to green areas. |
A.How Can We Lower The Risk Of Developing A Mental Disorder? |
B.Why Do Greener Communities Have More Effects On Adults? |
C.Satellite Images Has Been Used In Environmental Protection |
D.Growing Up In The Countryside Has Potential Mental Benefits |
【推荐3】For better or worse, many of us never forget those typical British school days—and with a site that now has over 32, 200 educational institutions as well as a growing number of users, you won't have to.
SchoolMates is a nice networking platform which offers a refreshing alternative to traditional social media in that the focus is on building more meaningful relationships and encouraging interaction between users. While social media sites are customarily designed to form an interactive online community, SchoolMates aims to help people find friends from their past.
“At SchoolMates, our mission is simple. We've created a platform aimed specifically to help people reconnect and keep in touch with former classmates,” explains founder and CEO Chris Goodwin. “Our site encourages people to revive those special relationships from their youth, letting them look back to the ‘good old days’ of summer holidays spent with friends, memorable school trips, as well as less memorable moments like those awful school lunches.”
SchoolMates brings together more than 32, 000 schools, colleges, academies and universities across England, Scotland, Northern Ireland and Wales and is aimed to help users get back in touch with former classmates. Aimed at the 35 plus age group, which represents 50% of the population, the easy-to-use website enables users to recall and share conversations, jokes, stories, memories and photographs.
Chris was diagnosed with a tumour at the age of 18. He couldn't move and could only sit in a wheelchair. Determined to conquer the world of the Internet and own a successful online business since completing his studies in computer science, he did not let his disability become an excuse to give up on his dreams; he had a successful business career before going on to start up SchoolMates.
1. Why did Chris Goodwin found SchoolMates?A.To make old classmates closer. | B.To increase the number of users. |
C.To help people make new friends. | D.To replace traditional social media. |
A.Review. | B.Retell. | C.Check. | D.Control. |
A.SchoolMates' target group is age-free. | B.It's easy for users to search for information. |
C.SchoolMates designed to be user-friendly. | D.SchoolMates has the biggest number of users. |
A.Smart. | B.Ambitious. | C.Generous. | D.Demanding. |