Parents should stop blaming (责备) themselves because there’s not a lot they can do about it. I mean the teenager problem. Whatever you do or however you choose to deal with it, at certain times a wonderful, reasonable and helpful child will turn into a terrible animal.
I’ve seen friends deal with it in all kinds of different ways. One strict mother insisted that her son, right from a child, should stand up whenever anyone entered the room, open doors and shake hands like a gentleman. I saw him last week when I called round. Sprawling himself (懒散地躺) on the sofa in full length, he made no attempt to turn off the loud TV he was watching as I walked in, and his greeting was no more than a quick glance at me. His mother was ashamed. “I don't know what to do with him these days,” she said. “He’s forgotten all the manners we taught him.”
He hasn't forgotten them. He' s just decided that he' s not going to use them. She confessed (坦白) that she would like to come up behind him and throw him down from the sofa onto the floor.
Another good friend of mine let her two daughters climb all over the furniture, reach across the table, stare at me and say, “I don’t like your dress; it’s ugly.” One of the daughters has recently been driven out of school. The other has left home.
“Where did we go wrong?” her parents are now very sad. Probably nowhere much. At least, no more than the rest of that unfortunate race, parents.
1. This text is most probably written by ________.A.an expert in teenager studies | B.a headmaster of a middle school |
C.a parent with teenage children | D.a doctor for mental health problems |
A.the change from good to bad that ' s seen in a child |
B.the way that parents often blame themselves |
C.the opinion that a child has of his parents |
D.the advice that parents want their children to follow |
A.lazy | B.quiet | C.unusual | D.rude |
A.pay no attention to them | B.are too busy to look after them |
C.have come to hate them | D.feel helpless to do much about them |
A.Parents have no choice but to try to accept it. |
B.Parents shouldn’t pay attention to the change at all. |
C.Parents should work more closely with school teachers. |
D.Parents are to blame for the change in their children. |
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It may sound strange but that is what many hundreds of thousands of young people in the UK do every summer. Why? Because summer is the time for outdoor music festivals.
Held on a farm, the Glastonbury Festival is the most well-known and popular festival in the UK. It began in 1970 and the first festival was attended by one thousand five hundred people each paying an admission price of £1 — the ticket included free milk from the farm.
Since then the
included superstars, such as Paul McCartney and James Brown, as well as new talent, like Franz Ferdinand and Joss Stone.
Although many summer festivals are run on a profit —making basis, Glastonbury is a charity event, donating millions of pounds to local and international charities.
Glastonbury is not unique in using live music to raise money to fight global poverty (贫穷). In July of this year, the Live 8 concerts were held simultaneously (同时) in London, Paris, Rome and Berlin. Superstars such as Madonna, Sir Elton John and Stevie Wonder performed in order to highlight (强调) international poverty and debt.
1. What does the author mean by saying “the Glastonbury Festival has gone from strength to strength”?
A.The festival has achieved growing success. |
B.Great efforts have been made to hold the festival. |
C.The festival has brought in a large amount of money. |
D.There have been thousands of fans attending the festival. |
A.The Glastonbury Festival is run on a profit-making basis. |
B.Tickets for the 2004 Glastonbury Festival were in great demand despite the high price. |
C.Both James Brown and Joss Stone were born in poor families. |
D.In the 1970 Glastonbury Festival, one could have lunch on the farm for free. |
A.the Glastonbury Festival is not so popular as the Live 8 concerts |
B.the Live 8 concerts are held every year in London |
C.London, Paris, Rome and Berlin are famous for outdoor music festivals |
D.some superstars are concerned about global poverty |
A.How to have a good time | B.Charity events around the world |
C.The Glastonbury Festival | D.Superstars’ performances in charity events |
【推荐2】Blue Planet Ⅱ’s latest episode (情节) is about how plastic is having a terrible effect on the ocean and slowly poisoning our sea creatures. Researchers have also found that sea creatures living in the deepest place on Earth, Mariana Trench, have plastic in their stomachs. Indeed, oceans are drowning in plastic.
Though it seems that the world couldn’t possibly function without plastic, plastic is a very recent invention. The first plastic bags were introduced in the 1950s, the same decade (十年) that plastic packaging began gaining popularity in the United States. This growth has happened so fast that science is still catching up with the change. Plastic pollution research, for example, is still a very early science.
We put all the plastic into the environment, but we still don’t really know what the outcomes are going to be. What we do know, though, is disturbing. Ocean plastic is expected to kill millions of sea animals every year. Hundreds of species, including endangered ones, are known to have been affected by it. One in three leatherback turtles, which often mistake plastic bags for jellyfish, have been found with plastic in their stomach. Ninety percent of seabirds are now eating plastic regularly. By 2050, that figure is expected to rise to 100 percent.
And it’s not just wildlife that is threatened by the plastic in our seas. Humans are consuming plastic through the seafood we eat. I could understand why some people see ocean plastic as a disaster, worth mentioning in the same breath as climate change. But ocean plastic is not as complicated (复杂的) as climate change. There are no ocean waste deniers (否认者), at least so far. To do something about it, we don’t have to remake our planet energy system.
This is not a problem where we don’t know what the solution is. We know how to pick up garbage. Anyone can do it. We know how to deal with it. We know how to recycle. We can all start by thinking twice before we use single-use plastic products. Things that may seem ordinary, like using a reusable bottle or a reusable bag — when taken collectively, these choices really do make a difference.
1. Why is plastic pollution research still a very early science?A.The plastic pollution research is too difficult. |
B.Plastic has produced less pollution than coal. |
C.Plastic has gained popularity too fast for science to catch up. |
D.The world couldn’t possibly function without plastic. |
A.By presenting reliable data. |
B.By citing quotes from leading experts. |
C.By making a comparison and contrast. |
D.By listing examples from his own experiences. |
A.We reap what we sow. |
B.The shortest answer is doing. |
C.All things are difficult before they are easy. |
D.Actions speak louder than words. |
A.The oceans become choked with plastic. |
B.Ocean plastic is a global problem. |
C.Blue Planet Ⅱ has left viewers heartbroken. |
D.Plastic gains in popularity all over the world. |
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Doc Martens, those army-inspired leather boots, are back. They were last popular when Kurt Cobain was all the rage(风靡一时 ). So far, just a few teens and fashion people have been spotted wearing the slight fat boots, but they have already appeared on stylish models like Irina Lazareanu and Agyness Deyn.
Neon stores sold Doc Martens 15 years ago and its owner Irving Tajfel wasn't sure at first if he was ready to relive the trend.
"I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw Doc Martens at a fashion fair in Barcelona last year. Then I saw all the cool fashion kids wearing them in Paris. That got me thinking that it was about time Doc Martens came back in style here." Tajfel said.
1. We can know from the passage that WinterTrax .
A.makes women like Doc Martens more |
B.protects the back end of high-heel boots |
C.makes women enjoy high-heel:boots in winter |
D.protects women from being robbed |
A.wore a pair of Doc Martens |
B.found Doc Martens was put on show |
C.placed an order for Doc Martens |
D.saw fashion kids wearing Doc Martens |
A.Leather boots are popular again |
B.Kurt Cobain and its music |
C.How to choose high-quality boots |
D.Doc Martens make a brave return |
A.High-heel boots. | B.Seasons. |
C.Clothes fashion. | D.Weather. |
【推荐1】Educators across the US are calling for major changes to the admissions process in higher education. The Harvard school of Greduate Education, along with 80 other schools and organizations, released a report called “Turning the Tide Making Caring Common” in January, 2016. The report argues that the process schools use to choose students causes major problems.
David Hawkins is the Executive Director for Educational Content and Policy at the National Association for College Admissions Counseling. Hawkins told Voice of America that most colleges and universities require many things from students when they apply. Schools usually ask for an essay describing a student's interests or why they want to study at that school. The schools also ask for letters from teachers or other responsible adults describing why a student is a good candidate. But, Hawkins says, the area that schools are most concerned about is a student’s high school grades and standardized test results.
The report suggests that paying attention to academic success over other qualities works well for some students but hurts others. In addition, academic success is not the most important quality a student should have. More attention should be paid to showing whether or not a student wants to do well in the world, according to the report.
The report goes on to state that the best way to change the admissions process is by changing college applications. It suggests that schools should ask for evidence that students care about other people. But the report does have its critics. Bob Schaeffer, Public Education Director for the National Center for Fair and Open Testing, said that every few years, someone makes the same argument for changes, but no real change has happed yet. Even many of the schools that agree with the report still make no changes.
Lloyd Thacker, Executive Director of the Education Conservancy, said that until a majority of schools agree to make the changes, there will still be problems. However, he said, the admissions process was better in the past. If bad changes can affect the process, so can good ones.
1. What is the problems of the admissions process according to the report?A.The schools ask too many things from the applying students. |
B.The schools attach too much importance to students’ academic records. |
C.The number of students getting admitted is too small. |
D.Admissions officers consider too many unimportant factors. |
A.The reasons to attend the school. |
B.A description of interests. |
C.Recommendation letters from adults. |
D.Evidence that students care about others. |
A.not all changes are good |
B.the largest schools are expected to make changes first |
C.no schools currently agree with the report |
D.some schools don’t make changes even if they agree |
A.Confident. | B.Negative. |
C.Doubtful. | D.Unclear. |
【推荐2】Since young children went back to school across Sweden recently, many of their teachers have been putting a new emphasis on printed books, quiet reading time and handwriting practice, and devoting less time to tablets, independent online research and keyboarding skills.
The return to more traditional ways of learning is a response to politicians and experts questioning whether Sweden’s hyper-digitalized approach to education, including the introduction of tablets in nursery schools, had led to a decline in basic skills.
Sweden’s minister for schools, Lotta Edholm was one of the biggest critics of the all-out embrace of technology. “Sweden’s students need more textbooks,” Edholm said in March. “Physical books are important for student learning.” The minister announced in August that the government wanted to change the decision by the national agency for education to make digital devices compulsory in preschools. It plans to go further and to completely end digital learning for children under age six, the ministry has told the Associated Press.
Although Sweden’s students score above the European average for reading ability, an international assessment of fourth-grade reading levels, the Progress in International Reading Literacy Study (PIRLS), highlighted a decline among Sweden’s children between 2016 and 2021.
In comparison, Singapore — which topped the rankings — improved its PIRLS reading scores from 576 to 587 during the same period, and England’s average reading achievement score fell only slightly, from 559 in 2016 to 558 in 2021. An overuse of screens during school lessons may cause youngsters to fall behind in core subjects, education experts say. “There’s clear scientific evidence that digital tools impair rather than enhance student learning,” Sweden’s Karolinska Institute, a highly respected medical school focused on research, said in a statement in August on the country’s national digitalization strategy in education.
“We believe the focus should return to acquiring knowledge through printed textbooks and teacher expertise, rather than acquiring knowledge primarily from freely available digital sources that have not been checked for accuracy.” the school added.
1. Why do Swedish schools return to paper books?A.To cater to parents’ increasing needs. |
B.To help with children’s independent learning. |
C.To overcome children’s addiction to digital tools. |
D.To avoid possible decline in children’s basic skills. |
A.Total acceptance. | B.Creative use. |
C.Rapid development. | D.Serious addiction. |
A.Teachers should acquire more knowledge. |
B.Knowledge from digital tools may not be reliable. |
C.Digital tools smooth out learning barriers for children. |
D.The accessibility to digital sources should be improved. |
A.Swedish Children’s Return to Paper | B.Problems with Children’s Education |
C.Popularity of Digitalization in Sweden | D.Enhancement of Teaching Strategies in Sweden |
【推荐3】Young adults often have a lot to learn in school. However, occasionally, the life skills needed for them to become successful outside of school aren’t learned. This may be why the years after high school can sometimes be the most uneasy and tense times for young adults.
Some may say that life skills are to be taught by their household rather than school, but that’s not exactly true. Some students don’t have a parent figure to teach them the necessary moral lessons needed and habitually rely on school to propound them with this essential knowledge. This is why courses of life skills should be set up in schools.
Over the course of history, students generally go to an educational institution of some sort to find themselves spending their entire time learning math and science, instead of what is required for real world-communication, which is through behaviors and manners. Manners are important when having a conversation with family, friends, teachers perhaps or even employers. Schools should find a way to teach manners as a way for students to have respect and be open-minded when it comes to other individuals.
In addition, the handling of finances is one of the major life skills for students. For people, especially young people, to survive in today5s financial environment, knowledge of personal finance is a necessity. For example, schools educating students about building credit scores and keeping up with a credit card is helpful. However, Educational Institutions does not spend a good amount of time talking about the topic of money managing : paying taxes, mortgage, bills, insurance, etc. It is time to extend financial knowledge by making personal finance a required course at US colleges and universities.
With the essential instructions of communication and financial management provided to the young adults, they will be more successful in their future life.
1. What does the underlined word “propound” in paragraph 2 mean?A.Bother. | B.Charge. | C.Provide. | D.Treat. |
A.Skills of making money. | B.The communication ability. |
C.The history of their country. | D.Ways to study maths and science. |
A.It is easy to survive in today’s financial environment. |
B.Most of the students don’t need to build credit scores. |
C.Students are lacking in instructions of financial management. |
D.Educational Institutions spend much time on money managing. |
A.What Have Students Learned in School? |
B.Why Should Life Skills Be Taught in School? |
C.How Can Students Behave Well in Daily Life? |
D.Why Should Parents Teach Kids Moral Lessons? |