The meaning of silence varies among cultural groups. Silences may be thoughtful, or they may be empty when a person has nothing to say.
Many Native Americans value silence and feel it is a basic part of communicating among people,
Other cultures may use silence in other ways, particularly when dealing with conflicts among people or in relationships of people with different amounts of power. For example, Russian, French, and Spanish persons may use silence to show agreement between parties about the topic under discussion.
A.Silence reminds people to think carefully before they voice their opinions. |
B.In these cultures, silence is a call for reflection. |
C.A silence in a conversation may also show stubbornness, or worry. |
D.Silence may include integrity, honesty and kindness. |
E.However, Mexicans may use silence when instructions are given by a person in authority rather than be rude to that person by arguing with him or her. |
F.Nurses and other care-givers need to be aware of the possible meanings of silence when they come across the personal anxiety their patients may be experiencing. |
G.just as some traditional Chinese and Thai persons do. |
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Dinner parties usually start between 7 and 8 p.m., and end at about 11. Ask your hosts what time you should arrive. It's polite to bring flowers, chocolates or a bottle of wine as a gift.
Usually the evening starts with drinks and snacks(小吃). Do you want to be more polite? Say how much you like the room, or the picture on the wall. But remember—it is not polite to ask how much things cost.
In many families, the husband sits at one end of the table and the wife sits at the other end. They eat with their guests.
You'll probably start the meal with soup or something small, then you'll have meat or fish with vegetables, and then dessert, followed by coffee. It's polite to finish everything on your plate and to take more if you want it.
Did you enjoy the evening? Call your hosts the next day, or write them a short thank you letter. British and American people like to say “ Thank you, thank you, thank you.” all the time!
1. If you are going to attend a dinner party,____ .
A.you’d better bring a certain present with you |
B.you must leave home for it at 7 p.m. |
C.you should ask your host when you should leave |
D.you must arrive at it before 8 p.m. |
A.Snacks, vegetables, meat and coffee. |
B.Coffee, drinks, soup, fish, vegetables and dessert. |
C.Soup, meat with vegetables, dessert and coffee. |
D.Drinks, soup, something small, fish and vegetables. |
A.Before leaving for home, you should say, “Thank you for inviting me.” |
B.When you shake hands with your host, you should say, “I did enjoy the evening.” |
C.You can write a thank you letter to your host after that. |
D.You should finish everything on your plate and take more if you want it. |
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Switzerland—Honesty shopping
There are little shops in the middle of the Swiss Alps that allow you to buy your fresh cheese, milk, bread, honey, and butter without anyone to watch you. In fact, no one watches these shops because they are owned by farmers who are out taking care of the animals.
South Korea—NOT tipping
Tipping is in the blood for someone who is raised in the United States along with many other European countries. But in South Korea, employees in the food service industry are given fair wages and take pride in their work, and it is insulting to attempt to tip them.
Iceland—Christmas Eve books giving
People puzzle over the eternal question of Christmas gifts. Iceland has solved this problem with the Christmas Eve tradition of giving a book. After everyone unwraps the books, they spend the evening reading together.
Japan—Pushers on the subway
Japan's subway is crowded during rush hours. But instead of settling for the inefficiency that personal space demands, Japan has "pushers". They are exactly what they sound like-employees whose only job during rush hour is to push more people onto the train.
Russia—Offering vodka
It is the custom to welcome new friends with shots of vodka. What better way to break the ice than with some stomach- warming shots of this Russian tradition? That's something we can all toast to, or, as they say in Russia, "Na zdorovye!".
1. In which of countries is it a tradition to give books as a Christmas gift?A.Japan. | B.South Korea. | C.Russia. | D.Iceland. |
A.It is a tradition for Swiss to welcome guests with vodka. |
B.No one watches you shop in Switzerland because people are busy. |
C."Pushers" in Japan help you get off the train faster. |
D.Tipping is in the blood for people in South Korea. |
A.Those who intend to travel in their home country. |
B.Those who want to study abroad. |
C.Those who are interested in diverse customs around the globe. |
D.Those who are fond of natural sceneries. |
【推荐3】Moving from one culture to another is exciting,but it is also a very stressful experience.
The first thing that confused me in American culture was how Americans tend to be very friendly.
Another aspect of American culture that I found different from my culture was a sense of privacy and personal space. Americans do not like their personal space disturbed.
Part of the excitement of living in a new culture is learning about how it differs from your own culture. You might compare your values and customs with the new values and customs you observe every day.
A.They will chat with passengers on the bus. |
B.Some people may even experience a culture shock. |
C.Different people experience culture shock differently. |
D.What surprised me is American's way of calling others. |
E.They find it uncomfortable when others stand too close. |
F.By understanding a new culture,we become more open-minded. |
G.Another shocking observation for me was the informality of the Americans. |