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When children do something wrong, parents expect an apology. Children often try to read their parents’ mind or butter up (奉承) their parents by saying, “I’m sorry”. Even though they did not do anything wrong, they will act in that way because they are scared to make their parents angry. Children always look timid (胆小的) because they have been anxious or nervous about being punished by parents.

When parents force them to apologize, they will lose the opportunity to think by themselves why they should apologize or what was wrong. So, how can we make them understand properly what was wrong?

If parents never give children a chance and say something like, “That’s not good” or “Say you’re sorry”, children cannot learn to reflect their behavior. So, the first thing that parents should do is listening to their children, asking questions such as what happened, why they did it. Once children have their parents’ attention and feel at ease, they can easily accept their parents’ words.

Children do not have enough skill to tell good or bad things, therefore, it is necessary for parents to teach them what was wrong. When parents explain what was wrong to children, short and simple words should be used as much as possible. Moreover, it would be more effective to tell children what kind of behavior makes parents feel a certain way. For example, it would be good to express mom’s feelings with something like “When you hit me, mommy will get hurt.” “When you call me stupid, I feel sad.”

In this way, children can understand that they hurt mom or they make her sad, therefore, they will become able to apologize naturally. That would be more understandable for children why their behavior was wrong than being scolded by parents something like “Hitting is not good!” “You cannot say stupid to someone else.”

Many people believe that children are too young to understand what parents say, however, children actually can understand a parents, feeling if parents use simple words and speak calmly. Parents should avoid speaking one-sidedly and always try to listen to children. Talking to each other would be the best way.

1. Why do children apologize when they don’t want to?
A.They want to show their politeness.B.They want to please their parents.
C.They show regrets for their mistakes.D.They want to act like their parents.
2. What is important for parents in making children apologize?
A.Timeliness.B.Seriousness.C.Patience.D.Kindness.
3. What should parents do when explaining children’s wrongdoings?
A.Speak briefly and clearly.B.Teach them the harm seriously.
C.Do the same thing to children.D.Show what other children do.
4. What’s the author s advice in correcting children’s bad behaviors?
A.Trying to let children listen to them.B.Communicating with them equally.
C.Giving them a lesson about behaviors.D.Letting them alone because of small age.

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