Grieve Her Mum Through Cooking
Grief and mourning can be expressed in many ways.
Along with the love of food and family, her mother, and her grandmother before her, had passed down a carved wooden spoon. It was given from one to the next.
After her mother’s death, Debbie also found the planner containing these detailed dinner party plans and recipes. Her mother was not gone.
Everything Debbie is cooking is inherited, as is the joy and sense of achievement she feels. When she began cooking with her mother as a kid, she was in charge of turning the toast, to stop it catching. Now she is holding the spoon, adding the spices and still looking up from the stove to her mum.
A.It was never easy to lose someone we love |
B.She was guiding her through a lifetime of food |
C.When it reached Debbie, it was worn and perfect |
D.She felt a sense of achievement in cooking her food |
E.She is always going to be her mother’s kitchen follower |
F.Debbie found a new and unique way to mourn her mum |
G.However, she was left with some confusion at some recipes |
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【推荐1】It was the scene from every parent’s worst nightmare when 8-year-old Rihaan was left lying in the middle of the road, with his bike bent beside him as the car that hit him stopped suddenly.
On hearing the loud bang, my husband, Ashish, ran down the driveway, picked his limp son up into his arms and carried him inside. Seeing Rihaan was bleeding badly from his head, legs and arms, my husband and I were both terrified he’d been so seriously injured.
I called triple zero. But I was overcome with shock and struggling to speak. It was young Aarush, Rihaan’s brother, who took over the call, communicating key information to emergency services. Then, he quickly took clean towels to press on Rihaan’s wounds and stop the blood. When he noticed his brother’s eyes wide with fear and tears falling down his cheeks, he also tried to comfort him.
After a short time, an ambulance and the police arrived, and the professionals could take over from Aarush. Rihaan was rushed to hospital where scans showed he was concussed (脑震荡) but luckily had broken no bones.
“He’d been thrown 7 metres in the air.” Ashish recalled. “And wearing no helmet (头盔), he was very lucky the driver was not speeding. We don’t blame the driver, for it could have been anyone,” Ashish said.
With Rihaan recovering well, it meant the focus turned quickly to his brave brother. After the accident the operator who took Ashish’s call, Nick Smith, nominated (提名) him for a Junior Triple Zero Hero award. As for Rihaan — who is back on the bike and always wears a helmet now — he agrees his brother was a hero. “But I’d quite like a medal too,” Rihaan, said cheerfully, “I suffered all the pain and then he got the award!”
1. What happened to Rihaan?A.He was hit by a car. | B.He broke his arms. |
C.He was trapped in a car. | D.He fell off his bike. |
A.Mom was helping his father. | B.Mom was too nervous to speak. |
C.Mom wasn’t sure what to say. | D.Mom was taking care of Rihaan. |
A.The driver broke the speed limit. | B.Traffic rules should be improved. |
C.The family would charge the driver. | D.Rihaan should have worn a helmet. |
A.Active and talented. | B.Calm and caring. |
C.Kind and humorous. | D.Honest and brave. |
【推荐2】My memories of my father are divided into parts and shares. Alive, and then dead. Healthy, and then helpless. And further back in time, the first and most division: Present and then absent; loving, and then indifferent.
He used to be a good writer and loving father. When I was a 16-year-old girl, he was fired from his company, a public, gossip-based dismissal that he would spend decades refusing responsibility for. This was the first crack that divided my relationship with him into poles of before and after. To escape his shame, he pushed away those who reminded him of it, first divorcing my mother, then alienating my sister and I.
As an adult, my relationship with my father was one of low expectations and high boundaries. He spent most of his time travelling. But when he died of heart failure in August, I was knocked off balance by the weight of the blow. I thought, after years of setting up delicate fences around our relationship, that I had already begun letting go. His death delivered a realization: despite years of analyzing his complicated love for me, there were pieces of my father I never understood—until I found my father’s notebooks in his cupboard.
In the notebooks, he often collected documentation: train tickets from Rome or a photograph of San Francisco’s Prescott Hotel. But what he was also doing was offering fatherly guidance, the kind I could only receive after he died. His life, in which what he had was never quite enough, was eventually exposed. In his final decade, he realized he had built a castle for himself upon sand and regret. Now in his entries, I hear his voice. “Debaleh,” I hear him say, using his pet name for me, “learn from my mistakes.”
I read these pages among my dad’s clothes, and wept. I hadn’t known that my father, too, lived with that familiar ache for new horizons in his heart, the one that can only be comforted by traveling.
1. Why did the author’s father keep away from his family?A.They weren’t responsible members. | B.He didn’t get on well with his wife. |
C.Their presence recalled his sad experience. | D.They talked behind others’ backs everywhere. |
A.Writing a journal carefully. | B.Travelling more for relaxation. |
C.Avoiding following in his footsteps. | D.Obeying father’s guidance thoroughly. |
A.Finding her father’s clothes. | B.Getting to know her late father. |
C.Failing to look for new horizons. | D.Knowing her father’s heart disease. |
【推荐3】“Be proud of what you do,” my father always told me, “whether you are a boss or a cleaner. ” When I was 15, I got a summer job in a hospital. I was told that my duties would include sweeping floors. I smiled and remembered Dad's words. Even though my job was the lowest, it made me feel excited. I saw it as a challenge because it was my first job. I learned to be on time and tried to do everything well. In return, I was treated with respect by doctors, nurses and patients. Each morning I imagined that the dirty dishes would make patients more sick if I were not there to wash them clean. After breakfast was done, I started sweeping the floors of all patient rooms and cleaning the toilets. Though I was tired, I wanted the job to be done well. Hearing people say “That young boy really does a good job”, I was filled with pride.
Working in the hospital taught me that being proud of one's job is important. It does not matter whether the job is sweeping floors or managing a large business. Through every job I have ever had, my father's words have always stayed with me. I was a good cleaner, and now I'm a good manager. I think Dad would be proud of me all the time.
1. The writer's first job was a ________.A.boss | B.cleaner | C.manager | D.doctor |
A.Washing dishes. | B.Cleaning toilets. |
C.Looking after patients. | D.Sweeping the floor. |
A.Angry. | B.Disappointed. | C.Proud. | D.Doubtful. |
A.the writer's father always stayed with him |
B.the father didn't like the writer's first job |
C.the writer wasn't proud of his first job |
D.the father's words are helpful for his future jobs. |
【推荐1】Which meal kit service is right for you?
As the simple act of shopping and preparing food for dinner becomes harder to fit in, a way to help meet consumer needs and change the way we shop and eat has grown: meal-delivery plans. Here’s a quick review of some popular options:
1. HelloFresh
HelloFresh provides high-quality ingredients (烹饪原料) and generous portions(分量), with recipes that are generally easy to prepare. The clear, step-by-step instructions get even the newest home chefs up to speed, and the recipe cards are well-made, so you can refer to your favorite recipes again and again.
There are meals for almost any lifestyle, including vegetarian(素食)options, low- calorie meals and “quick” recipes that get dinner on the table fast.
Cost: $8.75 to $9.99 per serving, with up to 16 servings per week.
2. Freshly
Get fresh, home-cooked food without the trouble of actually cooking. This subscription service delivers comfort foods to your doorstep, and the meals are prepared right before delivery. Never frozen and only requiring minimal reheating, they’re nutritious and cost less than many standard takeout options.
Cost: $7.99 to $11.50 per serving, with up to 12 servings per week.
3. Blue Apron
Blue Apron is full of fresh ingredients, with traditional or vegetarian options. Like many of the plans, the food is delivered in one big box and the recipe card is separate from the meal ingredients. The variety is good and the recipes are generally easy to prepare.
Cost: $7.49 to $9.99 per serving, with up to 16 servings per week.
4. EveryPlate
EveryPlate offers simpler meals for a lower cost. Users can choose between eight recipes each week, so there isn’t a lot of flexibility for different dietary needs, but the recipes are full of flavor and give subscribers generous portions. If you’re looking for an affordable way to get into meal kits, EveryPlate is a good option.
Cost: $4.99 per serving, with up to 12 servings per week.
5. Daily Harvest
Daily Harvest specializes in delicious smoothies. The meals are packed with fruits and vegetables, making nutrition easy and tasty. Smoothies just require the addition of liquid, so feel free to add your favorite type of milk or water to the blend and get your day started.
Cost: $6.99 per serving, with between 9 and 26 servings available.
1. Which meal kit service is right for a vegetarian?A.Daily Harvest and EveryPlate. |
B.HelloFresh and Blue Apron. |
C.EveryPlate and Freshly. |
D.HelloFresh and Freshly. |
A.fruits and vegetables |
B.unlimited servings |
C.easy preparation |
D.separate recipes |
A.living an environmentally friendly life |
B.cutting down on daily food costs |
C.adapting to a new lifestyle |
D.improving cooking skills |
【推荐2】Would you like to take a cooking class without leaving home? Here are four cooking classes that you may be interested in.
Mastering Pasta Carbonara
In this cooking class, you’ll join Chef Stefano live from Florence, Italy as he teaches you his secrets to making handmade pasta and dessert. You’ll start by making the classic Fettuccine alla Carbonara using authentic Italian cooking techniques. Then you’ll satisfy your sweet tooth with a white chocolate cake.
Next date: Mar. 19th from 3:00 pm to 4:30 pm
Kid-Friendly Cookie Recipes
As a virtual chef, Angela-Michelle has practiced and taught how to prepare dishes from various cultures and origins for over ten years. She’ll guide you through the basics of baking with three desserts in her cooking class.
First, you’ll learn how to make deep-fried and crispy Sopapillas coated with sugar and honey. Then, she’ll prepare a creamy ricotta cookie that is simple for kids of all ages.
Next date: Apr. 4th from 12:00 pm to 2:30 pm
The Fundamentals of Indian Cuisine
Teaching the basics of creating a classic Indian meal, Chef Radhika will guide you through two traditional dishes. First, you’ll begin with a creamy Saag Paneer made with spinach (a kind of vegetable), heavy cream and authentic Indian spices. Then, you’ll learn how to prepare the delicious Naan: a staple (主食) on almost every Indian dinner table.
Next date: Mar. 25th from 3:00 pm to 5:00 pm
Cooking Crispy Orange Beef
Chef Loreanna will help you create your own impressive menu of take-out favorites without picking up the phone! You’ll prepare a batch of crispy beef made with homemade orange sauce and learn the proper technique for steaming rice to fluffy (松软的) perfection.
Next date: Mar. 25th from 5:00 pm to 7:00 pm
1. Who might be interested in the Mastering Pasta Carbonara cooking class?A.People wanting kid-friendly cookies. | B.People loving spicy handmade dishes. |
C.People loving preparing Italian food. | D.People wanting creamy ricotta cookies. |
A.She is an experienced virtual chef. | B.She makes desserts better than others. |
C.She is preferred by kids than by adults. | D.She spends time learning live webcasts. |
A.Both are suitable for beginners. | B.They are of the same duration. |
C.They pass on traditional cooking. | D.Both teach how to make desserts. |
【推荐3】Top cookbooks of 2023
The Wok: Recipes and Techniques by J.Kenji Lopez-Alt
The Wok’s appeal is not innovation; you can find many dishes like Kung Pao Shrimp and Cumin Lamb on many Chinese restaurant menus. But you don’t have to leave your home. As far as I’m concerned, it’s worth the sticker price to learn the techniques.
Turkey and the Wolf: Flavor Trippin’ in New Orleans by Mason Hereford
Chef Mason Hereford has put to paper some of the magic that draws locals and tourists alike to his popular New Orleans sandwich shop, Turkey and the Wolf. The cookbook is full of recipes accessible to home cooks. The meatloaf is my favorite.
Mi Cocina: Recipes and Rapture from My Kitchen in Mexico by Rick Martinez
With seven sections focused on different regions across the country, Rick Martinez guides you through some of the essential recipes for each. The recipes are lovely, but what I love most are the stories alongside each of them. Food is deeply personal and with Mi Cocina, Martinez is sharing his life in food and inviting you to come along.
I Am from Here: Stories and Recipes from a Southern Chef by Vishwesh Bhatt
Western India and the Southern U.S. share more culinary (烹饪的) similarities than you’d think, from rice varieties to fresh tomatoes. Here, these ingredients explode in a delicious combination of seasonings and essential cooking techniques.
1. Whose book provides guidance on Chinese cooking?A.Rick Martinez’s. | B.Vishwesh Bhatt’s. |
C.Mason Hereford’s. | D.J.Kenji Lopez-Alt’s. |
A.The Wok. | B.Turkey and the Wolf. |
C.Mi Cocina. | D.I Am from Here. |
A.They share some stories. |
B.They feature Indian and American food. |
C.They stress food’s role in connecting cultures. |
D.They emphasize the importance of fresh ingredients. |