Many may not expect to hear the words of the old Chinese saying in these modern times—with parents wealthier and better educated than they have ever been—but experts say they still ring true.
Today, it seems, Chinese parents are more likely to send their children to pre-college military academies in the United States in the hope that some tough love will pave the way to success.
“Good education doesn’t mean letting your child enjoy privileges, especially our boys,” said Song Wenming, an entrepreneur (企业家) in Jinhua, East China’s Zhejiang province. “They should be raised in tough conditions to know what to fight for in the future.”
In August, Song sent his 17-year-old son to Valley Forge Military Academy (VFMA) in Pennsylvania. And he is far from alone, even though it takes a lot of money - around $48,000 per year —to send a child to a strict military school.
Statistics shows that an increasing number of Chinese students have been registering with such academies.
A few years ago, there were no Chinese students at Valley Forge. Today, there are 28. “All of the Chinese students at Valley Forge came from wealthy families, some of them were spoiled,” said Jennifer Myers, director of marketing and communications at the school.
Song’s only son, Song Siyu, had a rocky start during his first six weeks at the school. The teenager said he went to the school voluntarily but did not expect it to be as difficult.
Now, three months later, he has perfected the art of taking a bath in 35 seconds, finishing a meal without looking at his food, and making his bed with precision. He can even take criticism, no matter how unreasonable.
“The training is hard but I know it is good for self-development of individuals,” said Song Siyu. “The endless training and scolding are just ways to build up our character, they are not personal.”
But his enthusiasm is not universal. Ten of the 13 Chinese students who joined the academy this year have transferred to other schools.
But for those who stick with it, there is a reward for all the hard work.
1. From the second paragraph, we can know the old Chinese saying _____.
A.is out of date in modern times. |
B.is disagreed by rich parents. |
C.is still worth trusting. |
D.is deeply believed by better educated parent. |
A.Song sent his only son to military school, so he feels lonely. |
B.Song is the only one who sends his child to military school. |
C.There are other people sending their children to military school besides Song. |
D.The fee of the military school is so high that only Song can afford it. |
A.taking a bath in a short time | B.having his meal with his eyes closed |
C.taking unreasonable criticism | D.improving his character |
A.10 | B.13 | C.15 | D.25 |
A.It’s likely that more and more Chinese students will attend VFMA. |
B.Most Chinese parents approve of educating their children by beating and cursing nowadays. |
C.Song Siyu had no difficulty in adjusting to the life at VFMA. |
D.Most Chinese students support the way of education at VFMA. |
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【推荐1】After a lot of local and state warnings, research and bans of hoverboards (平衡车), the federal government issued a statement on Wednesday. The message: Many of the machines are a major fire risk.
The Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC) announced the recall (召回) of more than a half-million hoverboards.The safety commission said that the battery-powered machines had been the cause of at least 60 fires. The announcement affects 10 companies that make or sell the products, including Razor and Swagway, two of the leading manufacturers.
Hoverboards, which do not actually hover or fly, have been the subject of regulatory examination in recent years. Officials have banned them from airplanes and sidewalks, and the safety commission carried out research last fall because of reports of fires and explosions.
The risk of fires from the machine's electrical system and battery(电池) pack has attracted the most attention from the safety commission, which says it will now turn its focus toward the risk of falls and other accidents. The agency is worried that flaws (缺陷) in the board's design could lead riders to lose their balance.
There is no federal safety standard specific to hoverboards. Underwriters Laboratories (UL), a standards-setting and testing organization, came up with voluntary electrical requirements for self-balancing hoverboards as a result of the safety commission's research, said Elliot F. Kaye, the chairman of the CPSC.
He required consumers to return any hoverboard that did not reach the standards set by the company. However, part of the problem, he explained, was that many hoverboards had been sold by temporary stands such as those in malls or college campuses — fly-by-night sellers that can be harder to track down or get in touch with. “That is a deeply frustrating aspect of it,” Mr. Kaye said. “Somebody can just put up a stand, order some products, disappear, and there's nobody there to take responsibility when things go wrong.”
1. Why will so many hoverboards be recalled?A.They aren't easy to use. | B.They are likely to cause fires. |
C.They don't actually hover or fly. | D.They caused many traffic accidents. |
A.The recycling of hoverboards. | B.The popularity of hoverboards. |
C.The balance risk of hoverboards. | D.The price controls of hoverboards. |
A.The CPSC. | B.Razor. | C.Swagway. | D.UL. |
A.Many hoverboards can make people fall easily. |
B.The designs of hoverboards needed improving. |
C.CPSC intended to recall some hoverboards. |
D.People were discouraged from buying hoverboards. |
【推荐2】Nobody ever imagined that after being lost for more than half a century, the intangible cultural heritage known as Gaolou Mixian would be restored and passed down by a young man. “As someone of Gaolou origin, I have a responsibility to restore our ancestors’ art form,” said Chen Guorui, the world’s only inheritor of this ancient art.
Gaolou Mixian uses rice paste(米糊)to glue together selected grains of transparent rice to create realistic figures or structures. It is a unique folk art that developed during the Qing Dynasty and reached its peak during the first half of the 20th century. Each household in Gaolou village would make rice structures that they put on display in their ancestral halls during the Chinese New Year, which attracted people from all sides.
However, due to the wet weather in southern China, these rice-made artworks would only last three to four months before losing their shape. It is for this reason that these works are not seen in museums in China. Due to various historical reasons, most people in Gaolou village did not pass down the art form, which caused it to disappear nearly 70 years ago.
Chen found out about this after hearing one former resident express disappointment about its loss. Curious, he started to do research and tried out the methods he heard about from older people in the village. After several months of exploration, Chen finally completed his first successful work.
Over the past five years, Chen has gradually improved his skills and even begun using new techniques, such as creating some colorful artworks with colored grains of rice. Since 2017, people at home and abroad have taken an interest in this long-lost art form. To avoid being the last inheritor(传承者), Chen has been giving classes to some students at a primary school in Fuzhou with the support of local education authorities.
1. What do we know about Gaolou Mixian?A.It is mainly made of rice. | B.It is stable in wet environment. |
C.It is a popular art form nationwide. | D.It was created for religious reasons. |
A.The technique of the artworks. | B.The disappearance of the art form. |
C.The disappointment of the villagers. | D.The reason why the artworks lose their shape. |
A.Giving classes to primary students. | B.Creating many colorful artworks. |
C.Improving his skills. | D.Asking older villagers for suggestions. |
A.Chen Guorui’s Successful Works. |
B.A Popular Folk Art of A Chinese Village. |
C.The Restoration of Intangible Cultural Heritage. |
D.A Long-lost Chinese Art Form and its Restoration. |
【推荐3】Arguing with your parents is totally natural for teens. From your hairstyle to your friends, to your marks at school, to your television habits, to your future plans, it might just seem like you argue with your parents about everything. While this is not generally a pleasant state of affairs, it is normal and it will most likely pass.
Argue fairly
Arguments between teens and parents generally come about when both parties believe that they know what is best for the teen. Parents have been caring for their teens for over a decade, but teens are quickly becoming adults and believe that they are able to take care of themselves. If you must agree with them, argue fairly by: Allowing each person to speak their mind. Refusing to interrupt others when they are speaking. Sticking only to the topic at hand.
Argue respectfully
No matter how heated things may get during an argument, try to remember that your parents still are worthy of your attention, respect and love. During arguments, be respectful by: Keeping your voice lowered at all times and refusing to shout. Sitting still and staying calm. Refusing to engage in angry actions such as kicking, throwing or hitting anything. Reasonably explaining the reasons for your opinions.
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There is a thin line between having a discussion and engaging in an argument, but smart teens know that keeping their interactions with their parents at the discussion level practically guarantees that they will be taken more seriously. No one likes to argue, and the parents of teens can be especially weary of it, so keeping things at the discussion level will work to everyone's advantage.
Arguing with parents is practically a sign of the teenaged years, but out-of-control arguments don't serve anyone well. Before arguing with your parents, decide what type of teen you want to be and what compromises (妥协) you are willing to make in order to achieve your goals. You never know, you might just avoid an argument all together.
1. This passage mainly tells teens ________.A.arguments don't solve any problem | B.arguing with parents may hurt them |
C.some tips on arguing with parents | D.how to avoid arguing with parents |
A.make up your mind not to give in | B.show your respect for them |
C.express your opinions through actions | D.make full preparations for it |
A.Take discussion seriously. | B.Argue seriously. |
C.To be smart teens. | D.Argue only when needed. |
A.be proud of | B.be interested in | C.be tired of | D.be satisfied with |
A.normal | B.practical | C.shameful | D.impolite |
The figure comes from an exclusive online Newsbeat poll(投票) of 1,015 British teenagers, put together by Comres. The survey also indicates that a quarter feel happier online than they do in real life.
But overall, real-life relationships are still considered far more important than online ones, according to the findings. Sixty-six per cent polled last month said the number of friends they knew in person was more important to them, compared to 28% who said the same of the number of friends and followers they had online.
The survey also suggests what lots of people know already, that social media is now an integral part of teenagers’ lives. Only one per cent of respondents said they never checked in online for social reasons. Facebook is the most popular social network (89% have an account), followed by Twitter (62%) and Snapchat (58%).
Dr Emma Short, a psychologist at the University of Bedfordshire, said, “The number of teenagers meeting up with people they first befriended online is worrying. Even very sophisticated security experts find it very hard to verify the identity of accounts. When you’re 15 and you’re very effective at identifying friends and risk, it’s easy to assume you can do that online. It’s not safe in that they may not be who they say they are and you know nothing about them apart from the conversation you’ve had online – which is a very small part of their lives and the person they may be.”
The survey also indicated:
• 25% of teenagers admitted they were addicted to social media.
• 25% wished they could give up social media.
“I can’t do without my phone.” says 17-year-old Aisha from Clapton, north London. “I can’t do without checking Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat.”
When we ask Aisha about the prospect of taking her social networks away, the consequences, genuinely, are too hard to bear.
Jealousy, loneliness, happiness and stress are all emotions felt by teenagers.
1. From the first two paragraphs we get to know that __________.
A.the majority of the teenagers polled met their net friends |
B.more and more British adolescents feel happier online |
C.a third of 15 to 18-year-olds in the UK make net friends online |
D.a little more than 300 adolescents surveyed met net friends |
A.Sixty-six per cent polled think it important to meet net friends in person. |
B.More British adolescents consider friends in real life are more important. |
C.28% polled said they had the same number of online friends as other 66%. |
D.28% polled have the same number of real life friends and net friends. |
A.researchers | B.people |
C.reporters | D.teenagers |
A.The online friends teenagers meet in person are worrying. |
B.It’s easy for 15-year-olds to make online friends. |
C.It’s difficult for adolescents to identify online friends and risk. |
D.The conversation with your virtual friends is helpful. |
A.Negative. | B.Positive. | C.Neutral. | D.Tolerant. |
【推荐2】Dartford Grammar. a secondary school in Kent, declines to enter their graduates for A-levels. Instead. pupils follow courses set by International Baccalaureate, an exam board based in Switzerland. They study six subjects, and these must include maths, English and a foreign language. “We’re not just preparing students for university,” says Julian Metcalf, the headmaster, “but for another 60 years of life beyond that.”
Every few years England’s A-level system comes in for a kicking. Britain’s prime minister is the latest person who warned that England was unusual in letting youngsters drop maths and their native language at 16. He proposed switching the current system for a new “British Baccalaureate” that would require pupils to keep up both of those subjects until they are 18.
Even critics agree that A-levels are demanding qualifications, and that they enjoy great reputation abroad. Britain’s universities have traditionally been pickier than those in many other countries. Ambitious students have generally been grateful that they are allowed to sweat only the subjects they need for admission. Yet A-levels may not be handing English teenagers the breadth (广度) of skills they need. Their performance in English and math tests falls behind other countries after they turn 16. One-third of 16-to 19-year-olds in England have low basic skills according to a survey.
There is enough time in the school day to offer extra maths and English classes without greatly affecting other studies. But it would cost money. Without any apparent justification, England’s schools get less funding for pupils aged 16-19 than they do for younger children. Broadening studies would also require more staff. However, the number of people who began training to be a secondary-school teacher this September was about one-third lower than hoped.
1. What drove Dartford to make the decision in the first paragraph?A.A-levels’ various courses. | B.Pupils’ heavy study burden. |
C.Prime minister’s latest proposal. | D.Students’ long-term development. |
A.They prefer foreign languages. | B.They have to study six subjects. |
C.They can choose to drop maths. | D.They are picky about universities. |
A.Strict admission rules. | B.Insufficient skill training. |
C.Low international recognition. | D.Demanding subject requirements. |
A.Overpaid staff. | B.Long school-time. |
C.Unqualified teachers. | D.Imbalanced investment. |
【推荐3】Young people can have problems with their minds. Some student becomes worried because they have to study very hard. Others have trouble getting on well with people like their parents and classmates.
Liu Wei, a junior 2 student from Hefei, could not understand his teacher and was doing badly in his lessons. He became so worried about it that he started to cut his finger with a knife. Another student, 14-year-old Yang Fang from Guangzhou, was afraid of exams. She got very worried in one, and when she looked at the exam paper, she couldn’t think of anything to write.
A recent report from Jiefang Daily says about 18% of Shanghai teenagers have mental (心理的) problems. Their troubles include (包括) being worried and very unhappy, and having problems in learning and getting on well with people. Many students who gave problems won’t go for advice or help. Some think they will look stupid if they go to see a doctor. Others don’t want to talk about their secrets.
Liang Yuezhu, an expert on teenagers from Beijing Anding Hospital has the following advice for teenagers:
1) Talk to your parents or teachers often.
2) Take part in group activities and play sports.
3) Go to see a doctor if you feel unhappy or unwell.
1. The students who often become worried or have trouble getting on with others may have ____
A.mental problems | B.a headache |
C.knife with them | D.no parents |
A.he was afraid of his teacher | B.he wanted to frighten his parents |
C.he was so worried about his study | D.his finger was badly hurt |
A.she studied very hard | B.she had exams |
C.she talked with her parents | D.she thought of something |
A.they won’t let others think they are stupid |
B.they don’t think doctors can help them |
C.they don’t want to tell their secret to others |
D.both A and C |