Given that most little girls love to dress up as princesses, it is difficult to imagine what might be wrong with that. But one author has written an entire book on how she believes the fairy tale fantasies send a dangerous message.
Jennifer L Hardstein is behind the recently-published Princess Recovery: A How-To Guide to Raising Strong, Empowered Girls Who Can Create Their Own Happily Ever Afters. The child and adolescent psychologist believes that children as young as two are taking away unrealistic ideals from fairy tale books and Disney cartoons that can affect their self-esteem later on.
In her book, Dr. Hardstein theories that traditional stories like Sleeping Beauty and Cinderella promote the idea that if a girl is pretty enough and has fancy clothes and shoes, she find love and popularity. The author refers to this phenomenon as the “Princess Syndrome”
These kinds of messages, she says, have a huge impact on a girl's self-confidence and make it hard for children to understand as they grow up, that intelligence, generosity and passion are more important value. During an appearance on CBS' Early Show, Dr. Hardstein explained: “Girls are getting this message everywhere that. … what their worth is based on is how they look and the things that they have and it's very superficial (肤浅的)”
Her book teaches parents how to let their toddlers (幼儿) enjoy the Disney moves and their teenagers watch figures in reality shows while encouraging a discussion about the messages projected by the media. Speaking on the show she said: “Parents think their kids will understand the messages that they receive all the time but actually they don't.”
As well as warning of the dangers of “Princess Syndrome” her book advise parents how to guide and empower their children from an early age. Dr. Hardstein warns of the influence of toys like Barbie dolls and teenager celebrities who might wear heavy make-up.
Princess Recovery, she assure parents, will bring “balance, confidence, and self-sufficiency into your daughter's life while giving her a modern, energetic childhood.”
1. According to Jennifer L Hardstein, the fairy tale fantasies _______A.are dangerous because girls in them greys up like princesses |
B.are difficult to understand due to people's wrong imagination |
C.enable girls to be strong and empowered like princesses |
D.contain unrealistic ideals affecting young kids' self-esteem later |
A.Sleeping Beauty and Cinderella should be abandoned totally |
B.girls find love and popularity with beauty and fancy clothes |
C.intelligence, generosity and passion are more important value |
D.it is superficial to look pretty and have fancy clothes and shoes |
A.Disney movie's and reality shows should be completely forbidden. |
B.Discussions help kids understand messages projected by the media. |
C.Young children should ' play with toys such as Barbie dolls. |
D.Heavy make-up is harmful for the health of teenager celebrities. |
A.introduce a new term called the “Princess Syndrome” | B.guide parents how to deal with the fairy tale fantasies |
C.introduce and advertise a new book on child raising | D.warning of the dangers of the “Princess Syndrome” |
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【推荐1】Finding just the right book to read together can open a door to helping a child understand difficult subjects like illness, loss, and big change. Here’s a list of some of the best.
Black Dog
Author: Levi Pinfold
A black dog appears outside the Hope family’s home. As each member of the family sees it and hides, the dog grows bigger and bigger. Only the youngest Hope has the courage to face the black dog. When it chases (追逐) her she shows no fear, so it grows smaller and smaller. Finally, back to the size of a normal dog.
I Remember
Author: Jeanne Willis
A sweet little boy visits an old lady one day. He seems familiar to her. He’s even got the same name as her grandson, George! Of course, he is her grandson George. He gently reminds her of what they’ve done together before. A beautiful book that might help children learn about dementia (痴呆).
I Talk Like a River
Author: Jordan Scott
In class, a boy hides at the back in the hope that he won’t be asked to speak. But the teacher directs a question his way. All his classmates watch him stumbling over (结结巴巴地说) his words. His father collects him from school, and takes him for a walk by the river.
Susan Laughs
Author: Jeanne Willis
Susan can do so many things - she can laugh, sing, fly, dance, swim and much more. The final page of this book reveals that Susan is in a wheelchair, showing that "disabled" doesn’t mean “disadvantaged”.
1. Which book is about overcoming our fears?A.Black Dog. | B.I Remember. | C.Susan Laughs. | D.I Talk Like a River. |
A.She has lost her memory. | B.She has problems with speaking. |
C.She has a poor relationship with George. | D.She completely relies on a wheelchair for mobility. |
A.They focus on various diseases. | B.They remind readers of their family. |
C.They were written by the same author. | D.They help children learn about tough topics. |
【推荐2】Whether you’re looking to learn more about sustainability or imagine yourself as a media big man at the head of a world-famous magazine, here are several books worth popping on your Good Reads list.
The Conscious Closet by Elizabeth L. Cline | As the pressure to save the planet increases, it’s important to turn the conversation to our closet(衣帽间). Stockpiling endless printed books on sustainability seems somewhat unwise, but The Conscious Closet is easily the best of the lot. It exposes the true cost of fast fashion and encourages the reader to think twice about unwise purchasing, drawing deeply on Cline’s own experiences. |
How To Dress: Secret Styling Tips From A Fashion Insider by Alexandra Fullerton | Former fashion editor at Stylist magazine, Alexandra Fullerton certainly knows something about getting dressed. Illustrated beautifully, this book allows you to dip easily in and out of her easy-to-follow advice, helping you carve out a signature style, shop more effectively and even wash and store your clothes to maximize their full potential. |
The New Fashion Rules by Victoria Magrath | One of the UK’s most successful fashion bloggers, Victoria McGrath has used her platform to demonstrate the growing value of influencer culture on fashion and new media. Her friendly, accessible tone is backed up with some serious knowledge — her PhD in fashion marketing allows her to explore how far fashion has come in recent decades, discussing many things including virtual reality shopping while offering up a brief tour of fashion’s 21st century history. |
Advanced Love by Ari Seth Cohen | The photographic blog series that made stars of Iris Apfel and Linda Rodin, the Advanced Style brand has grown over the past decade, demonstrating that real beauty is truly ageless. His third and most recent book, Advanced Love sees Ari Seth Cohen picturing couples from all walks of life, making a statement about our dismissal of romance within the over-40 age set. The perfect festive gift for your special other-half, or a treat-to-self as a constant reminder that love never goes out of style. |
A.Advanced Love | B.The Conscious Closet |
C.The New Fashion Rules | D.How To Dress: Secret Styling Tips From A Fashion Inside |
A.Elizabeth L. Cline | B.Alexandra Fullerton | C.Victoria Magrath | D.Ari Seth Cohen |
A.They are targeted on young ladies. |
B.The authors advise us against unreasonable purchasing. |
C.They are all good books about secrets of the fashion world. |
D.The writers are all bloggers giving practical advice on how to get well dressed. |
【推荐3】What I Saw on the Hibiscus Airship
C. L.Heng
$43.95
A girl on a great journey to find her destiny (命运) realizes the power of wrong doings, unsung heroes, and most of all, love. What I Saw on the Hibiscus Airship is a story of adventure and family.
The Tiger and the Leopardess (母豹)
Ho Khong Ming
$23.05
An old hungry tiger is on the hunt for a meal and meets an unhappy leopardess. Can enemies trust each other? In this story, The Tiger and the Leopardess, will hate or love influence their relationship?
Privatization of Facility Management in Public Hospitals
Hong Poh Fan
$40.65
Hong Poh Fan explores the transition public hospitals have undertaken (负责) to improve services in Malaysia. He shares lessons learned over a fifteenyear period of hospital privatization in this detailed examination of how to improve health care.
Escape to America
Tetsuo Fukuyama
$38.45
Fukuyama decided to leave his homeland and experiment with a completely different lifestyle: living in New York City. This story of how the author’s courage and determination helped him survive in difficult conditions will encourage readers to find their own happiness.
1. Which of the following is all adventure book?A.Privatization of Facility Management in Public Hospitals. |
B.What I Saw on the Hibiscus Airship. |
C.The Tiger and the Leopardess. |
D.Escape to America. |
A.Tetsuo Fukuyama. | B.Hong Poh Fan. |
C.C.L.Heng. | D.Ho Khong Ming. |
A.It describes life in Malaysia. |
B.It is for practical use. |
C.It is based on reallife events. |
D.It tells a story about friendship. |
【推荐1】Cycle the Headhunter’s Heartland
Follow the trail of the White Rajahs in the bygone times in their fighting against Headhunters,cycle into the Iban Heartland of authentic long houses,interior(内部的)waterways and rustic forts.This trip runs from Kuching to Sri-Aman.
This four-day cycling trip is an amazing experience to live among the proud natives of Borneo-a cycling holiday for the heart and soul.
DAY 1 Arrive at Kuching,Cycle the Heritage Trail(文化遗产旅游路线)(12 km)
Arrive in the capital of Sarawak,the old town of Kuching.The group will meet with the tour leader in the late afternoon for a briefing on the tour,a chance to try out the bikes,and then we head off straightaway onto the heritage trail of the White Rajah.Enjoy a welcomed sunset dinner at the bank of the romantic Sarawak River.
DAY2 Long Boat to Banting
After breakfast we start our journey into the Borneo interior.Visit two lively markets along the way before reaching the outpost town of Pantu.We take a traditional long boat ride into a remote longhouses of Banting,accessible only by boat on the crocodile in rested(鳄鱼出没)river.Explore the local community with your local host and enjoy their generosity,sharing simple traditional cuisine on the floor.
DAY 3 Cycle to Fort Alice(51 km)
After a short boat transfer to a tiding outpost of Lingga,we cycle along the majestic Batang Lupar River,bypassing longhouse villages,farms and paddy fields.If we are lucky,we can see the natural phenomenon of tidal bore roar pass us during our ride.We will reach the old town of Sri-A1nan to visit the newly restored Fort Alice to discover how battles were fought during the warring times.
DAY 4 Tour Concludes in Kuching
Today the tour concludes.For those who are not in a hurry to leave,the wildlife and adventures of Borneo awaits.For more information on these amazing adventures and other destinations to extend your holiday,please ask our team at the time of booking.
1. Where can cyclists enjoy traditional food?A.Sarawak. | B.Banting. | C.Lingga. | D.Sri-Aman. |
A.It provides sunset dinner. | B.It has two lively markets. |
C.It shows how battles were fought. | D.It has amazing wildlife. |
A.Heritage lovers. | B.Cyclists. | C.Adventurers. | D.Researchers. |
【推荐2】Technology usually keeps us away from nature. But now it is offering us an opportunity to listen to non-humans in powerful ways, connecting us again to the natural world.
Around the animal kingdom, there are sounds hard for us to decipher. Elephants, for example, communicate with each other using infra-sound (次声波), a sound frequently far below our human hearing range. Coral in the ocean also communicates with each other through sound waves. This is a shocking fact as coral doesn’t have any ears! So scientists have placed listening devices in these environments to pick up sounds humans are normally unable to detect.
After the sounds are recorded, AI (人工智能) is then able to determine their meaning. There are now whole databases of whale songs and honeybee dances. One day this information may be turned into “a zoological version of google translate”. One animal language is that of the elephant. Elephants have a different signal for honeybee, which is a threat, and a different signal for human. Moreover, they range between threatening humans and non-threatening humans.
And this technology is more powerful than that. For example, bees use dances to communicate with their peers where to go in search of nectar (花蜜). A research team in Germany, therefore, insert the bee language from AI database system into a robot bee, allowing the robot to create a dance routine that can tell the bees which direction to move. Whereas in the past, language creation had been limited to mainly apes (类人猿), with many examples of chimpanzees having been taught sign language to communicate with humans. This new technology now allows humans to socialize with different animals throughout the animal kingdom.
1. Which of the following best explains “decipher” underlined in Paragraph 2?A.Take control. | B.Recognize. |
C.Raise interest. | D.Communicate. |
A.Record animal sounds as many as possible. |
B.Work with google to translate animal signals. |
C.Find the difference between animal and human signals. |
D.Analyze what animal signal information indicate. |
A.Because it uses a robot bee to find nectar. |
B.Because it teaches chimpanzees sign language. |
C.Because it enlarges humans’ communication with animals. |
D.Because it helps humans discover more animal species. |
A.AI helps humans communicate more with animals. |
B.Animals can chat as well as humans do. |
C.Different animals have different chatting abilities. |
D.AI is the most powerful technology at present. |
【推荐3】Feeling overwhelmed by your to-do list can certainly make you unhappy, but a new study released last week suggests that more free time will not actually make people as happy as they commonly believe it will.
The researchers collected data from two large scale surveys, which included more than 35,000 replies. They found that people with up to two hours of free time a day generally had higher levels of well-being than those with less time. But people who had five or more hours of free time a day generally said they felt worse.
So the free-time “sweet spot” might be two to three hours per day, the findings suggest. “While being too busy can cause stress, having more time is not always better,” said Marissa Sharif, an assistant professor at The Wharton School,in a press release.
Experts note, for example, that some adults struggle with the “retirement blues,” which can be due to a lack of stimulation (刺激) and structure, among other things. The “sweet spot” seems to have something to do with how people spend the extra time they have, the researchers behind the new study argue.
They conducted several smaller online experiments. In one they asked participants to imagine having 3½ to seven free hours per day, and to imagine spending that time doing “productive" things (like exercising) or to imagine doing “unproductive” activities (like watching TV). The participants believed their well-being would suffer if they had a lot of free time during the day—but only if they used it unproductively.
Though that experiment was hypothetical, which is one limitation of the new research, it's certainly in line With other researches showing that being in a state of “flow” can be good for people's mental health. In other words, how people use their free time matters.
“In cases when people do find themselves with excessive amounts of spare time, such as retirement or having left a job,” Sharif said, “our results suggest these individuals would benefit from spending their newfound time with purpose.”
1. What's the common belief about “free time”?A.More free time will bring people much happiness. |
B.Too much free time will make one feel worse. |
C.Less free time will make life full. |
D.One is happy in his free time whatever he does. |
A.Because they find it struggling to deal with daily life. |
B.Because they find life is dull with too much free time. |
C.Because they are not used to retirement life. |
D.Because their life lacks care and warmth. |
A.The study lacks data from participants. |
B.The study doesn't agree with the others. |
C.The number of participants is small. |
D.The experiment is imagined. |
A.Mrs. Wang, retired, spends over six hours watching TV. |
B.Alex, a salesman, does one hour's reading and another hour's jogging. |
C.Mr. Yang, a 996 programmer, struggles to find an hour to tutor his son. |
D.Catherine, a stay-at-home mom, kills her free time purposelessly. |
【推荐1】What’s the first thing you do in the morning? Brush your teeth, wash your face, or eat your breakfast?
Habits play an essential role in our lives. They profoundly impact our health, productivity, financial security, and happiness.
Actually, many people are eager to develop good habits and drop bad ones.
A.Where should we begin? |
B.What should you do next? |
C.Which route do you take to work? |
D.As a result, we all want to develop good habits or break bad ones. |
E.We can redesign many of our habits by changing our keystone habits. |
F.You may think that all of these choices are the result of careful thinking. |
G.They help create the basis for good practices and greatly improve people’s lives. |
【推荐2】Being a mother is not easy. You need to have good parenting methods. I admit that I’m not a perfect mom and that there are problems in my family. But I’m willing to change the situation. It’s the beginning of a new year and it’s time to examine ways to do a better job with my kids. This time I have decide to focus more on how I can get my parenting methods to actually get results for me rather than just doing the usual thing and simply making out a long list of impossible things. These are a few ideas about how I plan to keep my parenting methods working throughout the year.
Getting them to be neater
My kids are not really what I would call lazy, but their rooms can look like a war zone at times. Instead of getting annoyed at the sight of their underwear hanging on their laptop table, I am simply going to reward the child who keeps his room neat and take a few dollars from the pocket money of the one who continues to be untidy.
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I have already moved their television into our living room. All of us like to relax in the evenings with TV, but I know watching too much TV harms their health and reduces the time we spend together as a family, so I plan to throw in some snacks and turn a quiet evening into enjoyable family time. In this way I will get to spend more time with my kids as well as stopping them from hiding in their rooms watching those meaningless TV programmes.
Helping them keep a balanced diet
My kids love fries (炸薯条) and biscuits as children usually do. I have worked out a deal with them. We have Tuesdays and Saturdays labelled as “happy food days” when they can eat what they want while the rest of the week we get to focus on some nutritious (有营养的) foods to develop our bodies. In this way I have worked out an effective balance between junk-food (垃圾食品) snacks and good-for-you snacks.
Giving permissions
If you don’t know how many outings you should allow your kids to go on, you are not the only one. I have made a deal with my kids. Out of every three outing choices, they get to choose two they really want and one that I am allowed to say “no” to. You’ll be surprised at how much you can control the number of their activities out with their friends without witnessing a long cry on your living room carpet (地毯).
Sparing time for talks
I have made sure that I am going to set aside five minutes a day for each child. From past experience, I have discovered that children often hide a problem until it reaches a point they cannot handle. Thus I plan to set aside five minutes for each child to just chat about their day and tell me if there is anything they want to talk to me about.
I know that all my plans to keep my ways to solve problems are not always going to go as planned. But having some ideas in place has helped me add some limits and requirements to my children’s lives without stepping on their toes or destroying their fun. I love my kids very much and this is my way of training them to get on the good side of their lives.
So, what are your parenting methods for this year? Please leave a message and share them below.
1. We can infer from Paragraph 1 that _____ .A.the author is not a good mother |
B.the author plans to make a list of things she will do |
C.the author’s children bring great problems to her family |
D.the author’s parenting methods in the past didn’t quite work |
A.They are lazy and untidy. |
B.They can get pocket money. |
C.They always keep their rooms out of order. |
D.They often fight with each other in their rooms. |
A.Spending the evening together |
B.Turning TV time into family time |
C.Keeping them away from the television |
D.Stopping them from hiding in their rooms |
A.let them know that she loves them |
B.keep an eye on what they do every day |
C.help them solve their problems in time |
D.discover the secrets they don’t want to share |
A.The author has put all her plans into action. |
B.The author is not satisfied with her plan at all. |
C.The author allows her children to eat whatever they like. |
D.The author’s children have freedom of going out to some degree. |
A.A newspaper. | B.A magazine. |
C.A booklet. | D.A website. |
【推荐3】Parents are often frightened to talk to their kids about money. In fact kids need to understand how to save and manage their money. Proper preparation for your children, even at a young age, can start them down the path of a successful financial life.
Talk early and often.
Children start learning about money long before their first savings account, job or credit card.
Everyday activities are teachable moments.
Talk about giving.
Children should learn that money doesn’t always need to be used for them.
Websites like www. charitynavigator. org and www. guide. star. org provide information and ratings.
If they open a savings account, they can place their savings in the bank to earn a small amount of interest. Besides, they can learn about fees, account maintenance (维护) and even interest. It can provide a motivation (动机) for them to save money. You can offer them a prize if they put the money into savings.
A.It can also provide help for others. |
B.Open a checking and savings account. |
C.Children are eager to know about money. |
D.Parents should help their children know how to use money. |
E.Here are some tips that might help you teach your kids about money. |
F.A trip to the grocery store is a good time to explain price comparison and value. |
G.Begin the conversation even before they’re in school by talking about work and money. |