I’d been asked to go to an editor’s office with the old program “We have a story we think you’d be perfect for”. Here was the topic: We want you to write about how middle-aged men have no friends. Seeing that, I couldn’t help thinking, “Excuse me? I have plenty of friends.” Then the editor told me there were all sorts of evidence out there to show how men, as they age, let their close friendships go, and that the fact can cause all sorts of problems and have a terrible impact on their health.
As I walked back to my desk in the newsroom--a distance of maybe 100 yards--I quickly search for my friend list. First of all, there was my friend Mark. Wait, how often do we actually hang out? Maybe four or five times a year? And then there was another best friend from high school, Rory, and. . . I actually could not remember the last time I’d seen him.
There were all those other good friends who seemed as if they’re still in my life because we follow one another via social media, but as I ran down the list of those I considered real, true, lifelong friends, I realized that it had been years since I saw many of them, even decades for a few.
By the time I got back to my desk, I realized that I was indeed perfect for this story, not because I was unusual in any way, but because my story was very, very typical. And as I looked into what that means, I realized that in the long term, I was heading down a path that was very, very dangerous. And I knew I needed a change.
1. What was the author’s first reaction to the topic?A.He thought it was perfect for him. | B.He knew the editor was joking. |
C.He felt surprised and doubtful. | D.He showed an interest in it. |
A.To solve health problems. | B.To change a dangerous path. |
C.To attach importance to friendship. | D.To prove the author’s writing ability. |
A.He realized the topic worth writing. | B.He wasn’t popular with others. |
C.He had close friends in his life. | D.He didn’t make any true friends. |
A.Through letters. | B.Through the Internet. |
C.By phoning each other. | D.By partying regularly. |
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【推荐1】Mark Smith and Jarryd Haines are good friends. The two boys from Sydney have known each other for most of their lives. Both of them enjoy playing Australian football.
A few years ago, when Mark was nine, he developed brain cancer. The disease robbed the boy of his sight, part of his hearing and his ability to play his favorite sport. However, throughout the years, Jarryd remained his closest friend. They still share their love of Australian football. And they still enjoy talking about the Sydney Swans, their favorite team.
Two weeks ago, I took my seat at Sydney Cricket Ground to watch the Swans. The old stadium was crowded with fans. Shortly into the second quarter, heard some great commentary(实况报道) from a boy. Play by play, Jarryd was bringing the game to life. I turned and saw him. Mark was sitting next to him.
Although he cannot see anymore, Mark still loves the Swans very much. Usually, he goes to the stadium and listens to the commentary on the radio. However, in the second quarter of that match, the radio system broke down. That was when his friend Jarryd stepped in.
I hardly looked at the Swans and Buddy, the team’s star player. Instead, I was focusing on Jarryd and Mark. “What’s happening now, mate?” Mark asked. “Don’t worry. Mark,” Jarryd replied. “Okay. Buddy’s got it. Will he go for it? He’s going for it! It’s his tenth goal! Buddy is on fire!” Mark listened carefully. He was lost in the magic of Australian football brought to life by his friend.
Sports can be competitive. However, they can also allow us to share wonderful moments with others, may they be close friends or perfect strangers. Here, Jarryd and Mark have moved me, and perhaps some other spectators(观众), with the best commentary.
1. Why didn’t Mark play Australian football any longer?A.He took up new hobby. |
B.He lost his sight . |
C.He was unable to play it because of his disease. |
D.His favorite team-the Sydney Swans lost the game. |
A.He helped him step into the stadium. |
B.He made Buddy score his tenth goal. |
C.He was lost in the magic of Australian football. |
D.He provided commentary for him when the radio system failed. |
A.Generous and active. | B.Considerate and patient. |
C.Diligent and ambitious. | D.Competitive and smart |
A.A lively commentary. | B.The Swans and Buddy. |
C.An Australian football match. | D.The precious friendship between two boys. |
【推荐2】Friendship can last long if friends trust each other. To avoid problems and misunderstandings in a friendship, it's necessary to have get-togethers to meet each other often and to share thoughts and experiences. Here are some fun things to do with friends.
Besides outdoor activities, there are many indoor activities to do with friends. You can celebrate a friend's birthday
There are also many fun things to do at night with friends.
Going for a holiday to a place that is loved by all your friends is one of the interesting and unforgettable experiences.
The fun things to do with your friends mentioned above will give you a break from your busy life.
A.You can watch the stars and skies together. |
B.Try your hand at cooking delicious dishes. |
C.Since summer vacations are long, you can visit a far place |
D.Moreover, they will improve your relationships with your friends. |
E.Nothing is as joyful as playing the games you all like very much |
F.A friend is someone we trust and turn to in times of need and difficulty. |
G.Go to a nice restaurant with all your friends to have the dishes that you like most. |
【推荐3】High-Wire Act
Mickey Wilson had been on the mountain only a few seconds when he heard the scream. Wilson, 28 years old, had just gotten off the cable car (索道缆车) at the Arapahoe Basin Ski Area in Keystone, Colorado, along with his friends Billy Simmons and Hans Mueller. Their friend Richard had been on the cable car ahead of them, but when the men reached the top of the lift, he had disappeared. The men walked toward the source of the scream and found skiers stopped on the slope, pointing to the cable car. And then the friends screamed too.
“Oh, Richard!” yelled Mueller.
When Richard had tried to jump off the cable car, his backpack had been caught in the chair, which then dragged him back down the hill. In the process, the backpack belt twisted around his neck, making him breathless. Now Richard’s body was swinging four feet above the snow. The cable car operator had quickly stopped it, and the friends kicked off their skis and ran toward the scene. They made a human pyramid to try to reach Richard, but the unconscious man was too far off the ground. With the clock ticking, Wilson ran to the ladder of a nearby lift tower. Scared skiers watched as he struggled the 25 feet. After he reached the top, Wilson’s first challenge was to climb onto the two-inch steel cable that held the chairs. He handled the balance and height bravely, but he knew he could not walk on the cable. Therefore, he calmed down and sat over it and then used his hands to pull himself to Richard quickly. Wilson’s greatest fear wasn’t that he’d fall, but that he wouldn’t reach Richard. “This was life or death,” he said.
When he reached Richard’s chair, Wilson swung a leg over the cable and attempted to drop down onto it. But as he did that, his jacket caught on the movable footrest, which was in the up position. The footrest began to slide down, with Wilson attached. But before that could happen, he managed to free himself and reached Richard.
Fortunately, the ski patrol (巡查) had gathered below and performed emergency treatment on Richard, who had been hanging for about five minutes, then skied him down to an ambulance.
That night, Richard called from the hospital to express his thanks to Wilson, his other friends and the workers at the Arapahoe Basin Ski Area.
1. What happened to Richard when he tried to jump off the cable car?A.He was sick and became unconscious. |
B.He left his skis which stopped the cable car. |
C.He was too afraid to move forward in the cable car. |
D.He was caught by the neck, hanging down the cable. |
A.People worked together and saved him. |
B.Wilson climbed on the cable and saved him. |
C.The ski patrol got him down and treated him. |
D.Skiers treated him and carried him to the hospital. |
A.the rescue process was dangerous |
B.something was wrong with the cable car |
C.Wilson could manage the process very well |
D.the operator of the cable car ignored his duty |
A.it is very dangerous to go skiing |
B.he that climbs high often falls heavily |
C.bravery and calm can help you make a difference |
D.a person with a great talent always has great will-power |
【推荐1】It’s a classic story: Kids are forced to learn an instrument from a young age, they play it throughout their childhood, and they develop a bittersweet relationship with it. Is the constant battle between the love for the music and the hate for the constant challenge worth the fight? For me, it was.
I started playing the piano when I was four—that was 15 years ago! This was huge commitment, so there must have been something worth holding on to, right?
The easy guess is that I was purely in love with music and piano. Although that’s the sweeter tale, it’s a bit more complicated. I struggled a lot with piano. Family and peers were, at least in my own head, constantly placed beside me in competition. I felt stressful to be the best in order to prove something to others—and more devastatingly (破坏性地) to prove something to myself. The seed of my musical interest was grown in the sunlight of competition and doubt. Hate sprouted (滋生) when my self-criticism hit too hard.
It’s difficult to learn to love something that didn’t originate from love. For a while, piano was more of an annoyance than a hobby. But somehow, love grew. It was deeply buried. But it was there, and by high school, it was strong enough that when I was truly on the edge of quitting any kind of formal training. I found the strength to hold on tighter, and dig further. I switched teachers, and got incredibly lucky with one who helped me tunnel into what I loved. I learned pieces for myself, I composed for myself, and I found confidence not because I got “good enough,” but because I learned that anything I had was good enough.
The love and hate I’ve had for the piano were both planted and grown. If you too have learned to hate something, remember that with commitment, it can be uprooted, and love can make a home in its place. There is always time. There is always room.
1. What does the author want to show by telling a classic story?A.Being forced counts in learning. |
B.Kids’ struggle in learning instruments. |
C.Kids’ bittersweet childhood. |
D.The passion for learning instruments. |
A.She finally quit formal training. |
B.She broke something to prove her hate. |
C.She was in pure love with music and piano. |
D.She once experienced great pressure from herself. |
A.Her attitude. |
B.Her teacher’s training. |
C.Her strength. |
D.Her own achievement. |
A.Practice makes perfect. |
B.Love is a thing that grows. |
C.Interest is the best teacher. |
D.Hardship makes a man. |
【推荐2】A few years ago, a friend sent me a restaurant gift card for Christmas, and I picked a pretty, sunny Sunday afternoon to use it. It felt good taking my two grown sons and daughter to a nice sit-down restaurant instead of the fast food places we usually ate at. The meal was delicious, and we all had a good time just being together. The gift card covered almost all of the check. I reached into my wallet to get enough cash to cover the rest. I saw two bills (钞票) in the front of it. The first would cover the rest of the check. The second would cover the check and give the waitress a nice tip. I reached down to pick out the first one.
At that moment, my mind flashed back to 30 years ago. I was working as a busboy (餐厅勤杂工) in a restaurant much like the one we were in. It was long hours of hard work for low pay. I went home just barely making enough to feed my young family. I also remembered how more than once I saw the waitresses counting their small tips while worrying about how they were going to pay the rent and buy their kids the things they needed. I remembered the pain in their eyes and saw the sadness in their faces at the end of the day.
I blinked (眨眼睛) and was back in the present again, with my fingers touching the smaller bill in my wallet. I smiled, pushed it back down and picked out the larger bill. I folded it around the gift card and covered both of them with the check. As we all got up from the table, I handed them to the hard-working waitress. “You keep the change,” I said with a smile and a happy heart.
We are all one family in this world. We live together, rejoice (高兴) together and suffer together. Do your best to be kind. Do your best to be a good person and replace the suffering with joy.
1. What do we know from the first paragraph?A.The author's family had a hard life. | B.The gift card was enough to pay the check. |
C.The author seldom ate together with his family. | D.The author valued the time he spent with his children. |
A.describe struggles he faced in the past | B.complain about his job at the restaurant |
C.explain why he chose the larger bill | D.show how hard waiters work |
A.Moved. | B.Pleased. | C.Puzzled. | D.Concerned. |
A.To tell people to be kind. | B.To remind us not to forget our hard days. |
C.To stress the importance of tipping servers. | D.To show that we should thank friends and family. |
【推荐3】It was mid-afternoon. I looked outside my dorm window, and saw the lifeless gray sky, the snow and the trackless sidewalks. There was no one in the snow but a squirrel. The brown-gray North American squirrel,a look of terror in his shining eyes, braved the cold to throw himself over snow. In his mouth was a large acorn(橡实)—I was surprised it fit in his mouth.
I moved closer to my window, outside of which is a medium-sized tree, lacking its warm-weather leaves. The squirrel ran up rapidly, higher and higher in the tree, and his small body held onto his dear acorn.
Up he went, to the tip of one of the highest branches. I held my breath—I wondered if that slender branch could support him. I wondered if his winter food store was in this tree—squirrels are known to hide their nuts, mushrooms, and vegetation high up in trees. Outside, the squirrel firmly grasped that branch, jaw clamping(夹紧)on his acorn.
Then came the wind blowing violently, shaking the tree, the branch and the squirrel. He hung on for dear life, and both arms wrapped around the branch in the wind. I held my breath: If he fell from a height like this, then.... Seeing this little squirrel, I had my heart in my mouth. As the wind became stronger, the squirrel’s precious acorn fell to the ground. The squirrel followed its downward progress only by sight—if he let go the branch, he would fall downwards as well. I was so nervous that I didn’t take my gaze off the squirrel for one minute. Surprisingly, he then climbed down the tree and was now half-buried in the snow, searching desperately for his acorn. Finally, he made it.
The brave animal is able to survive in nature all because of its desperate efforts.The same goes for us humans. We all work hard to survive, and this is the law of nature. So effort is not something special, but a matter for all living things to do to survive.
1. What did the author discover outside the window?A.A squirrel was freezing nearly to death. |
B.A squirrel was choked by a large acorn. |
C.A squirrel was picking acorns from a tree. |
D.A squirrel was climbing to the top of a tree. |
A.Dead. | B.Straight. | C.Slim. | D.Thick. |
A.Concerned. | B.Unfriendly. | C.Uncaring. | D.Curious. |
A.Stop struggling, life is stopped. |
B.Facts speak louder than words. |
C.Failure is the mother of success. |
D.Teaching others teaches yourself. |
【推荐1】Tracy Garrett was the Mr Fix-it of a village where I lived for two years. I heard about mysterious doings of his late wife, Minnie. There were stories of someone who had got into trouble a proper amount of money would cure, and each ended on the same strange note: “Minnie is in hock again.”
I tried to talk with locals to solve the mystery. But at a newcomer’s spying curiosity, the villagers always avoided the issue with New England reservation. It left me completely in the dark.
Soon I began having troubles of my own. My daughter had an expensive operation, but the money I had counted on didn’t come in.
One day Garrett came to fix my sink, which never worked properly. Working silently for a while, he looked at me and said, “Understand you’ve been having a little trouble.” I was feeling bitter, but still talked it out. “Then it’s time you met Minnie,” he said decisively.
I felt a bit scared and was prepared for anything, but all that happened was that he took out a tired-looking $ 1000 bank-note. Roughly printed on it was: MINNIE.
“All you do is take Minnie to the bank and put her up for loan for any amount up to $ 1000. You pay the bank their regular rate of interest, and then Minnie comes back to me.” He continued. “Minnie loved this village, and she wanted to keep on helping people after she was gone.”
I began to understand why the town folk had been so secretive. They didn’t know whether I could be trusted with a secret so precious.
Though I moved away later, I would like to believe Minnie is still in circulation (流通). Minnie strikes me as the kind of woman who goes on for ever.
1. Who was Tracy Garrett?A.A banker. | B.A doctor. | C.A repairman. | D.A gardener. |
A.Little was reserved for Minnie. | B.“I” failed to uncover the mystery. |
C.The locals were curious about newcomers. | D.Minnie was talked about a lot in the village. |
A.He took Minnie to the bank. | B.He turned to Garrett for help. |
C.He borrowed money from Minnie. | D.He loaned on Minnie’s guarantee. |
A.Kindness is the key that unlocks the heart. |
B.He who plants kindness gathers love. |
C.A little kindness goes a long way. |
D.It is in giving that we receive. |
【推荐2】Following My Dream
I grew up in a poor family with six brothers, three sisters, my father and mother. We had little money and few goods, but plenty of love and attention. I was happy and energetic. I understood that no matter how poor a person was, he could still afford a dream.
My dream was athletics. By the time I was sixteen, I could throw a ninety-mile-per-hour fastball and hit anything moving on the football field. And I was so lucky that my high-school coach was Ollie Jarvis, who not only believed in me, but often told me “The dream is priceless.” However, when I was about to get off the ground, one particular thing happened, which almost ruined (毁坏) my long-held dream.
It was the summer holiday in Senior Two and a friend recommended me for a summer job. I was offered $12.25 per hour. Compared with the average $3.5, that was a big sum. I was so excited, because this meant a chance for money in my pocket, certainly, money for a new bike and new clothes, and the start of savings for a house for my mother. The prospect (前景) of the job was inviting, and I wanted to jump at the opportunity.
Then I realized I would have to give up summer baseball training to handle the work schedule. I didn’t dare to tell my coach. I thought of the advice my mother often gave me when I lacked courage, “If you make your bed, you have to lie in it.” I decided to talk to my coach by myself. After all, my dream of buying my mom a house and having money in my pocket was worth facing his disappointment to me. I gathered my courage and knocked at his door…
1. 根据文本内容从方框中选择恰当的词并用其正确形式填入文本图示中,每词限用一次,有两词为多余选项continue realize upset advise fortunate priceless throw excite have disappoint happy recommend | ||
Following My Dream | ||
I grew up in a poor family and we | I felt | |
By the time I was 16, I could | I was so | |
In the summer holiday I was | I was so | |
If I wanted to | I didn’t dare to tell my coach, but my dream of buying my mom a house and having money in my pocket was worth facing his |
2. What should one do even if he was poor in the author’s opinion?
3. Why did the author want to give up summer baseball training?
4. What would happen when the author knocked at his coach’s door?
【推荐3】"Get up, get up, Jim. It's time to get up!" my mother said while she was pushing me. I opened my eyes and looked at the clock. "Oh dear! It's a quarter to eight already. I'll be late for school again," I thought. I jumped out of the bed, washed my face, then hurried to the bus stop without breakfast. As soon as I got on the bus, it started running. "I'm sure I can get to the school on time," I said to myself. Suddenly the bus stopped. The bus driver got off the bus, then got on the bus again and said, "I'm sorry, ladies and gentlemen. There's something wrong with the bus. Please get off the bus and wait for another one." "I couldn't wait. The school is not far. I'd better run to the school," I thought, and then I began to run. But before I got to the school, it began to rain hard.
I reached the classroom but I was wet shivering with cold. The physics teacher had already begun his lesson. It was Mr. Smith. He was about fifty years old. All the students were a little afraid of him and so was I. I liked neither him nor his physics lessons. I hesitated for a moment and then I opened the door. "I'm very sorry, Mr. Smith. I'm late again," I said with a red face.
"It's you again, Jim," Mr. smith said angrily. "I've told you not be late, but you…" he suddenly stopped and looked at my wet clothes. He turned to the class and said, "I'm very sorry, my boys and girls." With these words he quickly took off his own jacket and handed it to me. "Now take off your wet coat and put this one or you'll catch cold," he said kindly.
I went to my seat with Mr. Smith's jacket on. It was a bit large for me but I felt very warm in it. I found, for the first time, physics was so interesting and how well I could understand it!
1. Jim was late for school because _______.A.he got up too late | B.there was something wrong with the bus |
C.it rained heavily | D.he had to wait for the bus |
A.felt sad | B.looked kind |
C.looked worried | D.was unhappy |
A.the jacket was large enough to keep him warm |
B.Mr. Smith took good care of him |
C.he understood what Mr. Smith said all the time |
D.physics is easy if you like the physics teachers |
A.students can't be late for school |
B.students can learn better if teachers love them |
C.physics is easy if you like the physics teachers |
D.you'll catch cold if your clothes are wet |