True love is happiness. True love is sharing your world with your dearest. How do you turn friendship into love? Is there a fine line between the two?
Be considerate and thoughtful towards the person.
Whatever the situation is, put yourself in your friends’ shoes. If they are in trouble, help them out.
If you’re really good friends with some people, go into town to catch a coffee, invite them on walks, or just invite them to your house for a bit of a catch-up. The possibilities are endless. Just make sure you know them well enough to feel comfortable having deep conversations and sharing your world with them. You don’t want them to be creeped out (爬出) with your sudden eagerness and interest.
Help them out once in a while.
Be caring and friendly.
Try not to have any arguments, even though they can easily happen. Don’t ever cheat and always look your best for them.
A.Make eye contacts with them. |
B.Spend plenty of time with them. |
C.If they are happy, be happy with them. |
D.Respect them and be friendly to them. |
E.Here is a simple guide to seeking true love. |
F.Have opinions, express your views and be a real friend. |
G.If they’re struggling at school, go over a few topics with them. |
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【推荐1】Jeremy Savage, aged 17, and Ian Marshall, aged 16, went to the Rocky Mountains with their parents for the weekend. On Saturday morning, the two boys decided to climb Cathedral Mountain by themselves while their parents relaxed at the campsite. After three hours, they reached the top with no problems.
However, trouble began when they started the climb down the mountain. On one very dangerous part of the path, Ian fell three metres off the side of the path. Jeremy was able to climb down to where Ian was. Ian was badly injured and could not move. Jeremy had to decide what to do. He needed help, but he did not want to leave his friend. He used water from his own bottle to clean the dirt and blood from Ian’s face and hands. He tried to help Ian stand up, but Ian’s right leg was hurting too much. They had to wait and hope that someone would come and help them.
When the boys did not return to the campsite that evening, their parents became very worried. They got in touch with park workers and began searching for the boys. Soon more than 20 people were looking for the boys.
As night fell, the boys were still missing. While they waited for help to arrive, Jeremy gave Ian his food and water and he let Ian lie on his jacket so he would be more comfortable. As the evening grew darker, Ian told Jeremy to leave him and go back to their parents, but he still did not leave. Jeremy thought it was too dangerous for Ian to be alone. The night was cold and windy, and Jeremy used his jacket and an extra shirt to keep Ian warm.
At sunrise, Jeremy decided that the only way to help his friend was to carry him. So, they started the long climb back to their parents. Sometimes Jeremy carried Ian on his hack. Sometimes he carried him in his arms. Finally, after four hours, they arrived at the campsite where their parents were waiting. “I will always remember what Jeremy did for me,” said Ian. “He saved my life. That is the greatest thing that a person can do for his friend.”
1. What happened to Ian on his way down the mountain?A.Ian fell three miles off the side of the path. |
B.Ian climbed down to where Jeremy was. |
C.Ian was badly injured and could not move. |
D.Ian decided what to do because Jeremy was injured. |
A.Because they knew the boys got injured. |
B.Because they are worried about their own safety. |
C.Because the boys returned to the campsite with wounds. |
D.Because the boys did not return to the campsite that evening. |
A.Jeremy had Ian’s food and water. |
B.Jeremy left Ian alone to find help from their parents. |
C.Jeremy let Ian lie on his jacket to make him comfortable. |
D.Jeremy gave Ian his jacket and only shirt to keep Ian warm. |
A.Four hours. | B.Almost one night. |
C.Three hours. | D.About 24 hours. |
【推荐2】Life is so much shorter than you think. The average person in the United States lives only 27, 375 days.
Those who deny your dream.
If you are surrounded by people who deny your dream or make fun of it because they think it’s unachievable, it is not good.
Those who push their own ideas.
There are a lot of selfish people who act as if everything they say is right, and try to deny what you say. No matter how much you explain, those who deny your ideas and push their own ideas to you will never understand. So it’s completely a waste of time, and just leave away.
Those who only think about themselves.
Selfish people are harmful in your life. They basically only care about their own happiness and joy, so they usually treat you badly because they are too selfish to care about how you feel.
Don’t you have those people around you who speak negatively, who believe negatively and who tell you their negative ideas. They are alone, living in a sad and negative world so they are trying to bring you into their world, by making you believe that life is full of sadness and unhappiness.
A.Those who are always negative. |
B.They can influence you in a bad way. |
C.Those who don’t believe in a “Happy Ending”. |
D.Don’t let yourself believe in their stupid ideas. |
E.Life is a very cold place without understanding. |
F.Life is too short to spend time with people who steal your joy and happiness. |
G.Be with open-minded people who will accept your ideas and discuss with you calmly. |
【推荐3】Once,I had an American friend.After she went back home,I never heard from her again.I can't help but wonder if there can ever be real friendship between Westerners and us Chinese.
What is friendship?The Oxford English Dictionary says,"The emotions or conduct of friends."In both Western and Chinese culture,we have similar proverbs when it comes to friendship,such as"a friend in need is a friend indeed."
Chinese people value friendship highly.As you know,Chinese people are known to be extremely hospitable and open-hearted.
One type of friend in China is a"close acquaintance"who only occasionally eats and drinks and hangs out with you.In the West,they are called"a fair-weather(不可共患难的)friend."Nikki was that kind of friend.Despite our language barrier,we had a lot of fun together..
A.They refer to anyone they know as a"friend." |
B.Friendship in the West is mostly pursued for fun. |
C.However,there is a cultural gap between the two sides. |
D.Of course,Westerners and Chinese people can be good friends. |
E.Real friends can share all our sorrows and double all our joys. |
F.The second type of friend in China is a"real friend"who is practically your family. |
G.They'll take turns with you in picking up the bill,because that's what good friends do. |
【推荐1】Who needs friends? According to most psychologists(心理学家) we all do, especially nowadays when so many other aspects (方面 ) of modern life are changing. It seems that having friends keeps us both healthy and happy.
The number of TV series about groups of friends shows just how important friendship is to us. Psychologist Dorothy Rowe says that many of us now turn to our friends, instead of our families, for advice, comfort and security. One woman named Rebecca she interviewed even told her that if she had got to choose between her husband and her friend, she would choose her friend.
Since our friends mean so much to us, it is not surprising that the happiest marriages are also friendships. "Once the romantic stage of a relationship has passed, it is friendship that holds people together," says Rowe. If the couple do not make some changes, they will either get tired of each other and break up or stay together and seek friendship with others.
But is friendship equally important to women and men? According to author Rhonda Pritchard, women are more likely than men to have close friends. "You tell a friend things that you'd never tell a partner," says one woman she interviewed. For men, friendship is usually based on doing things together rather than the private conversations that are typical of women friends. Men share time and activities like building a fence or a business, running, riding a bike, fishing or watching football, but they don't often share their feelings.
Although many women find their relationships with a husband or boyfriend is not enough, many men say that their partner is their best friend. Even women who are very happily married are likely to become very unhappy without a close friend and can even find the breakup of a close friendship as painful as the end of a marriage.
Lasting friendships can provide a lot of the same support that families provided in the past, but the perfect situation is to have your family there for you as well. Friendships and family relationships can both change, but a friend will not consider you when making really important decisions in the same way that a family member will.
1. What did Rebecca think about friendship?A.All of us need friendship. |
B.Friends are as important as families. |
C.Her friend means more to her than her husband. |
D.One need not have too many friends. |
A.They are encouraged by their partners |
B.They do not get what they need from their partners. |
C.They are not fairly treated by their partners |
D.They think their friends are more romantic. |
A.Women often do things together with friends. |
B.Men often talk to their friends about work and family. |
C.Women often talk about business with friends. |
D.Men seldom talk to their friends about their feelings. |
A.They feel as upset as when a marriage ends. |
B.They share feelings with their partners. |
C.They treat their partners as friends. |
D.They turn to their husbands for comfort. |
【推荐2】A Great Friendship
Thomas Jefferson and James Madison met in 1776. Could it have been any other year? They worked together starting then to further American Revolution and later to shape the new scheme of government. From the work sprang a friendship perhaps incomparable in intimacy and the trustfulness of collaboration and endurance. It lasted 50 years. It included pleasure and utility but over and above them, there were shared purpose, a common end and an enduring goodness on both sides. Four and a half months before he died, when he was ailing, debt-ridden, and worried about his impoverished family, Jefferson wrote to his longtime friend. His words and Madison’s reply remind us that friends are friends until death. They also remind us that sometimes a friendship has a bearing on things larger than the friendship itself, for has there ever been a friendship of greater public consequence than this one?
“The friendship which has subsisted between us now half a century, the harmony of our political principles and pursuits have been sources of constant happiness to me through that long period. If ever the earth has beheld a system of administration conducted with a single and steadfast eye to the general interest and happiness of those committed to it, one which, protected by truth, can never known reproach, it is that to which our lives have been devoted. To myself you have been a pillar of support throughout life. Take care of me when dead and be assured that I should leave with you my last affections.”
A week later Madison replied.
“You cannot look back to the long period of our private friendship and political harmony with more affecting recollections than I do. If they are a source of pleasure to you, what aren’t they not to be to me? We cannot be deprived of the happy consciousness of the pure devotion to the public good with which we discharge the trust committed to us and I indulge a confidence that sufficient evidence will find in its way to another generation to ensure, after we are gone, whatever of justice may be withheld whilst we are here.”
1. Which of the following didn’t contribute to the 50-year great friendship between Thomas Jefferson and James Madison?A.Intimacy and the trustfulness of collaboration. | B.Joint efforts in political pursuits. |
C.A big fortune made by both of them. | D.Shared purpose and a common end. |
A.symbolizes | B.alters | C.impacts | D.represents |
A.James Madison’s willingness to lend money to help Jefferson and his family out of debt. |
B.The pleasant agreement on the two friends’ political principles and pursuits. |
C.A single and stable system of administration that the two friends were committed to. |
D.James Madison’s promise to support Jefferson’s devotion to his cause. |
A.Their friendship would be remembered for ever. |
B.Their loss and deprivation would be made up for. |
C.Their doubts would be backed by sufficient evidence. |
D.Their devotion would be viewed in a fair way. |
【推荐3】We don’t meet people by accident.
Never look down on someone unless you are helping them up. We like to think of life as a meritocracy(精英统治),so it’s easy to look down on someone who isn’t as successful or accomplished or well educated as you are. But you have no idea how far that person has already climbed or where they will end up. Time could easily reverse(颠倒) your positions,
Appreciate those who have supported you, forgive those who have hurt you, help those who need you.
Treat people the way you want to be treated and life will instantly get better.
A.so be sure you treat everyone with dignity. |
B.therefore, cherish every person you meet. |
C.Never fix them when they make mistakes. |
D.Don’t tell them how to get there but show the way. |
E.instead, guide them to the source of their own. |
F.Business is complicated, life is complex and leadership is difficult. |
G.Every person you meet will have a role in your life, be it big or small |