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“My daughters are dealing with friendship disagreements, school pressures and college application. My younger daughter sets her alarm for 5 a.m. to finish her homework before school begins,” says Cameron Gaeren, a mother in Chicago. Her daughters are not alone. A survey found that about 30% of the 1, 018 teens surveyed reported feeling anxious or overwhelmed (不堪重负的).

Still, kids don’t often accept parents’ help. That’s because when teens are overwhelmed, parents may say things like “When I was your age, I had a job, and I still did my homework and made time for my friends. I know that you can do this, too.” They mean well trying to connect with their teens in this comparative way, but often it causes a communication breakdown.

When teens are stressed, most parents try to solve their problems, but often what teens really need is to develop problem-solving skills of their own. Sheryl Ziegler, an expert in Denver, says it’s important to teach teens how to develop cognitive empathy (同理心), which allows them to try to understand someone else’s thoughts and how they view the world. For example, if a teen is upset because a friend doesn’t return a text, parents can ask, “What do you think might be going on for her?” or “Remember last week when you didn’t text back right away because you were studying for an exam?”

Because teenagers are so emotionally driven, they may act in mad ways. A disagreement with a teacher or a friend or an unanswered text can make them feel like the end of the world. Research shows that cognitive empathy skills can help teens realize that people and situations can change, which allows them to face social challenges more easily. By developing their cognitive empathy, teens can remind themselves that even when feelings take over, stressful situations last for a short time only.

1. What does the first paragraph try to tell us?
A.Teens have a busy schedule.
B.Teens face a number of challenges.
C.Teens need more communication.
D.Teens don’t get along well with others.
2. Which of the following can best describe parents’ solution to teenagers’ problems?
A.Creative.B.Simple.C.Ineffective.D.Unclear.
3. What should parents do for teenagers according to Ziegler?
A.Help them solve their problems.
B.Express their understanding of them.
C.Bring up examples related to themselves.
D.Teach them to understand what’s on others’ mind.
4. How can cognitive empathy help teens?
A.It strengthens their kindness.
B.It improves their speaking ability.
C.It helps them manage their emotions.
D.It makes them focus their energies on others.

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