Sara tried to befriend her old friend Steve's new wife, but Betty never seemed to have anything to say. While Sara felt Betty didn't hold up her end of the conversation, Betty complained to Steve that Sara never gave her a chance to talk. The problem had to do with expectations about pacing and pausing.
Conversation is a turn-taking game. When our habits are similar, there's no problem. But if our habits are different, you may start to talk before I'm finished or fail to take your turn when I'm finished. That's what was happening with Betty and Sara.
It may not be coincidental that Betty, who expected relatively longer pauses between turns, is British, and Sara, who expected relatively shorter pauses, is American. Betty often felt interrupted by Sara. But Betty herself became an interrupter and found herself doing most of the talking when she met a visitor from Finland. And Sara had a hard time cutting in on some speakers from Latin America or Israel.
The general phenomenon, then, is that the small conversation techniques, like pacing and pausing, lead people to draw conclusions not about conversational style but about personality and abilities. These habitual differences are often the basis for dangerous stereotyping (思维定式). And these social phenomena can have very personal consequences. For example, a woman from the southwestern part of the US went to live in an eastern city to take up a job in personnel. When the Personnel Department got together for meetings, she kept searching for the right time to break in --- and never found it. Although back home she was considered outgoing and confident, in Washington she was viewed as shy and retiring. When she was evaluated at the end of the year, she was told to take a training course because of her inability to speak up.
That's why slight differences in conversational style --- tiny little things like microseconds of pause --- can have a great effect on one's life. The result in this case was a judgment of psychological problems --- even in the mind of the woman herself, who really wondered what was wrong with her and registered for assertiveness training.
1. What did Sara think of Betty when talking with her?
A.Betty was talkative. |
B.Betty was an interrupter. |
C.Betty did not take her turn. |
D.Betty paid no attention to Sara. |
A.Americans. | B.Israelis. | C.The British. | D.The Finns. |
A.communication breakdown results from short pauses and fast pacing |
B.women are unfavorably stereotyped in eastern cities of the US |
C.one's inability to speak up is culturally determined sometimes |
D.one should receive training to build up one's confidence |
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【推荐1】When learning a foreign language, most people fall back on traditional methods: reading, writing, listening and repeating. But if you also gesture with your arms while studying, you can remember the vocabulary better, even months later. Linking a word to brain areas responsible for movement strengthens the memory of its meaning.
This is the conclusion a research team reached after doing multiple experiments recently. “Our results provide neuroscientific(神经系统科学的)evidence for why learning techniques that involve the body’s motor system should be used more often,” neuroscientist Brian Mathias, a member of the team, said in a news release.
As Mathias and his colleagues describe in The Journal of Neuroscience, they had 22 German-speaking adults learn a total of 90 invented artificial words over four days. While the test adults first heard the new vocabulary, they were shown a video of a person making a gesture that matched the meaning of the word. When the word was repeated, the adults performed the same gesture themselves.
Five months later, they were asked to translate the vocabulary they had learned into German in a multiple-choice test. At the same time, they had an equipment attached to their heads that sent weak magnetic pulses(磁脉冲)to their primary motor cortex(皮层)一the brain area that controls voluntary arm movements. When these interrupting signals were active, the adults found it harder to recall the words accompanied by gestures. When there were no interrupting signals, they found it easier to remember the words. The researchers concluded that the motor cortex contributed to the translation of the vocabulary learned with gestures. This applied to concrete words, such as “camera”, as well as abstract ones, such as “thought”.
“There’s now quite a lot of literature showing that gestures play a role in learning. I think this study takes it a step further and tries to understand why,” says Susan Goldin-Meadow, a psychologist at the University of Chicago. Research like this, as well as brain imaging, suggests the activation of the brain’s motor areas could be a factor. “It’s not necessarily the only reason,” Goldin-Meadow adds, “but it’s probably a contributor.”
1. What is a suggestion for language learners according to the research findings?A.Combining listening with writing. |
B.Repeating the vocabulary regularly. |
C.Moving the body in the learning process. |
D.Talking with foreigners in the target language. |
A.Translate the vocabulary into German. |
B.Remember about 100 existing words. |
C.Translate some foreign words into gestures. |
D.Repeat the movements of a person in a video. |
A.To affect their motor system. |
B.To inspire them to learn actively. |
C.To record their brain activity while learning. |
D.To stress the role of certain types of gestures. |
A.To argue for the importance of doing exercise. |
B.To introduce new research into language learning. |
C.To explore ways to improve human memory. |
D.To call on students to learn foreign languages. |
【推荐2】There’s a child-like joy that comes with ordering something online. We sit refreshing the U. S. Postal Service or FedEx pages to see when our items will arrive and we become overly excited, hopeful and anxious. But why?
According to a psychotherapist Owen O’Kane, it’s anticipatory(预期的)pleasure that something positive and good is going to happen when we get this parcel. When our package finally arrives, many of us are satisfied. But that initial excitement has probably waned because our obsession(痴迷)with our parcel represents much more than the item we purchased. “What we’re talking about here is hope and having something to look forward to, but not the item itself.” O’Kane explains.
Anticipating good things is a formula that has fueled many helpful remarks through the years: Tomorrow is another day. However, anticipation isn’t always a good thing. In September, people went into a frenzy when it was announced that their mail delivery would become permanently slower. And now, many are worried about their items. This phenomenon is called pre-parcel anxiety. A delayed package may seem insignificant to some. But for others, getting your hopes up only for them to be thwarted(阻挠)is angering and anxiety-provoking.
O’Kane says these reactions are telling about more deep-rooted internal issues in our lives that go beyond a delayed package. “Anxiety is intolerance(不容忍)to uncertainty. So it’s really symbolic about something bigger, about that need to control and needing everything to be perfect. It’s important to practice self-care and treat ourselves with occasional gifts. However, O’Kane cautions comfort shopping is only a temporary fix. He adds many people often seek external solutions as a way of feeling better quickly, whereas a healthier long-term coping mechanism is to look inward and appreciate our life with “mindfulness, gratitude and savoring (鉴赏).” “We will find placing an order and receiving an item is stimulating on some level, but it is the most passive way to live. Challenge ourselves to take action in our life instead of waiting for it to arrive. ”
So the next time we feel the impulse to order and track something online, consider why.
1. What does the underlined word “waned” mean in paragraph 2?A.Decreased. | B.Enforced. | C.Refueled. | D.Overwhelmed. |
A.They are intolerant of waiting. | B.They are uncertain of delivery. |
C.They want to stay in control. | D.They have internal issues in life. |
A.We can seek external solutions to make us feel better. |
B.Online purchases can solve our problems permanently. |
C.We should find happiness and peace with what we have. |
D.Online shopping is a positive way to distract us from sadness. |
A.To weigh up the pros and cons(利弊)of online purchases. |
B.To persuade us not to purchase online in the long run. |
C.To analyze psychological happiness of online purchases. |
D.To explain why we are so obsessed with online purchases. |
【推荐3】Two of the world’s most common species of reef-building corals seem surprisingly able to survive and even cope well with climate change, according to a new study—at least so long as global warming is kept below 2 degrees Celsius, the target set by the Paris Agreement.
The world has so far warmed by 1.1°C. The Great Barrier Reef, the world’s largest reef system, is currently in “crisis,” a recently published UN report said. That report warned that some coral reef ecosystems could face irreversible damage if the world warms more than 1.5°C. A 2018 report by the IPCC concluded that at 2ºC or more, 99 percent of all reef-building corals could be lost.
But that’s not what McLachlan and her colleagues observed when they subjected Hawaiian corals to a simulated (模拟) 2ºC world for nearly two years. They found that two common coral species were especially resilient (能复原的) : Two-thirds of those corals survived the simulated future.
To learn more about how both warming and acidification might threat reefs in the future, they collected samples of three common coral species and placed them in tanks where they would be exposed to the same weather as a reef just offshore. They filled a total of 40 tanks with sand, rubble, reef fish, plankton, and other reef features. The idea was to simulate ocean conditions as realistically as possible.
For 22 months, the researchers subjected some corals to 2ºC of warming, some to acidified water, and some to both changes. Overall, of the corals exposed to both conditions, 46 percent of rice coral, 56 percent of lobe coral, and 71 percent of finger coral survived. Many of the corals were even thriving.
“The paper supports what has been observed in Hawaii.” says Ku’ulei Rodgers, a coral expert at the University of Hawaii at Manōa. “However, although it is hopeful that some species will survive this century, unless significant reductions in emissions occur, corals will eventually lose their fight for survival.”
1. What can we know from the passage?A.It seems some corals can adapt to a warmer world without limits. |
B.The Great Barrier Reef will be lost as the world has warmed by 1.1°. |
C.Two kinds of reef-building corals seem able to survive be free of global warming. |
D.Living coral reefs would disappear from the planet if the world warms 2ºC or more. |
A.To collect samples of three common coral species. |
B.To simulate ocean conditions as realistically as possible. |
C.To figure out how both warming and acidification might damage reefs. |
D.To warn that reef ecosystems could face significant damage for global warming. |
A.Ku’ulei Rodgers speaks highly of the paper. |
B.It’s hopeful that corals will survive in the future. |
C.Corals will eventually lose their fight for survival. |
D.Humans should spare no effort to reduce emissions. |
A.By sampling and discussing. |
B.By contrasting and observing. |
C.By assuming and contrasting. |
D.By observing and discussing. |
【推荐1】When Mark Twain visited Florence (佛罗伦萨) in 1867, he dutifully visited the city’s museums, churches, and tombs. But as he stood by the Arno, he began to sense the Italians’ insistence that it was a river, not a stream. “They all call it a river, and they honestly think it is a river, do these dark and bloody Florentines,” he complained, “I might enter Florence under happier circumstances a month hence and find it all beautiful, all attractive. But I do not care to think of it now, at all.”
It’s normal to feel uncomfortable outside your home culture. Feelings of discomfort, dislocation, and overload among travelers are referred to by many as “culture shock.” But Susan Goldstein, a professor at the University of Redlands says, “ Though the term has existed for many years, ‘Culture shock’ implies a dramatic, unexpected, negative event. Though many travelers will experience such challenges, a real sense of ‘shock’ is untypical. So untypical that many researchers no longer use the term.”
It was the vivid description of culture shock by Canadian researcher Oberg, written in 1960 in response to his own multicultural experiences, that won over audiences. The researcher spoke of the adjustment process as “an occupational disease of people who have suddenly been transplanted abroad” — a “disease” that progressed from a honeymoon phase, through rejecting the new environment, to finally adjusting fully to it. By the 1970s many researchers adopted the idea that, like physical illnesses, culture shock progressed through a remarkably consistent and universal set of stages.
Modern research, however, suggests that the experiences of adaptation are individual, not universal. “People will have their ups and downs, but for the most part, they will become increasingly comfortable and competent over time,” Goldstein says. And while many connect the causes of culture shock to the host culture itself, an individual’s internal expectations and differences are just as important.
As for Mark Twain, the moody author was able to ride out his feelings of upset and dislocation while traveling. He eventually finished out his European tour - and in his bestselling travel memoir The Innocents Abroad, famously remarked that travel is “fatal to prejudice and narrow-mindedness.” With the right attitude - and the willingness to seek help if you need it - it’s more than likely that you, too, can adapt and grow in new settings, building new memories-and toughness - with each new stamp in your passport.
1. How did Mark Twain feel about Italians’ insistence?A.Annoyed. | B.Calm. | C.Uninterested. | D.Curious. |
A.It would lead to physical diseases. |
B.It was regarded as an avoidable thing. |
C.It was named for people’s adjustment. |
D.It had gained wide acceptance by the 1970s. |
A.Suggestions about culture shock. |
B.A change in understanding culture shock. |
C.Stress of the importance of culture shock. |
D.A criticism of previous idea of culture shock. |
A.To remember him. | B.To inform and anticipate. |
C.To conclude and encourage. | D.To make the ending humorous. |
【推荐2】Professor Zhu Yunxia, an award-winning researcher and educator at the University of Queensland and has an international reputation in cross-cultural management and strategy, believes that anyone can learn to overcome cultural barriers with the right approach. She offers the following suggestions.
Be prepared for surprises.
One country might contain different cultures—China, for example, is composed of 56 ethnic groups—and within these, people may act in different ways in different contexts and with different groups of people.
While speaking the language is not necessary to understand the culture, it is important to know basic greetings and courtesies (客气话) for social interaction such as “hello” and “thank you”. These everyday phrases and rituals (礼节) are entry points which allow you to access the culture. People will also appreciate that you have made the effort.
Learn to “make strange”.
In day-to-day life, we tend to take many of our own customs and behaviors for granted without recognizing that these might appear odd from others’ point of view.
Use a “cultural bridge”.
The customs of another culture can be too strange or too foreign to understand.
Don’t focus on yourself.
A.Learn the“cultural grammar”. |
B.Consequently, wait for the unexpected. |
C.Develop and expand cooperative awareness. |
D.Sometimes an “insider” can help us to bridge the gap. |
E.Be open-minded and always try to aim for a win-win situation. |
F.Being too self-conscious can harm your ability to interact and learn. |
G.Learn to look at situations with fresh eyes, starting with our own culture. |
Six months ago, 19-year-old Xie Lei said goodbye to her family and friends and boarded a plane for London. It was the first time that she had left China.
Xie Lei is studying for a business qualification at a university in China and has come to our university on a year-long exchange programme. “I chose the exchange programme because I wanted to learn about global business and improve my English. My ambition is to set up a business in China after graduation,” she explained.
At first, Xie Lei had to adapt to life in a different country. “You have to get used to a whole new life,” she said. “I had to learn how to use public transport and how to ask for things I didn’t know the English names for. When I got lost, I had to ask passers-by for help, but people here speak fast and use words I’m not familiar with. I ask them to repeat themselves a lot!”
Although some foreign students live in campus accommodation, Xie Lei chose to live with a host family who can help with her adaptation to the new culture. “When I miss home, I feel comforted to have a second family,” Xie Lei said. “When there’s something I don’t know or understand, I ask them. They are also keen to learn about China. Laura, the daughter of my host family, wants to study in China in the future. We take turns to cook each evening. They really love my stir-fried tomatoes and eggs! Laura says she always feels hungry when she smells it, so I taught her how to cook it, too!”
Another challenge for Xie Lie is the academic requirements. The first time that she had to write an essay, her tutor explained that she must acknowledge what other people had said if she cited their ideas, but that he mainly wanted to know what she thought! Xie Lei was confused because she thought she knew less than other people. Her tutor advised her to read a lot of information in order to form a wise opinion of her own.
Xie Lei also found many courses included students’ participation in class as part of the final result. Students need to generate ideas, offer examples, apply concepts, and raise questions, as well as give presentations. At first, Xie Lei had no idea what she should say but what surprised her was that she found herself speaking up in class after just a few weeks. “My presentation on traditional Chinese art was a great success, which boosted my confidence,” she said, “I’ll use these skills back home for presentation. They’ll help me build a strong business in the future”.
Now halfway through her exchange year, Xie Lei feels much more at home in the UK. What seemed strange before now appears quite normal to her.” Engaging in British culture has helped,” she said. “As well as studying hard, I’ve been involved in social activities. British people are fascinated by our culture and eager to learn more about it, so I’m keen to share my culture with them. While I’m learning about business, I’m also acting as a cultural messenger building a bridge between us.”
We will follow Xie Lei’s progress in later editions, but for now, we wish her all the best.
1. Why did Xie Lei choose the exchange programme?A.Because her tutor was moving to Britain for a new job. |
B.Because she planed to set up a business in Britain after graduation. |
C.Because she wished to experience a new life in a different country. |
D.Because she wanted to learn about global business and develop her English. |
A.She has learnt to use taxi as main transport. |
B.She has carried a business guidebook for reference. |
C.She has always been with the daughter of her host family. |
D.She has asked for help from passers-by when she got lost. |
A.Speaking a lot in class may give her a favor. |
B.She can take part in lots of academic activities. |
C.She can get help from her tutor and read a lot to prepare. |
D.Raising questions and giving presentation can help for writing. |
A.By giving a presentation on traditional Chinese art. |
B.By teaching people how to taste Chinese food. |
C.By involving herself in academic essays. |
D.By sharing western culture with people. |