Ask yourself have you ever bought something just because your friend has it? If the answer is yes, then you are a victim of peer pressure.
The most basic way is to respond to peer pressure in the moment and just say no. Standing up to peer pressure will save you the trouble of getting pressured again in the future. Be careful not to get baited (诱饵) into doing something by being called “a chicken”.
Whether you haven’t experienced peer pressure yet or you want to respond better for next time, anticipate peer pressure. So think of a response you can use if you’re ever asked something you don’t want to do.
Your parents generally want to support you and help you succeed. If you’re struggling with peer pressure, turn to them for help. They might have some ideas for how to handle it.
A.Stay firm in your own decision. |
B.It’s wise to journal about your feelings. |
C.If nothing else, ask them to listen and understand your experience. |
D.If they pressure you much more than you’d like, make some new friends. |
E.You can meet people by volunteering or attending karate, dance, or other classes. |
F.Having a response ready will mean you won’t feel under pressure if you’re asked. |
G.Peer pressure is the influence of friends and other people on the choices we make. |
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【推荐1】Unlike IQ, emotional intelligence is something we can develop with practice and times.
Here are some ways to improve emotional intelligence.
Pay attention to your own feelings
One of the first steps in improving your EQ is paying attention to your body language.
Empathize
Pause before reacting and put yourself into the other person’s place. How would you feel in his or her position? What could be a possible reason for their behavior?
Active listening
Those with low EQ will impulsively start talking about themselves every chance they get, no matter what the topic is. For active listening, try to build a conversation, which can promote mutual understanding.
A.It will make a big difference to IQ. |
B.You should deal with such situations. |
C.Many people could improve EQ in this way. |
D.It’s a skill that will pay off many times in our lives. |
E.Understanding others is a quick way to release tension. |
F.Also, consider writing down your feelings in a journey. |
G.Pause and pay attention to your body language when you experience different emotions. |
【推荐2】Friendships can bring joy or sorrow. Since there’s no rule book on what to do when things get tense (紧张), we talked to researchers, authors, and therapists to learn how to manage the common relationship difficulties we all face.
Broken promises
Friends are important for our physical and mental well-being but these relationships aren’t always smooth.
Experiencing envy
“Sometimes envy shows our deepest wishes,” says Dr. Yager. “
There’s no worse feeling than when you check Facebook Monday morning to find out that your friends went on a weekend getaway without you. Scott Christnelly, a therapist, says, “I encourage clients to express their feelings about it but also not to jump to conclusions.” Then find someone else to talk to — maybe a family member, or a close friend (not one who went on the trip) — to explain how you feel. Maybe through that conversation you can brainstorm how you will respond.
A.Feeling left out |
B.Hopefully, it helps |
C.Learn to be independent |
D.But while it may be painful |
E.It possibly gets you inspired by your friend’s success |
F.Friend breakups can be just as painful as a romantic split |
G.In fact, experiencing some serious hurt from your friends is common |
【推荐3】As the hot summer is coming, you can try a few of the following proven strategies to improve your confidence now and set yourself up for sunnier times.
Rather than focusing on the negatives, make an effort to recognize your plus points. Make a list of the things you like about yourself—for instance, how you help others or make people laugh—and of compliments people pay you.
Give yourself a mini-makeover.
One thing that’s easy to do is change your appearance and summer’s the time to do it! It’s amazing how good a new dress, a haircut, having your teeth whitened or your nails done can make you feel.
Make plans with positive people.
Go to the gym.
A 2016 study in the Journal: of Psychosocial Research found that self-esteem was higher in those who worked out in the gym than for a group who had a sedentary (久坐的) lifestyle. The research focused on adolescents but there’s no reason it wouldn’t hold true for adults of all ages and for all kinds of physical activities.
A.Big yourself up. |
B.Try something new. |
C.Leave behind the ones who put you down. |
D.Refer to it when you’re doubting your worth. |
E.Even a shower and a shave can give your self-image a lift. |
F.It’s well known exercising is good for mental health generally. |
G.Doing more of the things you do well will boost your self-confidence. |