When my family moved to America in 2010 from a small village in Guangdong, China, we brought not only our luggage, but also our village rules, customs and culture. One of the rules is that young people should always respect (尊敬) elders. Unluckily, this rule led to my very first embarrassment in the United States.
I had a part-time job as a waiter in a Chinese restaurant. One time, when I was serving food to a middle-aged couple, the wife asked me how the food could be served so quickly. I told her that I had made sure they got their food quickly because I always respect the elderly. As soon as I said that, her face showed great displeasure. My manager, who happened to hear what I said, took me aside and gave me a long lecture about how sensitive (敏感) Americans are and how they dislike the description “old”. I then walked back to the table and apologized to the wife. After the couple heard my reason, they understood that the problem was caused by cultural differences, so they laughed and were no longer angry. In my village in China, people are proud of being old. Not so many people live to be seventy or eighty, and people who reach such an age have the most knowledge and experience. Young people always respect older people because they know they can learn from their rich experience.
However, in the United States, people think “growing old” is a problem since “old” shows that a person is going to retire or that the body is not working well. Here many people try to keep themselves away from growing old by doing exercises or jogging, and women put on makeup, hoping to look young. When I told the couple in the restaurant that I respect the elderly, they got angry because this caused them to feel they had failed to stay young. I had told them something they didn’t want to hear.
After that, I changed the way I had been with older people. It is not that I don’t respect them any more; I still respect them, but now I don’t show my feelings through words.
1. Jack brought the couple their food very fast because ______.A.the manager asked him to do so | B.he respected the elderly |
C.the couple wanted him to do so | D.he wanted more pay |
A.Nervous | B.satisfied | C.unhappy | D.excited |
A.people dislike being called “old” | B.people are proud of being old |
C.many people reach the age of seventy or eighty | D.the elderly are the first to get food in restaurants |
A.lost his job in the restaurant | B.made friends with the couple |
C.no longer respected the elderly | D.changed his way with older people |
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【推荐1】Wei Guangming lives a double life. By day, he is a garbage man, but by night he is a self-taught oil painter whose work is featured on online art work trading platforms.
There’s a sharp contrast between a worker who collects cardboard boxes and recycles them and a painter who practices his techniques by copying masterpieces and has risen to fame on Douyin, with floods of orders for his paintings.
The 48-year-old has lived in Shaoxing. He never received any form of formal art training, but has liked painting since his childhood.
Most of his paintings are impressionist works. He sold his first painting at an online artwork trading platform for 200 yuan in 2016. Excited about the first successful sale, he posted the sale on Douyin, attracting a large number of followers and more orders. Wei accepts 25—30 orders each month, the most he can handle while still being able to maintain quality. “Painting is not inkjet(喷墨) on a computer. You have to paint each stroke(笔画) carefully. If I take too many orders, I can’t guarantee the quality,” he said. He won’t give up his day job as it provides financial stability, so he can focus on painting in his spare time in his rented room of only 15 square meters.
Wei earns around 4,000—5,000 yuan collecting garbage and another 6,000—7,000 yuan selling paintings each month. Being extremely plain with his needs, he spends only a few hundred yuan each month on daily expenses and sends the rest back to his home in Anhui Province. Although he has become famous, he is perfectly clear that he is only an amateur. His long-term goal is to create instead of copying and become a professional painter.
1. What can we learn about Wei Guangming from the passage?A.He practices painting by copying masterpieces. |
B.He focuses on creating his own paintings. |
C.He relies mainly on the earnings from paintings. |
D.He collected self-created paintings online. |
A.Because he is not financially stable. |
B.Because he wants to guarantee the quality. |
C.Because he can’t sell so many paintings. |
D.Because he can’t paint during the day. |
A.A greedy man. | B.A speedy man. |
C.A non-professional man. | D.A special man. |
A.To introduce a painter. |
B.To show respect for someone aiming high. |
C.To encourage hard work and creativity. |
D.To share an inspiring story of an ordinary person. |
【推荐2】When a terrible earthquake hit, many people were killed and many houses fell down. After the earthquake, all the newspapers reported many stories about some of the families who were in trouble.
One Sunday, when I was reading a newspaper, a special picture touched me. It gave the clothing sizes of each family member. I thought that this would be a good chance to teach my children to help those who were less lucky than ourselves. I said to my seven-year-old twins, Brad and Brett, and three-year-old Meghan. “ We have so much, and these poor people now have nothing. We’ll share what we have with them.”
I filled a box with foods and clothes. While I was doing this, I encouraged the boys to choose their toys and donate some of their less favorite things. Meghan watched quietly as the boys took out their old toys and games and put them together. Then she walked away. A few minutes later she came back with Lucy, her much-loved doll. She put the doll on top of the other toys. “ Oh, dear,” I said. “ You don’t have to give Lucy. You love her so much.” Meghan said, “ Lucy makes me happy, Mommy. Maybe she’ll make another little girl happy, too.”
I looked at Meghan for a long moment. She taught me a lesson. It’s easy to give something that we don’t want any more, but harder to give what we cherish (珍爱), isn’t it?
1. The writer has _______ children.A.one | B.two | C.three | D.four |
A.捐赠 | B.丢掉 | C.展出 | D.放好 |
A.a girl | B.a game | C.a doll | D.an earthquake |
A.A Family Story. | B.The Spirit of Giving. |
C.The way of helping others. | D.A Sad Experience. |
【推荐3】A Valuable Lesson for Life
Born in Nanchang city, Jiangxi, in 1961, Wu Aijia wanted to become a teacher since childhood. She applied to work as a teacher at the primary school in Niyang village after graduation.
When Wu, then 19, went to the village in Yichun city, Jiangxi province, to work as a village teacher in 1980, villagers were doubtful if she was going to stay long. After all, a number of voluntary teachers had arrived before, but all had left soon after.
Located in the mountains, the village was very poor and far from any town. Villagers had to hike in the mountains since there was no road. Wu was shocked by the poor conditions there. She had known the conditions were poor, but the reality was worse. The blackboard, door and windows were in a state of disrepair, some chairs had legs missing, and desks were pieced together at different heights.
Moreover, local people needed to go downhill to buy daily goods, and transport them back in their hands or balanced them across their shoulders. Wu Aijia had never walked uphill on a mountain road before, so she walked much more slowly than others, sometimes the wild boars and rabbits made her frightened.
But she gradually got used to her life there. At the beginning, she found many local people valued their sons far more than their daughters, and would not like to let them attend school. Wu went to their homes repeatedly and gradually persuaded them to send all their children to school. For those who could not afford the tuition, she spent her own money to help. She knows that education is an essential part of her efforts to help students escape poverty.
In 2012, Wu was assigned to work in another school in the town, but she refused and applied to go to the Baiyang village school, which is situated even more remotely in the mountains where she remains.
Over the years, more than 1,000 students of hers have left there and created a better life.
“Seeing them achieve progress, I’m so happy that I feel richer than any millionaire,” said Wu.
1. Villagers doubted that Wu Aijia would ________.A.be frightened by the wild animals |
B.hate climbing the mountains there |
C.leave because of the poor conditions |
D.lack experiences of living in the village |
A.offer free daily goods for the villagers |
B.show her kindness and generosity to them |
C.help the poor family to afford all the tuition |
D.offer all children the chance to create a better life |
A.Regretful. | B.Surprised. | C.Satisfied. | D.Annoyed. |
A.helped many children receive better education |
B.determined to change the lifestyle of the villagers |
C.devoted herself to helping villagers to escape poverty |
D.improved villagers’ awareness of equality between men and women |
【推荐1】Tea culture is varied in different countries by the way tea is made and drunk, and by the places for tea drinking. How to make tea may be different. According to the ways of making tea, tea is classified (分类) into white tea, green tea, black tea, etc. And how to prepare tea may be different, too. In Tibet, tea is commonly boiled with salt and butter. People may drink tea at home or in public, for example, at tea houses.
As part of culture, tea has a relationship with history, health, education, communication and so on. It is commonly used at social activities. For example, afternoon tea is a British custom. Families or friends can communicate with each other while having afternoon tea.
Tea has remained a way of daily life in China and drinking tea has a lot of advantages. It makes people less tired, clears heat in the human body and helps people lose weight.
Chinese people are good at using tea to make other things delicious. Tea, originally (最初) served as a medicine in ancient times, is now not just a kind of drink, but also excellent seasoning (调味品). Here are two delicious dishes made with tea:
Tea Eggs: You can find them cooked and sold in street markets in almost every city in China. Dragon Well Tea Shrimp (龙井虾仁). It’s one of the most well-known dishes in Hangzhou. Before you drink tea, please check the following tips:
♦ Drink tea hot.
♦ The best time to drink is in between meals. It is bad for your stomach if you drink tea just before meals, during meals or soon after meals.
♦ Do not drink too much strong tea.
1. Afternoon tea in Britain is a _________ according to the passage.A.way of communication | B.hobby |
C.game | D.weekend activity |
A.a medicine | B.a drink | C.seasoning | D.a dish |
A.just before meals | B.during meals |
C.soon after meals | D.in between meals |
A.ways of making tea | B.places to drink tea |
C.tools for drinking tea | D.advantages of drinking tea |
【推荐2】Traveling to China is the dream of many people but it is important to be aware that the Chinese culture is different from Western cultures. So before arriving in China, make sure that you understand the Chinese traditions.
The eldest comes first
In China, it is a big deal to respect the eldest one in the family. The Chinese have a great respect for their parents and grandparents. So if you are introduced to someone in a place full of people, always address the oldest person first, and do the same when you are leaving.
The host pays the bill
If you are invited to a restaurant by your Chinese friends, be prepared to eat and drink for free. And if you invite them, also be ready to pay all the bill on your own. And it is not polite if you don’t offer to pay it in full if you are the host.
Be aware of the chopsticks rules
Believe it or not, there are several traditions and rules involving chopsticks in China. So never stick them straight up to your rice, never drum (敲打) them, or have them in your hands while making a gesture.
Check if your gift isn’t on the bad-luck list
If you are offering a gift to a Chinese friend, be aware that there are many items considered to bring bad luck to them, such as clocks, umbrellas, scissors and knives. Presents should be given with both hands and never be wrapped in white.
1. Who is the most respected in social life in China?A.A millionaire. | B.A senior citizen. |
C.A wise man. | D.A powerful leader. |
A.Making a gesture by using chopsticks. |
B.Opening the gift as soon as you receive it. |
C.Offering to pay the meal in full if you are the host. |
D.Paying for the bill when you are invited to a dinner. |
A.Restaurant staff. | B.The assistants in the gift stores. |
C.The hosts of a party. | D.Exchange students to China. |
【推荐3】There is a lot to learn about the unusual habits and characteristics of the British people when you visit London for the first time.
When it comes to paying the bill, expect anything. After a social outing, there is no common convention as to who will pay the bill. Even if someone has invited you out, that doesn’t mean they will pay for you. They may just want to spend some time with you. On the other hand, some people may insist on paying their share.
The pub is at the heart of socializing. Visitors to the UK are often surprised at the wide range of ages, sexes and socio demographic(人口)backgrounds of people who go to pubs.
A.Do you remember when to pay in a pub? |
B.The word pub is shortfor “public house”. |
C.Know when you are being asked to do something. |
D.Some pubs focus on food, and some focus on drinks. |
E.Do something nice for the people who hang out with you. |
F.If a window is open and you would like to close it, what will you say? |
G.So don’t be very sad if you have offered to pay for them but they refuse. |