Developing better relationships with neighbours
Good neighbours are a lot like electricity or running water: we don’t know how much we depend on them until we don’t have them. They make our lives more pleasant and give us a sense of who we are, both as an individual and as a member of the community. Here’s how to develop your relationships with these very important people in your life.
Strike up a conversation. Often neighbours don’t even know each other’s names.
Reach out to the newcomers. These days, the old Welcome Wagon is a thing of the past. But your new neighbours may be feeling lonely and unsure, especially if they’re far from home, and might appreciate a friendly face bearing fresh-baked chocolate cakes.
Avoid causing inconveniences. Return anything that you borrow from a neighbour, such as tools, in good repair and as soon as you’ve finished with them. Replace anything that belongs to your neighbour that you, your children, or your pets break or soil. Make sure that your car is not blocking his doorway.
A.Be a good listener. |
B.If you value your friendships with your neighbours, spend time with them. |
C.But it’s okay to be the one to break the ice, even if you’ve lived next door for years. |
D.Care about the details. |
E.Recommend the best places to eat and sleep. |
F.Such random acts of consideration will have your neighbours talking. |
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【推荐1】Rucking is a term used to describe a march or hike with weight. This is commonly done using a weighted backpack. It is now a popular form of physical exercise, beneficial to our body and mind.
Choose the right backpack
Look for a backpack that is comfortable and fits well, with enough room to carry the weight you’ll use and necessities like water.
Add weight gradually
Some studies recommend carrying a load of 30 percent of your weight, Others. however, show participants experience discomfort carrying 20 percent of their weight when exercising for more than an hour.
Begin with short walks and low frequency
A study on female hikers reported that many experienced negative muscle changes after just 2 km of walking.
If you experience pain or discomfort while doing rucking, take a break and adjust the weight or your posture. If such unpleasant feelings continue, stop rucking immediately and seek medical help. Never stick to rucking while feeling bad just to compare yourself with others. That actually breaks your initial intention of doing rucking.
Anyway, rucking won’t be great exercise unless you follow all the dos and don’ts for it.
A.Listen to your body |
B.Stop competing with others |
C.Turn to professionals for advice if necessary |
D.Therefore, find the best weight for you and increase it bit by bit |
E.This helps build your strength and reduce the risk of injury |
F.So it’s best to plan a short route for the first few times and lengthen it slowly |
G.However, like any exercise, rucking doesn’t come without risk, especially for beginners |
【推荐2】We are all victims of climate change. Fighting with climate change can feel stressed, but there are a lot of things you can do to protect yourself and your loved ones. Experts recommend the following steps.
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●Prepare an emergency supply kit. This is especially important if you live in an area where flooding, hurricanes, or wildfires break out easily. Your family need to be safe.
●Eat less meat, and take more vitamins. Research found that the diets low in meat and high in fruits and vegetables were linked with less greenhouse gas emissions.
●Reduce the amount of single-use plastics in your life. The Natural Resources Defense Council says that small individual choices can add up.
●Pay attention to heat warnings, and find ways to stay cool.
A.Increase your health knowledge. |
B.It has tips on using easy alternatives. |
C.Don’t be exposed to all kinds of climates. |
D.They could also lower risks of some diseases. |
E.And don’t forget emergency supplies for pets! |
F.Housing quality plays a huge role in your staying cool. |
G.Even a few hours a day of air-conditioning can avoid heat illness. |
【推荐3】How to Communicate Effectively?
Having good communication skills is important. Effective communication is a skill you can learn no matter what your age, background or experience is.
Choose the right time. As the saying states, there is a time and a place for everything.
tired. Instead, deliver messages and conduct discussions about heavy topics in the mornings when people are watchful and more likely to be able to respond clearly.
Thank your listener(s). Thank the person or group for the time taken to listen and respond.
Communicate eye to eye. Eye contact builds relationship, helps to convince people that you’re trustworthy and displays interest. During a conversation or presentation, it is important to look into the other person’s eyes if possible and maintain contact for a reasonable amount of time.
A.Take care not to overdo it |
B.Communicating is no different |
C.Organize key points in your mind |
D.No matter what the outcome of your communication |
E.If you have already targeted some key points to stick to |
F.The basics of communication below will help get your point across easily |
G.Ignoring any single person can easily be taken as a sign of disrespect for them |
【推荐1】For the last few months, Michael Conley has felt very alone. Conley is a deaf man, and he reads lips to understand what people are saying to him. However, people have been wearing masks to help slow the spread of COVID-19, a new virus that spreads from person to person when infected people breathe out virus particles (颗粒).
People who are deaf and hard of hearing communicate in many different ways. Some might learn to read lips. Many people also use American Sign Language (ASL). It is a way to communicate using gestures and signs for people who are deaf and hard of hearing.
For both reading lips and ASL, being able to see someone’s face and facial expressions is critically important. Particularly for ASL, facial expressions play a role in grammar and wording.
Helping Lip Readers See Mouths Move
Conley told his co-worker, Chris Lazich, about his situation. LaZich asked her friend, Helton, for help. Ingrid Helton is a costume designer with the San Diego Opera. She makes masks with plastic windows for hearing people to wear, making it possible for lip readers to see mouths move.
For a long time, lip readers have struggled to understand hospital workers who wear masks. The problem has only gotten worse during COVID-19 Many interpreters for the deaf have not been able to enter hospitals because they could catch the virus.
More Challenges For Deaf People
Now, more people are wearing masks outside of hospitals, too. This creates even more challenges for deaf people.
When people began wearing masks, Conley felt cut off from the world. Since he could not read lips, he did not know when people were speaking to him or what they were saying.
Conley was nervous to go to the pharmacy or the grocery store. Once, he felt so nervous to enter his favorite restaurant that he waited outside for 45 minutes. He did not know what he would do if a masked worker asked him questions about his order. Luckily, the employee recognized him and pulled down her mask to talk to Conley. Conley was grateful for her action.
Not everyone knows Conley, though, and would not know he is deaf. He carries pieces of paper with him so he can ask people to write what they are saying. This way, other people don’t have to remove their mask. However, it also means touching the same paper. Touching common surfaces can spread germs. Spreading germs risks contracting COVID-19. Because of that, Conley was refused service many times.
“It makes you lose your confidence,” said Conley, who has been deaf his entire life. However, Helton’s windowed masks helped him get his independence back. Conley and his co-worker, Chris Lazich, tried out the masks and he had no trouble reading LaZich’s lips.
1. How did Conley feel when people began to wear masks?A.He felt the situation couldn’t be changed. |
B.He felt it difficult to recognize people. |
C.He felt cut off from the world. |
D.He felt lonely and angry. |
A.To help them meet other deaf people. |
B.To keep them safe from COVID-19. |
C.To comfort them emotionary. |
D.To satisfy their social needs. |
A.Soon she started her company called Happy Laugh Masks. |
B.The windowed masks heled slow the spread of the virus. |
C.Through her mask’s window, LaZich smiled at him. |
D.Helton said store owners liked the masks as well. |
【推荐2】How to Build Trust?
Trust in the workplace is important to aid in communication, teamwork, and progress. Keep reading to learn how you can build trust in the workplace.
Be truthful.
Pay your employees fairly. When employees feel less paid, they feel undervalued. Have an honest conversation with your employees about their pay and what the people around them are getting paid.
Praise people for their efforts. Make sure you callout the good stuff, not just the bad.
Keep the promises you make. Try not to go back on a promise unless it’s completely unavoidable, or you could end up losing people’s trust.
A.Put yourself in others’ shoes at work |
B.If anyone has any issues with their pay |
C.Let your coworkers see that you’re dependable |
D.Open up about work and the things in the company |
E.Let your employees know that you value their skills |
F.If someone goes above and beyond in their workload |
G.When you and your employees believe in each other |
【推荐3】Why Do We Find It Hard to Say “No”?
As we all know, saying “no” to others is not easy at all. But sometimes we have to learn to say “no”.
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●Afraid of being rude. I was brought up under the idea that saying “no”, especially to people who are older, is rude. This thinking is common in Asian culture, where face saving is important.
●Wanting to be agreeable. You don’t want to alienate (疏远) yourself from the group because you’re not in agreement. So you agree to others’ requests.
●Fear of conflict.
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A.Wanting to help others. |
B.Fear of losing chances. |
C.Wanting to keep a good relationship. |
D.I slowly realized I needed to learn to say “no”. |
E.You are afraid the person might be angry if you refuse him/her. |
F.It means not making others look bad or lose face. |
G.To learn to say “no”, we have to first understand what’s stopping us from it. |