Consider some of these views shared in the story: Jennifer, 29, owner of a two-bedroom apartment with her husband, worries that she won't be able to have children for at least a decade because they can't afford to buy a house yet.
I read that, and I thought what planet she is living on where you need to own a house in order to have kids? Has she ever visited a developing country, or even downtown areas in this one? Home ownership is a luxury, not a fertility requirement.
A 26-year-old man in the story is disappointed that he can't afford to get a Ph. D. in literature. Well, that sounds a bit like expressing disappointment that no one will pay you to write poetry on the beach in Thailand for five years.
Yes, it's sad that these young people feel so lost. But I think the problem is their extremely high expectations, not economic reality. Beth Kobliner, author of Get a Financial Life: Personal Finance in Your Twenties and Thirties, says that she thinks people's expectations grow up when their wealth appears to be increasing. Their parents probably see their home values rise along with their investments. "So we have people who have grown up in an environment where people have great expectations of what living well means," says Kobliner.
This recession will certainly play a role in forcing those expectations into more realistic group. In the meantime, it seems much better for our mental health to focus on being grateful—for our one-bedroom apartments, for living in modern cities, or perhaps just for being able to eat three meals a day—than on longing for some kind of luxurious life.
1. What makes the author think the 20-somethings sound like a bunch of spoiled children?
A.They expect everything to be easy for them. |
B.They complain that the economy is ruining their life plans. |
C.They are unwilling to face all of the challenges. |
D.They are burdened by student loans. |
A.They can't have children for at least a decade for they can't afford to buy a house. |
B.They have only a one-bedroom apartment to live in. |
C.They can't buy a house until 40 and are burdened by student loans. |
D.They despair of not being able to afford to get a Ph. D. in literature. |
A.Unbearable. | B.Opposing. | C.Doubtful. | D.Understanding. |
A.Young people afford to continue their education |
B.Young people can't afford to buy a house |
C.Young people's high expectations lead to despair |
D.The 20-somethings' high expectations |
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【推荐1】Have you ever started out your day feeling invincible (不能改变的) , only to feel worn down by the time you go to bed? The daily ups and downs of our days can chip away at our determination. However, incorporating some simple routines into your day could help.
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As you wake up, whether naturally or through your alarm, practise consciousness (意识) by pausing for a few seconds, closing your eyes again, taking a gentle breath in and welcoming how you are feeling first thing that morning.
●Practise gratitude.
Once you have acknowledged your first sensation, emotion or thought, look around the room for something you are grateful for. It may be a photograph of someone you love, your stylish new bedside table, or just being alive and being offered a new day.
●Check in with yourself.
On your way to work, or before you start work at home, take a minute to “check in” with yourself. With eyes closed, think through your goals for the day and imagine yourself completing them well and successfully.
●Embrace the tiredness.
An afternoon tiredness is natural. It’s part of your circadian rhythm (昼夜节律) , so don’t fight it. Instead, fit in a “power pause” practice to supercharge your body.
●Leave tension at the door.
At the end of the day, try not to preoccupy yourself with work or anything that causes tension. Leave it at the door, or allow yourself to switch off after a certain time at home.
A.Take pause. |
B.Get up early and take in fresh air. |
C.Sit or lie down to have a good rest. |
D.Make sure you move your body actively at least once a day. |
E.Ask yourself what you can let go of before you enter your evening. |
F.Allow yourself to feel the positivity associated with those achievements. |
G.Take in the positivity and bathe in it for a while before continuing your day. |
Awesome Achievement Your college graduation Fills us with love and pride. We always knew that you could do Whatever you really tried. It’s a long and challenging journey To get a college degree, But you wouldn’t quit it, you just went and did it, And we’re beaming affectionately. Your achievement is awesome, my kid; You’ve worked hard and you’ve passed the test. We love you so, and we want you to know, We think you’re the very best! By Joanna | _______________________ Mom, from the time I was really young, I realized I had someone… you, who always protected me, who was always there for me no matter what. You taught me to do the right thing, even when it was hard to do. You took care of me when I was sick, and your love helped make me well. You had rules, and I learned that when I obeyed them, my life was simpler, better, richer. You were and are the guiding light of my life. My heart is filled with love for you, my teacher, my friend, my mother. By Karl |
A.A website for school curricula (课程). |
B.A website for kids reading. |
C.A website for advice. |
D.A website for learning tips. |
A.Her great pride in her son’s graduation. |
B.Her gratitude to her mom after her graduation. |
C.Her son’s happiness in passing the final exams. |
D.Her joy in the hard and challenging journey. |
A.My Guiding Light. | B.When I Was Young. |
C.No Matter What. | D.The Rules to Follow. |
At first we think about human relationship. In the year 2050, we will use computers almost every day. We will be making new friends through the Internet----even our husbands or wives will be met in this way. It will be much faster and easier for us. On the other hand, our relationships with people won’t be as important as they are today----we will feel a little lonely.
Computers will also help us in many other activities in 2050. For example, they will be used by the children at school to make their learning easier. In addition, there will be much more other machines which will play a similar role as computers, like robots which will do the housework for us.
Spending holidays will also be completely different. Traveling to other planets or to the moon will be available for everyone. Means of transport will, of course, change, too. We will be using solar-powered cars, which will be much more environmentally friendly.
We could expect that the faster technological progress would lead to a more polluted environment. But it isn’t true. We will pay more attention to protecting the environment. And, scientists will probably find cures for many dangerous diseases, like cancer or AIDS. Therefore, our surroundings as well as our health will be in a better condition.
Although we can’t predict the exact changes which will be made in the world, we often think about them. We worry about our and our children’s future; we have expectations, hopes as well as fears. But I think we should be rather sanguine about our future. We should be happy and believe good things will happen.
1. Why will people probably feel a little lonely in 2050?
A.Because the number of people will become much smaller. |
B.Because people won’t communicate with each other much often. |
C.Because people won’t like making friends with each other. |
D.Because there will be less face-to-face communication. |
A.It won’t be difficult for people to travel to other planets. |
B.The way of spending holidays will be the same as that of today. |
C.The relationship between people will be more important than today. |
D.Our environment will be much more polluted with a growing number of cars. |
A.disappointed | B.optimistic |
C.curious | D.surprised |
A.How people will communicate in the year 2050. |
B.What high technology will appear in the year 2050. |
C.How people will travel and spend their holiday in the year 2050. |
D.What our life will be like in the year 2050. |
This kind of anger and irritation happens to all of us—it’s part of the human experiences.
One thing that irritates me is when people talk during a movie,or cut me off in traffic. Actually, I have a lot of these little annoyances—don't we all?And it isn’t always easy to find peace when you’ve become upset or irritated.
Let me tell you a little secret to finding peace of mind:
See, the cause of our stress, anger and irritation is that things don't go the way we like, the way we expect them to. Think of how many times this has been true for you. And so the solution is simple:expect things to go wrong, expect things to be different than we hoped or planned,expect the unexpected to happen. And accept it.
One quick example: on our recent trip to Japan, I told my kids to expect things to go wrong—they always do on a trip. I told them, “See it as part of the adventure.”
And this worked like a charm. When we inevitably(不可避免地) took the wrong train on a foreignlanguage subway system, or when it rained on the day we went to Disney Sea, or when we took three trains and walked 10 blocks only to find the National Children's Castle closed on Mondays...they said, “It's part of the adventure!” And it was all OK—we didn't get too bothered.
So when the nice glass you bought inevitably falls and breaks some day, you might get upset. But things will be different, if you see the glass as already broken, from the day you get it. You know it'll break some day, so from the beginning, see it as already broken. Be a timetraveler, or someone with timetraveling vision, and see the future of this glass, from this moment until it inevitably breaks. And when it breaks, you won't be upset or sad—because it was already broken, from the day you got it. And you’ll realize that every moment you have with it is precious.
1. The author would probably agree that________.
A.we should control our anger and irritation |
B.we must get well prepared for the future |
C.optimism can help us overcome our anger and irritation |
D.anger and irritation is a natural part of our life |
A.tell us his own experience in life |
B.advise us how to find peace of mind |
C.tell us a happy trip he took with his children |
D.ask us to see things from both sides |
A.get ready for the worst result of things |
B.enjoy the process of things |
C.expect little from life |
D.find the relationship between cause and effect |
A.everything went smoothly |
B.they had a lot of adventures |
C.they had expected things to go wrong |
D.they could soon get used to the customs there |
A.often gets angry in his life |
B.can adjust his state of mind accordingly |
C.always expects others to act in his way |
D.always suffers from his anger and irritation |
I nodded slowly. I understood in my head, but not in my heart. I still wanted my father to put his arms around me and tell me he loved me. He owned and operated a small scrap metal (废旧金属) business, and after school I often hung around while he worked. He fed scrap steel into a device that chopped it as cleanly as a butcher chops a rack of ribs. The machine looked like a giant pair of scissors, with blades thicker than my father’s body. If he didn’t feed those terrifying blades just right, he risked serious injury. “Why don’t you hire someone to do that for you?” mom asked him one night as she bent over him and rubbed his aching shoulders with a strong smelling liniment. “Why don’t you hire a cook?” my father asked, giving her one of his rare smiles.
Many years later, during my first daily visit, after drinking the juice my father had squeezed for me, I walked over, hugged him and said, “I love you, father.” From then on I did this every morning. My father never told me how he felt about my hugs, and there was never any expression on his face when I gave them.
1. The author’s father always prepared a glass of freshly squeezed orange juice for him because .
A.that was the author’s favorite |
B.he was sure the author would be thirsty |
C.the author was always complaining |
D.that was a gesture of love |
A.his job was too dangero |
B.his job required high skills |
C.he wanted to save money |
D.he was not good at working with others |
A.the author’s father lacked a sense of humor |
B.the author quite understood his father as time went on |
C.the author’s father didn’t love him very much |
D.the author’s father was too strict with him |
A.The proper attitude towards life. |
B.The importance of education. |
C.Silent fatherly love. |
D.Ways to live happily. |
Many intelligent people still think fun equals happiness.The truth is that fun and happiness have little or nothing in common.Fun is what we experience during an act.Happiness is what we experience after an act.It is a deep, long-lasting emotion.
Going to an amusement park or a ball game, watching a movie or television are fun activities that help us relax, temporally forget our problems and maybe even laugh.But they do not bring happiness, because their positive effects end when the fun ends.
I have often thought that if Hollywood stars have a role to play, it is to teach us that happiness has nothing to do with fun.They have constant access to exciting parties, fancy cars, expensive homes, everything that spells "happiness" But in memoir(回忆录) after memoir, they expose Ac unhappiness hidden beneath all their fun: depression, alcoholism, drug addiction, broken marriages and loneliness.
Ask a bachelor why he resists marriage even though he finds dating to be less and less satisfying.If he is honest, he will tell you that he is afraid of making a commitment.For commitment is in fact quite painful.The single life is filled with fun, adventure and excitement.Marriage has such moments, but they are not its most distinguishing features.
Similarly, couples that choose not to have children are deciding in favor of painless fun over painful happiness.They can dine out whenever they want and sleep as late as they want.Couples with babies are lucky to get a whole night' s sleep.I don't know any parent who would choose the word fun to describe raising children.
Understanding and accepting that true happiness has nothing to do with fun is one of the most liberating realizations we can ever come to.It liberates time: now we can devote more hours to activities that can truly increase our happiness.It liberates money: buying that new car or those fancy clothes that will do nothing to increase our happiness now seems pointless.And it frees us from envy: we now understand that all those rich and famous people we were so sure are happy because they are always having so much fun actually may not be happy at all.
1. What is the passage mainly about?
A.Fun and happiness. |
B.Success and satisfaction. |
C.Marriage and commitment. |
D.Entertainment and responsibility. |
A.fun creates long - lasting satisfaction |
B.long - standing fun may lead to happiness |
C.fun is short-lived while happiness is long-lasting |
D.fun provides enjoyment while pain leads to happiness |
A.It ends in pain. |
B.It means commitment. |
C.It affords greater fun. |
D.It leads to raising children. |
A.will start a business |
B.won' t place too much value on money |
C.will seek for freedom |
D.won't devote himself to his family |
【推荐1】Kathy Fletcher and David Simpson have a son named Santi. He has a friend who sometimes goes to school hungry. So Santi invites him to occasionally eat and sleep at his house.
That friend has a friend and that friend has a friend, and now when you go to dinner at Kathy and David's house on Thursday night there might be 15 to 20 teenagers gathering around the table, and later there will be groups of them crashing in the basement or in the small bedrooms upstairs. The kids who show up at Kathy and David's have suffered the pains of modern poverty: homelessness, hunger and abuse.
And yet by some miracle, hostile soil has produced beautiful flowers. Kids come from around the city. Spicy chicken and black rice are served. Cellphones are banned. The kids who call Kathy and David“Momma”and “Dad”, are polite and do the dishes. Birthdays and graduations are celebrated. Songs are performed. At each meal they go around the table and everybody has to say something nobody else knows about him. At each meal the kids show their promise to care for one another.
The adults in this community give the kids the chance to present their gifts.“At my first dinner, Edd read a poem that I first thought was from Langston Hughes, but it turned out to be his own. Kesari has a voice that somehow appears from New Orleans jazz in the 1920s. Madeline and Thalya form a friendship as if it were the highest art form,”George said.
“They give us a gift—complete intolerance of social distance. When I first met Edd,I held out myhand to shake his. He looked at it and said, ‘We hug here', and we' ve been hugging since,”Kesari said.
Bill Milliken, a veteran youth activist, is often asked which programs turn around kids' lives. “I still haven't seen one program change one kid's life,”he says.“What changes people is the relationship. Somebody is willing to walk through the shadow of the valley of adolescence.”Souls are not saved in bundles. Love is the necessary force.
1. Why do kids come to Kathy and David's house on Thursdays?A.To help the homeless at first hand. |
B.To experience the feeling of home. |
C.To learn about the modern poverty |
D.To plant beautiful flowers in poor soil. |
A.Kids need to tell stories about themselves. |
B.Kids are expected to care more for each other. |
C.Kids have to share housework around the home. |
D.Kids prepare songs for birthdays and graduations. |
A.The practice of the art form. |
B.The pleasure of enjoying jazz. |
C.The chance to listen to poems. |
D.The zero distance between souls. |
A.Love has the power to change a kid's life. |
B.Money is needed to start programs for kids. |
C.A program can change a group of kids' lives. |
D.Kids change their relationships in a program. |
【推荐2】Therapeutic (治疗性的) writing involves participating in writing activities to deal with emotional issues. People work under the direction of a therapist (治疗学家) for most of the time.
Therapeutic writing can be useful in cases where people have difficulty communicating by other means. A client who is having trouble with a situation, for example, might write a letter to the people involved as part of therapy.
Exercises in therapeutic writing typically encourage people to write for a block of time, such as 15 minutes. They may be asked to write about their days or issues coming up in their lives. In guided therapy, the therapist may review the writing and discuss it with the patient.
Some people keep writing regular journals to share with their therapists and others.
A.Some of us think that writing is only for writers. |
B.There are informal approaches to writing as therapy. |
C.Participants can benefit from therapeutic writing exercises. |
D.Sometimes they can start a writing program independently. |
E.Of course, patients can talk about the emotions that come up while writing. |
F.This writing can help him or her express goals and a desired result clearly. |
G.Others may keep an online writing journal and only allow his or her therapist to read. |
1. The problem the writer talks about is that…
A.some people buy things they don t want |
B.some people are afraid to speak out for their rights |
C.there are too many superiors |
D.some people don t think enough of themselves |
A.some people have a low self-respect |
B.there is always someone around who “knows better” |
C.salesmen talk people into buying things they don’t want |
D.people don t share enough |
A.make people distrust their own answers |
B.make things more favorable for “superiors” |
C.help people know as much as their “superiors” |
D.help people become more important |
A.share the need of people |
B.show they have a right to be themselves |
C.help people overcome fear |
D.help people to help themselves even if others suffer |
A.The Need to Share |
B.Talk Back When Necessary |
C.One Way to Build Self-Respect |
D.One Way to Train Speaking Ability |
Many people would say that this question does not need an answer. But Professor Deiner has one anyway. “If you’re a cheerful, happy person, your marriage is more likely to last, and you’re more likely to make money and be successful at your job. On average, happy people have stronger immune systems, and there is some evidence that they live longer.”
So who are the world’s happiest people? It depends on how the word is defined. There is individual happiness, the sense of joy we get when we do something we like. But there is also the feeling of satisfaction we get when we know that others respect us and approve of how we behave. According to Professor Deiner, the Western world pursues individual happiness while Asia prefers mutual satisfaction.
“In the West, the individualistic culture means that your mood matters much more than it does in the East. People ask themselves if they are doing what is fun or interesting. They become unhappy when they can’t do any of these things. If you ask people from Japan or China if they are happy, they tend to look at what has gone wrong in their lives. If not much has gone wrong, then they are satisfied.”
People from Spain and other Spanish-speaking countries had the happiest culture, Professor Deiner found. “The biggest cultural difference is to do with pride and shame. Hispanic (西班牙语言的) cultures report much more pride and much less shame than others.”
Income also made a big difference to people’s happiness, but only at the lowest levels. Average income earners in the US were much happier than people in poverty. But millionaires were only a little bit happier than people on average incomes. It seems that money makes us happy when we have enough to feel secure.
1. According to the passage, happy people enjoy the following benefits EXCEPT ______.
A.a long marriage |
B.better health |
C.profession success |
D.respect from others |
A.Asians focus more on others’ respect and approval than westerners |
B.Westerners care more about mutual satisfaction than Asians |
C.Asians have a culture to enjoy individual happiness |
D.Westerners value individual happiness as much as mutual satisfaction |
A.Hispanic cultures lay stress on pride and shame. |
B.Spanish people take too much pride in themselves. |
C.Attitude towards pride and shame results in Spanish happiness. |
D.If you are from Spain, you are the happiest. |
A.poor people enjoy the same happiness as millionaires. |
B.the higher income one gets, the happier life he lives |
C.enough money can make us feel safe and happy |
D.average income earners live the happiest life |
A.Hispanic cultures |
B.reasons for happiness |
C.the happiest culture |
D.benefits of happiness |
At one time silk was reserved only for the Chinese emperor. Gradually, others began wearing silk. In addition to being used for clothing, silk came to have industrial uses in ancient China, something that happened in the West only in modern times. Silk was used to make musical instruments, fishing lines, weapons, ropes and even paper. During the Han Dynasty silk became a form of money. Farmers paid taxes in both rice and silk. The prices of goods were calculated in lengths of silk just as they had once been calculated in gold. The importance of silk is even reflected in the Chinese language. For example, of the 5000 most common Chinese characters, around 500 have silk as their “key”.
In spite of their secrecy, the Chinese eventually lost their monopoly on silk production. It reached Korea in around 200 B.C. when immigrants from China arrived there. Silk production came to India in 300 A.D.. It was not until 500 A.D. that silk production came to Europe when travellers
Silk was brought to Rome from China by means of the Silk Road. There were actually two Silk Roads, one over land and one on the sea. The land route in particular had a huge effect in history. All sorts of trade goods — silver, gold, jade, porcelain — passed along this road. Ideas travelled the Silk Road too. For example the religion of Buddhism was carried to China from India by traders on the Silk Road. The Silk Road created the first international culture, exposing many people to the ideas and treasures of both Western and Chinese cultures.
1. How was China able to keep the secret of silk production?
A.It refused to sell its silk to other countries. |
B.Foreigners were not permitted to enter China. |
C.The silkworms needed were not able to survive outside China. |
D.Chinese passing on the secret to foreigners were seriously punished. |
A.A way of purchasing goods people sold. |
B.A material used for making different products. |
C.A method of paying money to the government. |
D.A valuable gift given to foreigners travelling in China. |
A.Europe àIndia àKorea àChina. | B.China àKorea àIndia àEurope. |
C.China àIndia àKorea àEurope. | D.China àEurope àIndia àKorea. |
A.quietly traded | B.openly removed |
C.illegally transported | D.violently stole |
A.It allowed for economic and cultural exchanges between countries. |
B.It made China the most powerful country in the ancient world. |
C.It could only be completed by travellers with access to a boat. |
D.It was first developed for transferring religious ideas. |
As the 19-year-old Dutch sailor said in Maidentrip, a documentary(纪录影片) released last year about her experience of becoming the youngest person to sail around the world alone in 2012, “I was born on a boat. I lived my first five years at sea. And ever since, all I have wanted is to return to that life.”
With her yacht(游艇) Guppy, Dekker began her journey at 14 and sailed 50,004 kilometers in 519 days.
The flying fish keeping her company, the dolphins following in her wake and the warm days spent on deck playing the flute (长笛) as she watched another unforgettable sunset were enough to make others jealous.
But these didn’t always go well. There were terrible moments in which Dekker feared death. On one occasion, a whale almost turned Guppy over. Another time, she battled extreme winds and Guppy surfed down 8-meter-high waves.
Out on the open sea alone, she also got used to living without a fridge, a flushing(用水冲洗) toilet, and a hot shower.
“As a human being you don’t need much,” she told Stuff.co.nz. “ They might make life more comfortable, but you really don’t need them to be happy.”
In fact, her outlook on life was shaped by the trip. “I wanted the storms. I wanted the calms. I wanted to feel loneliness,” she told The New York Times. “And now I know all these things. It’s the end of the dream I had as a child, and it’s the beginning of my life as a sailor.”
1. According to the text, in which year did Dekker begin her journey of 50,004 kilometers at sea?
A.In 2012 | B.In 2010 | C.In 2009 | D.In 2011 |
A.offering analyses | B.providing explanations |
C.giving examples | D.making comparisons |
A.Modest and optimistic |
B.Patient and hospitable |
C.Brave and generous |
D.Brave and determined |
A.It was so dangerous and almost ruined her. |
B.It brought her great happiness and much comfort. |
C.It is the sailing on the sea that made her well known. |
D.Full of danger and challenge, it made her experience happiness and better understand life as well. |