When mothers I know talk about their gifted kids, I will have a lot of conflicting emotions. I get it that the moms are proud, and surely, I don’t mind hearing about the kids’ other amazing achievements. It’s the gifted thing that gets me.
I would probably feel differently if my daughter Violet was some great prodigy. Maybe I would be out there bragging (吹嘘) with some mothers if she was reading on an eighth grade level instead of struggling through “I’ll Teach My Dog a Lot of Words”. Like every other parent, I had dreams of Violet being some kind of combination of Lincoln and Mozart. But in schoolwork at least, Violet seems solidly normal, ahead of some in her class, behind when compared to others.
But why do I care? Normal is a good thing! Normal is great! As it is, what I’d like to brag about seems like a thing people never care about. My Violet is a really great little girl. She’s a little hothead, with a temper, but she also cares about other people’s feelings. When friends of hers are sick, she wants to make them little cards and pictures to help them feel well. A new little girl came to her classroom last week, and Violet noticed she was feeling lonely and scared, so she asked the new girl to play at break.
But no one brags how nice their kid is. Too bad. That’s the kind of thing I’d like to hear. I don’t think I’d mind listening to lots of stories of kindness. “Oh yeah? Well, my kid took his plate to the sink without asking!” “Yeah? My kid lined up his shoes in rows in his closet and then sat on my lap and told me I was pretty!” Listening to those kinds of stories makes me feel cheery. They make me feel like the world is a good place, full of people who care for each other. Unlike those about kids who are trying to be the best.
1. Hearing other moms bragging about their gifted kids, the author feels______.A.calm | B.proud | C.uncomfortable | D.surprised |
A.A person who studies hard. | B.A person who acts unwisely. |
C.A person with unusual abilities. | D.A person with a great personality. |
A.She is intelligent. | B.She is kind-hearted. |
C.She is a perfect girl. | D.She is sometimes lonely. |
A.kids’ happy lives | B.kids’ achievements |
C.kids’ good character | D.kids’ wonderful talents |
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【推荐1】Whenever I get really depressed and anxious, my first impulse is to reach for my phone. Maybe I’ll get a message from a friend or discover some new distraction on social media. Unfortunately, during the past couple of years, one glance at my screen often makes me want to crawl back into bed.
That changed after I made friends with a strange creature named Webot. I’m finding that it makes me feel better-and it might work for you too. Like many apps, Webot sends me messages at random. But instead of tempting me into doom scrolling with shocking news alerts, Webot asks how I’m doing. When I text Webot my troubles, it asks me friendly questions, encourages me, and invites me to express some of my darkest thoughts. There is something intensely comforting about discussing your thoughts with a machine.
There are many therapy apps on the market, both free (like Webot) and paid for. But Webot is a particularly interesting case. Psychology researcher Alison Darcy at Stanford University created it after years of study. She says it was challenging on both a technical and artistic level because the chatbot is a character with its own personality. “It’s as careful a construction as you might find in a novel or poetry. Webot’s personality is humble, warm and wise, ”as Darcy puts it, “Webot isn’t an all-knowing authority. It is a mental health ally”.
Best of all, Webot is always there, even when I’m lying awake in the middle of the night. That’s exactly the point, according to Darcy. “Your therapist should not be in bed with you at 2 a. m,“ she laughs. But Webot can be. You can pull up Webot at the exact moment you need it most.
It is working. Last year, Darcy and her colleagues published a study showing that people like me are forming “bonds” with Webot. Bonding is a “meaningful“ process of “getting something off your chest, or managing your thoughts more objectively”.
And you know what? In the bizarre world of 2023, it might be healthier to bond with a robot than be “engaged“ on social media.
1. What does the underlined word “That” in paragraph 2 refer to?A.I lost interest in my phone. |
B.I was tired of social media. |
C.My phone didn’t understand my impulse. |
D.My phone didn’t help me feel any better. |
A.It bonds with me through social media. |
B.It is a creature that makes me feel better. |
C.It communicates with me and offers comfort. |
D.It is a therapist helping me manage my thoughts. |
A.Because it can build mental connection with us. |
B.Because it is free and has a favorable personality. |
C.Because it is carefully constructed in a novel or poetry. |
D.Because it can keep us informed of shocking news alert. |
A.To urge us to quit social media. |
B.To show us the functions of Webot. |
C.To propose us interacting with Webot. |
D.To encourage us to share our thoughts. |
【推荐2】Every year around August, millions of teens take their parents to stores to buy new clothes for the start of the school year. Not every parent can afford this, and some teens are forced to go to school in the same clothes they wore last year. The obvious differences in clothes cause differences among students. There is a simple solution to this problem; school uniforms (校服).
I know from personal experience and surveys that wearing uniforms creates a sense of equality among peers (同龄人).
From sixth grade until I graduated from senior high school, I attended a school that required students to wear uniforms. The uniform was very simple: dark brown shoes, green-brown pants, and a white shirt. The uniform left little room for any kind of self-expression, especially through clothes.
However, I learned how to stand out by expressing myself through my personality, art, and sports. I did not know I could draw until the sixth grade. I also would never have learned of my musical abilities if it hadn’t been for my desire to find ways to express myself. Uniforms taught me that I was myself, except what I wore.
Uniforms also contribute to a much safer learning environment. I remember a particular event that happened in my junior high school. A man ran away from prison and wanted to hide in the gym of our school. Luckily, cameras all over the school quickly found the stranger before any danger could ever happen as he was out of place. School officials kept the man locked inside our gym until the police came to take him back to prison.
Uniforms help provide a better educational experience for all students no matter what race, culture, or economic class (经济阶层). In closing, wearing uniforms is good for both schools and students.
1. How does the author introduce the topic?A.By explaining a basic rule. |
B.By challenging others’ views. |
C.By describing a common problem. |
D.By sharing his parents’ experience. |
A.Uniforms should be more modern. |
B.Uniforms can help shape better students. |
C.Uniforms are popular with students. |
D.Uniforms are bad for self-development. |
A.Dressing differently. | B.Standing straight. |
C.Running fast. | D.Breathing heavily. |
A.To record his high school life. |
B.To show his supportive view towards uniforms. |
C.To ask students to like what they wear. |
D.To introduce high school uniforms. |
【推荐3】Everyone needs help sometimes. People depend on one another. That’s why communities have special people ready to lend a helping hand to anyone who needs it.
For example, what would we do without a community fire station? If a home catches on fire, as the Jackson place did last week, it might be burned down and people get hurt… or worse. We’re so lucky to have firemen to come to save people and put out the fire safely. If the fire station hadn’t come so fast, the Jacksons might have lost everything.
And what about our local police who protect our families, our homes and valuable things? The police have helped so many families this past year, especially saving people and pets and protecting our houses and other things after the heavy rains.
Think about all the other service workers we have in this community. We have people who collect waste and rubbish and keep our community sanitary. We have road workers who put up and repair traffic signs and fix holes in the streets to protect not just us, but our cars! And where would this community be without the teachers in our school and the doctors, and nurses in our community hospitals?
Think again about what we eat every day; think again about what we wear every day. We cannot produce them, but we use them all the time. We get a lot from all these tireless workers who keep our community running. We need these people in the community. We depend on each other. Let’s support each other and help each other. Only in this way can we make our community a better place.
1. What happened to the Jacksons last week?A.Their pets were lost. | B.Their car was badly burnt. |
C.Their house caught on fire. | D.Their valuable things were stolen. |
A.Firemen. | B.Doctors. | C.Road workers. | D.Local police. |
A.Clean | B.Safe | C.Quiet | D.Busy |
A.Did the writer make us laugh? |
B.Did the writer want us to do something? |
C.Did the writer tell us about how to become a teacher? |
D.Did the writer teach us what to do when a fire breaks out? |
【推荐1】Researchers have found that being grateful isn’t just a nice personal quality that leads to good manners. I also leads to a great payoff. By being truly thankful for all that life provides, a child has more chance of being emotionally, and socially Successful.
“Gratitude opens your mind and lets you recognize the goodness in your life,” says Froh, a psychology professor who has conducted eight studios on gratitude over the past three years. According to Froh, a grateful child feels more connected and loved. After all, if he’s able to understand that many others care enough to make an effort for him, his life is improved. When older children aged 14 to 19 are able to acknowledge their good fortune, they’re more likely to be happy and experience lower levels of depression, envy and selfness.
For the past decade, experts like Froh have been conducting “gratitude interventions(干预)”, in which kids are encouraged to do a series of exercises, from writing a thank-you note to reciting it to make a gratitude journal, Overall, the results have been encouraging: Just in comparison with adults, it seems that children become more grateful.
Yet there remains much to be learned about children and gratitude. There’s some evidence suggesting that girls are more grateful than boys, Also, Froh says that while there’s not yet any hard data, there’s possibility that a child’s ability to be grateful depends on his or her age. One study looked at gratitude and life satisfaction in kids aged 3 to 9 and found that only 7 to 9-year-olds followed the example set by their parents in their ability to feel true gratitude. Most 3 to 6-year-olds don’t have the emotional development to see outside themselves enough to be truly grateful.
So how do people apply these newfound scientific findings? Froh encourages parents not to command children to express their thanks, but to let them show gratitude in whatever way is most comfortable. As Froh points out, children learn best when grown-ups model the very behavior they’d like to see in their kids.
1. What can we know about children who are grateful?A.They are less likely to feel depressed. |
B.They seem to be more thoughtful. |
C.They feel proud of others’ good fortune. |
D.They attach importance to selfness. |
A.By asking kids to do hard work. |
B.By comparing kids with adults. |
C.By guiding kids to follow good examples. |
D.By encouraging kids to express their thanks. |
A.Show kids true gratitude. |
B.Set a good example to kids. |
C.Provide a comfortable life for kids. |
D.Tell kids how to express gratitude. |
A.A New Scientific Finding |
B.The Power of Gratitude |
C.Children and Gratitude |
D.How to Express Gratitude |
【推荐2】Encouraging children to think about the feelings of others improves their creativity, new research suggests.
The findings are from a year-long study with Design and Technology (D&T) year 9 students (aged 13 to 14) at two London schools. Students at one school spent the year following course-required lessons, while the other group’s D&T lessons used some thinking tools which are aimed at developing students’ ability to have empathy, while solving real-world problems.
Both groups of students were judged for creativity at both the start and end of the school year using a perfect test.
The results showed a significant increase in creativity among students who use the thinking tools. At the start of the year, the creativity scores of the students who followed the required curriculum, were 11% higher than those following D&T lessons. By the end, however, the situation had completely changed: creativity scores among the D&T group were 78% higher than the required-course group.
The researchers also examined specific types within the test: such as “emotional expressiveness” and “open-mindedness”. Students from the D&T group again scored much higher in these types, showing that obvious progress in empathy was improving the overall creativity scores.
Nicholl, Senior Lecturer in D&T Education, said: “When I taught Design and Technology, I didn’t see children as someone who would one day do good to society; they were people who needed to be ready to go into the world at 18. Teaching children to understand another person’s feelings and experiences is about building a society where we appreciate each other’s point of view. Surely that is something we want education to do.”
1. What’s the purpose of adopting the thinking tools?A.To understand the feelings of others. |
B.To develop students’ creativity. |
C.To design new technologies. |
D.To deal with realistic problems. |
A.Both the groups took courses required by the curriculum. |
B.The two groups of students were tested twice during the one-year study. |
C.Students from the required course scored much higher in these specific types. |
D.Creativity among the students from the D&T lessons has been slightly improved. |
A.He is indifferent to whether the children benefit society. |
B.The D&T lessons can be an effective way to improve grades. |
C.Education is expected to build a society with different opinions appreciated. |
D.The D&T lessons surely need to be taken before the children go into the world. |
A.Emotional Education Matters |
B.Teaching Students to Be Better |
C.Creativity Offers Great Chances |
D.Empathy Significantly Improves Creativity |
【推荐3】Moral (道德的) science is taught as a subject in most schools but with little effect. Perhaps part of the problem lies in the fact that morality is not a science, strictly speaking. It is too much of a social phenomenon, and also has too much of the personal and subjective things mixed within. Besides, morality itself changes with generations. So it is impossible to be defined in a textbook.
I remember sitting through forty minutes of moral lessons, which told stories about little children who never told lies and were rewarded for their goodness. It had little effect and left no impression on me, though.
If moral science has to be taught as a subject in schools, it needs a participatory (参与其中的) approach. When you tell a child about morals, you also have to deal with social norms (规范) and cultural differences. You have to explain that morality can be subjective, and be able to co-exist in society. You will probably have to refer to the morals of the present time.
The best way to tell a child how to live is to show him what is valued. If a child likes his friend, you have to make the child think about why. Once the child notices and recognizes goodness in others, he or she is likely to develop it as well.
In fact, children learn most of their morals by watching people around them. They absorb behavior patterns from teachers and older students. They watch to see what is rewarded and who is punished. They learn on the sports field and through social work. Moral science lessons should simply consist of letting them live and interact, and watch you support correct values and reward good behavior.
1. Which is NOT the reason that moral science is taught in schools but with little effect?A.Morality doesn’t strictly belong to a science. |
B.Morality is more like a social phenomenon. |
C.Different generations have different moral ideas. |
D.Morality can’t be written down in textbooks. |
A.explain telling lies is not moral for little children. |
B.advise people should be rewarded for their goodness. |
C.show he has no opinions about moral science. |
D.prove moral lessons in schools have little effect. |
A.tell him about social norms and cultural differences. |
B.teach him to share personal moral ideas with others. |
C.explain that nobody can influence his moral ideas. |
D.say that the present morals are likely to be changed. |
A.The value of teachers’ setting a good example. |
B.The best way of teaching children about morals. |
C.The influence of people’s behavior on morals. |
D.The importance of rewarding good behavior. |