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Four Habits That Lead to Emotional Security

Can you become more emotionally secure by doing certain things differently?     1     Doing what emotionally secure people do creates results. What follows is a list of good habits.

   Be willing to apologize.

Do you know that refusing to apologize may actually increase your ego (自负)?     2     This creates insecurity because you then must defend your ego. Since nobody is perfect, it seems important to learn to apologize, admit when you are wrong and confess your limitations.

   Be willing to accept failure.

Emotionally secure people can recognize and accept failure. This may be why two top schools in England teach failure as part of their curriculum.     3    

   Learn to manage self-criticism.

Self-criticism is a usual stumbling block (绊脚石). It may be the most common psychological hang-up (障碍) in existence.     4     Constant self-criticism creates a lot of insecurity. Emotionally secure people handle the critical inner voice and do not allow it to control them.

       5    

Taking a more objective viewpoint on your own life gives you access to the big picture. Emotionally immature people tend to lack thinking and make poor decisions, which will only create more problems to feel insecure about. One solution is to step back and consider the big picture before making decisions.

A.Learn to accept.
B.Take a big step back.
C.You need more help than this.
D.Research suggests that yes, you can.
E.It gives you a false sense of moral superiority (优越感).
F.The critical inner voice is common and almost without exception.
G.Losing or at least losing gracefully is a vital skill for students to learn.
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