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The Advice Gap
Advice My Parents Gave Me: Go to college and major in what you love.
Advice I Will Give My Kids: Go to college only if you’ll major in science, engineering, or money. It’s a depressing job market, and majoring in English literature or anything with the word English in it has been useless since 1910s.
My Parents: Never show up to a party empty-handed.
Me: Never show up to a party. Send a text to the host twenty minutes before the party starts to say that you’re “sooooooo sorry” to cancel but your stomach is feeling “weird”.
My Parents: To find a job, walk into the offices of ABC News’s “This Week with George Stephanopoulos” and ask for one.
Me: Apply to jobs via LinkedIn, Zip-Recruiter, or your connections. Write a cover letter and attach your résumé, then manually enter the same information through the company’s portal, which looks as though it were designed in Microsoft Paint. Do this twenty times a day for two years, and you’re bound to make it to a third round of phone interviews before getting ghosted.
My Parents: Learn the difference between a 401(k) (an employer-sponsored defined-contribution pension account) and a Roth I. R. A. (a special retirement account) so that you can start investing early.
Me: Learn the difference between a 401(k) and a Roth I. R. A. so that you can explain it to me.
My Parents: Never wait to do your taxes.
Me: If you wait long enough to do your taxes, there might be a global crisis that forces the federal government to extend the deadline: Then you can wait some more and do them right before the new deadline.
My Parents: Work hard so you can save for retirement.
Me: Retirement is something you’ll read about in your history books under the title “Abstract Ideas”.
My Parents: When we’re gone, look after your siblings and never fight with them over money!
Me: When I’m gone, clear my browser history. Don’t quarrel with your siblings over who gets my monthly ten-cent payments from Medium (an American online publishing platform).
1. Why do you think the author has written this passage?A.To present a better guide for young people today. |
B.To demonstrate the contemporary generation gap. |
C.To exhibit his capability of living a worthy life. |
D.To show his annoyance with his parents’ advice. |
A.Siblings shouldn’t fight with each other over whether to protect their gone parents’ privacy. |
B.Science majors shouldn’t be favored over those related to English in college. |
C.Job seekers should try various means and prepare for depressing prospects. |
D.You should check your stomach first before texting to the host of a party. |
A.saving for retirement may be a thing of the past |
B.the younger generation may inherit the legacy of their parents’ payment bills from Medium in the future |
C.the knowledge about a 401(k) and a Roth I. R. A is so significant for early investment that children should have a good knowledge of it by themselves |
D.doing taxes is absolutely urgent, even allowing for unpredictable economic conditions |
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【推荐1】I promised to myself on the way down to the vacation beach cottage. For two weeks I would try to be a loving husband and father. Totally loving. No ifs, ands or buts.
The idea had occurred to me as I listened to a talk on my car radio. The speaker was reading a passage about husbands being thoughtful of their wives. Then he went on to say, “Love is an act of will. A person can choose to love.” To myself, I had to admit that I had been a selfish husband. Well, for two weeks that would change.
And it did. Right from the moment I kissed Evelyn at the doctor and said, “That new yellow sweater looks good on you.”
“Oh, Tom, you noticed,” she said, surprised and pleased. Maybe a little puzzled.
After the long drive, I wanted to sit and read. Evelyn suggested a walk on the beach. I started to refuse, but then I changed my mind. We walked on the beach while the children flew their kites.
So it went. Two weeks of not calling the Wall Street firm; a visit to the shell museum though I usually hate museums. Relaxed and happy, that’s how the whole vacation passed.
There was one thing that went wrong with my experiment, however. On the last night at our cottage, Evelyn stared at me with the saddest expression.
“What’s the matter?” I asked her.
“Tom,” she said in a voice filled with distress, “do you know something I don’t?”
“What do you mean?”
“Well… that checkup I had several weeks ago… our doctor… did he tell you something about me? Tom, you’ve been so good to me… am I dying?”
It took a moment for it all to sink in. Then I burst out laughing.
“No, honey,” I said, wrapping her in my arms. “You’re not dying; I’m just starting to live.”
1. What do”No ifs, ands or buts”in Paragraph 1 probably mean?A.Unnecessarily. | B.Unexpectedly. |
C.Impossibly. | D.Unconditionally. |
A.Evelyn looked lovely in her sweater. |
B.Evelyn suffered a deadly disease. |
C.He regretted about his past behaviors. |
D.He had made lots of money in Wall Street. |
A.Tom thought Evelyn’s words were funny. |
B.It took Tom a while to understand Evelyn’s words. |
C.Tom’s heart sank suddenly on hearing Evelyn’s words. |
D.Tom tried to prevent Evelyn knowing the truth about her illness. |
A.Relaxed and happy. | B.Pleased and grateful. |
C.Pleased but sorrowful. | D.Surprised but pleased. |
【推荐2】Everyone wants to look wonderful when they dress up for a big event, but occasionally, we all need a little help. Luckily, Ariel Chu has a fairy grandma on speed dial!
The 23-year-old from Australia, finally found the perfect evening dress for a big work event on the horizon. The only problem was that her perfect look, a black slip dress with complicated patterns (图案), cost over $500. Thankfully, her 86-year-old grandma, Ama, has stepped up in the past to make clothes for Ariel when her budget was too tight to get what she needed.
After sewing (缝纫) for 65 years, Ama does amazing work, so as soon as Ariel showed her the picture of the dress, she knew she could handle it! “This is not the first time my grandma has done this – she always makes clothes for everyone. Just show her a pattern or design and she will make it. She once made me a coat for school because my mum couldn’t afford a new one,” Ariel explained. “You could hardly tell the difference down to the stitching (针脚) of the school symbol that she made by needle and thread only.” This time was no different!
Ariel charted the dress-making process and shared a video online to share the impressive end result. Her post quickly went viral because Ama’s masterpiece looks perfect! Her granddaughter couldn’t be happier and is looking forward to wearing her beautiful new dress as soon as possible!
It doesn’t even matter when the dress makes its debut (首秀) because Ama is loving all the attention Ariel’s video brought on. Strangers from around the world have been sending her sweet messages of admiration, and she deserves each and every compliment!
Who needs a big bank account when you have a talented grandma in your corner? Great work, Ama!
1. What is the problem of this perfect dress?A.Its patterns are ugly. | B.Its color is unsuitable. |
C.It’s too big for Ariel. | D.It’s over Ariel’s budget. |
A.She is good at sewing and drawing. | B.She has made clothes for Ariel before. |
C.She is very popular in Ariel’s school. | D.She loves design dresses by herself. |
A.Went mad. | B.Became popular. | C.Sold out. | D.Came back. |
A.Friendly and devoted. | B.Kind and skillful. |
C.Proud and determined. | D.Talented and humorous. |
【推荐3】Feel exhausted after a party? Rather see one close friend than a group of acquaintances? Enjoy your own company? In our world, that makes you an introvert (内向的人). However, there’s another possible explanation — vertical attachment. If you are closer to your parents and family members than to your peers, you are vertically attached, which means you rely more on family for comfort.
If you are closer to your peers, then you are peer attached. We live in a peer-oriented world. We believe that having lots of friends means that we are well-adjusted. We put our kids in playgroups and daycare for peer interaction. We expect teenagers to want to hang out with their friends, thinking it is the natural way of things.
Result? Generations often feel worlds apart. We use different language, dress, and technology apps. Even if multiple generations are invited to the same party, the kids go to the basement playroom while the parents stay upstairs.
Vertically-attached individuals can feel out of place in this context, demonstrating the traces of introversion. Will they be exhausted after a party with same-aged acquaintances? Absolutely. Would they rather spend time with one close friend? Sure. Do they enjoy alone time? Yes, more than they enjoy time fitting in with peers.
It’s normal that many people need alone time to recharge. However, vertically-attached people often label themselves as introverted. They feel insecure that others have more friends and live richer lives. They claim that their family attachments arise from their loved ones being stuck with them.
If you feel these insecurities, know that there is nothing wrong with you, and you are not missing out on anything. Your attachment style is just different from the culture where you live. Have confidence in the strength of the relationships you have, whether it is with a mom who feels more like a best friend, or a grandmother with whom you can share anything. They are meaningful, enriching relationships, even if they look different from the cultural norm.
1. Who is vertically attached according to the text?A.Mike, who feels at ease with his teachers. |
B.Maggie, who enjoys film time alone at weekends. |
C.Tom, who feels burnt out after a family get-together. |
D.Lisa, who often turns to her dad when things are hard. |
A.Younger generations should be self-disciplined. |
B.Being sociable is a desired quality for their children. |
C.Their children need more friends than they themselves do. |
D.Different generations should have different circles of acquaintances. |
A.Be that as it may, just leave it as it is. |
B.Never underestimate your inner power. |
C.Hang out more with friends and adjust to it. |
D.Treat others the way you want to be treated. |
A.Prejudiced. | B.Cautious. | C.Unconcerned. | D.Favorable |
【推荐1】What is the first thing you notice when you walk into a shop? The products displayed at the entrance? Or the soft background music?
But have you ever noticed the smell? Unless it is bad,the answer is likely to be no. But while a shop’s scent may not be outstanding compared with sights and sounds, it is certainly there. And it is providing to be an increasing powerful tool in encouraging people to purchase.
A brand store has become famous for its distinctive scent which floats through the fairly dark hall and out to the entrance via scent machines. A smell may be attractive but it may not just be used for freshening air. One sports goods company once reported that when it first introduced scent into its stores, customers’ intention to purchase increased by 80 percent.
When it comes to the best shopping streets in Pairs, scent is just as important to a brand’s success as the quality of its window displays and goods on sales. That is mainly because shopping is a very different experience to what it used to be.
Some years ago, the focus for brand name shopping was on a few people with sales assistants’ disproving attitude and don’t-touch-what-you-can’t-afford displays. Now the rise of electronic commerce (e-commerce) has opened up famous brands to a wider audience. But while e-shops can use sights and sounds, only bricks-and-mortar stores can offer a full experience from the minute customers step through the door to the moment they leave. Another brand store seeks to be much more than a shop, but rather a destination. And scent is just one way to achieve this.
Now a famous store uses complex man-made smell to make sure that the soft scent of baby powder floats through the kid department, and coconut scent in the swimsuit section. A department store has even opened a new lab, inviting customers on a journey into the store’s windows to smell books, pots and drawers, in search of their perfect scent.
1. The main purpose of the passage is to ________.A.argue and discuss | B.examine and assess |
C.inform and explain | D.compare and evaluate |
A.Friendly assistant. | B.Unique scents. |
C.Soft background music. | D.Attractive window display. |
A.introduce the rise of e-commerce | B.push stores to use sights and sounds |
C.urge shop assistants to change their attitude | D.show the advantages of brick-and-mortar stores |
A.a platform that exhibits goods | B.a spot where travelers like to stay |
C.a place where customers love to go | D.a target that a store expects to meet |
【推荐2】A young musician carrying a violin case in Paraguay makes her way to rehearsal(彩排).What's inside the case, however, is no ordinary violin. It's made from a salad bowl, a CD, and large pieces of wood.
The violinist, Ada Rios, 13, is a member of the Orchestra of Instruments Recycled from Cateura, a group of teen musicians whose instruments are made from the trash near their village. Cateura, just outside Paraguay's capital, Asuncion, is a poor area built on a very large landfill (垃圾填埋地).Cateura is home to 2, 500 families, with 20 teens in the orchestra. They play everything from the classical works of Beethoven to Beatles' songs.
Now the orchestra is attracting world-wide attention.The musicians are being filmed for a documentary, Land-fill Harmonic.The film will show how people in Cateura turn trash into instruments, and the effect that being part of an orchestra can have on kids.
In Paraguay, nearly 35 percent of the population lives in poverty (贫穷).In Cateura, a real musical instrument costs more than a house, says Favio Chavez, the orchestra's founder. About 1, 500 tons of waste are left at the landfill each day, and the people there earn a living searching through the garbage for things they can recycle and sell.
Chavez started teaching music in Cateura five years ago as a way to keep kids out of trouble. When he needed more instruments, he asked the landfill workers if they could build some from the trash. First, the men repaired a broken drum. Next, they built a guitar . The orchestra took_off_from there.
The group has already performed in Brazil and Colombia.The teens will travel to Arizona this year to play at the Musical Instrument Museum in Phoenix. Ada says music has already changed her life.“When I listen to the sound of a violin, I feel excited, ”she says.
1. What do we know about Ada's violin?A.It's of big size. | B.It cost a lot of money. |
C.It has a beautiful case. | D.It's made from waste. |
A.are mostly homeless | B.are from different cities |
C.play music of different types | D.search through the garbage each day |
A.To recycle the trash. | B.To save some money. |
C.To produce special sounds | D.To make the instruments more attractive. |
A.became popular | B.got into trouble |
C.stayed unchanged | D.got a lot of money |
【推荐3】When you buy a cup of coffee, you have probably noticed the three different size options: small, medium and large. The medium-sized serving often costs almost as much as the large one.
If so, you have been driven by a cognitive bias(认知偏误) known as the “decoy effect(诱饵效应)”.
Imagine you are choosing flights from the following options:
■Flight A costs $400 with a stopover of 60 minutes.
■Flight B costs $330 with a stopover of 150 minutes.
■Flight C costs $435 with a stopover of 60 minutes
The researchers found that most people would choose Flight A. It is cheaper than Flight C. Compared with Flight B it has a shorter waiting time—even though it is considerably more expensive.
Now look at a different set of flights:
■Flight A costs $400 with a stopover of 60 minutes
■Flight B costs $330 with a stopover of 150 minutes
■Flight C costs $330 with a stopover of 195 minutes.
In this case, most people’s preference was Flight B.
In each case, Flight C (the decoy) was designed. to appear similar to, but slightly less attractive than, one of the other options (the target).
The decoy effect was first investigated as a potential marketing strategy to influence consumer choices. However, by learning about it, you may become less likely to be affected by this unconscious influence.
If you are discussing travel pans with friends, for instance, and have not decided yet where to go, you might present two alternative arrangements at your city of choice, but one with a slightly more expensive hotel. Even if your friends might have otherwise selected a different location, the comparison might just tempt them to opt for your preferred option.
A.Psychologists still debate the exact reasons for this particular effect. |
B.Don’t allow yourself to become yet another victim of the decoy effect. |
C.You may even discover ways to put it to your own use as a tool for persuasion. |
D.That comparison altered the way the participants perceived(感知) the other possibilities. |
E.The latest research shows that it could also have strong effects on recruitment (招聘), healthcare and even politics. |
F.You are presented with a well-designed, additional, and slightly less attractive option. |
G.Given the apparent bargain |
【推荐1】While family fun is often connected with new and exciting activities, family leisure (休闲) spent at home may be a better way to find happiness, according to a study. “That may be because when the brain is focused on new information, such as taking part in an unfamiliar activity with unfamiliar people in a new location, less ‘brain power’ is left to focus on the family relationships,” said lead author Karen Melton.
While research results suggest that all quality time together helps to lead to satisfaction with family life, “all family leisure is not equal,” she said. “The best predictor (预示物) of happiness for families may be spending quality time together in familiar activities inside the home. And that’s great news for families who have little time or few resources.”
For the study, researchers followed 1, 502 people in 884 families in the United Kingdom. Each family taking part in the online research had at least one child between the ages of 11 and 15. They answered questions about whether they took part in family leisure in the past year and if so, what activities (from 16 types) they did, how much time they spent doing them and how frequently they did so.
The study showed that the expression “The family that plays together stays together!” is not always true. “Family members can also express stress and anger as well as pleasure during leisure time.” Melton said. “The activities alone will not heal the wounds of hurting families.”
Melton noted that some studies support the idea that eating together is one of the best predictors of happiness for families, while watching TV is seen as less helpful for people’s happiness. But families should question one-size-fits-all ideas. “For some families, quality togetherness is having dinner together or playing games; for others, it may be hobbies, videos, TV or music,” Melton said. “At the end of the day, what matters is that we are social beings who want to belong to a group and have close relationships.”
1. According to the study, which activity may bring the most happiness to a family?A.Watching a movie at home. |
B.Traveling to another city. |
C.Climbing a mountain with strangers. |
D.Attending a community event with neighbors. |
A.Family members always argue with each other. |
B.Family members sometimes need some time alone. |
C.Family leisure makes it hard to share your true feelings. |
D.Family leisure can include sharing positive and negative feelings. |
A.Happy families often take part in creative activities. |
B.It is important that family members have common interests. |
C.Different families have different ways to spend quality time. |
D.It is hard for some families to find the perfect family leisure. |
A.Family leisure can do good to your health. |
B.Fun at home makes your family happier. |
C.How to organize good family activities at home? |
D.Why should we spend more time with loved ones? |
【推荐2】An allowance is an important tool for teaching kids how to budget, save and make their own decisions. Children remember and learn from mistakes when their own dollars are lost or spent foolishly.
How large an allowance is appropriate? Experts say there is no fixed amount. Actual amounts differ from region to region and from family to family.
To set an appropriate allowance for your child, work up a weekly budget. Allow for entertainment expenditures such as movies and snacks. Next, include everyday expenses such as lunch money, bus fare, school supplies. “If you make the child responsible for these bills,” says Josephine Swanson, a consumer specialist, “he or she will learn to budget for necessary expenditures.”
Finally, add some extra money to make saving possible. If you can, keep your child's allowance in line with that of his friends. A child whose purchasing power falls away below his peers' can feel left out.
It can be tough, but avoid excusing your children when they make a mistake with their allowance. When Brooke Stephens was ten and growing up in Jacksonville, her mother gave her $5 a week, $1.75 of which was for bus fare and lunch. “If you lose your money,” Brook's mother told her, “you walk home.”
One week the girl spent all her allowance in a candy store; then she called home for a fare. “Mom made me walk home, ” recalls Stephens, now a financial planner in Brooklyn. “At first I was angry. But I finally realized that she was trying to teach me an important lesson.”
Experts advise that an allowance should not be tied directly to a child's daily chores. Kids should help around the house not because they get paid for it but because they share responsibilities as members of a family. You might, however, pay a child for doing extra jobs at home that can develop his or her initiative.
1. What does the passage mainly discuss?A.How to work up an amount of pocket money. |
B.How to teach a child to save money. |
C.How to teach a child about money. |
D.How to develop a child’s initiative. |
A.lose the money and can not return home | B.feel responsible and care about money |
C.spend all the money very soon | D.be spoiled and finally ruined |
A.his teachers | B.his parents | C.his financial experts | D.his friends |
A.children may learn to put aside some money if they are given a great amount of pocket money |
B.a child’s initiative can be developed if he or she is paid for the housework |
C.children may feel lost and lonely if they have no pocket money |
D.paying children for their housework is no good |
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A.Students | B.Businessmen | C.Tourists | D.Immigrants |
A.28 | B.32 | C.37 | D.44 |
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D.Temperature is expected to be higher at higher places |
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