As the college entrance examination approaches, you will feel that you lack the ability to control the emotions.
First, take a deep breath and stay calm. Finding peace and staying relaxed is all about being in the present moment and not bombarding your mind with too many worries about the future. All that you have now is the current moment.
Have to accept that how you show your emotions has a very real effect on others. If you find yourself getting angry at your fellow peers at school, there might still be some understanding from those who are going through similar feelings as you are.
Learn to handle your emotions. When you start feeling boiling anger rising inside you, consider if you really need to convert that negative energy into action or comment.
A.Connect with your peers. |
B.Talk with your family. |
C.Because of their experiences, they will understand you. |
D.Sometimes you even get angry because of little things. |
E.Do you really need to express your anger outwardly? |
F.So for right now, just relax. |
G.In any case, this still doesn’t excuse you from treating other people poorly |
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【推荐1】You’ll make new friends in each stage of your life. Some of them will come and go, while others will last for the rest of your life.
There are many benefits of having strong friendships. According to experts, many people regret not keeping friendships going and end up living a life with no close friends or even enduring mental and physical sufferings.
Sometimes it’s a good idea to let a friendship go, even if you’ve been friends for a long time. If one party isn’t making an effort to keep things going, it can lead to feelings of hurt and betrayal, and it might be time to let things cool off and pursue other friendships.
A.Lifelong friendships are what most people desire. |
B.You don’t have to be mean or harsh to get this done. |
C.If you are lacking in good friendships, it’s not too late. |
D.You can also make friends with people you work with. |
E.So making time for your friendships is vital to a healthy life. |
F.Sign up for a dancing class to meet those with the same passion. |
G.While this can be sad, it can actually improve your quality of life. |
【推荐2】Eyesight is the sense that you rely upon the most. Since we live in a world that requires your eyes to routinely stare at the small type and images on cell phones, computer screens, and televisions, it is important for you to improve and protect your eyesight.
Eyes are just like any other part of the body.
Since you use your eyes every waking moment, give them lots of rest and relaxation by taking breaks throughout the day and getting enough sleep every night to fully rest, repair, and recover your vision.
Besides, most jobs nowadays involve some degree of computer usage, meaning almost everyone will be spending time in front of a computer.
A.They need nutrition to function well. |
B.Close your eyes when exercising your eyes. |
C.A lack of sleep will weaken your vision health. |
D.You can enjoy your vision for the rest of your life. |
E.Unfortunately, this can result in eye strain or injury. |
F.There are many ways to keep your eyesight healthy and sharp. |
G.Exercising your eyes daily will help you maintain healthy eyes. |
【推荐3】Starting with a new school can be difficult.Everything seems to be so strange.
Don’t worry.The following tips can help you.
Be kind to the new people you meet at the new school.
Be inviting(亲和的).A smile goes a long way.When you walk in the halls, don’t keep your eyes on the floor.If you see someone you know, give a smile or say “Hi”.Then introduce yourself.
Make the first move.Anywhere, in the library or near your locker, you can find someone that has things in common with you.
A.Remember people’s names. |
B.Making new friends can be hard, too. |
C.All you need is to know how to get closer to them. |
D.Look for other people who are new to the school. |
E.Just be yourself and don’t let anyone change that. |
F.Tell them your name, where you’re from and other things. |
G.Be sure to be nice to people of all cultures and backgrounds. |
Before World War I we spent out summer holidays in Hungary. I have only the dim(模糊的)memory of the house we lived in, of my room and my toys, Nor do I recall clearly the large family of grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins who gathered next door. But I do have a crystal clear memory of dogs, the farm animals, the local birds and above all, the insects.
I am a naturalist, not a scientist. I have a strong love of the natural world, and my enthusiasm has led me into various investigations. I love discussing my favorite topics and enjoy burning the midnight oil reading about other people’s observations and discoveries.Then something happens that brings these observations together in my conscious mind. Suddenly you fancy you see the answer to the riddle. Because it all seems to fit together. This has resulted in my publishing 300 papers and books, which some may light honor, with the title of scientific research.
But curiosity, a keen eye ,a good memory and enjoyment of the animal and plant world do not make a scientist: one of the outstanding and essential qualities required is self-discipline, a quality I lack, A scientist can be made a naturalist. If you can combine the two, you get the best of both worlds.
1. According to the author, a born naturalist should first of all be
A.full of ambition | B.self-disciplined | C.full of enthusiasm | D.knowledgeable |
A.lost his hearing when he was a child |
B.didn’t like his brothers and sisters |
C.was interested in flowers and insects in his childhood |
D.was born to a naturalist’s family |
A.just reads about other people’s observations and discoveries |
B.lacks some of the qualities required of scientist |
C.has a great deal of trouble doing mental arithmetic |
D.comes up with solutions in most natural ways. |
A.He didn’t live very long with them |
B.He was too young when he lived with them |
C.The family was extremely large |
D.He was fully occupied with observing nature |
A.The author believes that a born naturalist cannot be a scientist |
B.The author read a lot of books about the natural world and oil industry |
C.The author’s brothers and sisters were good at music and languages |
D.The author spent a lot of time working on riddles. |
Charles Darwin formulated the most successful theory in the history of biology: the theory of evolution. He was also responsible for another grand theory: the theory of emotion, which dominated his field for more than a century. Its core principle was that the mind consists of two competing forces: the rational and the emotional.
We now know that, on the contrary, emotions enhance our process of reasoning and aid our decision-making. In fact, we can’t make decisions, or even think, without being influenced by our emotions.
Consider anger, for example. Backed by the threat of attack, anger creates incentives (动机) for others to comfort the angry individual. Your mental calculations increase the importance you place on your own welfare and goals at the expense of others’. Coaches tap into anger as a motivational tool because the focus on the self encourages athletes to push themselves to achieve their goals. Anger also causes you to perceive less risk.
The new view of emotion may not correspond to the way Darwin saw it, but it does support one of the basic conclusions of his theory of evolution. Humans are not as different from non-human animals as people believed. What can we learn from this? The first and most crucial step is self- awareness.
A.Emotions play a critical role in shaping our thoughts and decisions, subtly influencing the framework of our reasoning even when we believe we are thinking rationally. |
B.He believed that emotions played a constructive role in the lives of non-human animals, while the usefulness of emotions was largely replaced by the evolution of reason in humans. |
C.That can produce better judgments in situations where risk aversion (厌恶) is inappropriate, as when you are analyzing stocks (股票) or playing poker. |
D.Anger, while often perceived negatively, can sometimes fuel our motivation and reduce our perception of risk, enabling more decisive actions in certain situations. |
E.Studies show that those with high levels of emotional intelligence fare better in their personal and professional lives. |
F.If emotions aid rational reasoning, how does that work. |
The answer came to me in an instant. It’s not the one I gave, because the situation was not right. As a lawyer in the entertainment industry, I knew the audience wanted to hear some amusing stories about my work with well-known people, but here’s the true answer:
The most important thing I’ve ever done occurred on October 8,1990. I began the day playing tennis with an old friend I hadn’t seen for a while. Between points we talked about what had been happening in each other’s lives. He and his wife had just had a baby boy, who was keeping them up at night.
While we were playing, a car came screaming up the road toward the courts. It was my friend’s father, who shouted to my friend that his baby had stopped breathing and was being rushed to the hospital. In a flash my friend was in the car and gone, disappearing in a cloud of dust.
For a moment I just stood there, paralyzed(呆若木鸡). Then I tried to figure out what I should do. Follow my friend to the hospital? There was nothing I could accomplish there, I convinced myself. My friend’s son was in the care of doctors and nurses, and nothing I could do or say would affect the outcome. Be there for moral support? Well, maybe. But my friend and his wife both had large families, and I knew they’d be surrounded by relatives who would provide more than enough comfort and support, whatever happened. All I could do at the hospital, I decided, was to get in the way. Also, I had planned a full day with my family, who were waiting for me to get home. So I decided to head back to my house and check in my friend later.
As I started my car, I realized that my friend had left his truck and keys at the courts. I now faced another problem. I couldn’t leave the keys in the truck. So I decided to go to the hospital and give him the keys.
When I arrived, I was directed to a room where my friend and his wife were waiting. As I had thought, the room was filled with family members silently watching my friend comfort his wife. I went in and stood by the door, trying to decide what to do next. Soon a doctor appeared. He approached my friend and his wife, and in a quiet voice told them that their son had died.
For a long time the two held each other and cried, unaware of the rest of us standing around in pained silence. After they had calmed themselves, the doctor suggested they spend a few moments with their son.
My friend and his wife stood up and walked past their families. When they reached the door, my friend saw me standing in the corner. He came over and hugged me and started to cry. My friend’s wife hugged me, too, and said , “Thanks for being here.”
For the rest of that morning, I sat in the emergency room of that hospital and watched my friend and his wife hold the body of their infant son, and say goodbye.
It’s the most important thing I have ever done. The experience taught me two lessons.
First: The most important thing I’ve ever done happened when I was completely helpless. None of the things I had learned in university, in three years of law school or in six years of legal practice were of any use in that situation. Something terrible was happening to people I cared about, and I was powerless to change the outcome. All I could do was standing by and watching it happen. And yet it was critical that I do just that--- just be there when someone needed me.
Second: The most important thing I’ve done almost didn’t happen because of things I had learned in classroom and professional life. Law school taught me how to take a set of facts, break them down and organized them. These skills are critical for lawyers. When people come to us for help, they’re often stressed out and depend on a lawyer to think logically. But while learning to think, I almost forget how to feel. Today I have no doubt that I should have leapt into my car without hesitation and followed my friend to the hospital.
From that one experience I learned that the most important thing in life isn’t the money you make, the status you attain or the honors you achieve
1. When he was asked about the most important thing he had done in life at a presentation, the author _______.
A.felt it was not an interesting question |
B.thought for a while and spoke his mind |
C.gave an answer from a lawyer’s point of view |
D.didn’t give the real answer |
A.he had to stay with his family |
B.his friend did not need his help. |
C.he would not be of much help |
D.the baby would be in the doctor’s care |
A.He found out that he was in the way. |
B.He would have felt guilty if he had not been there. |
C.He regretted that he went too late. |
D.His friend would have felt better if he had not been there. |
A.Family and relatives can not take the place of friends. |
B.More people are a great comfort when one is in trouble. |
C.It is best to be here when someone needs you. |
D.You can certainly help a friend if you want to. |
A.what is taught in school is usually of no use. |
B.a lawyer cannot learn much in classrooms |
C.a lawyer should know people’s feeling first |
D.he needs to be able to feel as well as think logically |
A.is fond of writing poems |
B.is going to coach the kid’s team |
C.is determined to make friends with everybody |
D.is fully aware of the importance of being helpful to those in need |