Moving abroad can be a challenging experience. You leave your family,friends and everything you know behind. You enter a new culture where the customs and sometimes the languages are different.
So what are the best ways to involve yourself in the new culture while living abroad?
Live with a native speaker
Socialize with the local people
The thought of making friends and mixing with the local people may seem scary at first but it's worth it.
The food in France is amazing and discovering new food is a fun experience. I've tried things that I've never tried before. My knowledge of different bread and cheese types has grown greatly.
A.Try the local food |
B.But it's also exciting |
C.I currently volunteer with homeless people |
D.You can also speak the local language every day |
E.Improve my French vocabulary and understanding |
F.You can meet other people in the area by joining a club |
G.There are many advantages of living with a native speaker |
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【推荐1】Modern life is full of things that can influence your ability to be sensitive and responsive to your child. These include extra work, lack of sleep, and things like mobile devices. Some experts are concerned about the effects that distracted (分心) parenting may have on emotional bonding and children’s language development, social interaction, and safety.
If parents are not available, kids can get distressed and feel hurt or ignored. They may have more emotional outbursts, feeling alone and even lose emotional connections to their parents.
It can be tough to respond with sensitivity during tantrums, arguments, or other challenging times with your kids. “If parents respond by being bad-tempered or aggressive themselves, children can copy that behavior, and a negative cycle then continues to upgrade,” explains Dr. Carol Metzler.
According to Crnic, kids start to regulate their own emotions and behavior around age three. Up until then, they depend more on you to help them regulate their emotions, whether to calm them or help get them excited. “They’re watching you to see how you do it and listening to how you talk to them about it,” he explains. “Parents need to be good self-regulators. You’re not only trying to regulate your own emotions in the moment, but helping your child learn to manage their emotions and behavior.”
“When parents engage positively with their children, teaching them the behaviors and skills that they need to cope with the world, children learn to follow rules and regulate their own feelings,” Metzler says.
1. What may distract parenting according to the text?A.Working overtime, | B.Too much sleep. | C.Negative emotions. | D.Social interactions. |
A.Bad habits of ignored children. | B.Bad effects of parents’ absence. |
C.The outcome of parents’ availability. | D.The behavior of emotional children. |
A.Mental relaxation. | B.Extreme anger. | C.Heated discussions. | D.Desperate hunger. |
A.Be strict with their children. | B.Control children’s emotions. |
C.Stay involved with their children. | D.Ask children to copy their behaviors. |
【推荐2】When going shopping with a friend, Gail Heyman found herself quite awkward (令人尴尬的) when her friend asked her which dress she liked best. Her friend had a clear favorite — a dress that Heyman happened to dislike. “In that case, I lied and said that I like the same one,” said Heyman.
As Heyman’s experience shows, it might not matter all that much if you tell a white lie to make a friend feel good at times. But when it comes to the most meaningful relationships in your life, protecting a friend’s feelings at all costs can sometimes make them fail. For example, if a person is practicing for a job interview and it’s a few days before his interview, and he gives an answer that you think is not good at all and you don’t tell him because you don’t want to hurt his feelings, that’s really not very nice to him, right? Because he has an opportunity to fix that thing.
If you know that lies can have results, why do you still lie often? A study carried out by Tali Sharot, a professor at University College London, found that it’s because people just get used to it. One little lie can turn into bigger and bigger lies over time. “If you habituate emotionally, it will change your behavior,” says Sharot.
Sharot notes that if you’re worried about lying a bit too much, try and notice when you want to bend the truth (歪曲事实). She thinks it’s best to do so when you’re not actually responding to those triggers (诱因). Moving your attention away from shame and focusing more on your values can be a healthy way to start looking at this more actively.
1. How does the author start the text?A.By raising a question. | B.By giving an example. |
C.By expressing an opinion. | D.By comparing different views. |
A.Be careful about lying. | B.It’s OK to tell a white lie. |
C.Never should a person tell lies. | D.A meaningful relationship matters. |
A.They are used to lying. |
B.They don’t behave well. |
C.They lose track of others. |
D.They don’t want to hurt others’ feelings. |
A.Try to bend the truth. |
B.Change our behavior. |
C.Say sorry to the one we lied to. |
D.Concentrate more on our values. |
【推荐3】We all know about the health benefits of swimming. It offers a great exercise for the body — it builds patience, muscle strength and cardiovascular (心血管的) fitness. If you don’t mind getting wet, it can be fun too.
Cold-water swimming is sometimes called “wild swimming”, namely swimming in natural areas including ponds, rivers and the sea. Jumping in gives a short sharp shock to the body, but many participants say that they have got used to it. A cold dip might wake you up, but research has found that it can have much bigger benefits than that for your body and mind.
But what is it that people are gaining from this cold and uncomfortable experience? Doctors say that getting into cold water causes a stress response, but the more you do it, the less stress you will have. It’s also thought to have a strong anti-anger effect.
A.It can also improve your health and happiness. |
B.People of all ages join the activity, even little kids. |
C.Cold-water swimmers should make full preparations. |
D.So, if you’re convinced that this is for you, take advice. |
E.But who would enjoy swimming in water that is ice cold? |
F.But there are bigger benefits to this stress-reducing exercise. |
G.Cold-water swimming has reportedly cured certain health conditions. |
【推荐1】The traditional Chinese solar calendar divides the year into 24 solar terms. Start of Winter, (立冬), the 19th solar term of the year, means winter is coming and crops harvested in autumn should be stored up.
Eating dumplings
A legend has it that at the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, “Medical Saint” Zhang Zhongjing saved many people in Henan province around Start of Winter. He cooked mutton, hot peppers and herbs to drive away the cold and increase body heat. He wrapped these ingredients into a dough skin and made them into an ear shape, which became known as “dumpling”.
“Nourishing the winter”(补冬)
On the first day of Start of Winter, there is a custom, “nourishing the winter”,in Southeast China.
Eating Chinese pumpkins
In Tianjin, on the first day of Start of Winter, people eat dumplings stuffed with Chinese pumpkins (wogua).
Eating tuanzi
On the first day of Start of Winter, some people of Southern China have a custom of eating tuanzi, a kind of traditional Chinese food made with rice.
A.To prepare for the oncoming cold winter |
B.At this time, the autumn grain crops have just been sold on the market |
C.To celebrate Start of Winter |
D.Most rural residents make tuanzi by themselves |
E.Here are things you should know about Start of Winter |
F.It is a common vegetable in North China |
G.Since then,people have learned to make the food, and the custom was passed on to today |
【推荐2】WHY DO WE CELEBRATE FESTIVALS?
Festivals are celebrated all around the world. They have a wide range of origins, such as the seasons of the year, religions, famous figures, and important events. Every festival has its different customs and unique charms. However, no matter how different they may seem, all over the world, the spirit of sharing joy, gratitude, love, or peace is common in all festivals.
Of all the traditional festivals, the harvest festival can be found in almost every culture. This important agricultural festival takes place after all the crops have been gathered in. People celebrate to show that they are grateful for the year’s supply of food. In ancient Egypt, the harvest festival was celebrated during the springtime— the Egyptian harvest season. It featured a parade and a great feast with music, dancing, and sports. Today, in some European countries, people decorate churches and town halls with flowers and fruit, and get together to celebrate over a meal. During the Mid-Autumn Festival in China, families gather to admire the shining moon and enjoy delicious mooncakes.
Customs play a significant role in festivals, but sometimes they can change over time. With the development of modern society and the spread of new ideas, some traditions may fade away and others may be established. One example is the typical Chinese Spring Festival custom of lighting firecrackers to drive away the evil spirits and celebrate the new year. Nowadays, many big cities have given up this custom in order to avoid air pollution. Another example is Halloween, which slowly became an exciting festival for children, in spite of its religious origins.
Festivals are becoming more and more commercial, with businesses taking advantage of the celebrations. Online shopping websites and social media apps have made it much easier for the public to spend more on gifts for their loved ones. Although some believe festivals should not be commercialised, others believe the increase in spending is good for the economy and public happiness.
Festivals are an important part of society. They reflect people’s wishes, beliefs, faiths, and attitudes towards life. They are occasions that allow us to relax and enjoy life, and forget about our work for a little while. They help us understand where we came from, who we are, and what to appreciate. And if you study festivals carefully, you may be surprised to find that different cultures actually have a lot in common after all.
1. Why do we celebrate festivals?2. What is true about harvest festivals around the world according to the 2nd paragraph?
A.The harvest festival is the most important one of all the traditional festivals. |
B.In ancient time the harvest festival was celebrated during the springtime. |
C.In some European countries, people get together to celebrate over a meal. |
D.Both the Chinese and Japanese families enjoy delicious mooncakes on the Mid-Autumn Festival. |
A.The spread of new ideas. |
B.Air pollution. |
C.The development of modern technology. |
D.The religious belief. |
A.Festivals should not be commercialised. |
B.The rise in spending is good for the economy and public happiness. |
C.It’s OK for festivals to be commercialised. |
D.We don’t know. |
A.forget their work for a little while |
B.relax and enjoy life |
C.show their faiths towards life |
D.find different cultures have little in common |
【推荐3】It’s not easy to step out of your comfort zone. In fact, it’s scary. But at the same time, you’ll experience and learn amazing things. So you need to step out of your comfort zone and experience new cultures abroad.
It’s a big world out there.
Don’t you want to greatly improve your development as a person? Traveling to a different country and experiencing a new culture allows that. Exposure to multi-cultures or diversity will lead to a better judgment.
A.People live and behave differently. |
B.You can also learn a new language. |
C.There is a scientific reason for traveling abroad. |
D.Doing that is like stepping into whole new worlds. |
E.Going abroad allows you to make friends from all over the world. |
F.You can learn to become more social, open-minded, and independent. |
G.You may find it hard to communicate with others when you’re abroad. |