I wrote a business plan the other day. I gave it to my husband for suggestions. After reading it, he said, “I don’t think this is up to your usual standards.” I said, “I need more information. What doesn’t work?” He said he wasn’t sure. I then took the letter and reread it.
He asked, “How about if I look at it again and make notes between the space?” I agreed. A half hour later I looked at his notes and told him he didn’t understand the situation and what I really wanted to express. He shrugged (耸肩) and said OK. I took the letter and went back to my computer and again revised. As I was writing, I could see my letter improving based on his suggestions. When I finished, I proudly handed the letter back to my husband. He read it for the third time and said, “It’s still not right but I couldn’t exactly say.” I was a little annoyed and then told him I was the writer and I had seen some goofy letters he sent out. But I picked up my letter and went back to the computer.
After an hour of revisions, I went back to my husband apologetically with letter in hand. I told him I was sorry for what I’d said and asked if he would please read the letter again because I did value his contribution. Being a very patient and kind-hearted fellow, he once again read my letter and declared that it was fine.
This all leads me to the following: When you ask for advice on a project, be appreciative and grateful. Understand that the advice and suggestions you get may be negative. Understand that it may mean more work for you. And keep in mind that the final responsibility for the project is still yours. So be modest and thankful even if he or she has noted some problems.
1. Why did the author give her business plan to her husband at first?A.To show off her excellent work. |
B.To have him type it on the computer. |
C.To ask him to make some changes from all details. |
D.To ask him to give her some advice. |
A.believed in his judgement but couldn’t find why |
B.knew there was nothing wrong in the business plan |
C.doubted about himself since he found no excuses |
D.believed he himself was right and knew the roots |
A.selfish, proud and determined |
B.good at expressing himself |
C.honest, kind and patient |
D.humorous, active and careful |
A.do accept all suggestions from the givers |
B.don’t get upset if some are negative |
C.do keep silent before taking action |
D.do be grateful and confident |
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【推荐1】In the mornings, as I walked from the train station to the office, I planned my day by making a to-do list in my head: the scientific articles I would read, the data sets I would analyze, and most urgent of all — the insights into human nature that it was my job to discover.
Each evening, I went back to the station, again going through my mental checklist but this time sizing up my performance against the expectations Td set for myself that morning. Time and again, when comparing my to-do list with my got-done list, I felt frustrated because I had fallen short.
But one day, something very strange happened. During my trip home, without any conscious intention, my thoughts began to change. Instead of feeling bad about my weaknesses, I said aloud very softly: I’m a nice person. I’m a nice person. I’m a nice person. By the time I boarded my train, I was done with my little chant-until the next day when I walked home. And again, after counting my failures, I found myself saying quietly: I’m a nice person. It turns out that there’s a technical term for this practice: values affirmation (肯定). And what it emphasizes is recognizing and strengthening the personal values you hold most dear.
When you affirm a core personal value, you raise your sense of self-worth. You broaden your outlook:Instead of focusing on your shortfalls, you switch to a wide-angle view that includes your resources and opportunities. And the people who do this are happier, healthier, and more hopeful. Over time, I made progress in my research and learned a lot about what makes most successful people special, including this: Nobody has passion and determination unless what they do lines up with their values. Try values affirmation for yourself and teach the practice to your students.
Take a moment and think of a value you hold dear, whether it’s kindness, creativity, or gratitude. Whatever it is, name it. And then say to yourself: Come what may, I know who I am. Your values are your foundation and your compass, too. Trust them, and they will lead you home.
1. How did the author feel when comparing his to-do list with his got-done list at the beginning?A.Satisfied. | B.Pleased. | C.Disappointed | D.Unconcerned. |
A.Changing. | B.Forming. | C.Denying. | D.Judging. |
A.strengthening a core personal value to himself | B.counting his failures |
C.talking aloud to himself on his way home | D.chanting with conscious intention |
A.It changes people’s focus to their shortcomings. | B.It improves their sense of self-worth. |
C.It limits their resources and opportunities. | D.It makes them more critical of themselves. |
A.To constantly compare oneself to others. |
B.To improve one’s kindness, creativity and gratitude. |
C.To highlight values affirmation and spread the practice. |
D.To become successful with passion. |
【推荐2】How old is “old” ?
How old is “old” ?
So, how old is old? The answer is one you’ve heard many times, from all sorts of people. “You are as old (or young) as you feel!” The calendar(日历) simply tells you how many years you have lived.
Once an unknown author wrote , “
There are many wrong ideas about aging.
A.Old is a point of view. |
B.It’s extremely terrible to be grown old. |
C.The answer has changed over the years. |
D.Your body tells you how well you’ve lived. |
E.Older people are stubborn, unable to change. |
F.Youth is not a time of life but it is a state of mind. |
G.These ideas stereotype (固化) people on the basis of age. |
【推荐3】Living and dealing with kids can be a tough job these days, but living and dealing with parents can be even tougher.
If I have learned anything in my 18 years, it is communication that is very important, both when you disagree and when you get along. With any relationship, you need to let others know how you are feeling. If you are not able to communicate, you drift apart. When you are mad at your parents, or anyone else, not talking to them doesn’t solve anything.
Communication begins with the concerns of another. It means that you can’t just come home from school, go up to your room and ignore everyone. Even if you just say and see how their day was for five minutes, it is better than nothing.
If you looked up the word “communication” in a dictionary, it would say “the exchange of ideas, the conveyance of information,correspondence (通信),means of communication: a letter or a message”. To maintain a good relationship, you must keep communication strong. Let people know how you feel, even if ifs just by writing a note.
When dealing with parents, you always have to make them feel good about how they are doing as a parent. If you are trying to make them see something as you see it, tell them that you’ll listen to what they have to say, but ask them politely to listen to you. Yelling or walking away only makes the situation worse.
This is an example: one night, Sophie went to a street party with her friends. She knew she had to be home by midnight after the fireworks, but she didn’t feel she could just ask to go home. That would be rude. After all, they had been nice enough to take her along with them. Needless to say, she was late getting home. Her parents were mad at first, but when Sophie explained why she was late, they weren’t as mad and let the incident go.
Communication is the key factor here. If Sophie’s parents had not been willing to listen, Sophie would have been in a lot of trouble. Communication isn’t a one-way deal: it goes both ways. Just remember: if you get into a situation like Sophie’s, tell the other person how you feel—listening is the key factor to communication.
1. What is the main idea of the second paragraph?A.The disagreement between generations. |
B.The importance of communication. |
C.The great importance of keeping silent. |
D.The necessity of making your feeling known. |
A.parents should listen to their children |
B.children should always obey their parents |
C.parents and children should not yell or ignore |
D.equality plays a part in family communication |
A.Sophie’s parents did a good job in listening to her. |
B.Children should first explain themselves to their parents. |
C.Communication is the solution to misunderstanding. |
D.Parents would be mad at their children’s returning home late. |
A.Walk away instead of yelling if communication fails. |
B.It is better to say “Hi” to others than say nothing. |
C.Talking is more important than listening in communication. |
D.You should feel good about yourself when communicating. |
【推荐1】I want to say thank you for being such a wonderful father. Though there have been many struggles with your various illnesses over the years, you’ve taught me more about life than any other experience could have. It’s been tough. You’ve thrown more at me than I ever thought my 21 years could handle.
Finding out that you have terminal stage IV cancer on Christmas Day, what does one even do with that as a reality? But it was from depth of desperation and fear that hope somehow burst forth. My life did not end at that moment and neither did yours.
Dad, you’ve taught me what heroes are made of: how to go in and do what you have to do, even when I was hard and scary and you know it’s going to be painful. As I sat at your feet through your hospital treatment, I saw an incredible person. I learned how precious life is. It was worth the poisonous chemicals that were pumped into his body. It was worth the horrible side effects including loss of hair, strength, and fingernails.
Dad, you’ve taught me how amazing and resistant the human body can be. Doctors have opened you up body, touched your lungs, heart, and brain...and they are still working enough to support life. But true beauty is shown on the inside. As I look at you now, Dad, I don’t see a pale and slow man before me. I see my father: the person who taught me how to ride a two-wheeler. The person who drove me to swim meets and sat there for hour upon boring hour.
That’s who I see and that is the most beautiful person I can imagine. The person who went to work every day, even though he felt physically worse than I could ever imagine.
Though it’s been hard getting through the days after learning of your diagnosis (诊断). I’m thankful that from this disease I have grown to appreciate every day of my life at such a young age.
1. How did the father deal with the cancer diagnosis?A.He was stuck in desperation and fear. |
B.He was brave to begin his treatment. |
C.He took a long time to accept the truth. |
D.He showed his courage to face death. |
A.The father has received an operate |
B.The human body can take any challenge. |
C.The father built a big image in the writer’s heart. |
D.Doctors did the operation very successfully. |
A.Unlucky. |
B.Weak. |
C.Considerate. |
D.Tough. |
A.To express his gratitude and admiration. |
B.To encourage his father to fight against cancer. |
C.To show his changed attitude toward life. |
D.To recall the days of his father suffering cancer. |
【推荐2】I have come to southern Florida to see how licensed local snake hunters are helping the government cope with the recent explosion of invasive Burmese pythons (缅甸蟒蛇) that is destroying the region’s wildlife by eating almost everything—from squirrels to rabbits to foxes—in their path.
Thirty years ago, there were no Burmese pythons in Florida. Now most experts agree there may be as many as 100,000 to 200,000. And they’re reproducing at an alarming rate. The government has to pay to catch and kill the powerful snakes, which can grow to be 20 feet long, as thick as a telephone pole, and weigh over 200 pounds.
I’m with Tom Rahill, a python hunter, who has caught over 500 of the snakes over the last decade and become known as “the snake whisperer” for his success. As we walk along the river bank, I watch Rahill occasionally push a stick into the thick grass. As he looks for more signs, he tells me his stories and about special living habits of snakes.
Suddenly Rahill shouts, “SNAKE! There, slowly crossing the limestone road, is a Burmese python.” He rushes to the snake. It looks like a five-to-six-footer. Its thick, full belly indicates it must have killed and eaten recently.
Expertly, Rahill moves around the snake as it strikes out at him. He then grabs it with one hand firmly behind its head. I grab its tail firmly as the snake tries hard to wrestle itself away from me. Then, just as Rahill predicted, it poops (排便) all over me.
My pants are covered with smelly Burmese python poop. But I don’t care. We’ve finally bagged our python. Rahill and I high-five each other. He asks me if I want to keep hunting. I quickly tell him, “Let’s go!” As Rahill puts it, there are a lot more pythons out there.
1. Why does the government pay to catch and kill Burmese pythons?A.Because few people dare to catch Burmese pythons. |
B.Because Burmese pythons break the region’s ecological balance. |
C.Because Burmese pythons are difficult to catch. |
D.Because Burmese pythons are dangerous to people. |
A.He is a licensed python hunter. |
B.He is good at telling stories. |
C.He knows how to speak to snakes. |
D.He caught 500 pythons last year. |
A.Guilty. | B.Disappointed. |
C.Funny. | D.Excited. |
A.The dangerous situation of the wildlife in southern Florida. |
B.The endangered Burmese python in southern Florida. |
C.An experience of hunting the ecology-threatening Burmese pythons. |
D.An experienced python hunter —Tom Rahill. |
【推荐3】James Cook was born on October 27, 1728, in Yorkshire, England. In 1755, he joined Great Britain’s Royal Navy and soon proved his ability. Just after making officer rank, Cook was chosen to undertake a scientific journey to Tahiti to observe the planet Venus as it passed between the earth and the sun, which would help scientists calculate the distance of the earth from the sun.
On August 25, 1768, Cook departed England aboard the Endeavour with 94 crewmen and scientists with secret orders.
Cook was determined to keep his crew healthy. He insisted his men eat onions and pickled cabbage every day, and made sure that the ship kept fresh fruit and vegetables on board. He ordered his men to bathe every day, to clean their clothing and to air out their bedding. What he did worked to prevent diseases in his crew.
On April 11, 1769, the Endeavour arrived at Tahiti. After viewing the passing of Venus between the earth and the sun for several weeks, Cook opened the secret orders and knew he was to seek out the fabled southern continent and claim it for England. He left Tahiti on July 13 and headed southwest.
When Cook reached New Zealand on October 6, the native Maori people proved to be un-friendly and his crew was forced to fire on them. The Endeavour spent a few months exploring New Zealand and proved it was not part of the great southern continent. On April 9, 1770, Cook explored and documented the location of Australia. After months of exploring, Cook concluded that this continent was not the great southern continent.
The Endeavour made its way to Java in the East Indies in October of 1770. Because of malaria and dysentery, many of his men got ill and dead. He had to sign on new crew in order to go back home. The Endeavour made it back to Dover, England, on July 13, 1771.
1. Cook did the followings to prevent diseases EXCEPT that he insisted his crew __________.A.air out their covers on beds | B.plant fruit and vegetables on board |
C.bathe and clean their clothing every day | D.eat onions and pickled cabbage every day |
A.Local Maori people. | B.Fruits and vegetables. |
C.Very serious diseases. | D.Terrible winds and storms. |
a. Cook and his men fired on the native Maori people.
b. Cook signed on some new crew and went back to England.
c. Cook was chosen to undertake a scientific journey to Tahiti.
d. Cook concluded that Australia was not the great southern continent.
e. Cook departed England with 94 crewmen and scientists with secret orders.
f. Cook viewed the passing of Venus between the earth and the sun for several weeks.
A.cefadb | B.ecafdb | C.ceafbd | D.ecfabd |
A.James Cook left Tahiti and headed southwest on July 13, 1768. |
B.James Cook joined Great Britain’s Royal Navy at the age of 29. |
C.James Cook explored and recorded the location of Australia On April 9, 1770. |
D.James Cook departed England and started his exploration on August 25, 1769. |
A.Great Sea Discoveries. | B.Cook’s Heroic Deeds. |
C.Great Sea Explorations. | D.Cook’s Explorations At Sea. |
【推荐1】Mr. Lang worked in a factory. As a driver, he was busy but he was paid much. His wife was an able woman and did all the housework. When he came back, she took good care of him and he never did anything at home. So he had enough time when he had a holiday. A few friends of his liked gambling (赌博) and he learned it soon. So he was interested in it and hardly forgot anything except gambling. He lost all his money and later he began to sell the television, watches and so on. His wife told him not to do it but he didn’t listen to her. She had to tell the police. He and his friends were punished for it. And he was hardly sent away. After he came out of lockup (拘留所), he hated her very much and the woman had to leave him.
It was New Year’s Day. Mr. Lang didn’t go to work. He felt lonely and wanted to gamble again. He called his friends and they came soon. But they were afraid the police would come. He told his five-year-old son to go to find out if there were the policemen outside. They waited for a long time and didn’t think the police would come and began to gamble. Suddenly opened the door and in came a few policemen.
“I saw there weren’t any policemen outside, daddy,” said the boy, “so I went to the crossing and asked some to come.”
1. Mr. Lang was paid much because _______.A.he was a driver | B.he worked in a factory |
C.he had a lot of work to do | D.he had worked there for a long time |
A.she couldn’t find any work |
B.she thought her husband was tired |
C.her husband spent all time in gambling |
D.she wouldn’t stop her husband gambling |
A.he was hardly sent away by the factory | B.he wouldn’t stop gambling |
C.he had been put into lockup | D.he didn’t love her any longer |
A.The boy expected his father to be put into lockup again. |
B.The boy thought his father needed some policemen. |
C.The boy expected his father to stop gambling soon. |
D.The boy expected his mother to come back. |
【推荐2】My teacher held up a piece of broken glass and asked, “Who broke this window?”
Thirty boys tried to think about not only what they had done, but also what the teacher might have found out. She seldom became angry, but she was this time.
“Oh,” I thought. I was the one who broke the window. It was caused by a naughty throw of a baseball. If I admitted guilt, I would be in a lot of trouble. How would I be able to pay for a big window like that? I didn’t even get an allowance. “My father is going to have a fit as a result of it,” I thought. I didn’t want to raise my hand, but some force much stronger than I was pulled it skyward (朝向天空). I told the truth, “I did it.” It was hard enough to say what I had done.
My teacher took down a book from one of our library shelves and I had never known my teacher to strike a student, but I feared she was going to start with me.
“I know how much you like birds,” she said as she stood looking down at my guilt-ridden face. “Here is the field guide about birds that you are constantly checking out. It is yours now. It’s time we got a new one for the school anyway. You will not be punished, but remember that I am not rewarding you for your misdeed (恶行), but I am rewarding you for your truthfulness.”
I couldn’t believe it! I wasn’t being punished and I was getting my own bird field guide — the very one that I had been saving up money to buy.
The lesson my teacher taught me stays with me every day, and it will echo forever.
1. From the story, we can learn that the boy .A.didn’t break the window on purpose |
B.lacked the courage to admit his guilt |
C.tried to think about what he had done |
D.didn’t know what the teacher had found out |
A.be punished by the teacher |
B.make his father angry |
C.pay for the broken window |
D.get a bird field guide |
A.Afraid—Surprised—Thankful. |
B.Frightened—Amazed—Proud. |
C.Regretful—Guilty—Excited. |
D.Nervous—Afraid—Satisfied. |
A.Every coin has two sides. |
B.Honesty is always valued. |
C.Bad luck never comes alone. |
D.You can’t be too careful. |
【推荐3】My phone beeped as I closed the passenger door. I knew that the text was from my friend. Robin, a poet. And I did not want to read it.
Robin had recently submitted her manuscript to several publishers and she expected a response from one soon. From my view, her writing life was already charmed: work at a celebrated workshop and publication in literary journals. I was waiting to hear back from some book consultants. Three weeks had passed since I sent them some manuscript pages. I'd returned to my state of frustration(挫败)and the familiar misery.
I needed my phone for navigation, so I had no choice but to look at the screen. “I have news.” It was Robin.“Good news…" My insides shook as I sat waiting for my husband. Can we escape?
As I longed for some of Robin's magic to wear off on me, I had to figure out how to respond to her text, how to be a friend. "Is it about your manuscript?” "Yes!" she answered." We can talk later but I have a book coming out next year! I'm in shock!!!"" I cried, quietly. I dug deep to find the words friendship called for -"wonderful,""amazing,""extremely talented." But as I reread, each word felt pathetic. This time, jealousy had put a valuable friendship at risk. To overcome it, I had to face that Robin had achieved something I could not. None of my excuses - the demands of motherhood, financial pressure, ""I’m not good at this"- seemed to hold up anymore.
Two days later, I wrote to the consulting company again. They responded:"The writing is really good." I was overjoyed. Robin and I are still stairs apart on the writing-success ladder but all four of our feet are moving upward. After her book was released, she and I met over beers. I asked about her writing process; how did she create her book? A clue: it wasn't magic.
1. Why was the author unwilling to read the text?A.Because she was too busy to read it. | B.Because she knew Robin's response well. |
C.Because she feared Robin's good news. | D.Because she didn't know it was from Robin. |
A.Robin's achievements in her writing life. | B.The huge gap between Robin and the author. |
C.Robin's contribution to the author's success. | D.The author's feelings about Robin's literature. |
A.Delightful. | B.Astonishing. | C.Confusing. | D.Useless. |
A.It is about magic. | B.It took great efforts. |
C.It made the author jealous. | D.It was an immediate success. |