Ways to Respectfully Disagree
It’s easier to agree than disagree.
Use “I’ to communicate how you feel, what you think and what you want or need.
Listen to the other’s opinion.
Respect goes beyond difficult conversations, of course. Being helpful and considerate towards family members, teachers or coaches in our everyday actions helps us establish a foundation for those times when we might disagree.
A.Stay calm. |
B.Look into the other’s eyes. |
C.Using ‘you’ statements can sound aggressive. |
D.Avoid putting down the other person’s ideas and beliefs. |
E.Then you can calmly present your case and why you disagree. |
F.Being a good listener shows that you respect the other person. |
G.But we can learn a lot from conversations where we don’t agree. |
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【推荐1】As a student, part of the process of becoming a better writer is learning to revise (修改) one’s written work.
Secondly, you need to tell your child that the writing process is made up of several steps.
Overall, revision is about making writing stronger.
A.Adding or deleting words isn’t revising. |
B.Revision is different from proofreading or editing. |
C.Therefore, make sure to show your child how to revise. |
D.Is there information in the essay that is not related to the topic? |
E.Is the argument in the essay strong enough to make readers convinced? |
F.As a parent, you should impress on your child the challenge of revising the essay. |
G.Beginners are taught that writing involves developing an idea and putting it on paper. |
【推荐2】People refer to never forgetting how to ride a bike or throw a baseball as examples of “muscle memory”, the result of a motor learning.
Previous research has shown that the changes actually persist in the muscles themselves. In one study of mice, the results suggest that after nuclei in muscle cells multiply in response to an overload of training, those extra nuclei aren’t lost during subsequent periods of inactivity. They are retained (保留), essentially waiting to be reactivated. If you fell off the fitness wagon (马车) during the pandemic, don’t be frustrated. Once you have got additional nuclei, you are banking the capacity.
Ultimately, muscle memory is a payoff for all the past work you put into learning a sport.
A.The best way to tap into it is to “get back on the horse”. |
B.Physiologists, on the other hand, define it in a different way. |
C.This convinces the researchers that muscle memory may not be long lasting. |
D.That is to say, we can do the sports automatically without conscious thought. |
E.It is generally safe to increase these elements by 5 percent every week or two. |
F.It is evident that the more you exercise, the more muscle memory savings you will have. |
G.All this news about muscle memory is encouraging for those who fell off the fitness scheme. |
【推荐3】Eating for the sake of pleasure, rather than survival, is nothing new. Traditionally researchers focused on so-called metabolic (代谢的) hunger, which is driven by physiological necessity and is most commonly identified with an empty stomach. When we start dipping into our stores of energy or when we drop below our typical body weight, the system rings the bell.
Now, “Shifting the focus to pleasure” is a new approach to understanding hunger and weight gain. The brain begins responding to fatty and sugary foods even before they enter our mouth. Merely seeing or hearing a desirable item excites the reward circuit. Many overeating people go beyond their energy needs, due to consuming these food items they hear or see.
A kind of surgery that some overweight people have already undergone to manage their weight might have provided some of the biological insights into why many of us eat far beyond our physiological needs.
Psychologically, removing influence factor can be an option. The traditional idea is that we can teach overweight people to improve their self-control. However, scientists now realize that the foods themselves are more the problem. For many people, certain foods cause such a strong response in the brain's reward circuit that our willpower will rarely, if ever, be sufficient to resist those foods once they are around.
A.A network of hormones and neural (神经的) pathways in the brain activate our feeling of hunger. |
B.People’s follow-up gesture then greatly affects the time they spend in consuming the food. |
C.This medical operation dramatically shrinks the stomach. |
D.Therefore, we have to reengineer the food environment. |
E.This approach has already had an influence on the choice of treatment. |
F.The type of food processing method also takes a hand one way or another. |