To me, June 6, 1990 is a special day. My longawaited dream came true the minute your father cried, “A girl!” You, little daughter, are the link to our female line, the legacy of another woman’s pain and sacrifice 31 years ago.
Let me tell you about your Chinese grandmother. Somewhere in Hong Kong, in the late fifties, a young waitress found herself pregnant(怀孕) by a cook. She carried the baby to term, suffered to give it birth, and kept the little girl for the first three months of her life. I like to think that my mother — your grandmother — loved me and fought to raise me on her own, but the daily struggle was too hard. Worn down by the demands of the new baby and perhaps the constant threat of starvation, she made the painful decision to give away her girl so that both of us might have a chance for a better life.
Having a baby in her unmarried state would have brought shame on the family in China, so she probably kept my existence a secret. Once I was out of her life, it was as if I had never been born. And so you and your brother and I are the missing leaves on a family tree.
Do they ever wonder if we exist?
Before I was two, I was adopted by an Anglo couple. I grew like a wild weed and grasped all the opportunities they had to offer — books, music, education, church life and community activities. In a family of blueeyed blonds, though, I stood out like a sore thumb. Moody and impatient, burdened by fears that none of us realized resulted from my early years of need, I was not an easy child to love. My mother and I conflicted countless times over the years, but gradually came to see one another as real human beings with faults and talents. Lacking a mirror image in the mother who raised me, I had to seek my identity as a woman on my own. The Asian American community has helped me regain my double identity.
But part of me will always be missing: my beginnings, my personal history, all the delicate details that give a person her origin. Nevertheless, someone gave me a lucky name “Siu Wai”. “Siu” means “little”, and “Wai” means “clever”. Therefore, my baby name was “Clever little one”. Who chose those words? Who cared enough to note my arrival in the world?
I lost my Chinese name for 18 years. It was Americanized for convenience to “Sue”. But like an illfitting coat, it made me uncomfortable. I hated the name. But even more, I hated being Chinese. It took many years to become proud of my Asian origin and work up the courage to take back my birth name. That, plus a little knowledge of classroom Cantonese, is all the Chinese culture I have to offer you. Not white, certainly, but not really Asian, I try to pave the way between the two worlds and bridge the gap for you. Your name, “Shaoming”, is very much like mine — “Shao” means “little”. And “ming” is “bright”, as in a shining sun or moon. Whose lives will you brighten little Maya? Your past is more complete than mine and each day I cradle you in your babyhood, generously giving you the loving care I lacked for my first two years.
Sweet Maya, it doesn’t matter what you “become” later on. You have already fulfilled my wildest dreams.
I love you,
Mummy
1. Why is June 6, 1990 a special day for Mommy?A.Her dream of being a mother came true. |
B.She found her origin from her Chinese mother. |
C.She wrote the letter to her daughter. |
D.Her female line was well linked. |
A.It is bitter and disappointing. |
B.It is painful but understandable. |
C.She feels sorry but sympathetic. |
D.She feels hurt and angry. |
A.I walked clumsily out of pains. |
B.I was not easy to love due to jealousy. |
C.I was impatient out of fear. |
D.I looked different from others. |
A.She used to experience an identity crisis. |
B.She fought against her American identity. |
C.She forgot the pains of her early years. |
D.She kept her love for Asia from childhood. |
A.To match her own birth-name. |
B.To brighten the lives of the family. |
C.To identify her with Chinese origin. |
D.To justify her pride in Chinese culture. |
A.her past was completed earlier than Shao-ming’s |
B.Shao-ming has got motherly care and a sense of roots |
C.her mother didn’t comfort her the way she did Shao-ming |
D.her past was spent brokenly, first in Asia, then in the US |
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【推荐1】Pa went to the city to look for work.
Every night, I lie awake in bed and wait for the train to stop. Wait to hear the sound of his work boots dropping on the step by the kitchen door. Every night, the train goes by for someone else’s pa coming home. Not mine, not yet. Every night, I go to sleep with the sound of train wheels in my head, whispering, “Maybe tomorrow, maybe tomorrow. ”
The smell of coffee wakes me. I run into the kitchen. There he is. Pa lifts me onto his shoulders and pretends to stagger from my weight. “You’ve gotten so big as a horse. I can hardly lift you up anymore. ” He puts me down, and I stare at the two bags on the table. One says FLOUR, the other, SUGAR.
Ma says, “I’m going to bake a pie for your pa’s homecoming dinner. Go down to the cellar Jimmy, and bring me that jar of apples from the shelf. ” She smiles at me with a “mind now” look. There’s no need. Don’t I know it’s the very last jar on the shelf?
I take the steps two at a time, not bothering to hold on to the wooden rails. I stand on tiptoe to take down the preserves. I put both my hands around the jar. I can hear Pa laughing upstairs and Ma joining in. I want to be with them in the kitchen. I hurry up the steps, and my bare foot catches on the middle one. I put out my hand to steady myself, but I fall down, the jar slipping through my fingers. The jar smashes on the hard-as-rock mud floor. Bits of apple fly everywhere.
Ma’s footsteps, Ma’s voice: “Are you hurt?” She checks me for cuts. “Go on upstairs now. Mind you don’t cut your bare feet. ” I want her to yell at me, but that’s all she says.
Upstairs, Pa wipes my eyes with the tail of his shirt. “Never mind, old son, accidents happen. ” I bury my face in Pa’s torn old jacket. I smell the miles he’s walked looking for work to bring us those bags on the table.
“I’m going to bake my mama’s sugar pie.” Ma says, “It’s a special-occasion pie, and it doesn’t need apples. ” “I’ve always wanted to taste sugar pie. ” Pa says.
1. What can be inferred about the author from Paragraph 2?A.He wants to take a train ride. | B.He has trouble falling asleep. |
C.He is bothered by the noise of train wheels. | D.He is longing for a reunion with his father. |
A.share with me the joy of my pa’s return |
B.make me remember to behave well in front of Pa |
C.make me remember to be careful with the apple jar |
D.share with me her excitement at making the pie |
A.The jar is too heavy and slippery. | B.He can’t wait to join Pa and Ma. |
C.The stairs are too high and steep. | D.He is dying to enjoy the pie soon. |
A.The love of a family is life’s greatest gift. | B.It is a wise father that knows his own child. |
C.All good things come to those who always wait. | D.Disasters can strike whenever one is careless. |
【推荐2】Bill, Frank, Dave and Tom were brothers. Every year they sent their mother expensive gifts on her birthday. They liked to show her how rich they were.
The eldest brother, Bill, had lots of money and wanted his mother to have the most expensive gift, but he didn’t know what to buy. So he put an ad (广告) in the newspaper, “Wanted—the greatest gift for my mother”.
About a week before his mother’s birthday, a man came to his office. He brought a big bird, this bird can speak foreign languages and sing pop songs. The man made the bird talk in French and tell a joke in Japanese. Then the bird sang a beautiful song. The next day, Bill sent the bird to his mother with a birthday card.
The day after his mother’s birthday, he called his mother, “Well, mother,” he asked, “what do you think of the bird?” “Oh, it’s very delicious, dear.” said his mother.
1. What does Bill do for his mother’s gift?A.Getting some advice on the radio. | B.Finding the greatest gift on TV. |
C.Putting an ad in the newspaper. | D.Buying things on the Internet. |
A.Talk in French. | B.Tell a joke. | C.Sing. | D.A, B and C. |
A.the mother kept the bird as a pet | B.the bird flew away |
C.the mother cooked and ate the bird | D.the mother sent the bird to her friend |
【推荐3】Whether you’re a child, teenager, young adult or are middle-aged, respecting your parents is an important value. Your parents are the people who raise you, devoting time, energy and money to your development.
● Respect their belongings.
One important way to show respect is to show regard for the things important to your parents. For younger children, this may mean not touching jewelry or other valuable things.
● Punctuality.
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Remembering birthdays, anniversaries and other special days is a sign that you honor your parents. Make plans to take them to lunch or dinner or bake a cake or cookies. Most parents don’t expect expensive gifts, but a handmade gift is always appreciated. a phone call from a grown child who lives too far for a visit is a welcome sign of respect.
● Be kind.
Kind words and affection are simple ways to show respect. Tell your parents you love them. Listen and allow your parents to speak without interruption. Show a sincere interest in what your parents have to say. Be patient with your parents and don’t rush them. Never talk back or be rude or disrespectful. Acknowledge your parents’ achievements.
A.So you should build self-confidence and show respect for your parents. |
B.Celebrate with them. |
C.Lateness shows a lack of respect. |
D.Treat your parents the way you would like to be treated. |
E.And they love you unconditionally throughout your life. |
F.Being respectful helps you build positive relationships with your parents. |
G.For grown children, respect may mean returning a borrowed tool in good condition and on time. |
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List all the reasons why you want to quit. Every night before going to bed, repeat one of the reasons 10 times.
Decide positively that you want to quit. Try to avoid negative thoughts about how difficult it might be. Develop strong personal reasons as well as your health and responsibility to others. For example, think of all the time you waste taking cigarette breaks,rushing out to buy a pack,hunting a light, etc. Set a date for quitting—perhaps a special day like your birthday,a holiday. If you smoke heavily at work, quit during your vacation. Make the date holy seriously, and don't let anything change it. Begin to condition yourself physically; start a modest(适当的)exercise; drink more water; get plenty of rest.
Immediately after quitting...
The first few days after you quit, spend as much free time as possible in places where smoking is prohibited, e.g. libraries, museums, theatres, department stores, etc.
Drink large quantities of water and fruit juice. Try to avoid wine, coffee, and other drinks which remind you of cigarette smoking.
Strike up a conversation with someone instead of a match fora cigarette.
If you miss the feeling of having a cigarette in your hand, play with something else—a pencil, a pen, a ruler. If you miss having something in your mouth, try a fake(仿制的)cigarette.
1. According to the passage, which of the following statements is true?A.Whenever you feel like a cigarette, try to forget it by sleeping. |
B.If you miss the feeling of having a cigarette in your mouth,play with a pen. |
C.Try to start a conversation before asking for a light. |
D.Every might before going to bed, repeat all the reasons 10 times. |
A.forbidden | B.allowed |
C.received | D.welcomed |
A.Sports | B.News |
C.Culture | D.Health |
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Westminster Abbey
11:00 am Westminster Underground
This walk is the best choice for the first-time visitor. We'll show you where kings and queens were crowned (加冕), where they lived and where they are buried. You will see where politicians have shaped the course of history over the years. This walk finishes at the House of Parliament, which you can visit afterwards at a good discount.
Canals and Cafes
11:00 am Camden Town Underground
Camden Town, with its canals, cafes and studios, is the home of many artists, musicians and writers. The high point of the walk is a visit to Camden Lock, London's most exciting street market. You may like to take a canal trip to London Zoo after this walk.
Historic Greenwich
2:00 pm Tower Hill Underground
The walk begins with the best boat ride in London, five kilometers down the river from Tower Bridge to the Royal Naval College in Greenwich. From there you'll walk through Greenwich Park past the Naval Museum and other historic buildings to the village itself. We'll take you down narrow streets with busy shops and markets, back to the riverside where this walk ends.
Unexpected London
3:00pm Tower Hill Underground
This walk begins with a ride on Europe's most modern city railway giving you fine views across the Thames and riversides area. We will get on and off the train for mini-walks to discover the hidden corners of the former port of London.
To go on one of our walks, simply meet your guide in the street outside the underground stations. All these walks last about two hours and end near underground stations. A walk costs £4.50 (£3.50 for the elderly). Children under 12 can go for free but they must be with an adult.
1. Which walk includes a visit to London's most exciting street market?A.Canals and Cafes. | B.Historic Greenwich. |
C.Unexpected London. | D.Westminster Abbey. |
A.Walk through the Royal Naval College. | B.Take a boat trip. |
C.Meet famous people. | D.Visit the Naval Museum. |
A.£4.50. | B.£7.00. | C.£9.00. | D.£11.50. |